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Summer flings

Even though it’s been crazy hot for weeks, today is officially the first day of summer! It’s not exactly “boo” season – single people are enjoying their freedom – a lot.

From beach parties, patio pimpin’ (it’s a thing), and scantily clad beautiful people – conditions are ripe for the casual hook ups aka flings with no strings.

It’s interesting because a lot of relationships are hot and heavy by the holidays when we meet those supposed “summer flings.” These are those casual encounters that we claim don’t mean anything; so there are no expectations, no drama – just fun. Right, summer fling fun…and apparently, this is the best way to start a relationship!

Do you think summer flings are a good idea? Have you ever had one?

Have you ever had a summer fling that developed into a full-fledged romance? Do you think it had anything to do with the pressure free approach?

If you are only interested in a fling, how do you let the other person know that? How can you say it without sounding like a player?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

390 comments Add your comment

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
8:02 am

Good morning, guess I’m first today.

Um…no summer flings….next lol

Mr Unknown

June 21st, 2011
8:24 am

Morning,

Flings never work, someone always gets caught up with there “feelings” and messes up the party! Rules for summer fling keep it light and simple. Theres a time limit, nothing over three weeks. Over three weeks you start thinking/looking at that person like hmmm..she got potential. Ha!!

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
8:29 am

Morning Slim1!!!

No summer flings for the slim1 huh??? Its funny, I have always been the exact opposite and had flings during the winter…I like being free in teh summer to come and go with the fewest amount of restictions.

LL411

June 21st, 2011
8:30 am

Working on one now :) Not really, I’m looking for someone to go the distance with. If it starts as a fling (carefree, fun, energized) , perhaps that will set the tone for something we’d both like to keep going.

Ark2011

June 21st, 2011
8:36 am

Summer flings are fun if both parties are on the same wave length. Many times it’s just a matter of circumstance (he’s ther, she’s there, you’re both drinking) and many, many times the informality leads to some spectacular experiences. I lived in an apartment a few years ago and we had a group of friends that hung out, no commitments, just having fun. I had gotten with more than one or two of them during the summer and some even made calls at midnight to anounce “I’m coming over.” I’m sue that there may have been some hurt feelings, but no one ever let anyone else know about it.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
8:37 am

Nothing like a summer hook up at the pool….bikini’s can really get the juices flowing.

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
8:37 am

Had a few

One with “the stalker”, although I didn’t make my intentions clear about the “fling” part.

She transferred schools and the whole nine (in part because she was homesick and the other part, well…).

They can be fun as long as both parties are clear about the intentions.

Lana

June 21st, 2011
8:39 am

If it’s among friends, those are easily my favorite flings. It’s just for fun and usually you get together a handful of times and then stop without anyone getting really involved. It’s doing it because it’s available, it’s fun and feels supremely good. You wake up and maybe even laugh about it. You don’t broadcast it to everyone, but you know that they still know about it.

MC Hammock

June 21st, 2011
8:43 am

Aaaah, summer! Bathing suits, pools, summer parties, lake parties and everyone is looking their best. Those that look their best are also confident about it. That leads to a drop in inhibitions and like in Risky Business, you think “What the f*k?” You’re not lobbying for relationships (though some do happen) and you are just in it for the moment and plan to make it as memorable a moment as you possibly can. Yeah, I’ve had a few flings and plan on having a few more this summer if the opportunity and situation presents itself. Moment like that just are hard to beat.

Lana

June 21st, 2011
8:46 am

I know of a man that I have recently seen at my pool and I’ve thought “I’m gonna get him before this pool season is over.” Maybe something beyond that will happen, but I’m not thinking about it. Right now, he’s hot, nice and seeing him at the foot of my bed is a sight I would love to see…..and the sooner the better.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
8:50 am

GOOD MORNING!!! (Yes, I shouted that)!

No surprise, but I don’t do flings. If it’s stated upfront that this is the route we’re going down, then I have to keep on happily skipping.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
8:50 am

Morning Simple!!

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
8:51 am

Lana, you are a mess. Go get your man! :lol:

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
8:52 am

Lana….WOW I didnt know you felt that way about me….I have noticed you at the pool as well.

Lana

June 21st, 2011
8:53 am

Leggs, if/when I do get him, it’s gonna be QUITE a mess all over the room if all goes as planned! LOL

Wifey

June 21st, 2011
8:56 am

Lana’s postings are making me squirm and fidget around in my seat. I might just pull the UPS man inside and just say “Shut up and do what I tell ya!” Joking really…….maybe…..

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
8:56 am

Lana, don’t break anything around the room. Sounds like an afternoon or evening of rough, sweet pain! Go get yours and stop dreaming about it. It’s up to you to make it happen.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
8:58 am

Wifey….wow I could tell you a story or two….Lets just say I am in outside sales management….I used to have to cold call to businesses around Georgia…..

Lana

June 21st, 2011
9:02 am

LMAO@Leggs, I just hope the reality of the matter isn’t too far below what I have it built up in my mind. He might look at me and say “Naah”. It has to go both ways. Otherwise it’s called Rape…..but I’m not above the idea of raping him if the need arises….ha ha

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:02 am

@Wifey ~ I’m over here saying, Lana has got it started this morning and it’s only 9:03 a.m.!

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:02 am

Lana…..wow, seems like you know what you want. GO for it!

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:05 am

I am cracking up. Yeah, it sounds like you wanting to rape him! Just get his consent and it’s on and popping! Don’t know why I just pictured the man in the book “Disappearing Acts.” But when made into a movie, Taye Diggs had the part. The man in my mind was much better than Taye Diggs.

MC Hammock

June 21st, 2011
9:07 am

Fertheluvagawd, where do Lana and Wifey hang out???? Y’all have any sisters or friends like you??? LMAO

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
9:07 am

Morning Ladies…Sounds like Lana and Wifey are really feeling it this morning…All we need is for KOB to come in and shut it down all before 10am!!! Makes me wonder where these ladies are hanging out on teh weekend…Might need to recruit them to serve as wingmen….:)

Lana,

June 21st, 2011
9:09 am

I’m thinking about the scenes with Diane Lane and that French guy in the movie Unfaithful. That scene where he walks by Diane in the cafe shop barely looking at her. You can just see the steam rising off of her when he disappears and she just goes back into the bathroom and they go MONKEY on each other. THAT’S what I think is HOT!

Angie2011,

June 21st, 2011
9:12 am

Good morning everyone. Seems like Wifey and Lana need tome serious “tending to”. While I’ve had a couple of flings, I don’t make it a standard. But I have to admit, the thought of just meeting someone smoking hot and just tearing each other’s clothes off right then and there does sound quite appealing. I just don’t think I have the courage to pull it off.

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
9:15 am

Angie, what are you afraid of??? If you are really sure what you want, then for once just go for it…In fact, if you like I will be your test subject and you can work the kinks out on me!!! :)

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:18 am

Angie….you do trust me you do…

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
9:24 am

Sex talk is as good on Tuesday as it is on Monday and Friday. Keep it coming, I can never get enough of your loving.
Good Taunting Tuesday:

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:24 am

@UGA ~ are you trying to hypnotize her?

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
9:24 am

Just like the comedian Monique said, just walk up to a dude that you’re interested in and say, “Excuse me sir but can I get some of you D ick?” :lol:

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:25 am

Leggs….of course. The power of hypnotizm is amazing.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:32 am

Good one, SlimNU!

I wonder, how would a man really feel if while sitting at a bar (or anywhere for that matter), an attractive woman walks over and drops her room key in his lap and walks away. How many do you think would sit there for a moment in disbelief then head to the elevator???

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
9:34 am

Leggs – I think this would be a great show idea for that “What would You do” show. I’d love to watch the reactions from the men, married, single or whatever….

MC Hammock

June 21st, 2011
9:36 am

Leggs, that situation is a fantasy that 99.9% of men wish would happen every day. Problem is, is it a set up and your wife/girlfriend/co-workers/etc are waiting upstaurs when you let yourself in? If a hot woman were to do that, something is up…..lol

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:38 am

Leggs….happens way more often than you think.

Angie2011

June 21st, 2011
9:38 am

I wish I had the backbone to pull that off (dropping the key in his lap and walking away). I’d be afraid I’d get in my body stocking and pose next to the balcony window…..and still be there by myself an hour later. That would be my luck!

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:38 am

Leggs….and everytime the woman that has done it is married with me anyways.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:40 am

“Problem is, is it a set up and your wife/girlfriend/co-workers/etc are waiting upstaurs when you let yourself in?”

I agree, but the gluttony/stupidity of some men takes over and reason is thrown out the window because their big ego starts acting up (literally).

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:40 am

@UGA ~ believe me, I know it happens often. Men aren’t the only ones dropping keys on tables!

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:41 am

But, Angie. It’s a chance you have to take. A woman doing that must realize that not everyone will take her bait. You have to have a strong enough constitution to say “oh well, another one bites the dust and k.i.m.”

