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Do bossy women get married?

My friend Allen is dating a smart woman who runs her own company. Allen seems to be really impressed with her now but she told them if they met 5 years ago, he probably would have run for the hills.

She admitted that before they met, she was a real piece of work – very strong-willed, opinionated, and well bossy. She finally realized this was not serving her well on the dating scene. According to her, bossy women don’t get asked out – and few end up with the men they want.

Once she started to find a balance, she noticed a big difference in the type of men she met and attracted. This makes me think about the fine line single women often have to worry about: bossy versus confident. Men love confident women! A confident woman who is too bossy? Well, let’s just say some men view them as a challenge – others think of them as the type to avoid.

Ladies, have you found it difficult or challenging to project your confidence without appearing overconfident or bossy? Is it a good idea to to tone it down when you meet someone new? Would that be misleading?

Guys do you believe that some women can really be attractive while being confident and bossy? Do you think women should balance it more so they don’t send the wrong message?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

321 comments Add your comment

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:23 pm

PR?

I don’t eat at home..

I mow!

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:24 pm

PR….agreed….this is probably my last year coaching.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:24 pm

Nope, not being judgemental…if you don’t burn you’re bound to have your frame torn out. Either way…. Man that mess ain’t cute. You might have a couple of folks to engage but for the most part and a year or so ago, youda got stoned on here for bragging about doing other folks wives.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:25 pm

PR – I agree, both parties are wrong but at least they ain’t blogging about it…not here anyway…lol

Leggs

June 22nd, 2011
3:26 pm

@Celisea ~ it never bothered me that he dated other moms over the years. He didn’t want to do that anymore. It was his call. “…and finally told himself he would not be doing that anymore…” Therefore, my lost.

Peace ~ Bag of quotes thrown in air!

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:27 pm

Celisea….your comments are hilarious…..no one on here knows who I am. You dont even know what park I coach at.

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:28 pm

Celisea…also you must come to the realization that there are cases where two consenting adults do not want to date and only have sex.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:28 pm

Okay, I’m going back to work….my moral compass is endangered here…lol

So I’ll leave asking UGA this…what’s worse…Bragging about something the whole world knows is wrong and it’s cool with you getting your kicks and laughter or you brag and no one says a word

or

Someones says man you’re wrong for that? It ain’t judging..you know better.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:29 pm

UGA1999 – Let’s say this, I’ve already peeped your style and I think you’re a regular.

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:30 pm

Celisea…..why is it wrong?

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
3:30 pm

Just seems all around slimey – on all parts, for all reasons.

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:31 pm

SexyCool….why?

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:32 pm

Are sins ranked in the bible Celisea?

there is felony and misdemeanor too with Heaven and Hell?

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
3:34 pm

You’re coaching to get pootie.
You’re banging team mom pootie.
You’re banging married pootie.
You’re being solicited for threesomes by married men.
You’re being solicited to be taped by other team mom pootie.
Team moms are banging you to advance child.

All around slimey.

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
3:36 pm

Yep, some people aren’t worth trying to guide right you just have to let them learn their own lesson.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:37 pm

Exactly PR…still he got it in writing. Let’s just say this (and I’m not wishing any ill however it’s bound to happen in the path you’re taking), when you either get a hole planted in your skull or beat senseless…then ask yaself…why? why is it wrong?

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:37 pm

SexyCool…..you call it slimey….I call it fun….only live once.

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
3:38 pm

And that is Exiled dream job. LOL

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:39 pm

Honey MMEELLO ranks right down there with him…lol

UGA1999

June 22nd, 2011
3:39 pm

Celisea….you are overreacting…..

Creflo

June 22nd, 2011
3:39 pm

Damn, If I would have know the dating blog had gone all moral on me, Iwould have started using my real name a long time ago….Now..GO BACK!!! and support my friend!!!

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:40 pm

I believe though someone reminded a couple of weeks back….THIS AIN’T MY BLOG.

night folks

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
3:40 pm

UGA, are you still married? If not why did you get divorced? Did you cheat on your wife when you were married…did she cheat on you? Were yall swingers?

