Have you ever met someone and liked them so much you wanted to fast forward through the awkward and unknown phase? It’s tricky because you don’t want to go too fast and you don’t want to back off either. Is there a way to balance it out and go at a nice and steady pace?
I think that when you are speed dating, you end up alluding to, or bringing up sex in a way that could come across as too eager. A lot of guys want to smash before date three. I’m sure some men would say they experience the same urgency with the women they meet too. What is the big hurry!?
I remember one guy once telling me that he expected to close the deal before he would even consider a relationship. I gave him my best “But…but..we just met” response. That is when I learned that you should date the people that want the same things that you do..in the same time frame. It’s not as easy as it sounds!
How do you handle it when you are seeing someone you really like but they are pushing things too fast?
When you first meet someone, how do you know that they are on the same track and same pace as you are?
Maybe this is my dumb question of the day but: why do so many single people expect to smash so soon after meeting you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog