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Telltale signs of a booty call

There may come a time when you have to ask the tough question: Am I just a booty call? It would seem that this would be an easy thing to figure out, but alas..dating is not always easy.  Sometimes you have mixed signals, double talk, sweet talk, lip service (not the good kind), and plain old jedi mind tricks.

So what are the signs that let you know you are just there for entertainment?  Few people come out and say, “Hey you are just something to do until somebody else comes along” but their actions somewhat support that statement.

Guys do you know (or care?) when you are being considered only as the maintenance man?  Would you prefer to be told that it’s never going anywhere, so just enjoy the ride while it lasts?

What are the top telltale signs…you’re just a booty call?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

342 comments Add your comment

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
8:17 am

Its a Beautiful day and The topic comes at the best possible time!!!! I received a call around 1:30 this morning from a dear friend that went to the Sade concert last night with 3 of her friends….Apparently, John Legend and Sade put in down and My friend was feeling the need to have her oil changed after seeing the show. Am I upset??? Do I feel cheap and used? LMAO at that one….Now I know this type of thing is never considered by some of our blog mates, but hey, when grown, fully functional, self sufficient adults decide to enjoy carnal relations with no strings attached, where is the problem????

Hines W.

July 13th, 2011
8:20 am

If you don’t want to be somebody’s Booty Call, don’t get arrested and put in a DeKalb County jail.

Dan - Simply...Superior

July 13th, 2011
8:30 am

Jedi mind tricks only work on the weak minded..

ATLER

July 13th, 2011
8:31 am

No strings attached relationship with a fine, Ga peach…….. Who cares if I’m a booty call for her. I flip the strip though and leave her wanting more. So what starts off as a booty call ends in her wanting a relationship. Go figure!!!!!!!!!

Dave

July 13th, 2011
8:32 am

What’s even worse that a Booty Call is being someone’s “I don’t have a date and I’m hungry” Call. I went out with a very beautiful woman from my gym that acted like she was very into me. The problem was that she would order so much food that each time, the bill was around $80-$90 and THEN she wanted to go be entertained (clubs, dancing, drinking, etc..). She even asked me to come over and cook dinner for her and her parents. She would always dress prvocatively and in pretty expensive clothes, but she doesn’t have a job(???). I noticed that after each date, it was like she would shut down and give me a little peck for a good night kiss. The she started tell me pretty unbelieveable stories about how she was “going to Charlotte on the weekend” or some other place. I then found out that she had been trying to get this really wealthy man to date her and staying with him all weekend. After two weeks, I told her “I’m not a fill in date and I don’t play second string.” She gave me this “Well F you” look and I haven’t had contact with her since. Lessons are learned and experience is by far the best teacher.

Beverly Hall

July 13th, 2011
8:36 am

I try to be honest in all of my relationships.

;)

Bill Clinton

July 13th, 2011
8:37 am

I always feel used by the women in my life. :(

Deuce

July 13th, 2011
8:38 am

Simple Man…. I too have been there, done that, and didn’t mind at all servicing one in need. No problem at all.

Carlos

July 13th, 2011
8:41 am

(@Dave Ouch Brother sorry to hear that) But on the topic; It depends on the person in general; times have change. We live in a world that sex is everywhere in some form or fashion. If the recieving end has no problem with a being the “booty-call” (wow times have really change when booty-call is a acceptable social term) then its all good. But if said party wants more than the given arrangements, then the fling is over.

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
8:45 am

Good Morning,

What are the top telltale signs…you’re just a booty call?

If a person does not appear to have any interest in anything else than wanting to know your fav positions, conversations laced with innuendos that infer the hook up, and visits that always lead to the same place..B>E<D moreso than spending quality time together, meeting family and friends, and establishing a relationship that could lead to exclusivity is a yum yum call in my opinion! :-P

A

July 13th, 2011
8:45 am

Simple Man, I was at the concert last night. Sade did put it down. She had me thinking somethings (sorry all for going off on the tangent). Simple Man, I agree with your comment — “where is the problem”? There are numerous women out there who I welcome being their sex slave. Use me…..

Dave

July 13th, 2011
8:52 am

Hell, I would welcome whole heartedly being on the receiving end of a Booty Call. In my above situation, I was paying out the wazzoo and only getting a peck goodnight. Talk about getting “played” and it was my fault for not seeing it sooner.

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
8:52 am

Lessons are learned and experience is by far the best teacher.

Dave, glad you learned! You can best believe Karma ain’t beautiful ;-)

Craig

July 13th, 2011
8:55 am

From a man’s point of view: AMEN
You hit it on the head when you said “Jedi mind trick” and ” mix signals”

Just Wait

July 13th, 2011
8:59 am

@Dave and @Sweet Pea, certainly a valuable lesson learned, and Dave, Karma will catch up to her – I’ve seen it firsthand. Just wait a few more years when her looks and body won’t get her anywhere, she will be lost and pathetic . . . having said that, booty calls are great as long as you know that’s all it is, otherwise someone will be on the losing end . . .

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
9:00 am

Good morning All. Long time no blog.

Sweet Pea nailed the top signs.

I am so glad I don’t have the BC issue anymore.

Dave

July 13th, 2011
9:00 am

I think I heard it best from an uncle of mine “Dave, no one likes a beautiful woman more than I do, but they sure are a lot of dayum trouble!”

Peachgirl

July 13th, 2011
9:02 am

Wow…………

Whatever happened to waiting for that special person to share yourself with. This is why as women we are treated like those names they call us in rap songs. Reckless disregard for ourselves and bodies. Our bodies, other than our minds , are one of the most valuable things we have to offer a man and to make it seem other wise, too me, sends the wrong message. Tells me just how much our values concerning relationships have changed.

Emmit Fitzhume

July 13th, 2011
9:04 am

What is wrong with leveraging a mutually beneficial situation?

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
9:10 am

Morning,

Can’t say I’ve ever been a booty call but I have enjoyed “no strings attached” sex with the kid’s father….DON’T JUDGE ME…lol I had no problem rolling through about 2 or 3ish, getting it done and rolling out..lol Truthfully, because of history with him, he was the only one though I was ever comfortable enough to go there and not feel used.

Some folks may be cool being a booty call, at least for those that have FWBs. Or maybe that’s not the same. Anyway, I agree about jedi mind tricks and playing games. A booty call recepient IMO can either be overtly obvious and you’re taking scraps for the sake of getting time in with said person or you’re getting bamboozled and falling for the okie doke. Never got time…unless sex is involved. Never in the daytime….unless for certain sex is happening before the evening is over with. Nothing…being a date..even starts before 12 a.m. Never dinner, entertaining, events before sex…just straight to it. If all you do with that person is sex…..and nothing else…just sex, you might be a booty call.

TenderRoni

July 13th, 2011
9:12 am

The game “Jedi mind tricks” men use is a.k.a Just telling a woman what he thinks she wants to hear, and wait and see if she falls for it.
Instead of just being honest. They want us to decipher their words.
I’m over it!

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
9:13 am

Like I’ve always said…I catch feelings…lol I can’t do it without emotions eventually seeping in so, it’s best I keep random booty out of my life.

Oh my God!

July 13th, 2011
9:14 am

Experience may be the best teacher, but a healthy dose of self confidence and common sense can prevent one from being taken advantage of in any of these predictable “What if….” sexual situation columns of late by the Wise Diva.

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
9:14 am

I stopped renting our my facilities a long time ago. No one wants to buy anywhere squatters have been ;) After a certain age, BCs shouldn’t be your goal. Personally for me, speaking from just MY HUMBLE OPINION BCs are for when you are in the sampling stage of life (early 20s) if BCs become a way of life for you, then you are doomed to be just an option instead of a priority to anyone else.

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
9:15 am

*that should have said “renting out” OOPS

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
9:15 am

Anyone experienced the Double Talk/Mixed Signals mode???? Initially everything seems to be smooth sailing then it fizzles like flat soda, however the person resurfaces through texting and sporadic calls that insinuates hmmmmmmmmmmmmm a yum yum call…I won’t be a willing participant :roll: BUT if both are willing participants then do your thang! :-D I digress

realman

July 13th, 2011
9:25 am

@peachgirl

Peachgirl you could’nt said it any better. You nailed that one!!

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
9:26 am

@TendeRoni/Celisea….my sentiments exactly! I feel that eventually you will catch feelings, and if the other person is not willing to take it to the next level then it creates baggage.

@Newzy your 9:14 post…Hilarious!!:lol:

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
9:26 am

Morning, all!

I see we have some new bloggers this morning. Welcome, welcome, welcome!

