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Is their home life a mystery?

One of our readers would like some advice about a new romance she is in. They have been on at least 4 dates and they met Memorial Day weekend. She has had him over to her place and he even met some of her friends. However, he has been a little less inclined to share his home life with her.

She has not seen where he lives, nor does he talk about his personal life that much. Obviously, it makes her uneasy because she is starting to think he is concealing something or someone. Do you think it is a red flag if you don’t get invited over to someone’s place?

It is possible that he is a private person. How quickly do you let people in – so to speak?

When do you introduce the person you are dating to friends and family? Do you wait until you are in an exclusive relationship?

What would you do if the person you are interested in is too mysterious for you? Do you snoop and do your own digging or cut your losses at the “shady” behavior?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

429 comments Add your comment

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
1:39 pm

I spelled square wrong.

Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)

July 21st, 2011
1:41 pm

Blackfoote I wasn’t referring to that but okay..point make, point taken.

Button

July 21st, 2011
1:43 pm

Becareful @ your neighborhood @ Sexycool

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
1:45 pm

Celisea, you just are not going to play nice are you?

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
1:48 pm

PR – Mums the word :) I’m good. I’m taking the higher ground :mrgreen:

Leggs

July 21st, 2011
1:49 pm

@Him ~ cool, if I read you wrong, my mistake.

@SC ~ girl, sounds like something I would have done…Good for you.

@Blackfoote ~ you are too funny. You have told us upteen times that you are not a good speller.

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
1:53 pm

Blackfoote – I spelled square wrong.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I need a blog spellcheck

Button

July 21st, 2011
1:55 pm

@ Purple it’s hard to get children to listen sometimes, you have to tell them 50-11 times to stop, you want a switch for that one?

Into the Light

July 21st, 2011
1:56 pm

BMW, I thought of you yesterday. We were at Chipotle and a guy walked in that could have been Alcide’s younger brother. No beard, but same build and fine as h-e- double hockey sticks. It wasn’t the tomatillo salsa making this girl sweat. :)

Into the Light

July 21st, 2011
1:57 pm

Okay, really? Button, if Celisea and I are letting it go, you should, too. Enough already.

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:01 pm

I’m out of it, I tried to be peacemaker but I guess I suck at that. lLadies have at it.

SexyCool

July 21st, 2011
2:02 pm

Button – I’m not scared in my neighborhood. I’m as comfortable living there as anywhere. I stay aware in my surroundings, but that’s anywhere. For the most part, it’s just folks trying to survive. (Keeping my head above water, making way when we can….)

I do possess the necessary skills to live and thrive in this environment. I keep my head on a swivel, but know how to get along with folks. I know bllsht when it’s being fed to me. And I don’t mind entertaining “the natives” from time to time.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
2:02 pm

Great I feel the love is in the air.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
2:04 pm

I might have spoke too soon.

Leggs

July 21st, 2011
2:06 pm

Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)

July 21st, 2011
2:07 pm

give it a rest already…

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
2:08 pm

Celisea and I are letting it go

For the record all I said today was “behave”…and for good reasons. I have nothing to let go because I’m not guilty.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
2:08 pm

Me too Purple I’m tired, I always give the woman the last word. What do you do when it’s all women?

Button

July 21st, 2011
2:08 pm

YAWN @ into the light

Good for you Sexycool, just saying becareful, as I am always trying to do the same all the time.

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
2:08 pm

Now let’s turn the page

Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)

July 21st, 2011
2:13 pm

Now let’s turn the page

thank you

SexyCool

July 21st, 2011
2:14 pm

Oprah will be in the A on October 15th. Tix are $125 each. Now, if I can win or be gifted some tickets. I wouldn’t mind going at all. (lol)

Button

July 21st, 2011
2:14 pm

also for the record all I did was ask for a “reason” and said it was my bad I didn’t read Sassy’s first comment and next thing I know “reading is fundamental” and if I changed my blog name and so on and so forth. shm at the whole scenerio and LOL at the same time.

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:16 pm

Blackfoote, lol@ the “all I did’s” now. Just let the women have the last word and hopefully we will know today if we will have NFL to watch this year.

