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Telltale signs of a booty call

There may come a time when you have to ask the tough question: Am I just a booty call? It would seem that this would be an easy thing to figure out, but alas..dating is not always easy.  Sometimes you have mixed signals, double talk, sweet talk, lip service (not the good kind), and plain old jedi mind tricks.

So what are the signs that let you know you are just there for entertainment?  Few people come out and say, “Hey you are just something to do until somebody else comes along” but their actions somewhat support that statement.

Guys do you know (or care?) when you are being considered only as the maintenance man?  Would you prefer to be told that it’s never going anywhere, so just enjoy the ride while it lasts?

What are the top telltale signs…you’re just a booty call?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

342 comments Add your comment

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:01 pm

PR – Yes, I do know :)

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
12:04 pm

But ITL…Honey…..:( :( :(
I need your e-mail so I don’t have to resort to begging in public :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:05 pm

Purple and Celisea:
Don’t y’all want to close the door and pull the shade down…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:07 pm

LOL….@Simple Man
I don’t see nothing wrong with begging every now and then……LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:08 pm

Blackfoote – Naaah, we’re good….ain’t their right PR

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:09 pm

that nor their…I’m on 2 calls

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:09 pm

Yeah we are good, plus I am a Day Walker as well.

cba

July 13th, 2011
12:09 pm

PR, kudos for atleast finding another station. Awhile back, you said you were not going to change station. Recently, an elderly gentleman (74) told me there will always be two obstacles, Desire and the Devil.
You have an infant and another on the way plus that 2000 acres to tend to. In most states, your wife will get half. That has helped me to stay married for 30 yrs :lol:
Side note: The large farms I were around as a kid, the farmers had atleast 250 gallon tanks of fuel for their tractors and equipment. But I think it mostly diesel.
Good luck, I hope you don’t break.

Somewhere out there

July 13th, 2011
12:10 pm

@RandyT – Your comments and thoughts are so disgusting.Thought you gave up blogging. The exact reason you are still alone. And your last LTR did not go back to her ex. Wake up. That is why your date last week made up the story about her ex, to get rid of you.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:11 pm

cba, it depends on what your crop and who you sell it to. That determines if you can have underground fuel cells, geography does also. I am not going to break, :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:16 pm

RandyT I think your ex-wife just came on the blog, don’t turn your back to her.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
12:20 pm

That is why your date last week made up the story about her ex, to get rid of you.

:shock:

well damn

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:21 pm

LOL..ut uh, Randy has a fanemy. He never get those. Wow

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:24 pm

Randyt, LOL you are someones focus.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:26 pm

RandyT did say he wanted to piss somebody off today, it didn’t take him long…..LOL

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
12:27 pm

Dang, Randyt…. :)

MzNewy

July 13th, 2011
12:30 pm

Wow…”Fire in the hole” dang that shot at Randy came outta nowhere…even though it was somewhere out there….bang…

Lemme get outta the line of fire lol

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:32 pm

Blog sniper on attack

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:32 pm

Well what I have learned is to not do private quarters. Do not invite them to your home and do not go to theirs. This is the way to avoid being put in that position (or any position for that matter). If the guy thinks you are trying to make them your Food-h0, pay your own way. Then, he can either move on because you deserve better than what he is, or he can get to know you for you ebcause you are not banging like bunnies! Only hang out in public. It’s a shame because two grown folks can’t be alone without the guy thinking, “oh we’re alone, she wants me.” Then proceed to put you in an awkward position of shutting them down, or going along with it,not really wanting to. When you do the latter, men tend become babies. Instead of just taking no for an answer…it’s like a screaming baby. You give it a paicfier to get it to shut the hell up. Well, in the adult world, Pacier Sex (Puddy Pacifier) is what can happen. Some losers are ok with getting their rocks off that way. But I know I would want a partner who wants it just as much as I do. Newflash, if a woman wants to sleep with you, you do not have to persuade or coerce her! She is already there and ready. I am not saying to nix the foreplay. But just stop thinking with your little head so much so you can tell the difference. Just because its wet, doesn’t mean she wants you. Heck, if you mess with something long enough on the human body, it will react….common sense 101. If she says no, then no is no! Get over it. Don’t proceed to “convince” her that she is h0rny! You will end up with sex that she closes her eyes for not because she is enjoying it..but she is zoned out thinking of better things because it will be over in 2 minutes anyway. If you are loking for a booty call, then find a woman who is looking for the same. Stop lying and gaming those who are looking for something real. You are only creating the “bitter or crazy” chicks you guys complain about. For every one of those chicks, there were a few guys who help her to get that way!