Oh, and Simple, your breakfast got cold while you were breaking it down with Sade Concert Girl. Hmph. :???:

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:29 am

All women are booty calls, initially. Even with good men. The difference is, a good man understands and wants a relationship, if she is a good fit, and will do what he believes to be the right thing by her in the future, if she is the right fit. But you are ALL booty calls in the beginning. Just the way it is.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
9:31 am

@Reio: Are you serious? Men really think that way?

realman

July 13th, 2011
9:31 am

Don’t waste your time. If he or she is a booty call for you, im sure they are a booty call for someone else too. Think about it!!

MsMarriedUp

July 13th, 2011
9:33 am

intimacy on the first date…withing 1st 15 mins of meeting…whereby thereafter, anyone with hopes of this type of meeting turning into a relationship is seriously dreaming.

no kissing is another one. bc’s don’t warrant it.

and then like mentioned, calling in the freakish hours of the night…early morning; no eye contact; vague; quiet; actually that’s another one —no talking, or very little of it… and of course not calling back until … ugh… oh yeah, until another one is needed;-) lollll

Lisa

July 13th, 2011
9:33 am

Peachgirl: I have to agree with you…”whatever happened to saving yourself for that special someone?” Rappers will continue to degrade women as they have, because some women don’t carry themselves with respect. They have opend that door to men which says “you can treat me however you please and say whatever you want… I will still get in your bed. Sad, but true.

Michael

July 13th, 2011
9:35 am

@Dave: Only two weeks! You got off easy.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
9:36 am

Morning ITL…You know you are the only person that counts…she meant nothing to me…..

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:37 am

@Into the Light : Of course. Look at it this way, if a man spots a woman, no matter what the circumstances, but he has no desire to make out with her, he will never say a word to her. On the other hand, if he has that desire for her, he may say something. But this you must know, if he does say something and wants to see you in the future, it’s because he wants you physically. No lie.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
9:38 am

Blah, blah, blah… :)

Hey, is it just me, or do some of these newbies read like regulars?? IJS…..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
9:40 am

One sign that stands out is a large majority of mature women aren’t into booty calls. Which means a small number of lonely women will do any guy/friend and get rid of his ass like a black widow spider. Younger girls tend to be the group that will do it, and most guys favor it so the wolves outnumber the sheep. And wolves have no emotions for prey. No emotions being the biggest sign.

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:40 am

Enter your comments here

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
9:41 am

Thanks for bursting my bubble of naivete, Reio. :) Seriously, I know that nine times out of ten it’s a physcial attraction that prompts a man to approach a woman. But I did kinda think it was my witty personality and stellar intelligence that made him stay for a conversation. :)

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:43 am

Look. to us guys you are ALL booty calls, the difference is, a good man would also prefer a meaningful relationship, provided you are not crazy(most women are crazy).

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
9:45 am

@realman I’m sure there are some on speed dial. My feelings and time are more valuable than random hook ups! However, as stated before to each his/her own…no judging as we all have fallen for something but I’ve grown beyond the weak at the knees stages…

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
9:46 am

Good Morning All! :-)

@ Sweet Pea- I like your term better…yum yum call :lol:

I know I have been a yum yum call before. But hell, he was my ‘maintenance man’ I feel like if it is two grown folk that want to knock each other off and they both know that’s all it is then there should be no problem. The problems come when people start lying.

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:47 am

@Into the Light : I stay for the conversation, hopeing that it will get me closer to the booty. provided your degree of crazy(all women are crazy) is minimal, I may want to have something more meaningful.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
9:47 am

Lisa/ Peachgirl, Why are you injecting the thought and feelings of rappers into this conversation??? I fully respect your stance and your position that this kind of thing is not for you, so why is it so hard for you to respect the notion smart well adjusted people can make the ADULT choice to be involved in this kind of relationship. This is not for you and thats fine, but how about opening up to the thought that just because its not for you does not make it wrong…

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
9:47 am

Reio, maybe you should rethink picking up women outside the mental health ward…. I kid, I kid :)

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
9:50 am

Good morning.

I work hard at not being anyone’s booty call. If you can call me after 10:00 or even later, never in the day time, you definitely won’t get my “night time.” Naw, not into booty call. I strive for so much more from life and from a mate! Don’t need my sheets warmed for a few hours only to hear from you a few weeks later for a repeat. I’m not a FWB type of gal.

Contractor

July 13th, 2011
9:51 am

I am all about a “protected” booty call, but what happens when a baby is made in the process of an unprotected booty call? I have a feeling that a lot of single parents could use this as the answer to why their dad isn’t around. Seeing as I was dumb and young once, 27 now, and still dumb at times, just not young anymore, I definitely had my fair share, but looking back, I feel very lucky a kid never came from any of those booty calls.

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:51 am

In the beginning, you are all booty calls. All the other relationship stuff may come, if you’re a good fit, and your degree of crazy(most women are crazy) is minimal. The truth.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
9:55 am

Blackfoote, You are cool with me and all, but I have to disagree with your 9:40. Mature wommen know the deal and are just as willing to have interactions based soley on teh physical…The difference is that mature women are better and keeping their business out of street and they usually reserve that role for a one guy and do not allow that to be the case with multiple dudes. Women in our age group tend to have full lives most don’t need a full time man for anything. Now most WANT to be involved in meaningful relatinships, but they are not scared to get that oil changed when they decide its time…

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
9:56 am

There are two different scenarios here so I might as well pizz off everyone again. There is the mutually accepted booty call, the friends with benefits type…and there is one where one thinks/wants a deeper relationship and the other just wants to hit it when the urge emerges. I recently had a lady tell me how hurt and disrespected she felt about an ex thinking he could just come by at any hour of the night and knock it. It was a feeling of being totally disrespected and used (and she kicked his sorry azz out).

When both are using each other, that is one thing…sport effing, but when feelings and emotions aren’t even considered, that is using someone. Now one could say that it is the “used piece of meat”’s fault for being naive. I think both should have some responsibility. IMHO So jump on it Simple Man, call me weird but I think of women as equals until crisis time…then it is my lead.

…and by the way, I was the “boy toy” in a relationship too once…I wanted more, she didn’t want anything except to do the do and go back to her place. Besides, she said I snored LOL.

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
9:56 am

@ITL~ Don’t get sucked in to Reio’s light! :roll:

Hey Leggs..that’s what I’m talking about!

Thanks! Lovely Brown :)

Reio

July 13th, 2011
9:59 am

@ Sweet Pea : What light?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
10:00 am

Lovely Brown:
Folks lie saying it is just that a bc, when in reality they want more than the other is willing to give. I don’t call it wrong, but to me if you are engaging in it over a certain age you’re lonely.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
10:01 am

LOL @ Sweet Pea. I’m noticing that Reio’s posts are all essentially the same….so either he has short-term memory loss, or nothing to contribute except one comment said seven different ways. :)

Dan - Simply...Superior

July 13th, 2011
10:02 am

I’m just saying…

If you’re looking for a relationship (of any kind) and start off with preconditions or preconcieved notions, you’re going to be single a long time…

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
10:02 am

A lot of folk have been a yum yum call and will never admit it, they will take it to the grave :lol:

Reio

July 13th, 2011
10:05 am

@ Swweet Pea & Intyo The Light : The truth hurts. hehehe…

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
10:05 am

If you are mature enough to deal with your own actions go for it.

I saw the woman again this morning, she walked by me at the gas pump. I stayed longer to let her go in so that I would not have to be close to her. When I went inside she came up behind me and said “hello how are you?” I said “I’m good” Then I let her go inline before me. I just had to see the figure again, she caught me looking and smiled. I walked away to the fountain machine to get a drink to get away from her(she is that beautiful and fine) I look back and she is looking at me smiling. I noticed that she had a wedding band on for the first time today. Lord keep me strong, I really need you on this one. INFANT BABY JESUS this woman is awesome to the eyes….I know I know…but her beauty and being speaks to the primal man in me.

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
10:08 am

to me if you are engaging in it over a certain age you’re lonely.

@Blackfoote- I agree with you on this.

kimmie

July 13th, 2011
10:08 am

Morning All!!

Simple – Yes, you were the benefactor of an INCREDIBLE Sade & John Legend concert last night!!! The lady and her band, the lighting and sets, it was just amazing! I enjoyed myself last night. We went with another couple. Neither husband had ever seen her live before, so they were in a different world!LOL!!! My friend kept asking her husband if he was pregnant yet!LOL!! Some folks stayed on their feet the entire show. Just a lot of love in the house last night at Phillips.