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:42 am

Leggs….in my experience women (of a certain age) seem MUCH more forward than men with their wants and desires.

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
9:43 am

When single,

I waited just long enough for her to make it back, get undressed and be at the door knocking shortly after – i.e. 3 – 4 drinks

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
9:44 am

OK Angie, are you prepared to just go with it if a good looking guy hits on you like that???

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:45 am

Leggs and Angie….the bigger question is what would most women do if they were at a bar and they were attracted to a man…..and the man walks over and just drops off his room key.

MC Hammock

June 21st, 2011
9:46 am

Oh well, at least I can imagine a Carmen Electra lookalike walking by and dropping her room card in my lap while looking at me like a Leopard looks at an Antelope. But that’s about as far as I expect it to go….*sigh

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
9:47 am

Leggs:
I wouldn’t be in disbelief, but I would be cautious to what’s up. My curiosity would win out of course, it has happened to me in casinos. It’s why I like going to them often.

Lovely Brown

June 21st, 2011
9:48 am

Lana,

June 21st, 2011
9:09 am
I’m thinking about the scenes with Diane Lane and that French guy in the movie Unfaithful. That scene where he walks by Diane in the cafe shop barely looking at her. You can just see the steam rising off of her when he disappears and she just goes back into the bathroom and they go MONKEY on each other. THAT’S what I think is HOT

Wellll, Good Morning All! :-)
Lana- That is one of my favorite movies ever, pure hotness!
and get yo man girl, if he is single and you single why not?!

On topic- Before I got married I had a few summer flings- Hot back yard parties, hot night air, alcohol, little clothes, the perfect mix! It is what is, just pure fun.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:48 am

Blackfoote…..Blackjack and Texas Hold’em BABY!!

MC Hammock

June 21st, 2011
9:48 am

I wouldn’t think a woman, especially a hot woman (she’s used to having men hit on her constantly) would react very positively to a man just dropping his room card in her lap. If that same woman did that to a man, he just may beat her to the room…lol

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
9:49 am

With my luck, I would run up to the room And Chris Hanson would be asking If I want some “Fresh Lemonade”……

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:49 am

@UGA ~ pray tell why is that a “much bigger question?”

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:51 am

In my experiences if you are upfront and honest and tell the woman exactly what you want and expect, you get much more.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:52 am

Leggs….because more woman play the innocent/modest game.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:54 am

Hmmmmmm….

Must admit I didn’t realize so many men truly didn’t see the flirtations by women until I got on this blog.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
9:55 am

1999:
The blackjack and roulette tables are magnets for lust……LOL
Played Texas hold’em with a lady and she kicked our butts, she got up and patted her own azz. she was ripe for any man and had our money too…LOL

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:55 am

Leggs….what do you mean?

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
9:55 am

Blackfoote….hahah now THAT was funny.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
9:57 am

Nothing…not worthy of further convo.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
9:58 am

Morning,

No flings here…no can do. Not ashame to admit I catch feelings. Aside from that, not into free loving.

Woman dropping keys in lap reads “DECOY.”

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
9:58 am

In this month’s issue of Essence, there is an article that gives tips on how to have a summer fling. I found it to be rather irresponsible and a bit insulting, actually.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
10:00 am

Celisea….it happens more often than you would think.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
10:01 am

@Celisea ~ possibly, so you think if a guy accepted the key and went to the room he could plead a case of “entrapment?”

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
10:05 am

LOL….@Celisea
LOL….Catch feelings, free loving.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
10:09 am

Leggs:
If I was married, I wouldn’t go. If I was that guy who did I would cry a river and accept the pain I caused.

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
10:11 am

Sexycool, why was it insulting / irresponsible??

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
10:18 am

@Leggs

As stated here before, men might see the subtle sign, but not notice them. And in 2011 with people busy and the competition stiff, batting the eyes might leave a woman sitting alone and with a headache.

There’s nothing wrong with being open and honest.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
10:21 am

In my scenario, I’m playing blackjack and a lady was sitting at another table. We made eye contact several times, smiled and flirted at each other. She got up came over to where I sitting and placed her PURSE in my lap. Talked a little while and found out she was from Marietta, GA. We hung out for a couple of months.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
10:24 am

might see the subtle sign, but not notice them. – ok!

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
10:24 am

Lana is the chick that you date and have to wonder how many of the guys at the cookout she took you to has she slept with.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:25 am

Leggs – If he was careless, I think he’d jump at the opportunity. If he has a lot to lose, even if he steps out on his wife, I would hope common sense would have him to at least hesitate and wonder if it’s a set up. I mean I get how things pop off and easily nowadays but if I was a man, I would wonder….but that’s me. I’ve seen cheat with no holds barred and I’ve seen them cheat and try (notice I said try) to act like they have some discretion.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:26 am

Blackfoote – I take matters of the heart seriously…lol I’m not built for “free love” no can do…lol

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:26 am

UGA – Trust me when I tell you I’m nowhere blind to what goes on. Heck I had two sets of friends on both ends of the spectrum. Booty Shakers/hoochies and the boo-ghee…lol Really, they weren’t that far removed from each other in actions, but they thought so…lol One set kept it real and the other did their thing on the low low.

The boo-ghoo smoked weed, hooked up with unknown dudes, got drunk to the point of passing out, oh and let’s not forget getting hotel suites for a weekend. Heck they’d hit corporate America Monday morning like nothing. Not saying I was a goodytooshoes but I moved away from that group because I got tired of being either the designated driver or the one that kept things in tow….the gatekeeper. I remember them doing a party at the Sheraton in Midtown one year and I found myself alone in the room. It started out with them talking across he court to a couple of dudes. Next thing I know I’m walking through the hotel looking for them cause they “found” some dudes to hookup with. When I found them, those chicks were so drunk they could hardly stand up….I left and went home…that was my last outing with them.

I stayed with the roomshakers/adulterers for 2 months…of course I had to get my own spot cause I couldn’t hang….lol The dudes that would come over would ask, what’s up with the mean one…lol Whatevs! But I distinctly remember an orgy about to go down…lol Actually I thought about it yesterday and almost blogged about it. There was a couple of dudes that lived across the hall and they always had about 6 other dudes hanging out there. We were cool most days. We’d play cards, drank (drink), laugh and talk, grill. I will NEVER forget one Sunday evening though when it was about to go down…lol 2 chicks to all those dudes. One stepped to me and I was like HOOOOLD UP, let me get my purse and go. I had just started dating my kid’s father. I called him, he came over and we left. One of the roommates ended up pregnant by one of those dudes. After 2 months I got my own spot but those two stayed together. But ummm, yes yes yes, I’ve seen much in my time.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:30 am

bootyshaker not roomshaker

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:30 am

It was 3 of us that lived together so when I say 2 chicks to all those dudes…I meant the 2 of them….lol

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
10:37 am

Celisea….that must of been somewhat crazy….

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:41 am

Off topic: What’s up with the new guy? Seriously. I know it might seem petty or catty of me to say so but c’mon dude, you’ve been gone since last Tuesday. Today there was an email from him to the team at 6:43 am stating he was still out of town but his “cousin” is being relelased from hospital today. Ummm, in all my hospital experience with a dying sister, a dying father and a now a mother that’s spent a significant amount of time in the hospital….NEVER have we been able to say at 6:43 am, for certain, they’ll be released. When doctors make their rounds around 8/9ish most time the green light to go home is given and sometimes later. Just lies lies lies all in his email. Trifling I tell ya….he’s no doubt still on the beach with his luva…SMDernH…

That is all

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
10:42 am

Celisea…..who are you talking about?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:42 am

Just a vent/rant

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
10:44 am

Cel – he’s in jail and is getting out today.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:45 am

Cel – he’s in jail and is getting out today.

LOLOLOL….could very well be..you never know.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:46 am

Hmmmm, you know…in his email last Wednesday giving his “update” he said “Imma need Friday and Monday…hmmm

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
10:47 am

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
10:48 am

I didn’t think they let inmates use cellphones, let alone that early in the morning. Ask that he provide documentation upon his return…admission and papers of release.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
10:48 am

Celisea:
Me and a guy friend went to pick up my sister from Howard University during Christmas break. When we arrived her most of her female friends was drooling over us. One asked if I could take her to an aunts house near by, not knowing much about D.C. I did it anyway. We get there and no one is home so the show begins. I left to go back to the dorm and couldn’t find my way back till the next day. They were all looking at me strange, like they knew why I was gone so long. Then another one asked for a ride…..LOL

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
10:49 am

And he’s probably not sending the emails himself. Someone is sending them for him. (lol)

Gotta love imagination….

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:49 am

Slim – 10:48…true

Back to being on the beach with his luva…lol

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
10:49 am

@UGA ~ she’s talking about a new employee who is never at work. Always has, what he thinks, are “legitimate” excuses for not coming to work. Celisea sees nothing but holes in his excuses (lolol).

