What’s wrong with sexting?
I’m sure you are beyond tired of hearing about the fallout over Anthony Weiner. I understand! If I hear one more Weiner joke I’ll probably throw something.
However, I’d be remiss in my dating blogger duties if I didn’t dedicate at least one day of discussion to a common thing on the dating scene: Sexting. Texting with sexual innuendo, racy pictures, etc.
I was reading on New York Times about the debate on adult sexting. Is it wrong? Are you uncomfortable with it? Is it something that you do when you aren’t with someone exclusively?
I was having dinner with friends when the Weiner topic came up (Seriously, no pun intended) and the guys asked us how many of us had engaged in sexy text messaging. Turns out, the better question was, who hasn’t? Apparently, sexting goes down sometimes before you seal the deal.
It’s a tricky thing, though. You can’t go from just meeting someone to sending them a random picture of you in underwear. It takes finesse! Some people don’t get that.
Have you ever received unsolicited/unwanted text messages from someone you dated?
Do you think there is something wrong with sexting? Has it ever worked for you, i.e. resulted in a positive response?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
P.S. Thanks to all the commentary/feedback on the blog topics – good and bad. I’ve been doing this for a long time but it is always important to hear criticism and critique. Thank you!
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Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:00 pm
Do you guys want to read what we have thus far???
DreamsMaterialize
June 10th, 2011
4:02 pm
We met a mutual friend’s bbq and had been trying to hook up for months now, but our busy lifestyles had thusfar prevented our much anticipated meeting. It was either traveling on business, volunteering, or working weekends to get that new business off the ground. Finally, one saturday I decided that come hell or highwater, we were going to see each other…and I wasn’t taking NO for an answer. So, I dialed the number, convinced that today would be the day…voicemail…DAMN. Nevertheless, I masked my disappointment and left a message. My determination must have been evident through the phone because she called back about 5 minutes later saying she was available. Truth be told, it wasn’t really the best day to be out. It was hot and overcast, but f@$% it, I wouldn’t be deterred…not today. I told her to meet me an hour before dusk at the lake (she knew the one), and I’d take care of the rest. I got a head start in order to handle the logistics…reserved a row boat (those days of overnight camp would serve me well today). I also picked up some assorted finger foods and two bottles of wine, an Argentinian merlot and a traditional French bordeaux. When I arrived at the lake, she was already there, dawning a traditional but stylish straw hat and a full length sundress that perfectly accented her silhouette, especially when the occasional breeze teasingly revealed the curves through that dress. Damn, what I wouldn’t give to BE that dress right now, draped over her body, wrapping her up in my warm and strong embrace, easing my way into all her crevices. I had to stop myself or else my body would surely betray my thoughts…didn’t want to ruin this. When she saw me, she smiled that exhuberant, mesmerizing smile and gave me hug. You know the kind…that long, lingering, firm hug where neither of you want to let go. My arms felt perfect around her waist, and I got lost lost in her scent. The feeling must have been mutual because during the hug, I squeezed just a little extra, and she let out a slight moan and whispered, “I’ve been waiting for this.” Yeah, this was about to be a hell of a boat ride…
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:02 pm
Yes Leggs!!!
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:05 pm
Caught In The Rapture, by the MLBs!
As I entered the room I noticed him in the corner. Just a sheet covering that which I wanted the most. I felt the pulse between my legs as I sauntered over to him, breathing much too fast. I reached the edge of the couch and looked into his smoldering eyes. I slowly unbuttoned my blouse and stepped out of my skirt letting him admire all that stood before him. He quickly snatched me and….
I grabbed her azz with a double palm. As she put one leg over my thigh I could feel the heat the warmth from her insides causing me to sweat with fire and desire. Soon the other leg crossed my thighs and it felt like a warm wet shower had hit my crouch to a point…….
Her puddy tightly griped my Wang the way an auto mechanic holds a wrench. I felt the quick gush of her breath as she breathed in my face very heavy. At that moment, I whispered ‘f-k me biaaatch’ it was like I had suddenly aroused a beast from deeper slumber coz she started riding me like a star jockey does a winning horse. I felt the full force of her pelvis digging into me, my long Wang feeling the very deep insides of her long and tight vault…
As I felt her slow grinds turned into a rapid thrust I grabbed her waist and stood with her in my arms, slowly backing her into the wall I dropped down to my knees, looking into her eyes knowingly. Slowly I kissed her navel and massaged her moist treasure chest with my hand. Her moistness welcomed me to explore deeper with my tongue, slowly but surely I lapped up her juices as if I was a feign in need of a fix. Her hand gripped the back of my head to bring me close as she climaxed….