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:33 pm

You are only creating the “bitter or crazy” chicks you guys complain about. For every one of those chicks, there were a few guys who help her to get that way!

True true

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
12:34 pm

“Blog sniper”….that cracked me up, Cel. :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:35 pm

Black Coffy no sugar no cream if I drunk it, that’s the way I like it. All that sweet stuff must be built in.

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:39 pm

PURPLE….stop letting your fangs come out! You left the holes in my neck! :lol: You know I loves me some vampires. I guess that makes me a Fang Banger! :lol: You know I have that T-shirt. When I wear it I get so many laughs!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:40 pm

BMW, all I got from that book that you just posted was that you were wet and wanted to meet at a hotel. Am I right?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:41 pm

BMW, where can I get one of those t-shirts? I did not get the last episode that much, it was kind of slow imo

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:42 pm

ITL – :)

BMW – I’m working with PR with his fang problem and keeping them retracted. If not we’re going to have to see if we can have them removed altogether.

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:44 pm

Did Randy leave for real?

Exiled!

July 13th, 2011
12:44 pm

On the real tip,who in particular, are u Really ticked off by BMW?

who f-cked u that good,played u, and u f-cked him good too only to realize u were being played..

what’s his name?????

Leggs

July 13th, 2011
12:45 pm

Oh boy!

Good time for me to blog off. Hope each and everyone behaves themselves. Let loose on Friday.

@PR ~ remind SC to put the EOD out today. I’m going on vacation. See you on Tuesday!

@ITL ~ behave yourself, but what fun is in that?!?

PEACE!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
12:46 pm

LOL….@BMW
When are you coming back to the A? You need a spanking…..LOL

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 13th, 2011
12:46 pm

All that sweet stuff must be built in.

and indeed it is papi ;-)

BMW your whole 12:32 should’ve been bolded big time cause that’s real talk right there. The boy toy I had got like that when I broke it off with him…even though he knew I’d say no he’d still ask anyway…ol dumb azz. It got kinda comical after a while…it’s like how many ways can I say no before it clicks that I really mean NO…

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
12:47 pm

I’ve been the booty call before and I had no issue with it. The lady was going through a divorce and didn’t want to get attached to anybody. I would come over, we did our thing, and I went home. She even convinced me to come to her job one day to get broken off. Aah, those were the days.

I see we have some True Blood fans on here. I damn near died last week when Pam said: “You have 24 hours to find Eric. If you don’t, I will eat, f**k, and kill all 3 of you!” LMAO!!!!

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:47 pm

PURPLE…yep! Come meet me at the Time Square Marriott! :lol:
I have a couple of the shirts, I have the Merlotte’s shirt and Fangtasia shirt as well. I got mine on here:
http://shop.ebay.com/i.html?_from=R40&_trksid=p5197.m570.l1313&_nkw=True+Blood+tshirts&_sacat=See-All-Categories

This Sunday’s epeisode was pretty good. But a bit slow. I wonder if Jason will be a were panther. Dude was pumped full of viagra and done by every dirtball trash chick in the clan! That shoudl make him never want sex again! :lol: He is the sherriff, can he report that he was raped by a gang of female? :shock:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
12:54 pm

BMW, you see the little kid that was threatening to cutt off Jason wang if he didnt have sex with her? I am going to get me a fangbanger t-shirt The Sheriff is all hoped up on V. Sookie is starting to be a wuss to me. LOL

DJ, when Pam said that I was like “oohhhh” I like her!

