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Experiencing post-hook up weirdness?

My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.

Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.

Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?

Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?

Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?

Do you act differently afterwards?

439 comments Add your comment

Whitney Houston

July 8th, 2011
11:26 am

Bobbi Christina, let mama borrow about $3000’s and I need to see your Ipod, get the keys to your car and those diamond earrangs yo daddy bought you last year. “And Iiiiiiiiii will always love Youuuuuuuuuuuu!”

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
11:26 am

OPRAH?

ur butt is way too big for normal hetero sexx…Gayle will lick it just fine!

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:27 am

You’re delusional, Whitney. Put all smokes DOWN!!!

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
11:27 am

Tito yeah I’ll sponosor let me tell Brad I’m sure he’ll want to be in on this.

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
11:28 am

Chicken wings, griiiiiits, fried catfish, red koolaid……

I was writing a song for Tito…. now I’m hungry :lol:

Fred Williamsom

July 8th, 2011
11:30 am

Oooh, Ooooh Alfrie get over woman I need to tell you a few things.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:31 am

Always knew who Levi was from his first post.

Sparkle

July 8th, 2011
11:31 am

I don’t like to juggle multiple men or play on their emotions, but that fool could have gotten hurt and/or killed if my main squeeze was there…lol The things we do for sex, love, lust, companionship, and good brain (deep throat)!

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:32 am

Ooooooh, Fred Williamson is here. You always get me to tingle!

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
11:33 am

Bristol?

I just hate the fact that my son has a 50-50 chance of being a dummy like yo mama and Trig

Wise Wizard

July 8th, 2011
11:33 am

Where is Wise?? Does she know this thing is out of control??

Nia Long

July 8th, 2011
11:33 am

Nice, a lot of old heads showing up!

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
11:34 am

Halle…who doesnt like it doggie style…what is a monster ball?

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:34 am

It seems everyone is using this to say what the actual person probably wants to say.

Whitney Houston

July 8th, 2011
11:34 am

Now singing to her laced Capri 100 & sweating like a mad man

Don’t make me close one more door
I don’t wanna hurt anymore
Stay in my arms if you dare
Or must I imagine you there
Don’t walk away from me…
I have nothing, nothing, nothing
If I don’t have you, you, you, you

Schmoooooooook, cough cough…dis some good ish

MCHammockWifeyUGAA/SimpleMan

July 8th, 2011
11:35 am

Shall I use 4 aliases or just one?

MCHWifeyUGAA/SimpleMan

July 8th, 2011
11:36 am

Guess just one?

Briston Palin

July 8th, 2011
11:36 am

Levi- you just want some attention, sit yo @ss down some where. our 15 minutes of fame is over.

BobbyBrown

July 8th, 2011
11:37 am

what is a monster ball?

a black man’s most prized possession :)

BobbyBrown

July 8th, 2011
11:37 am

I thought her name was Bristol

Fred Williamsom

July 8th, 2011
11:38 am

Alfrie, why haven’t we made any movies together? Forget it we can make our own in my jacuzzi, and you can get the tingle when we mingle.

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
11:38 am

BobbyBrown…..you guys call it a mosters ball???? haha

Haller Berry

July 8th, 2011
11:38 am

I don’t have time to school you. Google the movie will ya!

Hi Levi ;-)

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:39 am

matthew, pretty sure you saw that dreadful movie, Monster Ball and how she played herself into winning an award for that crap sex scene she emulated with dreadful Billy Bob Thornton!

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
11:39 am

Halle?

U dont know ur Daddy?

Is that why you are messed up?

PeeWee Herman

July 8th, 2011
11:40 am

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
11:40 am

Alfrie, actually no I didnt see it. So Hale is saying she wants to have some really bad sex again? hahah

BobbyBrown

July 8th, 2011
11:41 am

Halle to Haller, Bristol or Briston. Somebody is playing multiple monikers

Fred Williamsom

July 8th, 2011
11:41 am

Where’s Tender with my Roni, come on woman I want it now.

Halle Berry

July 8th, 2011
11:41 am

Alfrie you Hater
You just wish somebody do you doggie style like that

Halle Berry

July 8th, 2011
11:43 am

@Levi- you can be my Daddy

Marlo Stansfield aka "Mr Sticky Chin"

July 8th, 2011
11:44 am

I might hit Alfrie from the back like that….She is a whole lot cuter than that mean old Omar….

Beatrix Kiddo

July 8th, 2011
11:45 am

I didn’t really think that real people’s names were going to be used today. That actually makes me just a bit uncomfortable especially considering the conversation.

So, I’m going to bow out for the day. Hope you all have a great weekend.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:46 am

Halle, I could never hate on you. You are a beautful woman, but sweetie pie, you are one messed up chick. You should go replay your acceptance speech. Watch your then husband in the audience grimancing every time you talk about growing up without a father. Go sit your ass down on another white dingaling!

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
11:48 am

Did I mention I would NOT let Harris Faulkner leave? If I didn’t she aint leaving. She staying cause daddys home.

Halle Berry

July 8th, 2011
11:49 am

@Allie girl thanks for the sista-to-sista advice.

Um Levi, or Matthew you know I was in 007 right? I can make you feel like my James Bond!

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
11:52 am

Halle….may not be a bad idea haha.

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
11:53 am

Halle, I think you will be successful if you become lesbian.

You obviously a failure with men,whether black or white.

Change course!

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
11:53 am

Damn Alfrie tell Halle how you really feel!

I still cannot figure out who is who……..

..............?

July 8th, 2011
11:53 am

Maybe at Noon we should submit our 1st round of guesses.

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
11:54 am

Hey Halle what’s the hookup? You busy tonight?

.................? #2

July 8th, 2011
11:57 am

Yes, please do.

Alfrie Woodard

July 8th, 2011
11:58 am

I think that is a great idea ……?

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
11:59 am

Just moved to the Buford area….where is an exciting place to go around here.

Dr Seuss

July 8th, 2011
12:01 pm

Who ate all the damn Green Eggs and Ham?! Cat in the hat my ass, Imma pop my foot in your toot!!

Sanaa Lathan

July 8th, 2011
12:01 pm

Coffy AKA Foxxy Brown

July 8th, 2011
12:01 pm

I still cannot figure out who is who……..

me either

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
12:02 pm

Jill Scot = ITL

Tito = PR

Coffy Foxy = Celisea

Charlie Sheen

July 8th, 2011
12:03 pm

Does anyone know where i can hook up with a nice pair of yong chicks?

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
12:03 pm

Sade = Leggs?