What’s wrong with sexting?
I’m sure you are beyond tired of hearing about the fallout over Anthony Weiner. I understand! If I hear one more Weiner joke I’ll probably throw something.
However, I’d be remiss in my dating blogger duties if I didn’t dedicate at least one day of discussion to a common thing on the dating scene: Sexting. Texting with sexual innuendo, racy pictures, etc.
I was reading on New York Times about the debate on adult sexting. Is it wrong? Are you uncomfortable with it? Is it something that you do when you aren’t with someone exclusively?
I was having dinner with friends when the Weiner topic came up (Seriously, no pun intended) and the guys asked us how many of us had engaged in sexy text messaging. Turns out, the better question was, who hasn’t? Apparently, sexting goes down sometimes before you seal the deal.
It’s a tricky thing, though. You can’t go from just meeting someone to sending them a random picture of you in underwear. It takes finesse! Some people don’t get that.
Have you ever received unsolicited/unwanted text messages from someone you dated?
Do you think there is something wrong with sexting? Has it ever worked for you, i.e. resulted in a positive response?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
P.S. Thanks to all the commentary/feedback on the blog topics – good and bad. I’ve been doing this for a long time but it is always important to hear criticism and critique. Thank you!
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Purple Rain
June 10th, 2011
11:46 am
Celisea, uh unnnh show us the picture! LOL
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
11:48 am
Purple hey the palm works nicely on that azz too….LOL
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
11:48 am
Leggs – @Celisea ~ that’s not skimpy, that’s nude (lol).
Not much shock me and I was a bit taken aback when I saw it.
Sorry PR, she took it down much to their dad’s contesting.
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
11:50 am
Celisea?
Does the sister’s profile say,’looking’ or ‘on the prowl’ on her status?
Purple Rain
June 10th, 2011
11:52 am
Blackfoote, asspalm takes on a whole new meaning
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
11:55 am
Hey MMEELLOO – Now you know I ain’t going Xrated with you right?
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
11:57 am
LOL….@Purple
Funny how one palm can be agony and the other will be extasy…..LOL
Purple Rain
June 10th, 2011
11:59 am
Celisea, why was the dad so mad? Wait a minute was she a young lady?
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
12:05 pm
haven’t been to the strip in a looooon loooong time ..
who remembers,do strip djs say,’hey,where my biaatches at,’ when beckoning to the dancers to head to the dance floor? Is that approp lingo?
Purple Rain
June 10th, 2011
12:05 pm
Blackfoote, chicks dig the double asspalm
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
12:08 pm
“Light bulb…I done figured it out. abc is the Highlander. That’s why it seems he’s from 1522″
Dreams — I thought this was abc…?
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
12:08 pm
PR?!
when doggy? Or when walking the street?
it helps when there is good bouncy meat on the azz….
do slim chics luv doggy too?
Purple Rain
June 10th, 2011
12:11 pm
Exiled, In my cummings then goings I did not stay around long enoug to ask the slim chicks if they loved it
SlimNumeroUno
June 10th, 2011
12:19 pm
Giving Purp the side-eye Slimmy’s can’t get no afterhump cuddle time?
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
12:19 pm
Well maybe Slimgoody will answer that one
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
12:20 pm
Funny how one palm can be agony and the other will be extasy
One palm can be good agony… depends on you do it
Celisea
June 10th, 2011
12:21 pm
PR – Celisea, why was the dad so mad? Wait a minute was she a young lady?
She’s in her twenties but I guess because she’s his babygirl. Probably couldn’t take seeing her out there like that and then for all to see.
Laid Back White Guy
June 10th, 2011
12:21 pm
I love flirtatious texts…but never do pics…Where’s Wifey and KOB when you need them? I need their numbers!! lol
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
12:22 pm
More bounce for every ounce that’s good then the double palm even better…..LOL
Does it stimulate women to palm double palm your azz? Well it is Freaky Friday and WD condoned it today…….LOL
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
12:23 pm
It’s so hot this coming summer with temps off tha chats….
Slims are back in vogue again till winter rolls,break up and snatch the geazers!
and the cycle continues!
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
12:29 pm
Sassy Me Black Butterfly it can be done, you know the hurt so good feeling. You do know about it don’t you?
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
12:32 pm
Blackfoote the palm is okay(for me anyway) but I like a lil spank…not directly on my bum but kinda spank it from the side…
Exiled!
June 10th, 2011
12:33 pm
Slim?
answer that question for me be4 I come after u?
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
12:35 pm
you know the hurt so good feeling. You do know about it don’t you?
That’s one my specialties Blackfoote…I can take it as well as I can give it. Cause I will bring it but not for evervbody. I’ve run across a few that didn’t like that good pain and I found that kinda boring…
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
12:36 pm
“…but I like a lil spank”
Sassy — Oh, there’s about to be some spankin’ going on…
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
12:42 pm
Oh, there’s about to be some spankin’ going on…
uhhh huh…while I throw it atcha from the back…talkin’ sexxy/raunchy isht to you
Wait it’s waaaaay too early for this…it’s not even 1 yet. Y’all on a roll like sh!t paper..
