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Telltale signs of a booty call

There may come a time when you have to ask the tough question: Am I just a booty call? It would seem that this would be an easy thing to figure out, but alas..dating is not always easy.  Sometimes you have mixed signals, double talk, sweet talk, lip service (not the good kind), and plain old jedi mind tricks.

So what are the signs that let you know you are just there for entertainment?  Few people come out and say, “Hey you are just something to do until somebody else comes along” but their actions somewhat support that statement.

Guys do you know (or care?) when you are being considered only as the maintenance man?  Would you prefer to be told that it’s never going anywhere, so just enjoy the ride while it lasts?

What are the top telltale signs…you’re just a booty call?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

342 comments Add your comment

Letitia

July 13th, 2011
3:28 pm

No one invited me the wife

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:29 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:29 pm

BoneFish…..LOL

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:30 pm

Ah not tonight I’m the lone wolf.

So ummm…does that mean you’re gonna eat me like you did lil Red Riding Hood?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:30 pm

ITL, that’s right I don’t know. LOL

Letitia

July 13th, 2011
3:30 pm

May I bring the kids along as well. With your mistress and my lover?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:33 pm

Letitia who are you talking to?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:37 pm

LOL….@Black Coffy
What do you say after that? Feet don’t fail me now, let me lick you up and down, knees stop trembling, rush blood flow rush. I can keep going and going, and going like the energizer rabbit.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:38 pm

Purple I think that’s RandyT’s ex-wife who was here earlier……LOL

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
3:39 pm

Dang PR, am on a secure server and can’t look at my “family protrait”. Should I worry?

Also, is there some kind of women’s intuition that even if you haven’t heard about or from them in years they somehow know they should pop up just when you are truly moving on? I can’t believe I got blasted today from someone for telling stories of the days before I had ever even met her and didn’t walk the same walk I walk now. I’ve said many times on here that one day I realized I did not like the person that was looking back at me in the mirror and I changed. Then I tell a couple of stories from when I didn’t walk it straight and up they pop.

Dayum. Is it possible to love women and hate women at the same time.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
3:44 pm

Yup…right on the water!!! :)

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
3:44 pm

Any of you all been to Myrtle Beach? If so, any tips on things to do there that are fun & reasonable???

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:45 pm

“love women and hate women at the same time.”

RandyT when I tried that it ended with leaving my own house and a divorce….LOL

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
3:47 pm

Don’t worry Randy,all women are like that!

When you give a woman something that she likes(D-ck and trinkets) and then at some point,you withhold it,they are going to hound and want to bite your azz,just to get back atcha.

Just ignore it,that’s the best treatment.

(I thought u bought better and tougher T-shirts :lol: )

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:51 pm

I’ll be over to pick up the key. Or you can give it to me tonight at Bonefish! LOLOLOL We need a table for what, 12? You, me, Letitiia, Randy, his wife, her lover, MCH, Wifey, UGA, Dr. Phil, Oprah, and Dr. Kevorkian????

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
3:58 pm

ITL – Well, yall won’t need a big table because out of all those monikers, only 4 exist lol

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:00 pm

ITL?

u smoke(not cigarettes)?

any chic here that do?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:01 pm

LOL@Slim. Could you imagine telling the maitre d’ you need a table for 12 and only 4 show up??

Server: Excuse me, I have a call for Mr. Hammock.
MCH: I’ll take that at the bar
(5 minutes later)
Server: Excuse me, there’s a call for a Ms. Wifey
MCH: I’ll take that at the bar

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:01 pm

Slim?

u still smoking?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:02 pm

Ex – NO!! I don’t judge others if they indulge, but it’s not for me.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:03 pm

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
4:06 pm

ITL – :lol: Good one.

Exiled – Um…I don’t recall mentioning that I ever smoked. I live a drug free lifestyle aside from all the alcohol, ruffies, si-si-siserrrrrp, cigs, crank, coke, paint thinner, magic markers, helium, Vodka snorts, anti-freeze & other minor things lol j/k

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:07 pm

Letitia said no one invited her but she’s here any damn way….LOL
Now that’s a strong lady.