Gripping my head so tightly she left the marks of her ecstasy on my neck. As I gently laid her across the satin sheets to relish the sensation of my tongue ravishing and delighting her, her arms grabbed the back of my things and she enveloped my strength with her sugary walls. She backed her ample legs against me and willed me to sync her thrusts with mine daring me to keep pleasure her as her sighs of excitement kept rising to the ceiling. I gripped my hands across her shoulders and stroked her back with my wicked tongue and enjoyed the ride to another level. But she wasn’t through with me yet…
I scooped her naked, quivering body into my arms and carried her to the tub, where a warm bath was already drawn and waiting. I lowered her into the water and proceeded to softly, meticu.lously bathe every supple curve and nook of her voluptuous body. When satisfied with my work, I lifted her out of the tub and placed her gently on the bed, lying face down, legs slightly agape. I mounted her from behind, pressing my chest into her back, and slithered slowly down her still wet body, placing soft, seductive kisses down her neck, back, thighs, pausing momentarily to suck on her dainty toes before returning upward, at last finding refuge in the sweet, throbbing heat between her thighs…
We met a mutual friend’s bbq and had been trying to hook up for months now, but our busy lifestyles had thus far prevented our much anticipated meeting. It was either traveling on business, volunteering, or working weekends to get that new business off the ground. Finally, one Saturday I decided that come hell or high water, we were going to see each other…and I wasn’t taking NO for an answer. So, I dialed the number, convinced that today would be the day…voicemail…DAMN. Nevertheless, I masked my disappointment and left a message. My determination must have been evident through the phone because she called back about 5 minutes later saying she was available. Truth be told, it wasn’t really the best day to be out. It was hot and overcast, but f@$% it, I wouldn’t be deterred…not today. I told her to meet me an hour before dusk at the lake (she knew the one), and I’d take care of the rest. I got a head start in order to handle the logistics…reserved a row boat (those days of overnight camp would serve me well today). I also picked up some assorted finger foods and two bottles of wine, an Argentinian merlot and a traditional French Bordeaux. When I arrived at the lake, she was already there, dawning a traditional but stylish straw hat and a full length sundress that perfectly accented her silhouette, especially when the occasional breeze teasingly revealed the curves through that dress. Damn, what I wouldn’t give to BE that dress right now, draped over her body, wrapping her up in my warm and strong embrace, easing my way into all her crevices. I had to stop myself or else my body would surely betray my thoughts…didn’t want to ruin this. When she saw me, she smiled that exuberant, mesmerizing smile and gave me hug. You know the kind…that long, lingering, firm hug where neither of you want to let go. My arms felt perfect around her waist, and I got lost lost in her scent. The feeling must have been mutual because during the hug, I squeezed just a little extra, and she let out a slight moan and whispered, “I’ve been waiting for this.” Yeah, this was about to be a hell of a boat ride…
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:06 pm
Damn Dreams I just exhaled reading that….y’all tryna make me backslide tonight!! But I ain’t gone do it…I ain’t
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
4:07 pm
“eat your Wheaties”
Sassy and Me: Well hope you like different sports cause I’m a football player not anymore but if you can put me to sleep I promise to wake up and do like wise. And my fav cereal Cap’n Crunch……LOL
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:09 pm
I don’t think she’ll have any problem putting you to sleep. None whatsoever!
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
4:09 pm
“.y’all tryna make me backslide tonight!!”
Sassy — I’m sending you a “care package” with some strawberry-flavored massage oil, a velvet flogger, and a case of Red Bull. I’ll be over at around 1am to deliver it personally…
Purple Rain "Celisea's boy toy"
June 10th, 2011
4:10 pm
Sassy, I run Marathon’s and half marathon’s just ran one in Sand Diego this past weekend. Can you hang with this country gentleman?
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:11 pm
DreamsM ~ came all Debonair like. Excellent job everyone! {{clapping, clapping, clapping}}
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
4:12 pm
I hope nobody uses that as motivation to commit crime!
I don’t want to be subpoenad(sp)
But then again I think the court house will be a ruckus,with all of Atlanta coming to see who is PR who is Swiss…..etc
Scandalous!
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:12 pm
We need to know what happened on that boat ride…hope someone closes it out or simply use our imaginations…..hmmmmmmm
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
4:13 pm
Clap, clap, clap, (not the other claps) great job fellas how about that ladies on a whim.
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:13 pm
Well hope you like different sports cause I’m a football player
Oh really?! So that means you’ve got a good sized body and enough strength to pick it up and walk it around the room like Vingh Rhames did in Baby Boy…or do you. Plus that means you’ve got that football booty..nice n tight n high so when I smack it it’ll bounce back. I hear you…loud n clear papi…
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:14 pm
how about that ladies on a whim.
got me smiling for no reason…
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:15 pm
No complaints.