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
3:40 pm

Again – Everything is fun until it isn’t.

But hey…you are all adults. Do what you do.

I’m just a faceless name on a screen. My opinion means nothing.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:40 pm

I don’t care how many mums UGA bangs,he’s better than Eddie Long and the multitude of his followers who pay him homage and pack his place of sin every Sunday!

Let the Real Church say Amen!

Into the Light

June 22nd, 2011
3:41 pm

Wait…so we’re saying that UGA’s stories are fact and not fiction? Not sure I’m buying that. I know there are crazy parents out there, but dads and videos and lions and tigers and bears?? Naah.

Creflo

June 22nd, 2011
3:41 pm

call 911!!! The other peoples coochie police is in the building!

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:42 pm

Before I go….MMEELLOO, sounds like you’re just made EL ain’t invited you over. Make me believe you would decline the offer.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
3:43 pm

va jay jay or dookie shute…I just believe you’d do either.

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
3:43 pm

Exiled how do you figure, at least Eddie Long payed the men involved and they were not married? Besides I always find it odd when non church goers or non christians ridicule “Church” or religion. But knowingly messing with a married person is scum. Single mom’s who cares.

Simple Man..

June 22nd, 2011
3:44 pm

ITL..I fully believe the daddy wants to Video mommy thing!!! Its never happened to me, but I do know of couples that are azz deep into the swinging, open relationship, swapping free love thing….

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
3:45 pm

FACEPALM at Celisea’s 3:43. LOL, that was brutal.

Simple Man..

June 22nd, 2011
3:46 pm

Purp, Who do you think is worse, the married person that is creeping or the single person they are creeping with???

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
3:47 pm

Simple,both are just as guilty imo only if the single person knew that the other individual is married. But a lot of times people lie and act single.

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
3:48 pm

UGA’s idea of fun is having team moms and dads tossing panties and boxer briefs at him. Hilarious.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:49 pm

Celisea!

It’s ur prerogative….free at last to think however u want!

no dookey here!

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:50 pm

PR

U equate EL with religion? How so?

UGA hasn’t raped anybody!

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
3:53 pm

EL wasn’t accused of rape. Inappropriate sexual conduct…or words to that effect…but not with rape…at least not to my knowledge.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:57 pm

Inappropriate is a euphemism,why do u think there was a lawsuit?

There us no lawsuit in UGA as if now that u and I know of,is there!

All consensual albeit immoral

Now who here hasnt had their fair share of immoral stuff?

Who is casting the first stone?

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
3:59 pm

There is no lawsuit against UGA….meant to say.

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
4:01 pm

If a husband who did not consent to his wife doing the ol’ ball coach. There would be a lawsuit.

Some debates are just silly, and not worth having.

Celisea

June 22nd, 2011
4:01 pm

And “Inappropriate sexual conduct” ain’t limited the Eddie Longs…that term sticks to dudes sticking wives that ain’t theirs.

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
4:03 pm

AT least not yet…but when/IF there is…it will not only be against him, it will also be against the entire organization/recreation department that he coaches for.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
4:03 pm

and same husband is inviting u for threesome

then lawsuit?

Now that’s silly and not worthy of a jury’s time

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
4:06 pm

I’m sure there is more than one married woman in the lot.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
4:06 pm

Yea,UGA is an adult…I hope.

Let this adult play by his adult self and not try to be judged by other adult sinners.

SexyCool

June 22nd, 2011
4:08 pm

Meelow – refer back to my 340p comment.

Exiled!

June 22nd, 2011
4:14 pm

Sexycool?

U right,3.40!

I hope to meet these other critical Saints in Heaven! :lol:

Into the Light

June 22nd, 2011
4:14 pm

I might be naive, but I am still not convinced there is this much messiness going on within one little league team. Some of the stories might be based in fact, but I think UGA was very free with his embellishments.

Purple Rain

June 22nd, 2011
4:16 pm

Exiled, you won’t be anywhere never heaven, how’s that for critical. LOL