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Telltale signs of a booty call

There may come a time when you have to ask the tough question: Am I just a booty call? It would seem that this would be an easy thing to figure out, but alas..dating is not always easy.  Sometimes you have mixed signals, double talk, sweet talk, lip service (not the good kind), and plain old jedi mind tricks.

So what are the signs that let you know you are just there for entertainment?  Few people come out and say, “Hey you are just something to do until somebody else comes along” but their actions somewhat support that statement.

Guys do you know (or care?) when you are being considered only as the maintenance man?  Would you prefer to be told that it’s never going anywhere, so just enjoy the ride while it lasts?

What are the top telltale signs…you’re just a booty call?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
1:51 pm

Thx Blackefoote…it ended one night when I was sick, and she brought up how good her ex-husband had been all night long. I cared very deeply for her, but I felt like she had this lifesize picture of her husband with just the face cut out, and I was supposed to stick mine in. She was looking for someone just like him, and I guess I could never be that. Shame because I adored her and her children. Dated but mostly focussed on my career since then and intentionally kept my distance until just lately. Strange how my new lady’s ex and mine should reappear in the same week. I always try to learn from every relationship but still not sure what to take away from that one…thought it was going to work. Guess not. What I don’t understand about women could fill many volumes.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
1:56 pm

@Blackfoote – YES! :)

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
1:57 pm

ITL…I am first in line !!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:01 pm

“What I don’t understand about women could fill many volumes”

RandyT the parts you can’t fill in I can supply the rest but they are so loved……LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:01 pm

You sure about that, Simp? You might get a call for an emergency Jiffy Lube….. LOL

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:05 pm

Call it community service…Did my part to insure that all those good vibes from the concert did not go to waste….From this do forward..I promise..the only late night calls I will take will be from you….

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
2:05 pm

Hey, hey, hey….I know i’m all late & yall done posted too much for me to catch up and read. So I’ll just jump in all willy nilly

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:08 pm

Whats good Slim1….Bad sushi for lunch????

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:09 pm

Slim, sorry your tunkin feels icky. :(

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:09 pm

Call it community service…Did my part to insure that all those good vibes from the concert did not go to waste….

I’m sure there was ALOT of that going on last night…wonder if there’ll be a surge in Atl. population in ~9 months or so ;-)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:11 pm

Community service??? LOL

Blackfoote: Hey, man, you wanna go to this event with me after work and check out the ladies?
SM: Nah, man…I got a ticket and gotta do my community service
BF: Dude, that sucks. They got you picking up trash or what?
SM: Nah..I gotta go bang this chick after she gets home from Sade.

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
2:11 pm

What’s up with murder suicides? What’s up with jilted dudes killing girlfriends/wives then killing themselves?

There are some real punk dudes out there!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:15 pm

Hi Slim1
LOL….@ITL
Simple I know you wish you could erase your first post…..LOL

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:18 pm

Think about it like this…Sade and John Legend put it down and we got a venue full women and most of their vision has been impaired from all of the Tasty paste that has built up during the concert…They have to get on teh road and drive all over the city…Now Because I am a good citizen and I look out for the well being of me fellow Atlantans, i did what was needed to make sure that the slickness running down her leg did not cause her foot to slip from teh brake..possibly causing an accident that may have hurt somebody…..The way I see it, i risked my personal well being to save a stranger….That has to be worth something….. :)

kimmie

July 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Simple – You go on then, you Soldier of Love!!! :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Yep I wish I could turn that Black Coffy into milk shake. Wait a minute I can, I can.

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
2:20 pm

Simple & ITL – I went out to eat day before yesterday and ever since i’ve been feeling nasty. BG’s aka bubble guts…so i’m hoping today is the final day of excretion lol…plus the heat has not made it any easier to deal with

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
2:23 pm

Bubble Guts are a curse from the Devil….

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:33 pm

There are some real punk dudes out there!

yes there are…what’s worse is when they kill children as well…punks

Wait a minute I can, I can.