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
12:45 pm
Purple we forgot to add the spank to go along with palm. Thanks Sassy for the update and our oversight wont happen again…….LOL
Sassy Me my hands are clean and just applied some sanitary gel may I give it a virtual spank? No kidding……LOL
BlackMagicWoman-NYC
June 10th, 2011
12:45 pm
EXILED…you so nasty!
Yep, I have the regular upper respiratory infection that asthmatics tend to get. 
PR…..Shhhh..now see, there you go blowing our cover! Now everybody knows you’ve seenmy boo kitty:lol: I guess I won’t tell anybody how you curl up in fetal position and ask me to hold you afterwards!
LEGGS…yes I am near a Jewsih deli. I may have to go there and get some soup.
SLIM…You know I am always on egde!
BlackMagicWoman-NYC
June 10th, 2011
12:47 pm
Dang…there I go again with my typos! I’m all dizzy and stuff. Oh Lawd….it’s the big one Elizabeth!
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
12:47 pm
LOL…….@Swiss has woke up. Let’s get it started in here.
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
12:48 pm
Blackfoote vente aquí papi….bring it
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
12:52 pm
I won’t tell anybody how you curl up in fetal position and ask me to hold you afterwards!
Black Magic!!!…not the fetal position. You must’ve really put a “good” hurtin on him…
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
12:53 pm
Sassy — Get over here & get on your hands & knees… I’ve got a lil’ something for you…
SlimNumeroUno
June 10th, 2011
1:02 pm
Exiled – I don’t speak for the Slim’s of the world but we likes to get it in doggy. However, there are some ‘height’ limitations for this ride. Can’t have the pole sticking up outta the top of the head…
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
1:03 pm
BMW — NO SOUP FOR YOU!!!!! (Until you sext me a pic of your punanny)
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
1:04 pm
After the spanking can you put me in a curled fetal position? Inquiring minds must know. You can get under my umbrella, ella, ella eh eh eh under my umbrella. It’s getting ready to rain some good ole fashion passion.
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
1:05 pm
Can’t have the pole sticking up outta the top of the head…
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
1:09 pm
Swiss only if I get to use it on you,too
After the spanking can you put me in a curled fetal position?
I aim to please…I can do that and then some…
It’s getting ready to rain some good ole fashion passion.
yeah then we gone ride the waves of ecstaaaaacy
DreamsMaterialize
June 10th, 2011
1:12 pm
Man ya’ll done got it crackin in here. Even BMW done showed up and showed out, sick and all. (sup mami) I see Sassy coming strong with it for the second day in a row. You must got that feelin. (wah gwan) And Slim come over this way if you want some cuddle time. Gotta love the blog ladies.
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
1:17 pm
You must got that feelin. (wah gwan)
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
1:18 pm
Sassy — But of course…
I don’t mind if you leave a mark, just try not to leave a scar… 
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
June 10th, 2011
1:20 pm
Actually, those things don’t hurt at all… But they do make a really cool sound…
SlimNumeroUno
June 10th, 2011
1:22 pm
BMW – Well I’m sure Swiss, Dreams, or Exiled can give you something that’ll kill two birds with one stone. It’ll knock that edge off your back (pun intended) lol and help build that immune system to rid yourself of that cold of yours
No need to thank me fellas
Blackfoote
June 10th, 2011
1:26 pm
Sassy Me well I’ll just be damned why am I here and you’re over there……LOL
WHAT….that and then some…..You do know the magic in those words. I’ve been sexually virtualized there’s a first for everything I’m shaking, must exit for lunch to recover. Saga continues LATER.
Hmmmmmm
June 10th, 2011
1:27 pm
Has it been my experience only that men are quick to ask for pictures? Has it been my experience that women are often disappointed? You ask for pictures just don’t be a fat ug-mo your own self.
Sassy Me...Black Butterfly :-)
June 10th, 2011
1:28 pm
I don’t mind if you leave a mark, just try not to leave a scar…
No my dear..I don’t leave scars. You might be a little red but NO scars.
But they do make a really cool sound
I want one….
Purple Rain
June 10th, 2011
1:37 pm
I’m not ashamed of being left in the fetal position. A good time is a good time
DreamsMaterialize
June 10th, 2011
1:42 pm
No need to thank me fellas
Dammit Slim you sure you wanna be off the market?
Leggs
June 10th, 2011
1:45 pm
I see it’s still steamy in here!
SlimNumeroUno
June 10th, 2011
1:46 pm
Dreams – Why, my dear, would you ask a lady such as thing as that? Said in my southern belle voice