My friend David has had his first post-divorce dating misadventure and he is already confused. It seems that he was surprised that women no longer want to sleep over after “doing the do.” I felt bad for him because he took it personally and worried that he did something wrong.
Everyone has “the morning after” or post-hook up behavior and rituals. It doesn’t always mean something good or bad. Sometimes women won’t feel like cuddling, talking, or even hanging around long (I know that sounds like the perfect woman to some men!) – you can rarely predict that kind of thing though.
Have you ever been confused about something a person did after you hooked up with them?
Do you think that it was solely because sex was involved?
Do you have any post-hook up patterns that you didn’t notice you had until someone called you on it?
Do you act differently afterwards?