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
4:16 pm
Leggs clapping too, you know being a guy I have to specify my claps……LOL
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
4:17 pm
Dreams…that was a good move..the one u make on that chic that’s taking a lil time for u to close the deal on…
That’s called a hole-in-one!
Close on her and hole on her in one swooping moove!
Good job bro!
Purple Rain "Celisea's boy toy"
June 10th, 2011
4:18 pm
Leggs I will run a marathon on you. LOL
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
4:18 pm
Golf analogy yall
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:18 pm
Wow fellas that was GREAT!!!!
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
4:20 pm
Maybe abc can close it now!
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
4:20 pm
“{{clapping, clapping, clapping}}”
D@mn, Leggs — I didn’t know you could make the mini-donk do that….
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:20 pm
And I have the traction and grip to stay in stride with you!
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
4:21 pm
Sassy and Me:
6′4″ 255 line backer,or tight end size and yeah I think I can lift all over the room.
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:21 pm
@Ex ~ you’re really playing with our intelligence if you felt you needed to break that golf analogy down to us!
Purple Rain "Celisea's boy toy"
June 10th, 2011
4:24 pm
LOL, abc typing the last paragraph. LOL
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
4:27 pm
Enjoy your weekend – PEACE ~
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:27 pm
6′4″ 255 line backer,or tight end size and yeah I think I can lift all over the room
That’s my type for sho…my boy toy was 6′6″ and a lil heavier…it’s partly his fault I’ve got this thing for big guys. I’m only 5′3″ 153lbs but I make it do what it do baby
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
4:30 pm
Blog men…this has been quite titillating and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Have a great weekend everbody.
DreamsMaterialize
June 10th, 2011
4:32 pm
yeah that was just a teaser for the ladies. ya’ll want to know what happens next though don’t you?
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
4:33 pm
Had fun with y’all please have a safe weekend and ladies bring your pretty selves back Monday. Thanks fellas we showed up and not out today.
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
4:38 pm
The Grand Finale’ (by abc):
“One could scarcely image a more asinine way to spend an afternoon that writing such tawdry garbage as this. It seems all of you are governed solely by your overactive loins, in lieu of an actual brain. It’s a wonder any of you can muster the strength to even type your mindless posts here, what with all the blood congregating in your nether regions. Good day.”
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
4:40 pm
** imagine
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
4:46 pm
LOL
Abc! Aka Swiss!!
Purple Rain "Celisea's boy toy"
June 10th, 2011
4:49 pm
Swiss, that’s it!
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
4:55 pm
Ummmm, what did I walk in on….I hear violins and stuff playing in MY background
DreamsMaterialize
June 10th, 2011
4:57 pm
Ummmm, what did I walk in on….I hear violins and stuff playing in MY background
Heyyyyyyyy there Celisea. Did you miss everything? Want me to do a recap for you?
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
5:04 pm
Dreams – Heyyyyyyyy there Celisea. Did you miss everything? Want me to do a recap for you?
No…I stepped away a couple of pages back. Ummm, I don’t think I need a rewrite, heck the violins started playing about halfway through your 4:02. Shoot another one of those I might drift away.
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
5:06 pm
Can’t lie though….not sure how much of the dreamy I can take. I like mine in small dosage with a hint of reality on the side.
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
5:06 pm
said witha smile of course
Foxy
June 10th, 2011
6:25 pm
Foxy loves SEXTING! Foxy likes intellectual sexy…not raunchy
RWSD
June 11th, 2011
12:50 am
This Weiner is even better
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnIHd8S_jGQ
Jerry
June 11th, 2011
8:50 pm
Ask J-Lo, Edwards, Paris Hilton …, if videos taken my your most trusted SO, or spouse, can come back to bite you. If you care, try to restrain yourself from taking too many risks in life.
cc
June 11th, 2011
9:31 pm
When it is between 2 adults, I see nothing wrong with it. I do also believe that it should be more suggestive than all out porn. For those who want to send more – learn to skype. Skype doesn’t back up its memory it is live stream. Thus, nothing left for later if things don’t pan out.
truthpaste
June 12th, 2011
5:01 am
If your a consenting adult, with another consenting adult, and you are committed to each other, have fun. If not, you deserve the humiliation that’s coming down the pike.
lee
June 12th, 2011
7:33 am
I never sent naked pictures. Why would i have too !? I don’t talk dirty either so i guess i am boring. So be it. I can say that men and women who receive naked pictures share. I was standing in line @ a fast food joint when this guy showing everyone of his work buddies some girls naked picture she just sent him, i also saw along with everyone in line. Hell he was holding it up laughing “oh look what i got” only if she knew what an ass hole he was she would of kept her clothes on. Just remember once you send the picture it is saved forever somewhere in a server only to be used again in some bad joke spam email that we all get. This has a way of coming back to bite you in the ass… as we can all see from Weiner and others who have been found cheating ..