Topic- If you can’t tell when you’re a bc, you need to stop seeing people until you get a clue. No, the dating world is not so complicated that you can’t tell!

california girl pat

July 13th, 2011
10:10 am

@DAVE …… is that you ? all you need to do is call me . leave all these other cheap hussies alone if you want a REAL relationship !

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
10:11 am

INFANT BABY JESUS this woman is awesome to the eyes….I know I know…but her beauty and being speaks to the primal man in me.

:lol: @ PR sounding like Ricky Bobby :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
10:12 am

Simple Man:
I had a mature woman try it on me, she claimed she didn’t want any thing other to do with me than have sex. I said sure I can handle that, once and every now and then we came together I notice the change in her. She started staying longer, wanted to know my day routine, over time she came out with it she wanted to be with now. Now I had to think, how can I have relations when she drew the line in the sand. And now she got feelings I never gained because of her initial stance.

Oldie but goodie

July 13th, 2011
10:13 am

I have known on woman now for about thirty years. When she calls, I make myself available. When she calls, it is a “do anything to me” call. She seems to have a passion for degrading, hot sex with someone who she can trust. The thing is, I am sure that I make her perform acts that she would never do with her ex-husbands… yet she keeps coming back. Do I mind? No.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
10:13 am

Now most WANT to be involved in meaningful relatinships, but they are not scared to get that oil changed when they decide its time…

I know that’s right…it’s all about choices and to each their own. I think there should be a mutual understanding when entering into a situation like that and everyone should know the boundaries/limitations. That being said, it should also be agreed upon that if one person starts to “feel differently”(be it good or bad) then the boundaries/limitations need to be re-visited and re-assessed to determine if things should/can go in a different direction(like a relationship) or end. That’s what I did with the boy toy when I didn’t want to be with him anymore..much to his chagrin but oh well…

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
10:15 am

ITL~ Exactly! It’s some fracklenackle bull!

Perhaps there needs to be a change in him if he keeps attracting the same ones as he described.

Ummmm No Reio, YOUR truth doesn’t hurt me as it appears my friend you’ve been hurt quite a bit to make a statement about most women are crazy.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
10:17 am

“to me if you are engaging in it over a certain age you’re lonely.”

What am I missing??? Why does this make you lonely???

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
10:19 am

Lovely Brown, I would not need a booty call with her. I think I could orgasm if I just thought about her for more than 5 minutes.

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
10:23 am

@PR~What a visual??

I walked away to the fountain machine to get a drink to get away from her

Hmmmm….You had to cool yourself off 8-)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
10:25 am

Sweat Pea, yes. I have never been that mesmerized in all of my travels before.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
10:26 am

@ Purple Rain LOL, man. Been there done that. There have been a few times in my life where I have encountered someone and all of a sudden 2000 years of civilization goes right out the window…I want to monkey f*&^ her right there. She may not be the most beautiful woman I know, but there is something that makes me want to say, “take my car, my house, my first born child, take it all…but take ME right dayum now”.

;-) Been there man. (Patty D. from Calhouns in Knoxville where are you).

Dave

July 13th, 2011
10:28 am

LOL@California girl, well I’m definately looking for just one person and I cook, clean and take care of myself. I want one person, but not exactly open for the thought of marriage. But definately a monogamous relationship. I’ve been trying to meet someone, but they are either too young (under 35, I seem to attract them and I’m 46) or they start asking me where I want to live when we’re married after a couple of dates…lol. The gold digger was just my most recent experience. The search continues…..

Reio

July 13th, 2011
10:29 am

@Purple Rain. You must becrazy, just like these women on here. No woman that beautiful has ever existed. Come on now.

brad

July 13th, 2011
10:30 am

Ah yes, a thread that speaks to the true intellectual level of Atlanta.

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
10:32 am

@PR~I commend you for self-control and loyalty as some men would’ve have followed her with the intent of getting some side action. It’s obvious that the experience was breathtaking! Isley Brothers song..Who’s That Lady is ringing in my mind excluding some of the lyrics

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
10:33 am

Purple don’t squeeze the Charmin….LOL

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
10:34 am

Not a newbie…just been busy. Hey all.

@ Sweet Pea hey it is what it is.. you know there are some folks who will just have squatters all their lives because they won’t put up a door, never mind putting a lock on it. LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
10:37 am

Reio:
No beautiful women, where are you from? Haven’t heard that from a guy.

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
10:38 am

Simple man about your 9:55…it’s all good to change the oil every now and then but if all you do is run to Jiffy Lube every now and then, eventually you are going to at best need a new engine, at worst…a new car.

Even with a busy life, folks who say they don’t want more are lying to you and themselves. Because if it were only about needing a physical release, they got toys for that.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
10:39 am

Blackfoote – No beautiful women, where are you from? Haven’t heard that from a guy.

Me either and I’m a woman. Thing about this comment is that women come in an array of sizes and colors and really beautiful is to your preference. So for EVERY man out there, there’s a beautiful woman.

Reio – How old are you?

SexyCool

July 13th, 2011
10:40 am

The concert was lovely. John Legend sounds awesome live. Sade put on an amazing concert. However, if you have seen her concert DVD, you will realize that it is basically the exact same show with new songs and *some* updated background. But nonetheless, a wonderful evening overall.

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
10:40 am

Nicely said, MzNewy!

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
10:40 am

Ms. Newzy – I’m agreeing with your 10:38. Pitstops always have their downfalls….eventually

MsMarriedUp

July 13th, 2011
10:43 am

This actually is a nice little chatty group this go round…

@Reio is on it… along with whoever said they are all bc’s… and RandyT breaking it down on the emotional side of things. Most (& of course this primarily means women) won’t understand bc’s to the point to respect (maybe give it another name) UNTIL they’ve had an orgasm… a REAL One!

@Purple Rain… you may have revealed this in another post…I don’t know… but after reading here, you need to write a book. I would buy…and read it. Like your style.

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
10:43 am

Thanks Leggs

Hey Celisea…

I have missed ya’ll Been busy as heck lately with work. Hope all is well!

SexyCool

July 13th, 2011
10:44 am

Purp – temptation is a son of a bitch.

Reio

July 13th, 2011
10:44 am

@Celisea : I’m 49.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
10:47 am

Stick around Ms.Newzy…we miss a mix and variety :)

SexyC – You ain’t never lied…regarding temptation. That will make you drop EVERY and walk to the left…to avoid it…just saying

Reio – Okay…just wondering

MsMarriedUp – I truly thrustfully understand a REAL orgasm…many many many many times :mrgreen:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
10:50 am

Sweat Pea, thanks. I am seriously going to have to go to another station from now on. I know me and I know my limits. I don’t want to let weakness in so another station it is.

Blackfoote, I have to stay away. I am still a man.

Randy, I started rationalizing all of that. Started to think I can get away with it. Nobody will know had plenty of thoughts of what I would do to her. All of these thoughts in about 5 seconds total. Then I thought about what I would lose…that still did not make the feeling go away. In this situation I just have to go the opposite direction because if I hang around to long I would be in trouble. For some reason that woman makes me weak and I do not know a thing about her. I almost asked her what is your name, before I decided to flee to the fountain machine. Thing is I don’t even think I want to have sex with her, I would just want to stare at her chocolate skin, run my hands through her short hair, have her just stand in front of me naked…I would bite her on the booty then just be done and go home. Is that cheating? LOL Sorry blog family, I am just venting on here, getting it all out of my system so to speak.

Reio, don’t talk to me. Just in case you are wondering why I am not responding to you.

Willie Dynamite

July 13th, 2011
10:52 am

Morning All,

On Topic – I am of the opinion that a BC is just that. Nothing more nothing less. It’s not hard to recognize the signs. 98% of all BC’s are mutual in understanding even for the ones in denial the signs are there. Now the remaining are disguised at an relationship attempt that failed but the O was good.

Purp – you slowly slipping away man. This started as a random friday thing now look at you in the middle of the week. Did you realize you just bought a 6 pack of Schlitz. hahaha

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
10:52 am

I am cracking up at you, PR. “Bite her on her booty and then just be done and go home.” Hilarious!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
10:53 am

MsMarriedUp, I mentioned her on here before.

Reio

July 13th, 2011
10:53 am

@Purple Rain : Thanks. By the way, that would be cheating. Sorry.

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
10:54 am

SC – mail call.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
10:55 am

PR, it’s good that you know your limits. :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
10:56 am

Leggs, I was being serious, I would.

Willie, yes I am. I can not go to that store anymore.

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
10:58 am

@PR ~ I sense you’re very serious. I remember you talking about her before. And, because you know your limitations, start going to another station. You all ga ga over there over this beauty will only lead you to T R O U B L E!!