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:50 am

Blackfoote – I’ll tell ya, there’s a plethora of flinging going on. I ain’t knocking what folks do. I just know I’m a punk with that kind of stuff. LOL They probably had that planned.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:51 am

Leggs – The whole team can see through. Folks may think it’s bogus but keep it at a day or so. A whole dern week???

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
10:53 am

I just read that article, SexyC. To think her parents are gung-ho. There’s something wrong with the man for wanting a 16 year old, virgin.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:53 am

SexyC – Reading that article and looking at her pics, she ain’t been 16 in a loooooong time. Still ain’t right though.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:53 am

Her parents probably ain’t been able to do a thing with her for sometime now. They’re probably happy someone took has fast tail off their hands. Still ain’t right though.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
10:54 am

@Celisea ~ I have no doubt. The only person who doesn’t see the problem is him. That’s the comical part. He really thinks he’s smart enough to outfox you guys into thinking he has all these family emergencies and he must be there to help in the healing process.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
10:54 am

How does that dude hang on to that job if he’s new. Does y’all boss give him that much string to hang himself?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:55 am

Hey Blackfoote you know that wasn’t her mama’s house right? That other chick was gonna take you to the same spot…lol

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
10:55 am

Do all you guys work together?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
10:57 am

Blackfoote – We’re a team but we all have different managers. His manager is in FL, mine in DC. We’re pretty much on our own. The thing is to make sure you cover your self. Still though, ethically speaking you shouldn’t wear a good thing out. This is every week. If senior members of the team complain to his manager she’ll have to address. If he become habitual, she’ll address.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:00 am

Leggs – The only person who doesn’t see the problem is him. That’s the comical part. He really thinks he’s smart enough to outfox you guys into thinking he has all these family emergencies and he must be there to help in the healing process.

You are exactly right…it’s comical because it’s very transparent. He’s the youngest one (aside from this other chick). There are sooo many things he does where he thinks he’s outfoxed folks and really you can see through. I’ll chaulk some of that up to being inexperienced. He got a very bad habit of smoozing up to them and then turn in the same breath and gossip. Of course I chomped him off with that. He no longers tells me…lol I’m sure somewhere he’s gossiping, just not with me. I don’t play games…especially those kind. You can tell he believes eating out of folks’ azz is the way to go. He’ll learn. Especially with this group…it can be cutthroat.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:02 am

UGA – Yes, we do but most days folks are out and about…there’s a lot or traveling that happens so it’s rare to see all of us together.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:03 am

Anyway, don’t let me hog the blog…back to summer flings….

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
11:05 am

Celisea….wow so you guys must have a REALLY productive office, being that you are all on here all of the time?

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
11:06 am

Celisea:
LOL….She pouted cause I wouldn’t go out alone with her. Not that I didn’t want to. This was before cell phones so there was no one I could call for directions. I didn’t want to get lost again.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
11:08 am

Ok, I know we touched on folks, sending randomly inappropriate texts…well, I just got a call from a friend who was sort of introduced to this guy and they’ve met up only twice. So please tell me why that constitutes receiving a text from him saying:

Dude: Hey there. What are you up to?
Chick: Nothing much…watching tv

Dude: I just can’t seem to sleep
Chick: Why what’s wrong?
Dude: I just have stuff on my mind. Not anything bad.
Chick: Um…okay then..well stuff like what?

Dude: You
Chick: I seriously doubt that but what about me?
Dude: How I want to be inside of you

:shock: :shock: WACK!!!!!!

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:08 am

Blackfoote – I’m telling you…it was planned…lol

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:09 am

Slim – Ummm, yeah that was wack

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
11:09 am

Slim – Buddy get a double “L” for Lame and Loser.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
11:11 am

Off-topic ~ we all know there’s an obesity crisis taken place. Why in the heck would someone come up with the crazy idea of fried kool-aid. Goodness gracious. The articles says people are liking it.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
11:12 am

@SlimNU ~ seriously, I am truly cracking up. I so can identify. You just shut it down and delete the number. I’ve been laughing since Lana came on this morning.

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
11:13 am

Leggs – saw the GMA clip this morning. One person said that it tasted like a cherry donut. Somehow, that made sense to me.

Simple Man....

June 21st, 2011
11:13 am

OK…Slim, How is what buddy did different from the lady dropping her key in a guys lap at the casino????

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
11:15 am

@SexyC ~ oh, it was on GMA. I must have left the house already.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
11:15 am

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
11:16 am

It looks like the *creator* just mixed cherry koolaid in some batter and drops in it the deep fryer.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
11:18 am

SexyCool….I saw that as well….it cannot be good.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
11:22 am

Simple Man – How are you trying to compare apples to oranges? We were discussing flings and random hookups, things of that nature. Not a situation where two folks are sort of hooked up to date and see where it goes. If that’s what buddy was looking for, seemed he should’ve had a little different approach, but what do I know. Has finesse gone out the window?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:28 am

Has finesse gone out the window?

It seems more and more that’s becoming the theme.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:31 am

Summer flings, maybe when I was younger and careless. I would not do it now married or not.

Cell phones in county jails or prison are easy to get/use. I still have another friend who is still in and has a Facebook page. LOL

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
11:33 am

Celisea – Guess I should’ve taken heed to that song by the Ying Yang Twins…What till you see my D ick! –> Sign of the times lol

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:35 am

PR – I would not do it now married or not.

Me either…

Cell phones in county jails or prison are easy to get/use. I still have another friend who is still in and has a Facebook page.

Getouttahere…seriously? FB? In jail?

Slim – LOL…exactly

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
11:36 am

I still have another friend who is still in and has a Facebook page

Well I’ll be damned. lol I think there’s no better time than now to head to the blog bar.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
11:36 am

Celisea….never say never.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:37 am

UGA – Somehow, I’m thinking the words that I type are translating different than what I’m saying. Or you’re fishing…still. Move over buddy.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
11:38 am

Good morning, all!

I remember summer flings from middle school. I can remember my mom dropping us off at Six Flags, and our group of girls meeting up with a group of guys. If we hit it off, we would hang together all summer, and the biggest thrill was riding the Monster Plantation and sneaking a kiss.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
11:39 am

Celisea….you said “Me either” to PR’s comment I would not do it now married or not.

I am just reading what you wrote.

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
11:39 am

Random Thought:
Temptation IS a mphcka.
That is all.

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
11:39 am

@Slim

Finesse assumes a degree of care.

That is to say, if I want more from you (not ‘you’, the nebulous you) than sex, I’ve got to figure a way in.

However, if it’s a numbers/interaction game – who cares? I’ll say the 2nd most clever thing I can think of and if you fall for it, great; if not, what have I really lost?

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:39 am

Celisea and Slim, yes they take and post pictures. Talk about their morning workouts, talk to girls, etc.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
11:40 am

Some of those dudes are getting married to prosperous women along with having phones and FB pages.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:41 am

Blackfoote – Some of those dudes are getting married to prosperous women along with having phones and FB pages.

Where? Jail? Gettouttahere….what do you consider “properous?”

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:43 am

PR – Are they revealing though that they’re in jail?

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
11:43 am

Finesse assumes a degree of care

Well there you have it in black and white…Point taken. ;-)

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:46 am

Blackfoote, I have seen some guys land some very successful women while in jail. Now I think to myself what is wrong with her…yesh she is pretty and makes money but to find a prison guy? Also I think about single men who complain about not being able to find a woman…if an incarcerated guy can find a woman.. a free guy should be able to as well.

My best friend who got out has a FB page, another guy that we kinda knew had one as well. He sent me a message asking me to do “stuff” for him. Of course I ignored it. But it was great for keeping in contact with my friend until he got out. He was only on during the early mornings or late at night.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:46 am

Celisea, yes. In the location and you can tell by the pictures.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
11:48 am

It caught my attention on Oprah of all things where this guy on death row was marrying this woman who was well off. She was villified for her actions but went through the vows with him. Dude was put to death about 3 months later. It was interesting to see a woman do that and not care what anybody thought of it.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
11:49 am

PR – I mean I know “stuff” (i.e. jailhouse marriages) happens all the time but cell phones and fb? We’re on awholenother level with that. No wonder most keep going back or have no problem going. Shoot they don’t skip a beat…life continues.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:49 am

Blackfoote, if you get a woman’s mind………………

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:51 am

Celisea, cell phones, fb, sex with women (staff, guards) etc. If your “on” on the streets you don’t skip a beat while in jail. Unless you committed a crime against a child or rape a woman, then it’s very rough.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
11:55 am

Purple I’ve personally seen men in jail (me visiting) have some of the prettiest women come see them. Kiss them, play in their crouch area. Leave money on the books all kind of things.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
11:59 am

Blackfoote, yep.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
12:01 pm

“If you get a womans mind”, you have the body and soul. The lady I’m talking about said she didn’t see in him what everybody else saw. Even though dude had murdered two people execution style.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
12:03 pm

There are a lot more murderers out of jail than there are in jail. LOL

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
12:05 pm

if you get a woman’s mind………………

That’s why my daddy said don’t stop to listen…lol

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
12:07 pm

Celisea, just take the bait and be happy. LOL

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
12:07 pm

LOL…..@Purple
The truth is spoken. Most predators are waiting for the right moment to strike.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
12:10 pm

LOL…..@Celisea
Daddy used to say, take your time young lady. Don’t you rush to give up……LOL

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
12:10 pm

Yes yes Blackfoote….daddy said all those things. Daddy knows best…lol

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
12:17 pm

LOL…..”Yes yes Blackfoote”
Celisea I’m backing away from that but it sounds good…..LOL

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
12:21 pm

Yes Yes Blackfoote…how’s that for ya??

Yes yes Blackfoote :) Imma stinker ain’t I?

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
12:30 pm

Afternoon All
Flings the story of my life. Just be honest and open. Don’t try to sell a lifetime warranty for something that’s designed to be obsolete in 60 days.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
12:31 pm

You’re fun and cordial really nice. What the Dr. would prescribe. I’m surprised you’re not hitched, but then that would get between you and Purple’s year of 2038.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
12:36 pm

Awwww, that’s sweet of you to say. I’m glad you think so. I’m just not polictically correct but I’m okay with that :)

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
12:41 pm

Step off Blackfoote, I’m not going back to jail! LOL j/k

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
12:49 pm

Speaking of Summer….I spend a lot of time up on Lake Lanier. It seems that the “thong” is no longer in style…..what a sad sad end to a great thing.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
12:50 pm

UGA, what do they wear there now?

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
12:51 pm

Just regular bathing suits. There is a new style called a “Thongkini” that is somewhere between a thong and a regular bikini.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
12:54 pm

LOL……@Purple
Ever seen a wolf find prey and instead of killing and eating it, the wolf plays and nudge with it untill the prey scatters away. Celsiea, the prey me low life wolf…….LOL

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
12:59 pm

Speaking of summer, any of you have any good Summer Reads lined up? I just picked up the sequel to Sister Souljah’s Midnight called ‘Midnight and the Meaning of Love,’ the other day.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
1:00 pm

Those new swim fro women suits are not for the faint of heart. I like them better than the thong, they expose just enough booty cheeck to bring the wolf out.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
1:01 pm

meant “for women”

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:02 pm

Blackfoote….AMEN!

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
1:03 pm

Blackfoote, lol not an innuendo about you, but we shoot wolves regularly trying to sneak on the farm. LOL

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:06 pm

Slim – good ? I am just now starting to look for a few good reads. At the moment I’m on my HS Mark Twain kick and re-reading Huck Finn.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
1:08 pm

Blackfoote – Ever seen a wolf find prey and instead of killing and eating it, the wolf plays and nudge with it untill the prey scatters away. Celsiea, the prey me low life wolf

Ever seen a prey hold it’s ground? Rare but it happens :)

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
1:09 pm

Alright folks, I’ve been carrying a wad of cash on me for days…gotta go make a deposit…it’s mortgage time…great :(

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:10 pm

who is the Wolf again? hahaha

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
1:12 pm

I might be confused but I thought PR

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:12 pm

UGA – I was skimming back over the posts and did you ask did WE ALL work together as in everyone on this blog or just Celisea’s story

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
1:13 pm

Wolves are known pack hunters…so nothing is as it seems!

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
1:14 pm

Celisea, yes you are confused. How did I become the wolf?

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:14 pm

Willie….I was thinking everyone on the blog?

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
1:16 pm

Yes we all work together.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
1:18 pm

Willie – I haven’t read that since HS but a coworker of mine just re-read it recently. She has one of those Kindle’s but I much prefer the feel and smell of a good ole fashion book.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:18 pm

UGA – If I may ask, what gave you that idea?

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:18 pm

PR….what kind of work do you guys do?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
1:19 pm

Celisea….wow so you guys must have a REALLY productive office, being that you are all on here all of the time?

Okay…I missed this…UGA no no no, we’re just bloggers by no association.

PR – Stop it….LOLOL

Okay so who’s the wolf again? I’m confused. Gotta run.

LL411

June 21st, 2011
1:20 pm

Met an attractive guy, asked if he was married, a resounding NO… (forgot to ask if he was shacking, or otherwise attached at the time). Met for drinks, asked the latter half of my original question… well, she lives with him LOL. Anyhoo, he asked “where’s you man”, I don’t have one at the moment. Convo went from 0 – 100 mph… well what do you do???? I told him I pull my toy out LOL. Now he’s texting me to see if he can replace my “toy” Man, please!

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:26 pm

Slim – Twain is as good as they come (IMO). I slept on him and now am getting to know his style better. I also just read Glen Coopers ‘Book of Souls’. Decent read that has me looking for similar texts from some of the characters involved.

Purp – your teeth are showing

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:27 pm

LL411…..maybe you can have him help you use the toy.

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
1:28 pm

Slim – now that I’ve had my Kindle for a year and a half, I’ve gotten used to it. Actually read a (real) paperback the other day…and really, I now don’t have a preference one way or the other.

And a bonus…all those *classics* are usually free to download.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
1:31 pm

Slim,

Have you read Wench? Highly recommend it.

ITL

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:31 pm

I’ve been dropping the Kindle as a hint hint for a few weeks now to the Wifey. I am expecting it any day now. I don’t ask for much so when I hint at something it usually shows up expectantly unexpectantly. haha

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
1:31 pm

TwoL’s – It used to burn my butt when guys failed to mention the relationships that they were in. Hated a mphcka trying to make me the chick on the side.

#IHateThatALot

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
1:32 pm

Sexycool – I guess I can’t knock a Kindle until I try it but being that I’m in front of a computer screen 8+ hours on most days, I’d see that putting too much strain on my eyes. But i could be wrong though. Maybe I’ll borrow hers and do a little test drive to see if my assumptions are wrong

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:32 pm

SexyCool…..So you dont like to be on the side….So do you like it from the back? haha jk

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
1:33 pm

Ditto SC’s burned booty. A guy lied to me about being married and I didn’t find out until we had been out several times. I wanted to smack him and call his wife.

PS – I did neither. Sometimes it’s better (for me) to just walk away….

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
1:34 pm

UGA – You getS a side-eye. (lol)

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:34 pm

Into the Light…sometimes the married ones make the best booty calls.

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
1:34 pm

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
1:37 pm

ITL – No I haven’t read that…can’t even say i’ve heard of it but I will look it up and check it out. Thanks

Willie – Did you interpretation of reading Huckleberry change at all from your initial introduction of it back in HS, versus now? (more mature mindset)

p.s – I hope you get your expected surprise Kindle soon lol

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:38 pm

UGA – my 1:18????

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:41 pm

Slim – yes big time. I was a knucklehead back then and only focused on the black/white dynamic. I challenged my teacher on certain points and she was not having it. I thought Twain a Racist at the time and didn’t see how he was using the characters as a point of discussion for the masses.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
1:43 pm

Hated a mphcka trying to make me the chick on the side.

I dated a guy who I found out later, was actually engaged…received a call from his cell phone thinking it was him, to only hear the chick and him tussling for the phone. At first, I didn’t know what was going on until she finally got hold of the phone and told me what was going on. He had a house here, but apparently still had a home back in Louisiana of which she lived in. Go Figure!

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
1:44 pm

SlimNU, You’re welcome. I think you would enjoy it. I also really liked “The Girl Who Fell from the Sky”.

Willie. D, I’m interested to hear your answer re: Huck then vs. Huck now.

UGA, Except for the fact that I’m not going to do to another woman (cheat with her man) what I wouldn’t want done to me.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
1:46 pm

Willie – I remember we all had to get permission from our parents to be able to read that.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
1:46 pm

Willie, Celisea Blackfoote said he was the Wolf…I said we shoot wolves regularly up here.

UGA, I am a farmer.

Sexy Cool, I read books and periodicals on the iPad.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
1:46 pm

LOL…..@Purple
Wolves hunt in packs so I know y’all get your share of the thieves. I saw one at a kennel it stood 6 feet tall and weighed 200 pounds. I wouldn’t go hand to hand with one.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
1:47 pm

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
12:05 pm
if you get a woman’s mind………………

That’s why my daddy said don’t stop to listen…lol

That is funny.

@UGA ~ why suggest he helps her with the toy. He point blank said he lives with his girlfriend. Why encourage that!

LL411

June 21st, 2011
1:47 pm

UGA1999

Not interested in a sometimey thing, always on someone else’s schedule. I’m looking for the other half of this here, lol. Beside, I’m no home wrecker… if you’re unhappy with your current relationship, then leave, period.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
1:48 pm

co-signing LL’s 1:47

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
1:54 pm

Slim – We had to get permission as well. My Mom was like “if thats what they want you to read then thats what yo azz gon read”. I was like do you know what it’s about and the story? Got the Evil Side eye, knew it was time to take the slip and dip.

