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Experiencing post-hook up weirdness?

My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.

Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.

Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?

Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?

Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?

Do you act differently afterwards?

439 comments Add your comment

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
10:15 am

Angela, Nia, Sade you are not left out, hope you’re not busy tonight. Meeting up at Carries then we’ll do a party at the Westin and the after party at my place. Limos are already reserved can’t wait to see you.

DFW DC

July 8th, 2011
10:16 am

damn if he had broke her back, she would have stayed

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:16 am

Tito – You are wrong for that picture :lol:

Angela Bassett

July 8th, 2011
10:17 am

Levi, daycare is missing a tot

kr7z

July 8th, 2011
10:17 am

I think the reality today is that women (and men) have so many other responsibilities, especially post divorce, that the thought of sleeping over means losing valuable hours the next morning. But, maybe that is just me….it isn’t anything personal.

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:17 am

George – I’ll need you to send over a new outfit for me to wear and no matter what, I MUST have a Fabulous pair of shoes…Manolo’s ;-)

Sanaa Lathan

July 8th, 2011
10:18 am

This is going to be a funny blog today.

On-topic; if it was just a hook-up I leave because I want to sleep in the comfort of my own bed. plain & simple

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
10:18 am

Sade?

how I made it in Alaska?

thick skin,literally.

BAM!

Levi Johnson!

July 8th, 2011
10:20 am

Angela?

Tot missing?

u talking Casey Anthony manslaughter case are u?

:lol:

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:20 am

Carrie, that picture was funny wasn’t it. LOL Pretty much sums up how everyone feels about abc right?

http://www.motifake.com/image/demotivational-poster/small/0804/the-negro-communtiy-demotivational-poster-1207694258.jpg

Karrine Steffans

July 8th, 2011
10:21 am

@Levi- i have no class, you werent saying that when i backin my thang up on you the other nite. You can have those classy bychtts, you will be back!

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:23 am

Michelles Obamas OMG!!!! Dying over here.

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
10:23 am

Still waiting on that tissue Tito…….

Damn I had a good night! :-)

Do you want some chicken wings?
How about some fish and grits? I’ll hurry and go it….whateva, whateva, whateva
Whateva Babyyyyy

Nia Long

July 8th, 2011
10:23 am

I think I know who Levi, Marlo, Bit-O-Honey, Carrie, Coffey and Jill Scott are.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:23 am

Are we going to reveal who we really are this afternoon at some point?

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:24 am

Jill, what do you need tissue for? Here have some.

Sade

July 8th, 2011
10:24 am

George – Cool, I’ll roll thru. You’re HOT, by the way.

Guy

July 8th, 2011
10:24 am

Stupid blog, stupid comments.

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:25 am

I need a Cosmo

Coffy AKA Foxxy Brown

July 8th, 2011
10:25 am

if it was just a hook-up I leave because I want to sleep in the comfort of my own bed.

I guess I would,too but lucky for me I get my meat delivered.

Sade

July 8th, 2011
10:26 am

Jill – Don’t forget that peach cobbler from the peaches on your peach tree!LOL!!

Why do I keep hearing “Cherish the Day” in my head?

Oh my God!

July 8th, 2011
10:26 am

Sex Sex Sex. Before reading this daily blog, I had no idea navigating today’s “sexual waters” was fraught with such anxiety and presented such quandaries. Here’s some advice for your friend David – go with the flow and don’t sweat the small stuff.

I guess I’ve been fortunate. I’ve never been confused about something a person did after we rolled around the bed for a couple of hours. I don’t have any post hook-up behaviors, except to maybe rest after getting absolutely nailed for about an hour. If it’s not too late, we’ll usually have Round 2 before hitting the sack. Do I act differently afterward? Considering I just spent an hour or two wrestling, grabbing, moaning like crazy, I can honestly say that I do not act as horny as I did before we started getting busy.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:27 am

So stupid that you commented on the stupid blog, so guess what that makes you? It makes you abc of course

Avery Brooks

July 8th, 2011
10:27 am

Man, am I lovin all the chocolate up in here.
On topic – Dude welcome to the new millenium of hook-ups and dating where the only rules are the ones the two of you decide on. Be safe and keep it smooth.

