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Experiencing post-hook up weirdness?

My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.

Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.

Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?

Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?

Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?

Do you act differently afterwards?

439 comments Add your comment

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
2:00 pm

…..so many factors to consider…

Like??

@Slim…….—————-

Simple Man...

July 8th, 2011
2:00 pm

Slim, any dude that tell you there is no such thing as bad puddy, has not had that much puddy…..I always want to put on a good performance when its time to get down..Not sure if I will call “pressure” but I always want to make the time and effort invested is worth it….

Toni Braxton

July 8th, 2011
2:04 pm

WilFred – Love shoulda brought yo ass home last night…no shag last night…no shag today. Oh and if you hadn’t noticed, Carrie don’t live here anymo either.

kimmie

July 8th, 2011
2:05 pm

I am Sade!

I was off on most. Who was Jill Scott – I thought that was Leggs?

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:07 pm

Levi – Factors being Length, Width, Shape, (long and skinny, short and fat, long and fat, shaped like a torpedo, shaped like a canteen, shaped like an ice cream cone – wide at the top, skinny at the bottom) Then with all those factors, then comes the wave and thrusts….It’s like an oar controlling the boat which will depend on the flow and direction you go in…

Simple – What if you don’t even really like the chick, do you still put forth real effort or are you just using her as a life-sized hand?

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
2:10 pm

those are female factors that affect females,as in your original post?

Hmmmmmmmmmmm

WilFred

July 8th, 2011
2:11 pm

What the cuss Toni? Didn’t see it was you me love. Alright then. Have it your way I’ll be over at 8.

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
2:11 pm

What’s the topic?

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
2:11 pm

Sardines are for eating. If a woman open her legs and there is a sardine fishy scent I will go back to the Dusk to Dawn set to hook it with the vampire chicks. George are you coming dude?

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:12 pm

The topic is You baby…

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
2:16 pm

Fred I am having so much fun here I don’t want to see Quentin right now. You go ahead and I will catch you later I think I see Toni Braxton.

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
2:17 pm

Slim is a hemarphrodite…..

length,short and fat,long and fat,skinny at the top,shaped like a torpedo….

Female factors…….

:shock:

Ur nether looks real gross! :lol:

Into the Light

July 8th, 2011
2:18 pm

It’s sunny here. Not sure, simple…… :)

Lovely Brown

July 8th, 2011
2:19 pm

Who was Jill Scott – I thought that was Leggs?

I was Jill Scott. I thought Leggs was Carrie B.

WilFred

July 8th, 2011
2:20 pm

Slim is a hemarphrodite…..

“Blimey”

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
2:21 pm

Slim you forgot one the Peyronies disease guy. You know the C shape how would a woman like that?

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:21 pm

Levi – Go somehere and play with your johnson. You wouldn’t know what a perfect nether region looked like if it came and sat on your face. :mrgreen:

Leggs

July 8th, 2011
2:22 pm

I was Nia then switched to Alfre Woodard.

Ha ha ha, kimmie didn’t know who I is!!!

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
2:24 pm

Bristol has the perfect pudsy!

BAM!

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:24 pm

George – I like to call that the ‘GONZO’ :lol:

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
2:24 pm

Factors being Length, Width, Shape, (long and skinny, short and fat, long and fat, shaped like a torpedo, shaped like a canteen, shaped like an ice cream cone – wide at the top, skinny at the bottom)

SlimNu you forgot “the hook”…that can make a he11 of a difference, trust me ;-)

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:25 pm

Casey Anthony

July 8th, 2011
2:25 pm

It’s not even so bad that he was tiny, it’s that he had no skills!!!! He just kind of laid there. I was like “is it in?” I’ve been with a small man before, but he knew he was and took care of me in many other ways!

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
2:26 pm

I like to call that the ‘GONZO’

:shock:

please, please don’t let it rain…

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:28 pm

‘Slim is a hemarphrodite…..”

Yup and the sad part about it is my wang is bigger than yours ;-)

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
2:28 pm

Coffy don’t you worry bout a thing I got your hook, crook, and flail.

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
2:30 pm

Dern Slim, yours is bigger than his. I’m crying.

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
2:33 pm

Fred man I thought you were gone. Tell Quentin if he don’t renegotiate my contract he can kiss Brad’s ass.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
2:34 pm

It’s not even so bad that he was tiny, it’s that he had no skills!!!!

You’re more fogiving than I am cause I would’ve been out as soon as I realized he had a baby sized you know what…

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
2:36 pm

I got your hook, crook, and flail

oooh don’t tease me Black Ceasar…flail,huh? It’s serious like that?!

SlimNu

July 8th, 2011
2:37 pm

That has to be such a hard life to be a man and have a little beenie weenie for a wang. Even with the best personality, he will always have a great potential for another dude to knock his woman off his block. lol

I’m small and was not blessed with any frontside or backside but to have no wang would be a struggle…walking around scared to argue with your woman bc you know the first thing that’s going to come out of her mouth.

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
2:42 pm

Coffy I am a serious man everybody knows that. Bring that thing here I want some more.

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
2:43 pm

Slim?!

Bless your heart,u small,slim but Deep….

the deep Slim well

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
2:44 pm

And if I can’t get what I want there’s gonna Hell Up In Harlem.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
2:45 pm

Bring that thing here I want some more.

meeeeeeeooooooowwww…..

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
2:47 pm

Hey Fred lets roll, Carrie stood me up imagine that.

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
2:49 pm

For us guys,the most disappointing thing is to find no grip on that salad.

a puffy,wet and soggy landing with no pull/grip on the Johnson is such a blah……

Worse if her buttocks sag…u hold them but u feel like u drowning…(help!) (help!)..
:lol:

Waste of my Damn Time!

Lovely Brown

July 8th, 2011
2:49 pm

walking around scared to argue with your woman bc you know the first thing that’s going to come out of her mouth

yup….go straight for the jugular :lol:

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
2:50 pm

Sorry George..Fred ain’t goin ’cause he got some work to do..real serious bizness.

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
2:53 pm

Sorry Charlie, I mean George I can not leave at this moment. Me and Coffy got some business to take care of. You can go catch Charlie he’s with two women and a toy.

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
2:57 pm

George – I didn’t stand you up…you tried to slip some knock off Manolo’s pass me.

i'm swiss™

July 8th, 2011
2:58 pm

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
3:03 pm

Carrie baby nothing is suppose to be knock off from Rodeo Dr. Must have been the limo drivers.

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
3:04 pm

Honeyamber

July 8th, 2011
3:05 pm

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Balckfoote:

July 8th, 2011
3:06 pm

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i'm swiss™

July 8th, 2011
3:06 pm

‘Sup, Purp. Strange goings on in here today, I see…. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real blackfoote

July 8th, 2011
3:07 pm

Can I at least spell my name right…..LOL

Simple Man...

July 8th, 2011
3:07 pm

“What if you don’t even really like the chick,”

Slim, Even under those circumstances, I still make it a point to do my thing, because If I just wanna catch one, I will do it myself…If I am going to make the effort to roll like that, Then I wanna really enjoy it… Sex for me is not just about catching a nut…I wanna enjoy the smell, the taste, the interaction, the sounds…. I wanna enjoy sex the same way I go to Chops for a steak instead of O’Charlies….

Blackfoote: The Real blackfoote

July 8th, 2011
3:08 pm

Hey folks:
Enjoy Your Weekend