ITL – Now I take it as a writer using the readers to make a point. Then I took it literally. I still think that its above the head of most young Teenagers. The story is too layered and deep to just say read and do a report. It bears a thorough discussion with someone capable of understanding the dynamics. just my opinion.

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
1:58 pm

I actually have a faux parchment papered body copy of Shakespeare from college – I get down on Hamlet when I have the time.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
1:59 pm

@WillieD: Agree that “The story is too layered and deep to just say read and do a report. It bears a thorough discussion with someone capable of understanding the dynamics”. Unfortunately, I don’t know that you will find that thorough discussion in today’s classrooms, for a variety of reasons.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:00 pm

See, that’s an example of when you should keep your mouth shut. Why even tell the guy you used a toy in the first place? If you were not interested why even mention…should have just shut him down when he asked. That is sending mixed signals.

Blackfoote, we usually let one get close to whatever he is ever stalking so that the other ones are drawn out of hiding then we fire.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
2:02 pm

LL411:
Do you want a boy toy? Do you discarded them like old toys. Some men will prefer to be that if you let them.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
2:03 pm

@PR- One could make the argument that telling him she didn’t need a human to meet her needs WAS shutting him down. He chose to see it as a challenge. IJS….

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:05 pm

Off Topic: I just got Jill Scotts new album off of iTunes. Very nice so far.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:06 pm

ITL, what was wrong with her telling him that she was not interested? Did she owe him an answer and a descriptive one at that?

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
2:09 pm

Into the Light:
You can’t shut someone down by getting them aroused…..LOL

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:09 pm

Chalk that under TMI and when keeping it real goes wrong. What women in her right mind will talk about her “toy” with a guy who is interested in her and not expect for him to say something about giving her the real thing. That is about as silly as a no touch policy at a strip club…don’t want me to touch well don’t put it in my face. LOL

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
2:10 pm

I’m with P-lito. At the point that he fessed up, it would have been date/game over for me. No use wasting anymore of my life than necessary with a loser.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
2:12 pm

Honestly, if he would have said (even after the fact) that oh by the way I gotta a live-in, that would have ended it right then and there. Nothing further to talk about. It’s VERY easy to encourage nodogooders. The less said the better. A 3rd butt burned…

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:13 pm

I have to agree with you PR. Talking about the toy, invited him in with the same lame line any dude would have used.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:14 pm

ITL – I agree with your 1:59. Are you an avid reader/writer? But thats not a topic to discuss here. I like the segue into S E X talk better. Looks like you have the interrogation light shining and cigarette smoke blowing in your face. Can you handle it?

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:15 pm

Sexy Cool, she wanted the attention…toys can’t hold you back or take out the garbage.

If I tell you I have a woman and you say anything else to me after that besides “Leave me alone”(and hang up/walk off) or something like that. I am going to think you are interested. LOL

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:16 pm

And I say that because the mere mention of “toy” instantly puts a visual in a man’s mind and now he wants a chance at replacing that toy with the real thing. Why even give the man an added chance of visualizing you nekkid? Ok, perhaps some do and some don’t.

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
2:16 pm

ITL – as to the guy you found out was married, I would have had some choice words for him.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:17 pm

In my Bill Duke voice (Shiny Bald Head and all)

“you know you done fugged up”

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:17 pm

Leggs, your 2:13. I was about to deny it, but as I thought about it. If a woman said something to me about using a toy….yeah I would have made a similar comment as well. LOL

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:20 pm

Seriously, he told her he live with a woman and then she stayed around so she welcomed it.

This took place after he said he had a live in:
“Anyhoo, he asked “where’s you man”, I don’t have one at the moment. Convo went from 0 – 100 mph… well what do you do???? I told him I pull my toy out LOL. Now he’s texting me to see if he can replace my “toy” Man, please!”

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
2:21 pm

It’s weird, but it wasn’t until after my split with Shthead that I got a lot better at deflecting the bullsht that comes with dating games and ignoring the one that were just chasing for sport. And in retrospect, I wish I would have had that ability a lot sooner. It would have said me a lot of irritation, aggravation, disappointment, heartbreak and so on. However, I realize that if I hadn’t experience all of that I would not have developed the bullsht detector/@asshole deflecting abilities that I have.

Damn, proverbial Catch 22.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:22 pm

PR – actually after hearing something like that I would have nudged her to delve deeper into the toy conversation. Buddy had bad timing. He could have been totally honest with her and it wouldn’t have mattered. He jumped the shark too early.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:22 pm

SexyCool, sometimes the signs are not so obvious. LOL

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:23 pm

Willie, yes he had the puddy there for the taking and spoke to soon about his situation.

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
2:27 pm

I was hanging out at The Tavern one night, just shooting the breeze with this wedding ring wearing dude who sat next to me at the bar. Just conversation, passing the time. Sure enough, as he gets up to leave, he asked me for my number. My response, “We ain’t got nothing else to talk about. Go home and flirt with your wife like you’ve been flirting with me. And take her some flowers.”

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
2:28 pm

PR – sometimes the signs are not so obvious. LOL

Many times they are. I had to learn sometime let jokers hang themselves rather than me doing all the hog tying.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:29 pm

@SexyC ~ developed the bullsht detector/@asshole deflecting abilities that I have. Excellent because I just got a patent on mine!!!

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
2:30 pm

PR, BF, and Leggs: Maybe she was trying to encourage the visual. But, (totally playing devil’s advocate here) shouldn’t men and women be able to have honest conversations without worrying that every statement will be analyzed for innuendo?

WillieD: yes, I am and avid reader. Your visual took me back to an old b and w movie: “of all the gin joints in all the world, she had to walk into mine”

SC: there’s more to the story. I told buster brown to lose my number and address or I would call his wife and I walked away. He chose not to (repeatedly) until my brother finally explained it to him in a way he could understand.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:30 pm

@SexyC ~ that is hysterical. Excellent comeback…shut that crap down with the quickness!!!!

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
2:31 pm

@Willie D

I’d say it was a matter of phrasing (though with you on the shark slightly). Put it out that there is a female in the house, vaguely explain that she has nothing to do with you and vice versa. If baby girl continues the convo, so be it.

@All

Can we not skip over the obvious plot twist of: woman mees man in bar, man tell woman he has woman2 living with him, woman mentions toy, man now texting woman about replacing said toy.

I know I been outta the game for a minute, but whatdaproblem is? If ‘woman’ ain’t interested, how’d ‘man’ get the number?

Or did I miss that part?

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:32 pm

@ITL ~ nothing wrong with having honest conversations…however, where is the need for a complete stranger to know you use a “toy?” I don’t see why that has to come up. It’s like masturbation. I doubt I would be talking about that on my initial exchange with a man.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:34 pm

@Dan ~ I sense he got the number on their second convo. Remember she asked the second part of her questions to him later. So, implication is there he received the number with the first convo.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:35 pm

Sexy Cool, yes you shut him down. I saw a lady before I moved back home at work who was uber fine. Nice chocolate skin, short haircut, with a pretty face and a well toned body. She was always dressed nice too. I saw a ring on her finger and I made sure she saw mine. I said “Do not take this the wrong way, and I do not mean anything past what I am saying but you are a beautiful woman” she said “thank you and I will not take your compliment out of context” No harm no foul.

Sometimes the bs detector can send false alarms.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:35 pm

Sorry meant first convo!!!!

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:37 pm

Purp – you right, but he did good by being honest. She didn’t shut him down so he still had a chance. He started with the offense when he shoulda been playing the field position game. He fugged up with the text.
I’m offering classes to Dudes for the low-low. I am board certified and accredited;
Shut the fugg up 101
Don’t do dumb Isht 102
Slow down Tito Dayummm 101
Sometimes punting is your best Move 102

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
2:38 pm

P-Lito – I feel you. I will say to a guy, “Look, I’m not flirting, I’m just paying you a compliment. You look really nice today/have on a nice suit/nice tie/nice shoes….whatever.”

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:39 pm

I like the title “Slow down Tito Dayummm 101″ :lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:40 pm

ITL, that’s like dating Superhead and she refuses to suck your wang. I don’t know the analogy I am trying to make but it still seems to fit. LOL Seriously, if you someone does not want to musjudged on something they say….just watch what you say. Me thinks we are not getting the full story, she probably hooked up with him and found out after the fact about the other woman. LOL

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:40 pm

The honest compliment with no strings attached is a lost art. We gots to do better.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:41 pm

Interesting you guys put the disclaimer out there.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

This woman was a Special Dark that looked like Mr Hershey poured her himself. I bet she tastes good! “UMMMPHH!!” (In my Bernie Mack voice)

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:43 pm

Leggs, that’s just a preventive measure because some take any compliment as a come on.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
2:43 pm

ITL:
Sure thing we should. Then there are variables, the setting, mood, conversation, and willingness to give up information sends signals in all kinds of directions.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
2:43 pm

PR – Me thinks we are not getting the full story

Could very well be. I know for me I would be highly offended if you’re still texting/calling/talking to me…period…and you’re living and getting and giving it to another woman. Sorry I got a serious problem with that. I know for certain no matter how much the playa and how much game, you shut a brotha down right the first time, he’ll carry that mess on to the next chick. If you say it though and there’s still an opening, he’ll be back. The onus is on you the moment you know to do something about it.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
2:44 pm

Where is Dreams?

