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Experiencing post-hook up weirdness?

My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.

Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.

Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?

Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?

Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?

Do you act differently afterwards?

439 comments Add your comment

Angela Bassett

July 8th, 2011
12:56 pm

Ron Burgundy is Dreams

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:57 pm

Angela….way off.

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
12:57 pm

Who dat done called me out….lol Dammit Angela. Don’t you have some clothes you need to cut up, a car that needs to be burned or some young tender roni for you to get your groove back with? lol

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
12:57 pm

Hey Carrie what are you doing?

Ron Burgundy

July 8th, 2011
12:58 pm

Angela Basset — I believe you have a typo there. While I am dreamy, and most certainly appear in your dreams, I am not Dreams. I’m Ron Burgundy. You stay classy, Angie.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:59 pm

I always know who my baby is! :)

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
1:00 pm

Ok, is it time for everyone to go back to their original monikers and say who we were????

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
1:02 pm

Yeah I think so this is getting annoying.

UGA 1999

July 8th, 2011
1:02 pm

Matthew mcconaughey

Ron Burgundy

July 8th, 2011
1:02 pm

Alfrie — I have no idea what you’re talking about. Where’s my scotch?

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
1:03 pm

Alfre I will do anything you say lets make a movie today.

Ron Mexico!

July 8th, 2011
1:04 pm

My herpes is gone!

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:04 pm

I pulled a MCH/WIFEY….So I was

CARRIE BRADSHAW
WHITNEY HOUSTON
OPRAH
DR SEUSS

:D

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
1:05 pm

Tito and Michelles Obamas

Purple Rain

July 8th, 2011
1:05 pm

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
1:07 pm

Lovely I am ;-)

Whateva whateva whateva whateva babyyyyy….I know why this song is playing in my head today

:-)

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:08 pm

Ron Burgunday I heard you were something like a big deal :lol:

Angela Bassett

July 8th, 2011
1:09 pm

You stay classy, Angie.

Always BooBoo

Leggs

July 8th, 2011
1:09 pm

I was Nia Long and the infamous Alfrie Woodard.

SlimNU ~ I had you down as Carrie on my paper.

Celisea

July 8th, 2011
1:10 pm

Yaaaah Slim and Celisea are here

Sanaa Lathan

July 8th, 2011
1:11 pm

Celisea

July 8th, 2011
1:11 pm

Sooo I war right…Slim being Carrie and Leggs being Nia

I was Angela Bassett

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:13 pm

I wonder what gave me away as far as Carrie goes…

Leggs

July 8th, 2011
1:13 pm

Dang, Celisea. Didn’t think that was you.

Celisea

July 8th, 2011
1:14 pm

Yep, that was me.

Slim – writing style

Ron Burgundy

July 8th, 2011
1:14 pm

Slim — I am sort of a big deal, thanks for noticing. There’s something I want to tell you, Slim. I want to be on you. No wait, that didn’t come out right. I want to have sex with you, as long as there’s no cuddling required afterwards.

Celisea

July 8th, 2011
1:14 pm

Same thing Leggs…writing style gave you away

Marlo Stansfield aka "Mr Sticky Chin"

July 8th, 2011
1:15 pm

Simple Man…I was also Bubby Bexly

Into the Light

July 8th, 2011
1:15 pm

Hey y’all! I see I missed all the moniker fun. Sorry I’m late…..

Simple Man...

July 8th, 2011
1:17 pm

What happened to you this morning ITL??? Got Hung up listening to Gerald and Will??? :)

Into the Light

July 8th, 2011
1:18 pm

Off today…..yippee!

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
1:18 pm

Side note: Please,please don’t let it rain….please

Ladies/Fellas are we adding any chapters to thr blog edition of The Zane Chronicles today?…

Into the Light

July 8th, 2011
1:20 pm

Something like that, Simple… I’m actually at the pool. :)

Lovely Brown

July 8th, 2011
1:21 pm

Jill Scott

All of my guesses were wrong, oh well! :lol:

Leggs

July 8th, 2011
1:23 pm

@Celisea ~ I know. That’s why I switched to Alfre.

SimpleM ~ I guessed you immediately!

UGA 1999

July 8th, 2011
1:26 pm

ITL…I am heading to the lake…I love the water.

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
1:26 pm

Well I must’ve been hell-a-obvious since I got called out first…

Casey Anthony

July 8th, 2011
1:29 pm

I once had a hook up that was so bad, that right after it was done, I went to th bathroom, got cleaned up, got dressed and said “see ya”! Usually, I don’t ever have bad sex, but he was tiny and I put on an Oscar worthy show. It was the first time I felt like I was the guy!!!

UGA 1999

July 8th, 2011
1:31 pm

Casey…ok THAT was funny!

Leggs

July 8th, 2011
1:32 pm

It was Coffy! Heck, I got called out after 2 posts (I think).

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:40 pm

It definitely looks like the skies may shed some tears….a perfect time to sit back while I eat my sammich and read some more Blog Sex Chronicals…ok, who’s up first? lol (

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
1:41 pm

Usually, I don’t ever have bad sex, but he was tiny

Yuck!….d**k is like a box of chocolates…you never know whatchu gone get :???:

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:43 pm

Off topic: Nene Leaks son needs to be stripped down nekkid and beat with hard spaghetti noodles for stealing razors from Walmark

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:46 pm

Yuck!….d**k is like a box of chocolates…you never know whatchu gone get

You’re right…it may appear to be some nice firm toffee but once you indulge you find yourself wrapped in soft caramel or even more soft nugget wack! lol

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
1:47 pm

He sure does Slim Nu!!

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
1:49 pm

once you indulge you find yourself wrapped in soft caramel or even more soft nugget wack!

that’s the kinda stuff that makes you mad as heyal… You’re thinking you’re about to get “the bizness” and you gets nuthin..

Simple Man...

July 8th, 2011
1:51 pm

Looks like its gonna rain like hell this afternoon…I hope so…ITL, what are doing this evening??? :D

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:54 pm

I know for women it’s a real crap shoot when it comes to dealing with a guy in the bedroom for the first time…so many factors to consider. However, it doesn’t seem to be that big of a deal to men because from what I hear, there is no such thing as bad puddy. (unless it smell like sardines or something) Right or wrong fellas?

SlimNumeroUno

July 8th, 2011
1:54 pm

Fellas, do you feel the pressure to be able to give a stellar performance??

WilFred

July 8th, 2011
2:00 pm

Bloody hell Carrie, lets got on with it. just come and shag me…..