Better Led

July 13th, 2011
4:09 pm

Google article admittedly caught my attention – as you can tell from my lengthy response, I’m not a blogger…
After reviewing several comments, my thanks to each of you as I’m now even more thankful to having been married to same woman for 20Yrs… yes, she’s my soul mate.
Simply stated – even thought I’m as horney as the next guy, I don’t believe you can have a long term (loving) relationship w/ anyone unless you respect them. ‘Golden Rule’ may be in question for some of you – but I’m a believer in treating others as you would also want to be treated.
Only you can personally define your degree of respect, but having arbitrary sex -or- multiple mates at one time is short lived & typically leaves you empty looking for next conquest?!
Yes, it’s worth the search – Love to me is partly defined by sharing your inner-self w/out being overly critiqued / just being accepted (& loved) for who you are – warts & all.
Best of all, you know you’re truly blessed after 5+ years of marriage – realizing you love her/him more now than the day you got married.
Best wishes to each of you in search for your life long soul mate!!

P.S. Also recommend a partner w/ similar beliefs (Christian bias).

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:09 pm

ITL?

any crazy stuff u do then…..or u do it behind 4 walls..

Slim?
I’m surprised u don’t…

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:10 pm

Not sure that strong is the adjective I would have chosen, but okay, BF….we can go with strong….

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:10 pm

Don’t worry about a key…The Patio door is unlocked…Now is the alarm goes off, just be still and what ever you do, DON”T answer the door when the cops come…Just be still and dont turn on the lights…..

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
4:13 pm

Exiled – Why are you surprised I don’t?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:17 pm

Exiled, you trying to live vicariously through me?? :)

Um, yeah, thanks Simple, but I’ll pass. :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:18 pm

Randy it’s a safe picture. It’s a woman holding a baby with her husband. White lady with a black eye, holding a black baby and her white husband beside her.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:20 pm

ITL:
I know it should be brazen, I wanted to make her feel good so when she slap the hell out of RandyT she wont hit him too hard….LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:24 pm

Speaking of brazen, why do people feel the need to come on the blog and launch into a judmental diatribe about the bloggers and our conversations?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:28 pm

I thought Letitia was Simple Man’s wife. LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:28 pm

And one more thing….how is it that Better Led is ” thankful to having been married to same woman for 20Yrs” but yet says that “you’re truly blessed after 5+ years of marriage – realizing you love her/him more now than the day you got married.”

What about the other 15 years???? They were probably a big, pompous pile of nothing. Kind of like said post.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:29 pm

Letitia might be another one of his monikers, PR. LOLOL :)

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
4:30 pm

Slim?

I don’t know,I got u pegged somehow in my head.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

Damn..Purp…When did that happen????

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

SLIM…girl…I have been there. I feel for ya sis! Did you lose like 5lbs.? :lol:

BLACKFOOTE…you must have frequent flier miles……you can fly into LGA, JFK or ERW! LOL

SLIM…i have family in Myrtle Beach. They have replaced the the Pavillion amusement park with a new one called Skywheel if I am not mistaken. there are a cr@pload of mini golf courses. There are the go-kart tracks, Hard Rock has a nice atmospere. Oh if you like boats, there is a casino cruise that sails daily/nightly. Here is the link:

http://www.SunCruzcasino.com

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

LOL….@Purple and ITL y’all aint right.

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:32 pm

ITL…Not one of mine…:)

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

What about the other 15 years???? They were probably a big, pompous pile of nothing. Kind of like said post

and on that note….I just say have a good evening all! :-)

Ciao

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

Hell I still think the ITL is Simple man too. It’s always Simple Man. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:33 pm

Sexy Cool, Leggs wanted me to remind you to leave the EOD post.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
4:35 pm

BMW:
As Dick Tracy always say, I’m on my way….LOL
Why must I chase the cat, nothing but the dog in me.

TenderRoni

July 13th, 2011
4:35 pm

@PR- do you watch Californication?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:37 pm

Sorry, Lovely, and any other regular that I might have offended with my vent. I’m having a rough day, and things that I normally wouldn’t give a second thought are getting under my skin. smh….

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
4:38 pm

Purp, If I am ITL…would I be strange to spend any amount of time thinking about motor-boating my own boobies????

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:39 pm

Dang! Simple Man is everybody. Will the real Simple Man please stand up?!?!? :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
4:42 pm

Tender, no I have never watched it.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

I do, Tender. LOVE David Duchovny.