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
2:45 pm

The honest compliment with no strings attached is a lost art. We gots to do better.

you said that, Willie D!

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:45 pm

Purp – I don’t think it was that deep. I think she was trolling and caught one that already had a hook in his mouth. She proceeded to tease cause her Bro was around to save her. Nothing more nothing less. All I can say is keep thinking its a Game.

Blackfoote

June 21st, 2011
2:48 pm

You have to have a pre-emptive strike. Some women will argue with you for looking at them too long or give them a sincere compliment.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
2:48 pm

@PR ~ don’t get me wrong, I understand why you put the disclaimer out there. I never have. I give the compliment and keep walking. Perhaps going forward and given the circumstances, I will start with a disclaimer.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
2:49 pm

HOLD UP! WillieD, you’re not talking about me here, are you? I thought we were conversing about the come-on line that LL got from a guy.

And as for married dude, the only reason my brother stepped in is because dude would not leave me alone and was calling and showing up at my house at all hours of the night, even though I told him I didn’t want anything to do with him.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:51 pm

LL411 is the toy girl not ITL right? ITL was the one with her brother to save her?

Willie D, I know the game and how to keep score. Bar, alcohol flowing I told you I live with a woman THEN the convo goes from 0 to 100 and you mention a toy….red zone offense 2 minute drill time. LOL

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
2:54 pm

I would have expected the conversation would have gone from 100 to 0. (lol)

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
2:55 pm

My bad I got the stories intertwined.

ITl – you got dudes stalking you? dayumm, Do I need to put you on the do not talk to list? haha

I’ll admit I practice giving compliments just to see the reaction. You can tell when a Woman is not used to getting compliments without the obligatory game to follow. That puts MOST Women on the offensive cause they are not used to that. My bad, I just give compliments as needed now stop following me round the store I’m Married.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
2:56 pm

LOL once that motor gets started..lol

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
2:58 pm

The honest compliment with no strings attached is a lost art. We gots to do better

I still practice this art but I guess the fact that men don’t get them often, dudes seem to assume that I want to get with them. I should be able to compliment a man’s choice of cologne, nice arms, smile or whatever w/o automatically taking it as a possible booty hook up…but yet, I keep handing them out. ;-)

Sassy1

June 21st, 2011
2:59 pm

Happy Tuesdays BAM!!

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
2:59 pm

WilleD – Stalked. Past tense. And all jokes aside, that is a scary situation. I’m a strong woman, and have always been able to handle my business but that one….

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
3:01 pm

Slim – hence the reason for my disclaimer. (lol)

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
3:01 pm

but yet, I keep handing them out

Compliments that is, not booty hook ups <—-clarification here :-D

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
3:01 pm

I take compliments in stride. I have a married man flow IRL.

Where is Mr I Just Stick and Never Lick? LOL

This Collective Bargning Agreement has the game all messed up. Can’t even give compliments now.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
3:04 pm

Woman gives me a compliment I say thank you. A woman gives me a compliment that I am midly attracted to I say Thank You give her a quick knowing look, then I beat feet out of there!

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
3:07 pm

Purp – I picture your feet moving like the Roadrunner in those cartoon trying to get away from Willie Coyote lol

I’ll never forget the dude who basically stalked me the whole time I was shopping in Walmart. CWAZY ARSE DUDE!!

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
3:08 pm

@PR/Wille D

The compliment isn’t gone; it’s just referred to as “game” by ladies now.

Especially ladies that can’t believe a man could compliment them and keep it moving. Instead of “a random guy gave me a compliment today” it’s “this dude tried to holla”. I listen to the stories and be like, “you actually do smell nice, maybe he was stating a point of fact…”

@Slim

If you compliment a man’s cologne in an fashion other than passing, it means you’ve sniffed him, and the animal instincts don’t just go away…

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
3:14 pm

ITl – you good with me, Do You. BTW, I like your typing, prose and subject/verb agreement. At any rate my booth is over there deeeep in the corner. I drink Killians Red and GOOD Scotch, I take new visitors on Tuesdays and Thursday afternoons. Stop by and say hi sometime. If you happen to see a 6ft Redbone chick and/or a thick chocolate chick smiling then just wave and K.I.M. hahaha j/k j/k

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
3:14 pm

Naw, Dan….some dudes walk around with a PigPen like cologne cloud. I don’t sniff them. I am attacked by them.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:15 pm

“The compliment isn’t gone; it’s just referred to as “game” by ladies now.”

NOT EVEN! We are talking about compliments, not pickup lines. A woman can most definitely discern a compliment from “GAME!”

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:16 pm

LOL@SC. I can always tell when Colleague X has been on the elevator…to quote the Cranberries, I guess he had to let it linger…. :)

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
3:18 pm

SC – hopefully you dont compliment them. Some people need a reality check. I would assume you would tell a dude straight up, Coughing and weezing “too much man too much” hahaha

Leggs – you are being naive. Shall I remind you of the compliment I gave to you about said bartender???

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:19 pm

Awww, thanks, Willie D. I’ll stop by your booth and say hello.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:19 pm

@WillieD ~ nope, I’m not being naive! Not at all.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:19 pm

Yeah remind me.

Mr_NYC

June 21st, 2011
3:20 pm

Give and receive the compliments without the disclaimer.
Additional knowing looks take it a bit further and are at your own risk.

chink

June 21st, 2011
3:21 pm

Shut the fugg up 101
Don’t do dumb Isht 102
Slow down Tito Dayummm 101
Sometimes punting is your best Move 102

HILARIOUS!!

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:22 pm

Thank you, Mr._NYC! A compliment doesn’t have to be followed up with a lustful, greedy look in one’s eyes.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
3:23 pm

Leggs – happy hour, Mgr filling in for KEO. I told you she was sexy and then you told her. All heyal broke loose and I told you thats why I didnt tell her cause she was a biaaatch and wouldn’t know how to take it. remember now???

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:24 pm

Way off-topic: They’ve arrested the man wanted in the murder of Tupac!

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
3:24 pm

Leggs, not all women.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
3:25 pm

I thought the guy was already in jail

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:26 pm

Ok, I remember that. I wouldn’t say “all hell broke loose.” Come on, man, that’s a bit much. Was she a beyotch…YEP!

And the remark was ladies refer to it as “game.” Again, not all ladies. Well, I know real women don’t.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:28 pm

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
3:30 pm

@Leggs

Um, didn’t you see his compliment as game on ole girl?

Plus, I can’t help ‘lustful’ looks, it’s just..how I look

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:32 pm

Speaking of shots (okay, lame, but I had to say it), what time is the blog bar opening today?

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:33 pm

@Dan ~ he did tell her the compliment he told me! There’s a difference.

Well, someone seeing lust in someone’s eyes when they first met is not a turn on (especially if you like Shrek).

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
3:33 pm

OMG this dude came into the office a few weeks ago smelling like he fell IN the damn cologne bottle. Then to top it off, it was some old man smelling cologne. I had a damn headache hours after he left. How do you politely tell a dude he needs to update his cologne game to something preferrably made AFTER 2007 at least.

Regarding receiving compliments, this guy that I see every week at the job finally came up to me and complimented me on my shape/size. I smiled, thanked him and kept it moving as if that was his sole purpose was just to let me know…no biggie. But if you’re ‘complimenting me’ as you shake my hand but fail to want to let it go, then you turn into a creeper. lol

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:33 pm

Meant he DIDN’T tell her….

Dan - Simply...

June 21st, 2011
3:38 pm

@Slim/SC

Why compliment stank?

I call shenanigans for all follow-up to my comment regarding stank.

@Leggs

Lust is lust – how it is received is on the object

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:39 pm

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
3:39 pm

ITL – Shiiiiiiiiit I don eeeen know. All I know is I beens dranking hiccup…since dis mawnin….hey why are all yall spinnin’? stop dis ride…I wanna…hiccup…get off

Mr_NYC

June 21st, 2011
3:40 pm

@SlimUno – was he rocking that Drakkar or the Avon Wild Country LOL

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:41 pm

Ugh, SlimNU. Creepers are gross. I was in Wal-Mart on Saturday, and an employee asked if I needed help finding anything. I responded that, “No, I’m fine,” Creepy McCreeper waits until I turn to walk away and then under his breath says, “You sure are!” Am I supposed to be flattered? Ick.

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
3:41 pm

I didn’t/don’t compliment stank/cologne cloud attacks.