Sade

July 8th, 2011
10:27 am

If you were mine
I wouldn’t want to go
To heaven!!!

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
10:28 am

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:28 am

When is my solo? My guitar is tight and my curl is right!

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:29 am

Sade – You ever thought about NOT wearing your hair in a ponytail? Let’s see those long tresses of yours ;-)

lucky for me I get my meat delivered Wow! Now that’s hot right there.

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:29 am

Matther McConaughey, how are you? Want to hear my solo?

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
10:29 am

Carrie, Rodeo Dr. “every” store will be at your hotel room in an hour choose anything you want to wear.

Eartha Kitt

July 8th, 2011
10:30 am

MARRRRRRRRRRRRRRCUS

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
10:30 am

I don’t know who anybody is….and it is funny :lol:

Thanks Tito- The tissue request is from a Chris Tucker skit he did about you and your alwaysmoretalentedandfamousthanyou brother Michael :lol:

matthew mcconaughey

July 8th, 2011
10:31 am

Tito….go for it!

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:32 am

Helen Folasade Adu OBE is her name and the band was called Sade overtime she has morphed into Sade Adu herself

Sade

July 8th, 2011
10:32 am

Carrie – That ponytail is my trademark, along with my large gold hoops!!! There is LIFE in that ponytail!!! :lol:

George Clooney

July 8th, 2011
10:33 am

Ah thanks Sade I think you’re HOT too!

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:33 am

Jill, give me my tissue back!

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:34 am

I killed Micheal

Sade

July 8th, 2011
10:34 am

Tito – How did you find out such intimate details about me??? :shock: Oh, I forgot – Google!!!

You really should spend your extra time trying to PROVE that you really should have been lead singer over Micheal!! By the way, can you dance?

Ron O'Neal - a.k.a. Super Fly

July 8th, 2011
10:35 am

I’m back … and I will tell you how we did it !!!

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:35 am

Tito – Please tell me what the heyal your brother puts in his hair. Is that shoe polish & activator?

Mmmm Matthew, I usually have eyes only for Mr. Big but i’m a sucka for a nice chiseled body. But I need to know if you’re wearing deodorant today…and no TUSSY does not count.

Carrie Bradshaw

July 8th, 2011
10:37 am

Tito – Go sit yo ass down. Nobody wanted to hear you sing back then, and just because Michael is not around, doesn’t mean we want to hear you now. How about you play a complilation of MJ’s hits.

Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson

July 8th, 2011
10:38 am

What’s up Blogsville – Hello Jill, I know you can smell what I’m cooking. You wanna write a song about it.

Ron O'Neal - a.k.a. Super Fly

July 8th, 2011
10:38 am

a.k.a Youngblood Priest …

Marlo Stansfield aka "Mr Sticky Chin"

July 8th, 2011
10:39 am

Ah hell naw..Please don’t tell me my dream Crush is really named HELEN…Where the hell is Snoop and Chris when you need them????

Fred Williamson

July 8th, 2011
10:40 am

Coffy, woman I told you about puting my business in the streets. I’ll be there in a few minutes for a mid day delivery, I saw your neighbors this morning and they asked me to tell you to stop yelling my name so loud.

Jill Scott

July 8th, 2011
10:40 am

@ Matthew- you got your bongos baby?

Sade

July 8th, 2011
10:40 am

Tito – Do you feel you have to stoop to such levels to get attention still?

By the way, I’ve always had a thing for your brother Marlon! We could make beautiful music together!

Marlo Stansfield aka "Mr Sticky Chin"

July 8th, 2011
10:40 am

hey Tito…Nice Hat!!!

Tito Jackson

July 8th, 2011
10:41 am

Sade, I can sing, dance and play the guitar.

Carrie, it’s a family secret our dad taught is. You mix some 10w30 motor oil, preferably Castrol, with two raw eggs, some armour all and vaseline. Combine all into a bottle then spray freely. YOu now have the secret to the “jackson shine” feel free to us it as a sking moisturizer also.