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:01 am

PR – Your limitations are the same as ours. If you tip and tetter around it long enough it’s going to get you. Your limitations would be a change of scenary/venue. None of us that strong. We’re only as strong as moving away from something that’s oh so tempting.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:04 am

My uncle use to tell us this story about riding on the edge or taking the middle of the road. PR, you’re dangerously close to riding on the edge…move to the middle of the road where there no possibility of falling in. You sound weak this morning my man…lol

Willie Dynamite

July 13th, 2011
11:04 am

Purp – First of all I totally totally understand your dilemma. Controlling temptation is probably the hardest thing for a Married Dude to master. Secondly, it is great that you understand your limits. Lastly, Hang in there Man. Going to another store is only a temporary solution. What happens after a while when you do (and you will) run into her again? I offer no advice cause frankly I haven’t quite figured that part out myself.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
11:05 am

LOL @ PR…the gal I mentioned above, Patty D. was the sexiest woman I have ever met. Not beautiful, just must have been pheromones or something. She was dating a co-worker but she would walk into the office and every male (and maybe the females even) would dayum near bite a hole through their tongues. Another friend of mine ran into her one night at Calhouns (the major meat market in Knoxville) and he said she walked into the room wearing a black sheath and it was like the hundred other women there just vanished. Every man in the room couldn’t take his eyes off of her. My friend said he went up to hit on her and she told him gently that she didn’t date married men, but her friend with her was interested. His comment was “I didn’t even notice you were with someone until you told me”.

I know that if she even hinted to come hither, I would have walked away from everything for that one night. Stupid maybe, but she had that kind of effect.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:05 am

And speaking of temptations….Mr. Eye Candy that’s here a couple times of month just walked by. I can’t lie, I do a friggin double take EVERY time I see him. Of course it’s after he’s passed by. He don’t need me to stroke him no more than he’s getting stroked. Dang fine self.

He ain’t tempting though. I’ve heard rumors.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
11:06 am

“I would bite her on the booty then just be done and go home”

A wolf doesn’t always need a full moon to seek it’s prey…..LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:08 am

Well, I stay away from things I can’t or haven’t mastered. I might break.

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
11:12 am

@Blackfoote, booty and full moon really are the same thing (lol)!

SexyCool

July 13th, 2011
11:12 am

Actually, going to another store works just fine.

I used to frequent a gas station down the street from the apartments that I lived in and would get so aggravated with the clerk that always tried to hit on me when I went in…even after I tried to discourage him.

I’m a dunce…it took me way to long to figure out that this was not the only gas station in town.

Purp – I’m hoping that you all have more than one store that you can frequent.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:14 am

LOL, thank you all for not chirping me to death on me having temptations. :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
11:14 am

Top 5 answers on the board, and survey says – Find another gas station, PR. :)

abc

July 13th, 2011
11:15 am

PR, karma being what it is and all, I’d speculate that your wife is carrying on just like that with her friends, family or coworkers about some random guy she encountered at a dayum gas station. A gas station, really, not even a verbal exchange, and it’s all that.

All this booty call rhetoric, it just makes me think that people’s standards have dropped a lot in the past 10-20 years or so.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:15 am

All I could hear in my head was that song by Deborah Cox “How did you get here” lol

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
11:15 am

Well, you know what they say, PR: Opportunity knocks, but temptation will lean on the doorbell!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:16 am

abc, where I am from a gas station is a grocer, eatery , feed depot and gas station. And so what if my wife is, if she handles it like I have I have no problem with it.

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
11:18 am

@PR ~ you know darn well, we don’t “chirp” people to death, we stone them!

abc

July 13th, 2011
11:18 am

Like I said, standards have dropped. Whatever floats your boat, ‘course.

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
11:19 am

Good morning..very nice and juicy topic today!

Sorry,too busy to state my opinions and defend them…

lurking……..

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:20 am

Exactly, abc. You stay in your house I stay in mine.

Leggs, very true. ;)

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:20 am

I have a dude…the same dude that I’ve mentioned that’s probably been the only dude like cryptonite for me. He resurfaces from time to time. What’s worked for me is to simply avoid. With this one, I know I don’t know my limits so I keep away. Got a text last night..didn’t answer. He wants to talk and he knows that I know I will cave. It’s worked so far and Imma keep right on running…one of us will get tired. I honestly thought it would be him first but I guess not.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
11:20 am

LOL….@Leggs
I didn’t think of it like that, but it is….LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:22 am

Actually PR, abc is knocking on something. If nothing else, maybe thinking of Jules in this position. Or better yet, think of Jules and how she would feel just knowing. You say she reads on here right?? Ut oh. Mabye that will give you the jolt you need.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:23 am

Celisea, why are you running from this one? I have a reason to not indulge, I would gain nothing at all except a temp pleasure and lose all that I value. But you are single, you should slow down your pace a little. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:26 am

Celisea, once again. I don’t keep secrets from my wife. She knows about the woman and how fine I think she is. But she trusts me and knows that I would not act on it. Like I have not and I told her I was going to another station so that I am not tempted. I think anyone is a liar of they think that their libido or eyes just go away once trhey are married. You can look at the menu all day, just don’t order or flirt or anything like that. I share my thoughts with my wife and on here, not with the woman whom I am attracted to carnally. I probably can count on one hand how many times I have just said “hello” and this morning was probably the longest sentence I have said to her which was a response to “How are you” and I said “I’m good”

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
11:26 am

ITL:
That’s a good saying, I’ve leaned on way too many doorbells with no answer…..LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:27 am

PR – I have my reasons…none of which can be divulged on a blog. Maybe we’ll email about it…you might pitch some good advice. Too, if I take him back I’ll become a liar.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:27 am

lol my wife is my buddy, she knows me inside and out. She would not be surprised by anything I type on here I am the same on line as in real life,

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:28 am

Celisea, okay if you want to share we can discuss it.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:28 am

PR – I’m not condemning you. I get you’re human and then a man to boot…lol Heck we all look and wonder and lust. It’s just going knowing when to leave it alone and walk away. I trust you’ll be the standup man you’ve always been. Now, go to another station next time :)

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
11:30 am

@ PR I think I have told this story before at some point. When I was in my early thirties, family would rent condos on Amelia Island. I had a condo right above the pool. For a couple of days in a row I saw the sexiest gal I had ever seen at the pool. One day I was laying by the pool when she took the lounger right beside me with that unbelievably perfect body, perfect skin, small bikini. Then she turned around and started talking in a very friendly way, where she was from, how long she was staying there, etc. I’m drooling and thinking could I somehow pull this off without wifey finding out.

About that time she said, “I am so excited”. So I responded, “what are you excited about honey” or something stupid like that. Then she said, “next week is my birthday and I get to get my drivers license”…AAAAWWWWW NNNOOOO. “Please God let GA be a state where you have to be 21 or something to get a drivers license”. So I kind of stuttered, “You, you, you, are 15?” She said, “yep and next week I’ll be 16 and get my drivers license”. I literally had to take a cold shower, and still trying to rationalize sleeping with a 15 year old. Finally the thought of being “engaged” to Uncle Bubba in the Federal pen told me to run and don’t even think about it.

15…I still think about that.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:31 am

As the good book says, “resist the devil and he will flee from you.” A lot of responsible and ability to do the right thing, God has trusted in our hands.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
11:35 am

I get temptations just like any other it’s how you control and handle them that defines your character. In the past I lacked so much character I almost believed in the ones I made up. Experience and time has a way fixing things.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
11:38 am

Stand strong Purp…based on all that you have told us, I think you have handles this “thing of yours” in the best possible way!! :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:38 am

Dang Randy, that is funny and sad at the same time. You would have had Chris Hanson come out of the pool with scuba gear on and a camera crew.

Celisea, lol My wifes always responds “tell your lil girlfriend hello”, when she knows I am going to the gas station

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:39 am

Tell Jules she’s alright in my book :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
11:40 am

RandyT:
A 15 year old, you might not have to think of jail if daddy get a hold of you first…..LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:41 am

“15 will get you 30″ is my motto/mantra

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:41 am

Yeah, I don’t have the heart to mess around, but I sure realized I have the feelings. LOL

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
11:42 am

WOW, RandyT! That’s what scares me about my 16 year old. But, mine looks 16 and giggles like a 16 year old. You really couldn’t tell you were lusting after a teenager?? Well, I understand cuz some of these young ladies look like grown women!