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
3:43 pm

But if you’re ‘complimenting me’ as you shake my hand but fail to want to let it go, then you turn into a creeper

ditto….

what time is the blog bar opening today?

For real ’cause they working me like a Hebrew slave in here…lemme get a shot of Crown Royal Black on the rocks…

UGA1999

June 21st, 2011
3:43 pm

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
3:44 pm

was he rocking that Drakkar or the Avon Wild Country

It was Old Spice :lol:

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:44 pm

LOL. Slim’s comments reminded me of:

You are riding on a beautiful white horse.

On your left side is a drop off.

On your right side are several ostriches being chased by a lion.

In front of you are four large gazelles which won’t get out of your way and you can’t seem to overtake them.

Behind you is a stampede of horses.

What must you do to get out of this highly dangerous situation?

Get your drunk a$$ off the merry-go-round.*

Exiled!

June 21st, 2011
3:46 pm

I took my son to his doc about a month ago, a day be4 his trip and the doc secretary there made/passed a comment/compliment that is still ringing in my mind,leaving me confused coz didnt know what to make of it.

When my son comes back,I’m telling Queen that the kids need a check-up and I’ll take him back there coz I’m curious to see if there is gon be some bite! :lol:

Howdee folks!?

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
3:46 pm

Leggs, that;s the guy they say ordered ths shooting but not the shooter right?

A woman with to much makeup or perfurme is unbearable as well. And they always want to hug you too

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
3:46 pm

Just this morning, I was walking to the train station. This old dude was sitting on his porch when I walked by.

Old Dude: Good morning.
Me: Hello.
Old Dude: You sure do look nice today.
Me: Thank you. (polite smile and never slowing down.)
Old Dude: But you knew that didn’t you?
Me: (Just a nod and a quicker step.)
Old Dude: (Now hollering at me down the street.) You knew you looked good today, didn’t ya?
Me: (Thinking to myself) Now, gddammit. Am I going to have to start driving around the corner to the train station to avoid this aggravating ass old man?!? Sheesh…..)

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
3:49 pm

Dan – I don’t compliment a guy who STANK, Just the good smelling ones…

Mr NYC – I have no idea what it was but all the women in my office were disgusted by it. When he came in he spoke to everyone and sort of patted us on our shoulders as he did his rounds. Later in the day, I’m like, why in the heyal am i still smelling this dude. Come to find out, whatever he had on, was on his hands and now on the shoulder of my shirt!!! lol

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:50 pm

@PR ~ the article says he’s accused of being THE shooter.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:50 pm

was he rocking that Drakkar or the Avon Wild Country

It was Grey Flannel and moth balls. LOL :)

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:51 pm

@SexyC ~ I’m noticing you have a penchant for strange, old men stalking you. :wink:

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
3:53 pm

SexyCool – That story sort of reminds of this dude who would stand in his garage everyday after the school bus dropped us off. We had to pass his house to get to our houses. One day he built up the nerve to come outside in just his robe with nothing underneath showing his wang. So all the days after that, we’d cross the street and run past his house until he eventually put his wang up (don’t nobody want any ole azz wang…and why yo butt be at home everyday at the same time…an ole azz wang with no job YUCK) :lol:

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
3:56 pm

Leggs – I wouldn’t call dude a stalker, just an opportunist. (lol)

SlimGoody – I woulda told my momma. :)

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
3:58 pm

Not a stalker…I thought of the word with him still yelling after you for an answer. He wanted his voice to stalk you into answering.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
3:58 pm

Leggs, that just the title in the article is said he paid Dexter Isacc, $2,500 to shot tupac. meow meow meow meow..poor little tink tink has to read the whole article and not just the head line. LOL

Sexy Cool, “You knew that didn’t ya!” LOL

Slim, maybe he was wearing Sex Panther

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
3:59 pm

SC, you want me to send my brother down there?? LOL

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:01 pm

That story sort of reminds of this dude who would stand in his garage everyday after the school bus dropped us off.

Well let me add my .02…the route I take to/from work takes me to the intersection of Ponce and Briarcliff and (I’m not making this up I SWEAR) almost everyday there’s an older guy standing on the corner wearing biker shorts and a short a$$ shirt…and junk just all packed up in the front like heeeeey. To make matters worse, he had a stroke some time ago and walks with a cane and EVERY time I’m at that intersection he’ll limp his old nasty a$$ to my passenger window n wave his cane at me lookin like come get some young guhl. Gross I tell ya…plus old men five you worms

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:01 pm

@PR ~ you’re absolutely correct. I laughed after I read the entire article, and now I see your snarky post. But, you’re right. I don’t mind being “poor little tink tink” in this instance. :wink:

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:02 pm

*give* I meant..

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:02 pm

@SassyMe ~ that dude is a fixture on Ponce and Briarcliff. He’s been there forever with that sock in his pants.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:03 pm

Leggs, lol. You can always pick on my multiple typos due to me responding to fast.

Sassy, worms? LOL

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:06 pm

Leggs I wish him and his sock would go somewhere and sit down somewhere…or at least go to Midtown where he’d have better luck…

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
4:09 pm

Now I KNOW I need a drink.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:09 pm

Isn’t nekkid singing cowboy doing his thing in midtown (lol)? Can’t have those 2 distractions on street corners in midtown.

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:10 pm

worms?

That’s what my granny n ‘nem used to say and sometimes looking at these Old Spice wearing, geriatric, wanna be pimpin guys I believe it…

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:11 pm

Worms, that is so funny. LOL

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:11 pm

I see we’re still on compliments….well I just hate it when they compliment and you smile and say “thank you” or if they say “good mawning” and say back “good morning” and it can’t or won’t end there. It goes on and on and on. Yet, if you put the ig on them they you get nasty snide remarks.

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:12 pm

Oh yeah that’s right….I forgot about the nekkid cowboy. Maybe that’s why dude and his sock standing over there then…wouldn’t want any turf wars goin down. I wonder who’d win? :lol:

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:12 pm

Celisea, what if a guy notices you and says “good morning” you say “good morning” back but yet he wants to get to know you or try and approach you?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:12 pm

Isn’t nekkid singing cowboy doing his thing in midtown (lol)?

Don’t know about the nekkid cowboy but there’s a duded that marches on P’tree with his majorette outfit…..boots, baton and all

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:14 pm

“…wouldn’t want any turf wars goin down. I wonder who’d win?” FUNNY!

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:14 pm

That’s Baton Bob. Yeah, let’s throw him in the mix. What a sight!

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:16 pm

PR – That’s the thing. Saying good morning is not tied to some sort of entitlement. We’re simply speaking and giving plesantries….all in passing. Nothing more or less. How would a dude know he wants to get to know me just speaking and only in passing?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:17 pm

Leggs – You know/know of him? Baton Bob? Didn’t know that was his name. He is hi la ri ous…for real

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:18 pm

if you put the ig on them they you get nasty snide remarks.

it’s a no win situation sometimes…

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
4:19 pm

Baton Bob has a website and Wikipedia page.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
4:20 pm

Shall I say again, Compliments without strings attached are a lost art. Don’t let the few horny old dudes rob your sensibilities about a compliment.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:22 pm

Exactly Sassy.

Usually I’ll say ‘morning…in return and it’s either you can feel their eyes burning holes in your butt/back or his “mmmmmm” or it’s you shole is this that or the other…

or

if you ig (like I do the nasty security guard that told somebody here I was just his type…perv) he keeps yelling “MORNING” or HAVE A GOOD EVENING….for this cat I look the other way…just irks me.

or

it’s dang shawty yeen gotta be like that, you can speak

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:23 pm

Baton Bob has a website and Wikipedia page.

Really??? Imma check him out

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:25 pm

We gave anyone for the 4th corner.

Sock Person
Nekkid Cowboy
Baton Bob

Too bad the dude walking around in the Superman costume stopped roaming. Use spot him all the time around The Equitable Bldg.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:25 pm

OMG…there is a page on Wikipedia!!! Baton Bob is famous

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:26 pm

@Celisea ~ Baton Bob has followers. Yes indeed!

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

The first time we saw Baton Bob a couple of coworkers and myself was coming down to pay for our parking as we were moving from Cobb County back downtown….we almost had a wreck…another girl was driving.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:28 pm

And really it is rude to not speak…it cost nothing to be friendly.

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
4:29 pm

Is it me, or does Leggs seem to know all the weirdos around town? lol

Quick Leggs, what’s the guys name that is often found walking up and down Old National? :-p

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:30 pm

Celisea, so If I see you 2 or 3 mornings and I say good morning one day you say good morning back and I ask you your name, after introducing myself in an effort to get to know you…because I amy find you attractive or maybe it’s the first time that you have noticed me…I am wrong for that?

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:30 pm

Don’t let the few horny old dudes rob your sensibilities about a compliment

Never that Mista Willie but I get your point.

Yep Celisea it can definitely be a no win situation…

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:31 pm

Baton Bob has been featured on the news, articles on him have appeared in the AJC. He takes his baton twirling, shashaying down the street very serious. He is a fixture and people respect him (sure some laugh, but that number is dwindling).