SexyCool

July 21st, 2011
2:16 pm

The other day I actually went to the barbershop for the haircut that I was talking about. I ended up with a TWA.

While I was in there, the barbers where having a conversation about a dude that had been by selling iPads. Last night, there was a story on the news about 18 iPads being stolen from the Buckhead target a few days ago. However, I guess many folks don’t realize that they can be tracked when turned on.

Hmmm…coincidence much.

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
2:17 pm

Last night, there was a story on the news about 18 iPads being stolen from the Buckhead target a few days ago.

Saw this on the news.

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:19 pm

My wife is my barbershop, she doesn’t have cool stuff like ipads..she only has bills. LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
2:19 pm

LOL….@Purple
NFL yep the lockout should be toast today.

Into the Light

July 21st, 2011
2:20 pm

SC, did you go for the Janet or the Chrisette?

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:24 pm

They are meeting down there right?

SexyCool

July 21st, 2011
2:26 pm

Kept the same basic shape that I had – which was similar to Janet, just had it trimmed down so it’s a bit shorter in the top than Janet’s so that I can wear it kinda spiky sometimes.

Fion

July 21st, 2011
2:28 pm

Speaking of Rat Azz Dogs,

I’d been dating this chick for a minute. It was the summer affair chick I mentioned once before.
We get home one night from a night out. Her place. We make it about half into the house and close start coming off.
Torrid hot sex to the 1st degree. I’m Up on a down stroke and I feel something wet of my right butt cheek. Right. It’s her Rat Azz dog sniffing my azz. How ‘bout the Rat Azz dog starts licking my butt cheek. Last thing I’m thinking is pullin’ out.
Needless to say I was in a quandary. I didn’t know whether to blow my wad for her or drop a crap for the dog. Later on before round two started she commented that the sex between us was always great, but that that session was something special.
I never did tell her that her Rat Azz dog was sniffing my azz.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
2:28 pm

Yep the vote today in the A. I heard on the radio teams are ready to jump on the free agents starting tomorrow.

Leggs

July 21st, 2011
2:28 pm

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:31 pm

Fion, did you just say that you were having sex with a woman while her dog licked your backside and you kept going? LOL

Leggs

July 21st, 2011
2:31 pm

@Fion ~ THAT HAS GOT TO BE THE FUNNIEST STORY TOLD ON THIS BLOG THIS MONTH!

Fion

July 21st, 2011
2:32 pm

@Purp
what was I gonna do man!!!!

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
2:32 pm

Later on before round two started she commented that the sex between us was always great, but that that session was something special.

That’s cause it was a threesome…LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 21st, 2011
2:34 pm

LOL….@Fion

Leggs

July 21st, 2011
2:35 pm

Good one, Celisea!

Sassy Black..Good is good..GREAT is better ;-)

July 21st, 2011
2:36 pm

also for the record all I did was ask for a “reason” and said it was my bad I didn’t read Sassy’s first comment and next thing I know “reading is fundamental”

Right and when you said “my bad” I left you alone. The “reading is fundamental” comment was made prior to your mia culpa. It’s okay…it’s totally okay…

Carol Ann it’s okay to go into the light…the light is your friend

Simple Man....

July 21st, 2011
2:37 pm

“I never did tell her that her Rat Azz dog was sniffing my azz.”

DROPS THE MIKE………Exit stage left………….

Celisea

July 21st, 2011
2:39 pm

Leggs – Man and beast “becomes one” :)

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:40 pm

I bet that wasn’t the first nor last man’s azz that dog has licked..it’s a learned behavior

Into the Light

July 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

Wow, Fion. That was funny and creepy all at the same time. But mostly funny.

Into the Light

July 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

And, PR, what do you wanna bet she lets the dog lick her face? Ewww, ewwww, ewwww!

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:43 pm

That is not all she let’s the dog lick. LOL

Purple Rain

July 21st, 2011
2:44 pm

That dog saw azz in the air and went to work. Better be glad he did not start humping you.

Just had a thought, does that make you gay because you had a male dog licking your butt instead of a female dog? LOL

Button

July 21st, 2011
2:45 pm

YAWN @ Sassy

Fion

July 21st, 2011
2:47 pm

@ Purp
You know you crazy, right?