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Experiencing post-hook up weirdness?

My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.

Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.

Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?

Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?

Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?

Do you act differently afterwards?

439 comments Add your comment

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
3:10 pm

I wanna enjoy the smell, the taste, the interaction, the sounds….

Simple I think I heart you a little bit after reading that..

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
3:12 pm

Hey, Blackfoote.

Swiss, strange things for sure.

Simple, if I didn’t like her I would not be doing the do with her. LOL

Leggs

July 8th, 2011
3:19 pm

@SC ~ did you receive the IPad?

Casey Anthony

July 8th, 2011
3:21 pm

Well, once I realized the size, it was too late to turn back. I tried to make the most of it, but d@mn!!! Now, he’s married to a beautiful woman and I just don’t understand it. He’s a jerk and small on top of that…that woman must not have much experience…

Jennifer Lopez (It's my Beauty not my Booty)

July 8th, 2011
3:23 pm

Oh wow! I see I missed a lot today! Let’s see, I hate doing the walk of shame. But who gives a dayum if people know I am just getting in at 8AM from a night of hair pulling, butt smacking, say my name and who’s my b**ch type sex? I just don’t want to be seen looking busted! :lol:

I want a guy to go home after sex. I do not want to spoon. Because when I am ready to sleep, get off me! My bed is big enough for us not to touch. But if you snore, you will geta foot in your butt to push you out of the bed. Then I will usher you to the couch, guest room or out of my home! and no, I will not make you breakfast! There is a Mickey Dee’s in every neighborhood. :evil: :lol:

Casey Anthony

July 8th, 2011
3:24 pm

My current s/o and I joke about it all the time!!! Anytime we run into something (anything) that is small, we call it the “insert guy’s name here”. Lucky, I got a good one now!

For Real

July 8th, 2011
3:29 pm

What up Blog Fam!!! What’s with the different names?

For Real now wondering if he has been blogging with MCH/Wifey all this time.

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
3:46 pm

Ms Lopez is BMW.

Casey Anthony your last two post do not make any sense.

For Real, yeah dude you may have a limp wrist bro. Want a B.A.B. t-shirt?

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
3:51 pm

@For Real?

If we got different names that means we may not be ‘ur’ family…the fam u know..

U lost homie…

WilFred

July 8th, 2011
3:52 pm

Toni- me love are ya still here ?

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
3:58 pm

He’s a jerk and small on top of that…that woman must not have much experience…

She either has a side piece or a B.O.B.(battery operated boyfriend)….

Jennifer Lopez (It's my Beauty not my Booty)

July 8th, 2011
4:01 pm

Purple Rain….you know me so well! What gave me away? :lol:

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
4:05 pm

Jennifer?

what gave u away…ofcourse your A1+ bootey

:lol:

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
4:05 pm

Ms Lopez, when you said butt smacking and pulling you hair….I just remembered the last person to say that to me that made me go to Mickey Dees afterwards :)

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
4:08 pm

Is Levi exiled?

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
4:11 pm

does Exile write good English?

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
4:17 pm

LOL, I guess not. That was the funniest thing typed today!

TenderRoni

July 8th, 2011
4:19 pm

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
4:24 pm

How young are u TenderRoni?

busy or occupied this week end?

vacancy much?

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
4:29 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 8th, 2011
4:29 pm

Nobody guessed who I was well I am a wolf.

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
4:32 pm

maybe we can feel the breeze, roll the trees or listen to a symphony……

Y’all have a good weekend, Ciao!

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
4:38 pm

I have a date to water my garden so yea,it’s gonna be a good weekend.

Absolutely!

Monday,I switch back to regular blogging ID

Lauren Hill

July 8th, 2011
4:43 pm

Since I’m pregnant AGAIN I guess I won’t be writing any music or smoking any weed this weekend…But I can spend the ENTIRE weekend washing my hair!!!!

Jennifer Lopez (It's my Beauty not my Booty)

July 8th, 2011
4:48 pm

PURPLE….OMG….that was a good one! :lol:

LAUREN HILL…you are going to hell in a cheap handbag for that one! :lol:

Oh, I am off to have my weekly booty exfoliation. Gotta keep it soft since the world see it on tv all the time! :lol:

Casey Anthony

July 8th, 2011
4:49 pm

Purple…if you saw my previous posts, than it would make sense.

eNUf!!

July 8th, 2011
4:49 pm

sometimes stupidity never ends *kanye shrug*

Into the Light

July 8th, 2011
4:50 pm

It started raining. :(
I’m co signing coffy’s post re: Simple’s comment.

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
4:51 pm

Lauren?

do u still maintain the Bob Marley son!?

He just gives u babies..that’s all he do

eating,f-cking,eating,f-cking

U

Lauren Hill

July 8th, 2011
4:52 pm

Sir some of us life the simple life…..and love can feed my entire family

Lauren Hill

July 8th, 2011
4:53 pm

oops live the simple life

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
4:57 pm

Lauren

yea when u blow that puff u see no evil

Rastafari Jah!

Simple Man...

July 8th, 2011
5:04 pm

ITL & Coffy = :D :) :D

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
5:10 pm

Have a good weekend, next Friday we will all use the same name as each other. Becaue today was a cluster. LOL

Into the Light

July 8th, 2011
5:24 pm

Have a good weekend, all.

Beverly Hall

July 9th, 2011
7:52 pm

I make one mistake and now everyone is attacking.
As this blog clearly indicates…everyone cheats.

No Hookumup

July 9th, 2011
10:10 pm

How casually you all ‘hook up”. Back in my younger hippie days, we called it free love, but what you all are talking about doesn’t seem to have any loving involved. Just hook up like a nut and bolt…sounds awfully cold to me.

Jon

July 10th, 2011
7:09 am

Worst paper ever. Worst article ever

Hookup

July 10th, 2011
7:24 am

I don’t like it when chicks leave stuff laying around after they leave then another chick sees it and gets mad, especially underwear under the covers.