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:32 pm

WOW WTH is that! Someone should have warned me before I googled Baton Bob.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:32 pm

That was a good shot, SlimNU. I’ve been here since 1979. I hope to know a little bit about a lot of the goings on in Atlanta.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:34 pm

It’s very rare for me to be on Old National. I don’t know what’s going on over there. But, you must know him because that would be the only way for you to know if the name I gave was right or wrong. :wink:

SlimNumeroUno

June 21st, 2011
4:35 pm

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
4:35 pm

PLito – not wrong at all. However, if I respond in a very noncommital manner, not trying to encourage your attention but trying to refrain from being rude, do not take my manners as a green light for an all out press.

Why can’t you just be contect with a hi/bye kinda exchange?

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
4:36 pm

conteNt…

By the way…my appreciation to the powers that be for correcting the posting issues that the blog had been having for those few weeks.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:37 pm

So persistence does not pay off?

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
4:38 pm

Sassy – My Dad is Mista Willie. I’m William, my friends call me Bill and my real friends call me Dynamite.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:38 pm

Sexy Cool ,likes baton Bob

Sassy, likes the old guys with worms

Leggs, likes the wierdo’s

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:42 pm

Yes, PR, the weirdo’s are the underdogs…I’ve always gravitated to the underdogs….

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:43 pm

my real friends call me Dynamite.

hmmm…wonder why? Okay gotcha. So who’s bartending?!

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:43 pm

Leggs are you joking or in a mood?

SexyCool

June 21st, 2011
4:43 pm

I actually have no opinion about Baton Bob. I’ve never seen him. I’ve only read about him in the AJC.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:45 pm

PR – so If I see you 2 or 3 mornings and I say good morning one day you say good morning back and I ask you your name, after introducing myself in an effort to get to know you…because I amy find you attractive or maybe it’s the first time that you have noticed me…I am wrong for that?

Ummm, not I wouldn’t say you’re wrong however if after we’ve exchanged hellos a few times and think you might want to give it a try and the person is not interested it should be neither here nor there. I thought you meant if you saw me once and had a epiphany that I was “the one.” LOL

Now let me ask you this, if we’ve exchanged hellos a number of times and there sets in a comfort level of knowing and expecting to see each other same time every day and we both know what it will be…your sexy smile and my sexy return (at least that what’s you’re reading), what if you get up the nerve and it’s a no go. Will you have that same level of “friendliness” the next day or going forward? Or will you feel shot down and change and get all dry or altogether avoid. If you can’t keep it up and your disappoint comes through…. Were you really speaking or seeking an opportunity?

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
4:45 pm

Sassy – ok then is when I stop talking to you and just ask for a stiff drank. Who’s bartending.

Purp – Leggs is always in a mood. Figure out which one.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:46 pm

Sassy,

I called for Dreams but he didn’t answer. I say go on in and help yourself…free of charge.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
4:46 pm

Celisea – huh?

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:47 pm

I’m joking.

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:49 pm

Celisea, being who I am. I would keep speaking with “hello’s” in the mornings, no harm no foul…also no guts no glory..I love the chase…but I know when a woman does not want to be caught either.

Exiled!

June 21st, 2011
4:49 pm

PR?

Baton Bob is ur uncle?

dude looks like a Zulu warrior with that feather head gear and ankle stuff.

Seems hes got some twisted wires…

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:50 pm

WillieD – My 4:45? I’m asking if we saw each other daily, just in passing say coming in the building or on the sidewalk at lunch time and it comes to be an expected “hello”….say from that you get that feeling of maybe I’ll go further and ask her out. If I said no, would you still be able to exchange plesantries? Would you be able to speak the next morning without missing a beat or would your disappoint shine through?

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
4:51 pm

Purp – how is your Fri morning Gas Station Stan coming along?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:51 pm

PR – being who I am. I would keep speaking with “hello’s” in the mornings, no harm no foul…also no guts no glory..I love the chase…but I know when a woman does not want to be caught either.

Gotcha. I also have your email…you are a nut. No I don’t think me and you know who have crossed paths…you can ask him though :)

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
4:54 pm

Celisea – I wouldn’t ask you out. Personally I’d have you acting ike Wise Diva and blogging about it. hahaha j/k j/k. I would keep speaking. my pleasantries don’t stop just because you said no. I do however know my boundaries and would never step over them to make you uncomfortable. But thats just me.

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
4:55 pm

I say go on in and help yourself…free of charge.

That’s what I’m talking ’bout…

What’s wrong Willie?…did I offend?

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:55 pm

Willie, same thing “hello’s” and she flirts! It’s good for my ego, I act shy. She knows I must be balling because of the size and newness of my John Deere!

Celisea, LOL…ijs

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
4:56 pm

Wise Diva would confuse the hell out of me if I tried dating her. LOL

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
4:59 pm

Willie – I wouldn’t ask you out. Personally I’d have you acting ike Wise Diva and blogging about it

Is that right now? Alrighty then. Can’t really say I agree with that but hey, nothing wrong with a bit of confidence.

Leggs

June 21st, 2011
4:59 pm

Shut down negativity, avoid haters and say something nice to a stranger today. Then watch how your own day improves!

This is comical given the issue on “compliments” today!

PEACE~

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:00 pm

Sassy – not offended at all. How you doing? Whats on ya mind today? It is Tuesday btw.

Purp – Methinks WD is a vixen that unless you are all in (to her) then its a wrap.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
5:01 pm

Sassy, I’m going to join you at the bar! Lawd knows I am ready for a drink.

With some folks, ain’t nothing you can do but shake your head…..

Purple Rain

June 21st, 2011
5:02 pm

Willie, from day one, she wants it all for her and only her….the rest of your life would have to cease existing. LOL

Sassy Me...I'm soo ready :-)

June 21st, 2011
5:02 pm

How you doing? Whats on ya mind today?

Imma gone head and plead the fiifth and be out….read y’all tomorrow!!

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:03 pm

Celisea – Confidence is a given, but I would at least wait until you gave me more than a smile and good morning. I want you at least wondering and thinking about when I’ll ask for more.

LL411

June 21st, 2011
5:05 pm

Folks, it wasn’t that serious. He mis-lead me, and I threw him a curve just for the hell of it. And… no I’m not talking to him on the phone or returning his texts, that was made clear when I said Peace.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:06 pm

LL – we got that. We let you off gthe hook. No harm no foul.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
5:07 pm

You know what, Willie? Why don’t you just give me a bottle of single-malt Glenlivet, a bucket of ice, and a glass? I’ll be in the corner.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
5:09 pm

WillieD – I thought I said that. I said under the premises of a few well exchanged hellos (that would include sexy smiling, winking..maybe, and a glare from your white teeth). Theeeen you felt comfy enough to go a step further. By that time I am wondering. I just might not feel to compelled to allow it to go futher by declining. Then would you be noneffected? Same sexy hello or just hello and a smile? You know I would know if you felt a hint of rejection if you couldn’t come through the same way as in all other mornings right? Just checking.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:17 pm

LL -Glenlivet is not house scotch and is not cheap and is NOT reserved for the everyday blah blah blah talks. Sure its not high end either but do you want to talk about it? You headed towards the wrong corner.

Celisea – do you normally put this much emphasis on a hello? Somehow I think your defense is overloaded and dudes don’t stand a chance even if they K.I.M. Tell the truth do you throw rocks after dudes running away saying dayumm I just said hello? hahaha

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
5:19 pm

Nope. Just want to sit in my corner and have my drink.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:19 pm

but you asked for a Bottle.

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
5:20 pm

Okay, drinkS. :)

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:22 pm

alrighty then, have a few drinks and be safe. don’t mention toys and Watch out for the wolves. I’ll see you Thursday. same time same corner. hahaha

Into the Light

June 21st, 2011
5:26 pm

Will do, sir. :)

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:28 pm

Purp – we need to get ITL an after 5pm tutorial kit. I think she’s ready.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
5:31 pm

Actually Mr. Willie, that was not emphatically stated but rather a breakdown and spin from a question posed to me. I didn’t state a defense. Was that my post you spoke to or…. I can hear very well.

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:39 pm

Celisea -neither its after 5pm. Youv’e been rather angelic and motherly the last few days. Care to let your hair down for a min? Drinks on me.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
5:43 pm

WillieD – There’s that tone again. The hair is ALWAYS down. Since you brought it up, let me gon head and keep it in tow…..how bout a NON achoholic drink please?

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
5:45 pm

And for your sir…can I get an altoid with that please. How’s that for angelic?

Willie Dynamite

June 21st, 2011
5:53 pm

what tone, what???? non-alcoholic mojito for you. no prob I aim to please. Altoids on deck. Pick your flava.

Celisea

June 21st, 2011
6:02 pm

What tone? Let me dispel and slide over and make space for you to cop a squat. See, angelic