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Experiencing post-hook up weirdness?

My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.

Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.

Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?

Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?

Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?

Do you act differently afterwards?

439 comments Add your comment

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:03 pm

Levi – Exiled
Marlo – SimpleM
Jill Scott – SlimNu ??
Coffey a/k/a Foxy – SassyMe
Sanaan Lathan – kimmie ??
Avoiding Hookups – Celisea
matthew – MCH

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
12:03 pm

Angela = Kimmie

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:04 pm

Enter your comments here

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:05 pm

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:06 pm

I think Coffy =Sassy

And yes I am Tito.

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:06 pm

nope not MCH.

Dr Seuss

July 8th, 2011
12:07 pm

Chi chi chia my Nia….got them legs makes pop goes the weasel with my peg so imma guess LEGGS?

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
12:07 pm

I am Not Exiled..whatever his name is!

Coffy AKA Foxxy Brown

July 8th, 2011
12:08 pm

Charlie try Metropolitan Ave. I heard they got some fine stallions over there by the school and they’ll trick off for some tuition money.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:08 pm

I did the sassy1 Michelles Obamas skit

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
12:08 pm

Sanaa are you doing anything tonight? If not I want to do you.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:09 pm

lol none of you all have figured out who Celisea is yet. Lol

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:10 pm

If she’s not Avoiding hookups, then she might be Carrie (my original thought)?

Sanaa Lathan

July 8th, 2011
12:10 pm

I’ll pass George. I like the settle-down type.

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:10 pm

I think Carrie is Calisea.

Nia Long

July 8th, 2011
12:11 pm

Levi – swiss

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:12 pm

I do too, matthew.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:12 pm

Carrie is not Celisea

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:13 pm

Is Carrie = Leggs?

Dr Seuss

July 8th, 2011
12:13 pm

Tito – Under the spotlight of your fellow brother you were always missed. So imma take a wild guess and say you’re SWISS??

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
12:16 pm

Alright dammit y’all got me…

Black Coffy...no sugar...no cream ;-)

July 8th, 2011
12:17 pm

Is the blog bar open yet?! I know it’s early but it’s 5 o’clock somewhere…

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
12:17 pm

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:18 pm

I am about to head to the lake for beer, cigar and bikini watching.

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
12:18 pm

Oh my God= BMW

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
12:19 pm

Sanaa I settle down a lot, let me show you.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:20 pm

No I am not Swiss, I am P-Lito!

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
12:22 pm

No one has guessed me correctly yet :-(

Marlo Stansfield aka "Mr Sticky Chin"

July 8th, 2011
12:24 pm

Carrie = ITL

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
12:25 pm

I got you Carrie, I’ll carry you into the light.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:26 pm

Well, Tito was right.

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
12:27 pm

If Pam Grier was here.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:31 pm

What, you looking for a 3some now Fred. You already got me! Damn, greedy men even in their late 70’s!

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
12:32 pm

abc = John McCain

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
12:32 pm

I am none of those women….

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
12:36 pm

Nope, not ITL

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
12:36 pm

Alfre chill baby you know how we did it back the days.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:36 pm

Carrie – SexyCool

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
12:36 pm

I will slowly begin to disrobe as each incorrect guess is made ;-)

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:38 pm

Carrie….feel free to share pics of that.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
12:38 pm

Fred Williamson – cba

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
12:41 pm

Alfrie how come you don’t know who I is.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
12:44 pm

Carrie is Simple Man

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
12:52 pm

“Carrie is Simple Man”

Carrie now begins to slip off one of her $750 Manolo’s, letting it dangle on the end of her toe swinging back and forth before it falls lightly to the floor

Slim's CT

July 8th, 2011
12:53 pm

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:54 pm

Carrie…hahaha I still think you are ITL.

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
12:54 pm

12:44 Tito you got to be kidding. I’m trying not to explode in front of my co-workers.

Angela Bassett

July 8th, 2011
12:54 pm

Guess we don’t know each other’s style as much as maybe thought :) How mystic.

Ron Burgundy

July 8th, 2011
12:54 pm

I like to indulge in a little post-coital bath in a mixture of sea salt and “Sex Panther.”

Angela Bassett

July 8th, 2011
12:55 pm

Carrie is Slim
Nia is Leggs
Matthew is WillieDynamite