Mr_NYC

July 13th, 2011
11:42 am

Greetings folks
Purp man I admire you resolve. Also appreciate how you speak of the friendship between you and your wife. Pass on some tips to a fella sometimes. Someday I hope to give the marriage thing another go.

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
11:43 am

@Blackfoote ~ jail, smail, he better be thinking about death!

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:43 am

PR – Now admit it. Doesn’t it feel good to get it out and hear the moral majority chanting “do the right thing?” Don’t you feel strong enough to go yet another day? We can’t chant for you now everytime you need to fill up. Get you another gas station.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:45 am

BTW PR, not being single does not mean married. Just thought I’d let you know. Well not to For Real but I’m just saying.

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
11:47 am

PR~At least your wife is confident and finds humor in it. We don’t need to hear about another Lorena Bobbitt story :x

Stay strong and away from the Women in Red ;)

Sweet Pea

July 13th, 2011
11:49 am

hear another not about…Sorry

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
11:50 am

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:27 am
lol my wife is my buddy, she knows me inside and out. She would not be surprised by anything I type on here I am the same on line as in real life,

Awww PR, this made me like you a little more :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
11:50 am

NYC, thanks man. She is relly my best buddy that’s all I can say. I married my friend who happens to be a beautiful woman. Took a while to get there though I was sour on marriage, but once I thought about it I went all in. All I can say is that when you meet the one and you have no thoughts on if you can do better in any aspect…..that is the one you are supposed to marry.

Celisea, I am not to surprised of the moral majorities response, even though this is online I have a general feel that this is a nice moral group. Even when it gets raunchy, I resepect everyone for who they are even if I think they are hypocritical assholes or just plain pussies. And I think the majority that know me kind of know I would not do anything as well. But I will admit it does feel good :) Now I am waiting on For Real, to ask me for that girls number so that he can take her on a dolphin ride. LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
11:57 am

Stand strong Purp…based on all that you have told us, I think you have handles this “thing of yours” in the best possible way!!

Unlike SOME, huh, Jiffy Lube?? :evil:

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
11:57 am

PR – I dig :) Have you retracted your fangs?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
11:59 am

And, YES, my 11:57 is a JOKE!!

PR, honesty and consistency, right?!?!? :) You are A-OK, man.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:00 pm

Celisea, you know when and were my fangs will come out. LOL and they are not out in this instance

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:01 pm

PR – Yes, I do know :)

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
12:04 pm

But ITL…Honey…..:( :( :(
I need your e-mail so I don’t have to resort to begging in public :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:05 pm

Purple and Celisea:
Don’t y’all want to close the door and pull the shade down…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:07 pm

LOL….@Simple Man
I don’t see nothing wrong with begging every now and then……LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:08 pm

Blackfoote – Naaah, we’re good….ain’t their right PR

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:09 pm

that nor their…I’m on 2 calls

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:09 pm

Yeah we are good, plus I am a Day Walker as well.

cba

July 13th, 2011
12:09 pm

PR, kudos for atleast finding another station. Awhile back, you said you were not going to change station. Recently, an elderly gentleman (74) told me there will always be two obstacles, Desire and the Devil.
You have an infant and another on the way plus that 2000 acres to tend to. In most states, your wife will get half. That has helped me to stay married for 30 yrs :lol:
Side note: The large farms I were around as a kid, the farmers had atleast 250 gallon tanks of fuel for their tractors and equipment. But I think it mostly diesel.
Good luck, I hope you don’t break.

Somewhere out there

July 13th, 2011
12:10 pm

@RandyT – Your comments and thoughts are so disgusting.Thought you gave up blogging. The exact reason you are still alone. And your last LTR did not go back to her ex. Wake up. That is why your date last week made up the story about her ex, to get rid of you.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:11 pm

cba, it depends on what your crop and who you sell it to. That determines if you can have underground fuel cells, geography does also. I am not going to break, :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:16 pm

RandyT I think your ex-wife just came on the blog, don’t turn your back to her.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
12:20 pm

That is why your date last week made up the story about her ex, to get rid of you.

:shock:

well damn

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:21 pm

LOL..ut uh, Randy has a fanemy. He never get those. Wow

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:24 pm

Randyt, LOL you are someones focus.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:26 pm

RandyT did say he wanted to piss somebody off today, it didn’t take him long…..LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
12:27 pm

Dang, Randyt…. :)

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
12:30 pm

Wow…”Fire in the hole” dang that shot at Randy came outta nowhere…even though it was somewhere out there….bang…

Lemme get outta the line of fire lol

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:32 pm

Blog sniper on attack

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:32 pm

Well what I have learned is to not do private quarters. Do not invite them to your home and do not go to theirs. This is the way to avoid being put in that position (or any position for that matter). If the guy thinks you are trying to make them your Food-h0, pay your own way. Then, he can either move on because you deserve better than what he is, or he can get to know you for you ebcause you are not banging like bunnies! Only hang out in public. It’s a shame because two grown folks can’t be alone without the guy thinking, “oh we’re alone, she wants me.” Then proceed to put you in an awkward position of shutting them down, or going along with it,not really wanting to. When you do the latter, men tend become babies. Instead of just taking no for an answer…it’s like a screaming baby. You give it a paicfier to get it to shut the hell up. Well, in the adult world, Pacier Sex (Puddy Pacifier) is what can happen. Some losers are ok with getting their rocks off that way. But I know I would want a partner who wants it just as much as I do. Newflash, if a woman wants to sleep with you, you do not have to persuade or coerce her! She is already there and ready. I am not saying to nix the foreplay. But just stop thinking with your little head so much so you can tell the difference. Just because its wet, doesn’t mean she wants you. Heck, if you mess with something long enough on the human body, it will react….common sense 101. If she says no, then no is no! Get over it. Don’t proceed to “convince” her that she is h0rny! You will end up with sex that she closes her eyes for not because she is enjoying it..but she is zoned out thinking of better things because it will be over in 2 minutes anyway. If you are loking for a booty call, then find a woman who is looking for the same. Stop lying and gaming those who are looking for something real. You are only creating the “bitter or crazy” chicks you guys complain about. For every one of those chicks, there were a few guys who help her to get that way!

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:33 pm

You are only creating the “bitter or crazy” chicks you guys complain about. For every one of those chicks, there were a few guys who help her to get that way!

True true

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
12:34 pm

“Blog sniper”….that cracked me up, Cel. :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:35 pm

Black Coffy no sugar no cream if I drunk it, that’s the way I like it. All that sweet stuff must be built in.

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:39 pm

PURPLE….stop letting your fangs come out! You left the holes in my neck! :lol: You know I loves me some vampires. I guess that makes me a Fang Banger! :lol: You know I have that T-shirt. When I wear it I get so many laughs!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:40 pm

BMW, all I got from that book that you just posted was that you were wet and wanted to meet at a hotel. Am I right?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:41 pm

BMW, where can I get one of those t-shirts? I did not get the last episode that much, it was kind of slow imo

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:42 pm

ITL – :)

BMW – I’m working with PR with his fang problem and keeping them retracted. If not we’re going to have to see if we can have them removed altogether.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:44 pm

Did Randy leave for real?

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
12:44 pm

On the real tip,who in particular, are u Really ticked off by BMW?

who f-cked u that good,played u, and u f-cked him good too only to realize u were being played..

what’s his name?????

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
12:45 pm

Oh boy!

Good time for me to blog off. Hope each and everyone behaves themselves. Let loose on Friday.

@PR ~ remind SC to put the EOD out today. I’m going on vacation. See you on Tuesday!

@ITL ~ behave yourself, but what fun is in that?!?

PEACE!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:46 pm

LOL….@BMW
When are you coming back to the A? You need a spanking…..LOL

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
12:46 pm

All that sweet stuff must be built in.

and indeed it is papi ;-)

BMW your whole 12:32 should’ve been bolded big time cause that’s real talk right there. The boy toy I had got like that when I broke it off with him…even though he knew I’d say no he’d still ask anyway…ol dumb azz. It got kinda comical after a while…it’s like how many ways can I say no before it clicks that I really mean NO…

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
12:47 pm

I’ve been the booty call before and I had no issue with it. The lady was going through a divorce and didn’t want to get attached to anybody. I would come over, we did our thing, and I went home. She even convinced me to come to her job one day to get broken off. Aah, those were the days.

I see we have some True Blood fans on here. I damn near died last week when Pam said: “You have 24 hours to find Eric. If you don’t, I will eat, f**k, and kill all 3 of you!” LMAO!!!!