Celisea, do you plan on checking your email today?

Did Randy say he was leaving? That took some balls to say that he could have possibly banged a 15 year old. That dude that was 51 married a 16 year old a few weeks back. And to quote Riley from the Boondocks about the R. Kelly Case. “I saw the video and that girl was not little” LOL

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:55 pm

PR – I don’t have any emails today…did you send?

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
12:55 pm

BMW, That horse chick that Sam was chasing is soooooo fine!!! :)
(Not as fine as My sweety ITL, But still)

Celisea

July 13th, 2011
12:56 pm

Okay…just got it

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 13th, 2011
12:56 pm

DJ Sniper….You have 24 hours to find Eric. If you don’t, I will eat, f**k, and kill all 3 of you!” LMAO!!!!

I d@mn near died when she said that! :lol: You know Pam will do anything with or without a pulse, male, female or dazed and confused! :lol:

Now that Eric, or Alcide…I’d do them 10 ways from Sunday, on their mama’s kitchen table! :shock: Oops, did I just say that outloud? :lol:

EXILED…this happened in my distant pass when I was younger and a bit green as to the BS of men! best believe that now, I can be celibate for a very long period of time and will let a dude he gets none and if he tries me, he will see my other personalities come out. And that can be ugly! Granted it’s been a very long time for me…so I feel for the poor sap that I decide to do the horizontal mambo with! :lol:

BLACKFOOTE….boy you had better watch it now…it might be you! GRRRRRR :lol:

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
1:06 pm

Simple, you are so on point about that chick Luna. We need to see more of her, preferrable naked. And I’m assuming that Rutina Wesley(Tara) has a no nudity clause in her contract, because I have yet to see any a** or t**s from her. That clause needs to be stricken ASAP dammit! lmao

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
1:09 pm

DJ, did you miss the lesbo scene with Tara? We got to see some bare t*ts and a little a**

Simple Man....

July 13th, 2011
1:10 pm

Ther you go DJ…Tara is so fine, I might fight my way thru the circle of witchs if I can be sure she would be waiting on the otherside…

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
1:11 pm

PR, I caught that scene. I was hoping and praying that the bra and panties would find their way on the floor. Alas, to no avail. lol

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

July 13th, 2011
1:12 pm

@ Somewhere…for the record, I don’t think that way about you/her. I come on once in awhile, and I leave for long periods. I am sorry I have offended you. And for the record, my last LTR left me numerous times, and did not know that I had pneumonia and was sick for weeks after from something I caught overseas that last time. So you know maybe you can tell her. Tell her I hope she is happy and found what she waas looking for.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
1:14 pm

Tara’s girlfriend is nice! So is that trashy panther chick for some reason.

Leggs, have a great trip and come back with stories that you can’t tell!

DJ Sniper

July 13th, 2011
1:19 pm

Yes, her gf is pretty damn hot as well. Crystal is also kinda cute, in a trailer park trash kinda way. lol

If True Blood has nothing else, they always have hot women!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
1:32 pm

BMW:
Let it be, let it be. Don’t feel sorry I’m a good wolf.
BMW: Blackwolf what big eyes you have
BlackWolf: So I may see all those curves my dear
BMW: Blackwolf your hands are so big
Blackwolf: to grip you better my dear
BWM: Blackwolf whats that in your lap
Blackwolf: don’t worry its’ a treat for you my dear
BMW: Blackwolf tell me what’s in your lap
Blackwolf: sit here and I will tell you my dear

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2011
1:36 pm

Lol@ The Big Bad Wolf!

Into the Light

July 13th, 2011
1:40 pm

Somebody e me when y’all are finished with True Blood talk. I’m behind, and don’t want to spoil any surprises….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
1:40 pm

You allright RandyT man she came in blew her steam and disappeared. Do you need a security escort? Me and the fellas will watch your back.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 13th, 2011
1:46 pm

ITL
Somebody need to e you? What eat you, excite you, expell you, entice you, exempt you, expect you, exam you……LOL