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Telltale signs of a booty call

There may come a time when you have to ask the tough question: Am I just a booty call? It would seem that this would be an easy thing to figure out, but alas..dating is not always easy.  Sometimes you have mixed signals, double talk, sweet talk, lip service (not the good kind), and plain old jedi mind tricks.

So what are the signs that let you know you are just there for entertainment?  Few people come out and say, “Hey you are just something to do until somebody else comes along” but their actions somewhat support that statement.

Guys do you know (or care?) when you are being considered only as the maintenance man?  Would you prefer to be told that it’s never going anywhere, so just enjoy the ride while it lasts?

What are the top telltale signs…you’re just a booty call?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

342 comments Add your comment

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

Purp?

As for me I think u black..

I hear so much natural soul from u I cannot believe u black. U got more soul than Jame Brown!

I have to meet u in person to believe u are

As a matter of fact anybody here ever met Purple?

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

ITL, I am trying to, but everytime I make a move I pull myself down and slap myself for not letting me get up and go over and sit next to us….

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:44 pm

Simple you could be transgendered. LOL

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:44 pm

Cannot believe u Italian..sorry!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

No, I am not black. And nobody here has ever met me, that will admit to it that is on right now. LOL

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

And BTW, The Little Bald best friend is soooo Funny.. And when Kathleen Turner to him He was eating that coochie like it was his mommies Apple Pie, I was in tears!!! :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

Exiled, well I am not a pretender so I won’t take that as a compliment.

All Smiles

July 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

I have met Purple and his wife before they moved, he is a gentleman and she is very sweet.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

Wait a minute Purple….Even though I sometimes jangle my own balls Like a Hunts Point Hooker, I know for sure that I am all guy!!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

HUsh…you are breaking the rules!!!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:48 pm

Simple, come on I have to break your balls weekly. LOL

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:49 pm

Purp!

Compliment was not my intend,just registering my thoughts..I don’t think I amnsaying u are a pretender.

Im just not convinced.

and (abc) gotta be,well ….. :ghost: what is he? :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:50 pm

abc, is an angry bitter soul. I bet he hasn’t smiled since athe 70’s

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
4:52 pm

Exiled – So do tell, how exactly do you have me pegged.

BMW – Thanks chica, I will check it out and see what it do. And lawd knows I don’t need to lose anymore weight but I probably did lose about 5 lol

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
4:52 pm

I for one love it when someone else comes on that’s Christian based. Nothing judgemental about that, just doing what everyone else on her does everyday, all day…speaking their minds. I realize we’re less liked/loved but that’s cool with me :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

I’m interested in hearing this, too, Slim. As a matter of fact, I’d like to hear Exiled’s ideas on what we all look like and are like.

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

PURPLE….you are telling “err’body” about our business! :lol: SHHHHHH

BLACKFOOTE….the Rotten Apple would eat you up. Oh and maybe me….I DO bite! ;-)

EXILED…we are all Black when the lights go out! :lol: With that being said….PURPLE, do you plan on beating me with a bat? Why do you have one in bed? :shock: Oh that isn’t a bat is it? Hoywya doin’? LMAO

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

PR – You shole do get around a lot :)

SexyCool

July 13th, 2011
4:54 pm

Leggs requested I post this in her absence:

“Have the strength to do what is right regardless of the consequences and you will forever walk with a good heart.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:54 pm

Slim, I bet I can guess what you look like. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:56 pm

Celisea, yeah right. :0

BMW, it’s your fault for taking the gag out of my mouth.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

I think Slim, is let me guess….Slim!

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

Cel, it’s not about Christianity and being Christian-based, at least not for me, because I am a Christian. I just find it ironic that people who claim to be Christians always seem to skim over the “judge not, lest ye be judged” scripture. And I know you said it didn’t seem judgmental to you, but that’s how it read to me.

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

I think u kinda ummm,let’s put it this way…

It takes a real strong man to put it on yaa coz every move he makes,you seem to be analyzing and joking about it.(why are ur hands shaking) :lol:

But I think when u horny,u do different(kinda like a different and caged animal) it belies ur normal Slim state..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:58 pm

Purple I BMW just shut down the year of our Lord 2038….LOL
Are you allright Celisea?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:59 pm

Better Led

July 13th, 2011
5:00 pm

@ Into The Light –
Thanks for sharing, but obviously missed my message…
Answer to you question – all 20 years have been good!
Good luck finding your better half.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
5:01 pm

BMW:
Wolves bite back…..LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
5:01 pm

Blackfoote, Celisea sets my appointments until 2038. I’m her manwhore. BMW paid Celisea a fee, I ust get 20% and my room, board and travel are taken from that 20%

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
5:01 pm

LMAO….Good night all. The Iron Horse awaits me.

Not you Purple…..you have a dirty mind! :lol:

My subway beckons…..

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
5:03 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
5:06 pm

LOL……@Purple
Y’all have a good evening.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:06 pm

Blackfoote – I’m good :)

ITL – I gotcha…Judge that ye be not judge though don’t mean what people think it does…but I digress.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
5:11 pm

I’m interested to read your interpretation, Cel. The way I read it, loosely translated, it means clean up around your own back door before you start talking about how dusty anybody else’s is.

Does that mean Christians should not hold themselves to a Christ-like standard? Absolutely not. But (and this is my opinion only) the people who comment loudly and often on other folks trials and troubles remind me of the Pharisees on the corner.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:26 pm

Judge that ye be not judge is what the scripture is telling each individual to do not tell other folks to not judge one another…not that any of us can. Judge that ye be not judge means for each and every one to act and live accordingly, by and in adherance to the Word of God. Judge your ownself now(through obedience to God and avoid) and escape the judgement in the end that’s to come. Yes every man will stand before Christ to be judge but either your life will align with Christ because you judged (and walked and lived) accordingly but living and refraining and abstaing and obeyance or not. If not, the judgement will be condemnation. Most folks think that’s say I can’t judge you and you can’t judge me. However it’s saying judge yourself so you can escape the judgement of condemnation…everlasting damnation.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:29 pm

Okay..excuse my typos. In essence, it’s given to every man to obey God. You chose and elect to do so, you will be rewarded with eternal life because in this life you allowed the Word of God to become your guage for the dos and the don’ts the wills and the won’ts. It’s every man’s choice. Either you do it now or judgement will be pronouced on a person in the end. Heaven to those that aligned and disciplined themselves and hell to those that didn’t. You mentioned the Pharisees so I know you know. Your name found in the Book of Life or not….Christ’s life being the measure

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
5:32 pm

Thanks for taking the time to explain. I went back and reread the scripture (Matthew 7:1-3) and I understand your explanation.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:34 pm

That’s what I was raised and taught…if you go further down

Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.
And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand:
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
5:48 pm

I have got get myself back into church…..my soul is under-nourished.

Better Led

July 13th, 2011
5:51 pm

Cel – Thanks for sharing & remember that your passion is contageous!

A good night to all…

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
5:58 pm

Awwww, thanks Better Led.

ITL – Girl, all of our souls are undernourished…we’re human :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
6:06 pm

Thanks, Cel. :)