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:47 pm

PURPLE…yep! Come meet me at the Time Square Marriott! :lol:
I have a couple of the shirts, I have the Merlotte’s shirt and Fangtasia shirt as well. I got mine on here:
http://shop.ebay.com/i.html?_from=R40&_trksid=p5197.m570.l1313&_nkw=True+Blood+tshirts&_sacat=See-All-Categories

This Sunday’s epeisode was pretty good. But a bit slow. I wonder if Jason will be a were panther. Dude was pumped full of viagra and done by every dirtball trash chick in the clan! That shoudl make him never want sex again! :lol: He is the sherriff, can he report that he was raped by a gang of female? :shock:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:54 pm

BMW, you see the little kid that was threatening to cutt off Jason wang if he didnt have sex with her? I am going to get me a fangbanger t-shirt The Sheriff is all hoped up on V. Sookie is starting to be a wuss to me. LOL

DJ, when Pam said that I was like “oohhhh” I like her!

Celisea, do you plan on checking your email today?

Did Randy say he was leaving? That took some balls to say that he could have possibly banged a 15 year old. That dude that was 51 married a 16 year old a few weeks back. And to quote Riley from the Boondocks about the R. Kelly Case. “I saw the video and that girl was not little” LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:55 pm

PR – I don’t have any emails today…did you send?

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
12:55 pm

BMW, That horse chick that Sam was chasing is soooooo fine!!! :)
(Not as fine as My sweety ITL, But still)

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:56 pm

Okay…just got it

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:56 pm

DJ Sniper….You have 24 hours to find Eric. If you don’t, I will eat, f**k, and kill all 3 of you!” LMAO!!!!

I d@mn near died when she said that! :lol: You know Pam will do anything with or without a pulse, male, female or dazed and confused! :lol:

Now that Eric, or Alcide…I’d do them 10 ways from Sunday, on their mama’s kitchen table! :shock: Oops, did I just say that outloud? :lol:

EXILED…this happened in my distant pass when I was younger and a bit green as to the BS of men! best believe that now, I can be celibate for a very long period of time and will let a dude he gets none and if he tries me, he will see my other personalities come out. And that can be ugly! Granted it’s been a very long time for me…so I feel for the poor sap that I decide to do the horizontal mambo with! :lol:

BLACKFOOTE….boy you had better watch it now…it might be you! GRRRRRR :lol:

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
1:06 pm

Simple, you are so on point about that chick Luna. We need to see more of her, preferrable naked. And I’m assuming that Rutina Wesley(Tara) has a no nudity clause in her contract, because I have yet to see any a** or t**s from her. That clause needs to be stricken ASAP dammit! lmao

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
1:09 pm

DJ, did you miss the lesbo scene with Tara? We got to see some bare t*ts and a little a**

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
1:10 pm

Ther you go DJ…Tara is so fine, I might fight my way thru the circle of witchs if I can be sure she would be waiting on the otherside…

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
1:11 pm

PR, I caught that scene. I was hoping and praying that the bra and panties would find their way on the floor. Alas, to no avail. lol

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
1:12 pm

@ Somewhere…for the record, I don’t think that way about you/her. I come on once in awhile, and I leave for long periods. I am sorry I have offended you. And for the record, my last LTR left me numerous times, and did not know that I had pneumonia and was sick for weeks after from something I caught overseas that last time. So you know maybe you can tell her. Tell her I hope she is happy and found what she waas looking for.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
1:14 pm

Tara’s girlfriend is nice! So is that trashy panther chick for some reason.

Leggs, have a great trip and come back with stories that you can’t tell!

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
1:19 pm

Yes, her gf is pretty damn hot as well. Crystal is also kinda cute, in a trailer park trash kinda way. lol

If True Blood has nothing else, they always have hot women!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
1:32 pm

BMW:
Let it be, let it be. Don’t feel sorry I’m a good wolf.
BMW: Blackwolf what big eyes you have
BlackWolf: So I may see all those curves my dear
BMW: Blackwolf your hands are so big
Blackwolf: to grip you better my dear
BWM: Blackwolf whats that in your lap
Blackwolf: don’t worry its’ a treat for you my dear
BMW: Blackwolf tell me what’s in your lap
Blackwolf: sit here and I will tell you my dear

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
1:36 pm

Lol@ The Big Bad Wolf!

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
1:40 pm

Somebody e me when y’all are finished with True Blood talk. I’m behind, and don’t want to spoil any surprises….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
1:40 pm

You allright RandyT man she came in blew her steam and disappeared. Do you need a security escort? Me and the fellas will watch your back.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
1:46 pm

ITL
Somebody need to e you? What eat you, excite you, expell you, entice you, exempt you, expect you, exam you……LOL

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
1:51 pm

Thx Blackefoote…it ended one night when I was sick, and she brought up how good her ex-husband had been all night long. I cared very deeply for her, but I felt like she had this lifesize picture of her husband with just the face cut out, and I was supposed to stick mine in. She was looking for someone just like him, and I guess I could never be that. Shame because I adored her and her children. Dated but mostly focussed on my career since then and intentionally kept my distance until just lately. Strange how my new lady’s ex and mine should reappear in the same week. I always try to learn from every relationship but still not sure what to take away from that one…thought it was going to work. Guess not. What I don’t understand about women could fill many volumes.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
1:56 pm

@Blackfoote – YES! :)

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
1:57 pm

ITL…I am first in line !!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:01 pm

“What I don’t understand about women could fill many volumes”

RandyT the parts you can’t fill in I can supply the rest but they are so loved……LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:01 pm

You sure about that, Simp? You might get a call for an emergency Jiffy Lube….. LOL

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:05 pm

Call it community service…Did my part to insure that all those good vibes from the concert did not go to waste….From this do forward..I promise..the only late night calls I will take will be from you….

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
2:05 pm

Hey, hey, hey….I know i’m all late & yall done posted too much for me to catch up and read. So I’ll just jump in all willy nilly

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:08 pm

Whats good Slim1….Bad sushi for lunch????

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:09 pm

Slim, sorry your tunkin feels icky. :(

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:09 pm

Call it community service…Did my part to insure that all those good vibes from the concert did not go to waste….

I’m sure there was ALOT of that going on last night…wonder if there’ll be a surge in Atl. population in ~9 months or so ;-)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:11 pm

Community service??? LOL

Blackfoote: Hey, man, you wanna go to this event with me after work and check out the ladies?
SM: Nah, man…I got a ticket and gotta do my community service
BF: Dude, that sucks. They got you picking up trash or what?
SM: Nah..I gotta go bang this chick after she gets home from Sade.

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
2:11 pm

What’s up with murder suicides? What’s up with jilted dudes killing girlfriends/wives then killing themselves?

There are some real punk dudes out there!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:15 pm

Hi Slim1
LOL….@ITL
Simple I know you wish you could erase your first post…..LOL

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:18 pm

Think about it like this…Sade and John Legend put it down and we got a venue full women and most of their vision has been impaired from all of the Tasty paste that has built up during the concert…They have to get on teh road and drive all over the city…Now Because I am a good citizen and I look out for the well being of me fellow Atlantans, i did what was needed to make sure that the slickness running down her leg did not cause her foot to slip from teh brake..possibly causing an accident that may have hurt somebody…..The way I see it, i risked my personal well being to save a stranger….That has to be worth something….. :)

kimmie

July 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Simple – You go on then, you Soldier of Love!!! :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Yep I wish I could turn that Black Coffy into milk shake. Wait a minute I can, I can.

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Simple & ITL – I went out to eat day before yesterday and ever since i’ve been feeling nasty. BG’s aka bubble guts…so i’m hoping today is the final day of excretion lol…plus the heat has not made it any easier to deal with

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:23 pm

Bubble Guts are a curse from the Devil….

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:33 pm

There are some real punk dudes out there!

yes there are…what’s worse is when they kill children as well…punks

Wait a minute I can, I can.

You know it’s been a while and Bermuda is sooo faaaaar awaaaaay…so don’t tease me I’m fragile n sensitive right now :oops: :mrgreen:

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:36 pm

plus the heat has not made it any easier to deal with

Damn Slim Nu…I’m trying not to laugh but that last line almost got me. Hope this is the last day of you having to deal with that…oh and please stay hydrated so you don’t faint in this muggy azz heat. The last thing we need is some stranger tryna give you mouth to mouth…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:41 pm

Please me don’t tease me, when I’m bad I’m so so bad. Be bad this wolf can take it yes he can.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:41 pm

Poor Slim. I’ll repeat what Coffy said – stay WELL hydrated and stay out of the heat. I hope you are at home….

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
2:44 pm

Slim got a loose booty? Whole new meaning to booty call.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:47 pm

LOL….@Purple
A loose booty call.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:47 pm

Ewww, Purp. Funny, but ewwwww….

