Is their home life a mystery?
One of our readers would like some advice about a new romance she is in. They have been on at least 4 dates and they met Memorial Day weekend. She has had him over to her place and he even met some of her friends. However, he has been a little less inclined to share his home life with her.
She has not seen where he lives, nor does he talk about his personal life that much. Obviously, it makes her uneasy because she is starting to think he is concealing something or someone. Do you think it is a red flag if you don’t get invited over to someone’s place?
It is possible that he is a private person. How quickly do you let people in – so to speak?
When do you introduce the person you are dating to friends and family? Do you wait until you are in an exclusive relationship?
What would you do if the person you are interested in is too mysterious for you? Do you snoop and do your own digging or cut your losses at the “shady” behavior?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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429 comments Add your comment
Fion
July 21st, 2011
4:00 pm
@BMW
baby, do you feel violated? Are you curled in fetal position?
Actually Dr. I found it rather stimulating.
Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)
July 21st, 2011
4:00 pm
this blog is sumthin…I tell ya
Leggs
July 21st, 2011
4:03 pm
Ut oh, Fion. You just opened up another can of worms.
kimmie
July 21st, 2011
4:05 pm
Fion
July 21st, 2011
4:05 pm
@ITL
“Ex, I’m gonna need you to take the stand and tell us how it is you know so much about how, where, and what dogs like to lick. ”
I hollered on that one. Now that is funny.
SamE
July 21st, 2011
4:06 pm
Run. I’ve been there years ago when I first moved to Atlanta and was unaware of the “predators” out there. I dated a guy I met while waitressing during the college years and we hung out weekly, I never did see his place..one year later!!! I was so naive it’s painful to remember. If he hasn’t told you were he lives from the jump, then run. It’s not worth it.
Fion
July 21st, 2011
4:07 pm
@Leggs
That’s a story for another day. I was kidding with BMW, but child I got some stuff that will make ya hair fall out.
Into the Light
July 21st, 2011
4:09 pm
Kimmie, you have to tell me what the formatting code is for the bug-eyed emoticon. That’s the one I was trying to put at the end of my post to Ex, but ended up with the question mark. D’oh.
Leggs
July 21st, 2011
4:10 pm
@Fion ~ I figured you were since you somewhat stated your discomfort in your earlier post, just not enough to stop stroking, um deep thrusting. Just figured the guys would jump on your sentence!
Leggs
July 21st, 2011
4:10 pm
: shock : but w/o spaces.
Leggs
July 21st, 2011
4:10 pm
kimmie
July 21st, 2011
4:12 pm
Light – Yeah what Leggs said! : shock :
Into the Light
July 21st, 2011
4:13 pm
Ex….I heard somebody mention salad tossing thats why I popped back in…
Seriously rethinking the plans to go to Doc Green’s tonight….
Exiled!
July 21st, 2011
4:18 pm
I just know that abc is reading but does not like the tone of this blog discourse!
If I were to ask abc if he goes down on his woman what wld be his answer?
I wonder!
SexyCool
July 21st, 2011
4:19 pm
Random – I’ve begun posting to my personal blog regularly if anyone is interested in checking me out. A bunch of *really* random stuff. (Most of which can be seen on my FB page as well.)
Into the Light
July 21st, 2011
4:22 pm
That makes me laugh every time.
Into the Light
July 21st, 2011
4:22 pm
that = the emoticon
Leggs
July 21st, 2011
4:25 pm
We didn’t need you to break that down, ITL (lol)…
For Real
July 21st, 2011
4:26 pm
“baby, do you feel violated? Are you curled in fetal position?”
For Real now picturing BMW forcing Fion to dress up and perform scene from Yentl
Exiled!
July 21st, 2011
4:27 pm
ITL?
I see u having some emotico issues
I can help u Out
(light bulb moment?)
Coz I don’t want to see u
see
Fion
July 21st, 2011
4:28 pm
@For Real
I’m on the floor after that one man. Uncle, I give.
Exiled!
July 21st, 2011
4:32 pm
SexxyCool on Random?
I hope u show off,just ur Leggs,like what Raqi does on hers.(blog)
Into the Light
July 21st, 2011
4:47 pm
Yentl!!
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
July 21st, 2011
4:51 pm
FION….we now we have other issues to address!
Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)
July 21st, 2011
4:54 pm
Don’t hurt him BMW…
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
July 21st, 2011
4:55 pm
SEXYCOOL….will your blog post random things such as my thoughts like mine? You remember how I said Pimpin’ goes back tot he biblical days? What male can lie around and do jack shhhhh while the the females do all the work and he gets all the glory. He will sometimes “protect” his territory every blue moon to make himself fell relevant. Ladies and gentleman…may I present, the Lion! He was one of the animals that was on board Noah’s Ark.
I have too much time on my hand sometimes!
Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)
July 21st, 2011
4:55 pm
Then again he might like that..
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
July 21st, 2011
4:56 pm
Pardon my typos…this heat and humiduty of NYC is baking my brain. I have to go down to hell…I mean the subway to get home! UGH!
Leggs
July 21st, 2011
5:00 pm
Pray not for freedom from difficulties, but for peace in your difficulties.
PEACE!