You know it’s been a while and Bermuda is sooo faaaaar awaaaaay…so don’t tease me I’m fragile n sensitive right now :oops: :mrgreen:

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:36 pm

plus the heat has not made it any easier to deal with

Damn Slim Nu…I’m trying not to laugh but that last line almost got me. Hope this is the last day of you having to deal with that…oh and please stay hydrated so you don’t faint in this muggy azz heat. The last thing we need is some stranger tryna give you mouth to mouth…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:41 pm

Please me don’t tease me, when I’m bad I’m so so bad. Be bad this wolf can take it yes he can.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:41 pm

Poor Slim. I’ll repeat what Coffy said – stay WELL hydrated and stay out of the heat. I hope you are at home….

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
2:44 pm

Slim got a loose booty? Whole new meaning to booty call.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
2:47 pm

LOL….@Purple
A loose booty call.

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
2:47 pm

Ewww, Purp. Funny, but ewwwww….

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
2:47 pm

BLACKFOOTE….you get a time out! :lol Well I do have Rouge Lil Red Riding Hood costume! ;-)

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
2:50 pm

PR got jokes :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hope you feel better soon Slim, esp in this heat :-(

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
2:52 pm

Black Coffy – Chile folks at work have been joking on my since yesterday. I actually left work early Tuesday but came on in today. They’ve been calling me Stankalank, Stanky booty, asking me if I Sharted (a sh!tty fart) etc…So it’s all good. On my way home I texted one of my co-workers and told them I almost pulled over and used the bathroom on the side of the road but I saw a sign for Illegal Dumping & changed my mind. lol

Purp – I don’t even have anything left. :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
2:54 pm

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:56 pm

Well I do have Rouge Lil Red Riding Hood costume!

Well I’ve got an itty bitty nurse’s uniform and a “cowgirl” themed costume(WITH riding crop)…but a lil Red Riding Hood costume isn’t a bad idea. Hmmm lemme think…

Blackfoote you readin like you need to be seen ;-) I ain’t mad though…I’m going to see Sade tonight and pray I won’t be making any phone calls myself afterward… Must stay strong…must!

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
2:57 pm

I almost pulled over and used the bathroom on the side of the road but I saw a sign for Illegal Dumping & changed my mind.

:lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
2:58 pm

illegal dumping? To Funny!

SlimNu - my tummy feels funny ;-(

July 13th, 2011
3:05 pm

Sorry for all the TMI but I saw that the booty call topic had fizzled out already. ;-)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:07 pm

fizzled out of your loose booty

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:08 pm

No worries Slim Nu…hope you feel better.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:11 pm

BMW and Black Coffy:
Since you lady’s will be wearing the Red Riding Hood and Cowgirl suits I need to come see y’all. To spank one and make milk shakes with the other….LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:12 pm

What was the guy doing when he discovered that you could get milk from cow…and drink it

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:15 pm

He invented the slurpee……LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:20 pm

Oh yeah I like my Black Coffy strong since you (brought it up)…….LOL

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:20 pm

make milk shakes with the other….

myyyy milkshake brings all the boys to the yard…

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:21 pm

I need a vacation. Would anyone like to donate their miles so that I can go to Tahiti? Or Bora Bora?

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:22 pm

LOL@Coffy – that song was runnin’ through my head, too.

Lovely Brown

July 13th, 2011
3:22 pm

What was the guy doing when he discovered that you could get milk from cow…and drink it

What did he say to make other people want to try it :lol:

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
3:23 pm

ITL..I can’t get you that far West, But I do own a Condo in South Texes thats Great for a 3 or 4 day get away!!! :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:23 pm

I wonder what people were doing when a lot of things were invented or discovered.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
3:24 pm

I like my Black Coffy strong

I aim to pleeeease :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
3:25 pm

You two should meet at BoneFish first. LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:26 pm

Simple, if it’s close to a body of water, it’s worth considering. :)

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
3:27 pm

LOL@Purp. How do you know we haven’t??? :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
3:27 pm

“myyyy milkshake brings all the boys to the yard…”

Ah not tonight I’m the lone wolf.