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
2:47 pm

BLACKFOOTE….you get a time out! :lol Well I do have Rouge Lil Red Riding Hood costume! ;-)

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
2:50 pm

PR got jokes :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hope you feel better soon Slim, esp in this heat :-(

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
2:52 pm

Black Coffy – Chile folks at work have been joking on my since yesterday. I actually left work early Tuesday but came on in today. They’ve been calling me Stankalank, Stanky booty, asking me if I Sharted (a sh!tty fart) etc…So it’s all good. On my way home I texted one of my co-workers and told them I almost pulled over and used the bathroom on the side of the road but I saw a sign for Illegal Dumping & changed my mind. lol

Purp – I don’t even have anything left. :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
2:54 pm

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:56 pm

Well I do have Rouge Lil Red Riding Hood costume!

Well I’ve got an itty bitty nurse’s uniform and a “cowgirl” themed costume(WITH riding crop)…but a lil Red Riding Hood costume isn’t a bad idea. Hmmm lemme think…

Blackfoote you readin like you need to be seen ;-) I ain’t mad though…I’m going to see Sade tonight and pray I won’t be making any phone calls myself afterward… Must stay strong…must!

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:57 pm

I almost pulled over and used the bathroom on the side of the road but I saw a sign for Illegal Dumping & changed my mind.

:lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
2:58 pm

illegal dumping? To Funny!

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
3:05 pm

Sorry for all the TMI but I saw that the booty call topic had fizzled out already. ;-)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:07 pm

fizzled out of your loose booty

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:08 pm

No worries Slim Nu…hope you feel better.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:11 pm

BMW and Black Coffy:
Since you lady’s will be wearing the Red Riding Hood and Cowgirl suits I need to come see y’all. To spank one and make milk shakes with the other….LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:12 pm

What was the guy doing when he discovered that you could get milk from cow…and drink it

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:15 pm

He invented the slurpee……LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:20 pm

Oh yeah I like my Black Coffy strong since you (brought it up)…….LOL

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:20 pm

make milk shakes with the other….

myyyy milkshake brings all the boys to the yard…

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:21 pm

I need a vacation. Would anyone like to donate their miles so that I can go to Tahiti? Or Bora Bora?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:22 pm

LOL@Coffy – that song was runnin’ through my head, too.

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
3:22 pm

What was the guy doing when he discovered that you could get milk from cow…and drink it

What did he say to make other people want to try it :lol:

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
3:23 pm

ITL..I can’t get you that far West, But I do own a Condo in South Texes thats Great for a 3 or 4 day get away!!! :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:23 pm

I wonder what people were doing when a lot of things were invented or discovered.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:24 pm

I like my Black Coffy strong

I aim to pleeeease :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:25 pm

You two should meet at BoneFish first. LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:26 pm

Simple, if it’s close to a body of water, it’s worth considering. :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:27 pm

LOL@Purp. How do you know we haven’t??? :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:27 pm

“myyyy milkshake brings all the boys to the yard…”

Ah not tonight I’m the lone wolf.

Letitia

July 13th, 2011
3:28 pm

No one invited me the wife

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:29 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:29 pm

BoneFish…..LOL

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:30 pm

Ah not tonight I’m the lone wolf.

So ummm…does that mean you’re gonna eat me like you did lil Red Riding Hood?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:30 pm

ITL, that’s right I don’t know. LOL

Letitia

July 13th, 2011
3:30 pm

May I bring the kids along as well. With your mistress and my lover?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:33 pm

Letitia who are you talking to?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:37 pm

LOL….@Black Coffy
What do you say after that? Feet don’t fail me now, let me lick you up and down, knees stop trembling, rush blood flow rush. I can keep going and going, and going like the energizer rabbit.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:38 pm

Purple I think that’s RandyT’s ex-wife who was here earlier……LOL

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
3:39 pm

Dang PR, am on a secure server and can’t look at my “family protrait”. Should I worry?

Also, is there some kind of women’s intuition that even if you haven’t heard about or from them in years they somehow know they should pop up just when you are truly moving on? I can’t believe I got blasted today from someone for telling stories of the days before I had ever even met her and didn’t walk the same walk I walk now. I’ve said many times on here that one day I realized I did not like the person that was looking back at me in the mirror and I changed. Then I tell a couple of stories from when I didn’t walk it straight and up they pop.

Dayum. Is it possible to love women and hate women at the same time.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
3:44 pm

Yup…right on the water!!! :)

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
3:44 pm

Any of you all been to Myrtle Beach? If so, any tips on things to do there that are fun & reasonable???

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:45 pm

“love women and hate women at the same time.”

RandyT when I tried that it ended with leaving my own house and a divorce….LOL

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
3:47 pm

Don’t worry Randy,all women are like that!

When you give a woman something that she likes(D-ck and trinkets) and then at some point,you withhold it,they are going to hound and want to bite your azz,just to get back atcha.

Just ignore it,that’s the best treatment.

(I thought u bought better and tougher T-shirts :lol: )

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:51 pm

I’ll be over to pick up the key. Or you can give it to me tonight at Bonefish! LOLOLOL We need a table for what, 12? You, me, Letitiia, Randy, his wife, her lover, MCH, Wifey, UGA, Dr. Phil, Oprah, and Dr. Kevorkian????

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
3:58 pm

ITL – Well, yall won’t need a big table because out of all those monikers, only 4 exist lol

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:00 pm

ITL?

u smoke(not cigarettes)?

any chic here that do?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:01 pm

LOL@Slim. Could you imagine telling the maitre d’ you need a table for 12 and only 4 show up??

Server: Excuse me, I have a call for Mr. Hammock.
MCH: I’ll take that at the bar
(5 minutes later)
Server: Excuse me, there’s a call for a Ms. Wifey
MCH: I’ll take that at the bar

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:01 pm

Slim?

u still smoking?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:02 pm

Ex – NO!! I don’t judge others if they indulge, but it’s not for me.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:03 pm

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
4:06 pm

ITL – :lol: Good one.

Exiled – Um…I don’t recall mentioning that I ever smoked. I live a drug free lifestyle aside from all the alcohol, ruffies, si-si-siserrrrrp, cigs, crank, coke, paint thinner, magic markers, helium, Vodka snorts, anti-freeze & other minor things lol j/k

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:07 pm

Letitia said no one invited her but she’s here any damn way….LOL
Now that’s a strong lady.

Better Led

July 13th, 2011
4:09 pm

Google article admittedly caught my attention – as you can tell from my lengthy response, I’m not a blogger…
After reviewing several comments, my thanks to each of you as I’m now even more thankful to having been married to same woman for 20Yrs… yes, she’s my soul mate.
Simply stated – even thought I’m as horney as the next guy, I don’t believe you can have a long term (loving) relationship w/ anyone unless you respect them. ‘Golden Rule’ may be in question for some of you – but I’m a believer in treating others as you would also want to be treated.
Only you can personally define your degree of respect, but having arbitrary sex -or- multiple mates at one time is short lived & typically leaves you empty looking for next conquest?!
Yes, it’s worth the search – Love to me is partly defined by sharing your inner-self w/out being overly critiqued / just being accepted (& loved) for who you are – warts & all.
Best of all, you know you’re truly blessed after 5+ years of marriage – realizing you love her/him more now than the day you got married.
Best wishes to each of you in search for your life long soul mate!!

P.S. Also recommend a partner w/ similar beliefs (Christian bias).

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:09 pm

ITL?

any crazy stuff u do then…..or u do it behind 4 walls..

Slim?
I’m surprised u don’t…

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:10 pm

Not sure that strong is the adjective I would have chosen, but okay, BF….we can go with strong….

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:10 pm

Don’t worry about a key…The Patio door is unlocked…Now is the alarm goes off, just be still and what ever you do, DON”T answer the door when the cops come…Just be still and dont turn on the lights…..

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
4:13 pm

Exiled – Why are you surprised I don’t?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:17 pm

Exiled, you trying to live vicariously through me?? :)

Um, yeah, thanks Simple, but I’ll pass. :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:18 pm

Randy it’s a safe picture. It’s a woman holding a baby with her husband. White lady with a black eye, holding a black baby and her white husband beside her.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:20 pm

ITL:
I know it should be brazen, I wanted to make her feel good so when she slap the hell out of RandyT she wont hit him too hard….LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:24 pm

Speaking of brazen, why do people feel the need to come on the blog and launch into a judmental diatribe about the bloggers and our conversations?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:28 pm

I thought Letitia was Simple Man’s wife. LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:28 pm

And one more thing….how is it that Better Led is ” thankful to having been married to same woman for 20Yrs” but yet says that “you’re truly blessed after 5+ years of marriage – realizing you love her/him more now than the day you got married.”

What about the other 15 years???? They were probably a big, pompous pile of nothing. Kind of like said post.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:29 pm

Letitia might be another one of his monikers, PR. LOLOL :)

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:30 pm

Slim?

I don’t know,I got u pegged somehow in my head.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

Damn..Purp…When did that happen????

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

SLIM…girl…I have been there. I feel for ya sis! Did you lose like 5lbs.? :lol:

BLACKFOOTE…you must have frequent flier miles……you can fly into LGA, JFK or ERW! LOL

SLIM…i have family in Myrtle Beach. They have replaced the the Pavillion amusement park with a new one called Skywheel if I am not mistaken. there are a cr@pload of mini golf courses. There are the go-kart tracks, Hard Rock has a nice atmospere. Oh if you like boats, there is a casino cruise that sails daily/nightly. Here is the link:

http://www.SunCruzcasino.com

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

LOL….@Purple and ITL y’all aint right.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:32 pm

ITL…Not one of mine…:)

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

What about the other 15 years???? They were probably a big, pompous pile of nothing. Kind of like said post

and on that note….I just say have a good evening all! :-)

Ciao

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

Hell I still think the ITL is Simple man too. It’s always Simple Man. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

Sexy Cool, Leggs wanted me to remind you to leave the EOD post.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:35 pm

BMW:
As Dick Tracy always say, I’m on my way….LOL
Why must I chase the cat, nothing but the dog in me.

TenderRoni

July 13th, 2011
4:35 pm

@PR- do you watch Californication?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:37 pm

Sorry, Lovely, and any other regular that I might have offended with my vent. I’m having a rough day, and things that I normally wouldn’t give a second thought are getting under my skin. smh….

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:38 pm

Purp, If I am ITL…would I be strange to spend any amount of time thinking about motor-boating my own boobies????

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:39 pm

Dang! Simple Man is everybody. Will the real Simple Man please stand up?!?!? :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:42 pm

Tender, no I have never watched it.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

I do, Tender. LOVE David Duchovny.

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

Purp?

As for me I think u black..

I hear so much natural soul from u I cannot believe u black. U got more soul than Jame Brown!

I have to meet u in person to believe u are

As a matter of fact anybody here ever met Purple?

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

ITL, I am trying to, but everytime I make a move I pull myself down and slap myself for not letting me get up and go over and sit next to us….

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:44 pm

Simple you could be transgendered. LOL

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:44 pm

Cannot believe u Italian..sorry!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

No, I am not black. And nobody here has ever met me, that will admit to it that is on right now. LOL

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

And BTW, The Little Bald best friend is soooo Funny.. And when Kathleen Turner to him He was eating that coochie like it was his mommies Apple Pie, I was in tears!!! :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

Exiled, well I am not a pretender so I won’t take that as a compliment.

All Smiles

July 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

I have met Purple and his wife before they moved, he is a gentleman and she is very sweet.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

Wait a minute Purple….Even though I sometimes jangle my own balls Like a Hunts Point Hooker, I know for sure that I am all guy!!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

HUsh…you are breaking the rules!!!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:48 pm

Simple, come on I have to break your balls weekly. LOL

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:49 pm

Purp!

Compliment was not my intend,just registering my thoughts..I don’t think I amnsaying u are a pretender.

Im just not convinced.

and (abc) gotta be,well ….. :ghost: what is he? :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:50 pm

abc, is an angry bitter soul. I bet he hasn’t smiled since athe 70’s

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
4:52 pm

Exiled – So do tell, how exactly do you have me pegged.

BMW – Thanks chica, I will check it out and see what it do. And lawd knows I don’t need to lose anymore weight but I probably did lose about 5 lol

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
4:52 pm

I for one love it when someone else comes on that’s Christian based. Nothing judgemental about that, just doing what everyone else on her does everyday, all day…speaking their minds. I realize we’re less liked/loved but that’s cool with me :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

I’m interested in hearing this, too, Slim. As a matter of fact, I’d like to hear Exiled’s ideas on what we all look like and are like.

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

PURPLE….you are telling “err’body” about our business! :lol: SHHHHHH

BLACKFOOTE….the Rotten Apple would eat you up. Oh and maybe me….I DO bite! ;-)

EXILED…we are all Black when the lights go out! :lol: With that being said….PURPLE, do you plan on beating me with a bat? Why do you have one in bed? :shock: Oh that isn’t a bat is it? Hoywya doin’? LMAO

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

PR – You shole do get around a lot :)

SexyCool

July 13th, 2011
4:54 pm

Leggs requested I post this in her absence:

“Have the strength to do what is right regardless of the consequences and you will forever walk with a good heart.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:54 pm

Slim, I bet I can guess what you look like. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:56 pm

Celisea, yeah right. :0

BMW, it’s your fault for taking the gag out of my mouth.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

I think Slim, is let me guess….Slim!

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

Cel, it’s not about Christianity and being Christian-based, at least not for me, because I am a Christian. I just find it ironic that people who claim to be Christians always seem to skim over the “judge not, lest ye be judged” scripture. And I know you said it didn’t seem judgmental to you, but that’s how it read to me.

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

I think u kinda ummm,let’s put it this way…

It takes a real strong man to put it on yaa coz every move he makes,you seem to be analyzing and joking about it.(why are ur hands shaking) :lol:

But I think when u horny,u do different(kinda like a different and caged animal) it belies ur normal Slim state..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:58 pm

Purple I BMW just shut down the year of our Lord 2038….LOL
Are you allright Celisea?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:59 pm

Better Led

July 13th, 2011
5:00 pm

@ Into The Light –
Thanks for sharing, but obviously missed my message…
Answer to you question – all 20 years have been good!
Good luck finding your better half.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
5:01 pm

BMW:
Wolves bite back…..LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
5:01 pm

Blackfoote, Celisea sets my appointments until 2038. I’m her manwhore. BMW paid Celisea a fee, I ust get 20% and my room, board and travel are taken from that 20%

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
5:01 pm

LMAO….Good night all. The Iron Horse awaits me.

Not you Purple…..you have a dirty mind! :lol:

My subway beckons…..

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
5:03 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
5:06 pm

LOL……@Purple
Y’all have a good evening.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:06 pm

Blackfoote – I’m good :)

ITL – I gotcha…Judge that ye be not judge though don’t mean what people think it does…but I digress.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
5:11 pm

I’m interested to read your interpretation, Cel. The way I read it, loosely translated, it means clean up around your own back door before you start talking about how dusty anybody else’s is.

Does that mean Christians should not hold themselves to a Christ-like standard? Absolutely not. But (and this is my opinion only) the people who comment loudly and often on other folks trials and troubles remind me of the Pharisees on the corner.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:26 pm

Judge that ye be not judge is what the scripture is telling each individual to do not tell other folks to not judge one another…not that any of us can. Judge that ye be not judge means for each and every one to act and live accordingly, by and in adherance to the Word of God. Judge your ownself now(through obedience to God and avoid) and escape the judgement in the end that’s to come. Yes every man will stand before Christ to be judge but either your life will align with Christ because you judged (and walked and lived) accordingly but living and refraining and abstaing and obeyance or not. If not, the judgement will be condemnation. Most folks think that’s say I can’t judge you and you can’t judge me. However it’s saying judge yourself so you can escape the judgement of condemnation…everlasting damnation.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:29 pm

Okay..excuse my typos. In essence, it’s given to every man to obey God. You chose and elect to do so, you will be rewarded with eternal life because in this life you allowed the Word of God to become your guage for the dos and the don’ts the wills and the won’ts. It’s every man’s choice. Either you do it now or judgement will be pronouced on a person in the end. Heaven to those that aligned and disciplined themselves and hell to those that didn’t. You mentioned the Pharisees so I know you know. Your name found in the Book of Life or not….Christ’s life being the measure

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
5:32 pm

Thanks for taking the time to explain. I went back and reread the scripture (Matthew 7:1-3) and I understand your explanation.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:34 pm

That’s what I was raised and taught…if you go further down

Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.
And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand:
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
5:48 pm

I have got get myself back into church…..my soul is under-nourished.

Better Led

July 13th, 2011
5:51 pm

Cel – Thanks for sharing & remember that your passion is contageous!

A good night to all…

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:58 pm

Awwww, thanks Better Led.

ITL – Girl, all of our souls are undernourished…we’re human :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
6:06 pm

Thanks, Cel. :)