All the right moves
One of my friends “over shared” his secret to figuring out who would be good in bed and who would be bad. I argued that there is simply no way to tell that sort of thing. You can speculate and imagine, but you don’t know who will have all the right moves and who will send you into fits of frustration.
Personally, I don’ t ever think that men are sizing me up like that..I’m oblivious to it. That is how I prefer to remain because being sexy and wanting to appeal to men is one thing. Trying to display anything beyond that sounds like too much energy.
At any rate, is it common for some guys to imagine who would be good and who wouldn’t? Another guy friend told me that a person’s looks directly correlates to their skills. Honestly, I found that offensive. What do you think, good looking people aren’t good in bed?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta
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299 comments Add your comment
SlimNu
May 26th, 2011
1:17 pm
COOTER?!!!
then 
(Swiss are we still in band camp)? lol
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
1:22 pm
Slim — Yep, I said it. Cooter. And I DON’T mean this guy…
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2011
1:22 pm
Afternoon All,
I can’t say any of my perceived indicators have been proven right. I have been both pleasantly surprised and disappointed o occasion. I can say also that I’ve had a few bad nights as well (hey I’m human).
I think alot of the urban legends are just that. on the Male side; the gap, the walk, gap tooth etc. On the female side size of the feet and hands etc. At any rate I just like it, let me take the chance on being disappointed.
SlimNu
May 26th, 2011
1:25 pm
Dan – well do you also use her willingness to discuss sex in detail to discern which category you’d put her in (i.e. probably slept with LOTS of guys, not many, of almost virginlike)??? Does a loose mouth on sex translate into loose CT in the mind of men?
Fion
May 26th, 2011
1:26 pm
Straight talk
Sexiness, Sensuality and the ability of a Woman to exuded it are open for debate and far be it from
me to be and expert. I’ll just say this and share my feelings on the subject.
It’s like what the Supreme Court said about Pornography,
“It’s difficult to explain, which makes it hard to describe, but you know it when you see it.”
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2011
1:31 pm
as for the Sex talk – A woman just blatantly engaging in lude graphic sex talk is a major turn-off to me. In the few experiences where I encountered that and continued on I was disappointed. it seemed the talk was just that a bunch of talk. Give me the coy, witty, flirty inuendo mixed in with conversation and I’m good.
Dan - Simply....Superior
May 26th, 2011
1:32 pm
@Slim
I couldn’t tell you what “men” think.
For this man, I don’t translate anything into anything on a personal level. When I talk to a woman I take her at her word. If the vibe is there and we get down, cool. If not, cool too.
I don’t have a formula for any other dude thinks or does; I for one, never thought that way.
SexyCool
May 26th, 2011
1:36 pm
Not to offend anyone who may sport *The Gap*, but…everytime I see one, I always wonder why they don’t get braces.
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
1:37 pm
They make braces for that gap?
Trying to picture how that would work, exactly… 
SexyCool
May 26th, 2011
1:39 pm
Article at Essence.com about why men cheat.
”
Jeff, a self-confessed reformed cheater, just made it plain why men do it: ultimately, the guy doesn’t want to be with you. If he did, he would value the relationship enough not to put it in jeopardy.”
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
1:44 pm
Viva La Gap 2038!!
Leggs
May 26th, 2011
1:44 pm
@SexyC ~ not necessarily the gap like you’re “pegged legged” or very bow legged, just a very thin person.
SlimNu
May 26th, 2011
1:45 pm
Not to offend anyone who may sport *The Gap*, but…everytime I see one, I always wonder why they don’t get braces
SexyCool – Well, I believe my GAP is just from being on the small side. I’m not bow-legged which would fall into the category of needing leg braces. I just don’t have that much meat on these herrr thighs…Sort of like a chicken foot, They don’t have much meat but it doesn’t stop folks from gnawing on them.
SexyCool
May 26th, 2011
1:46 pm
Um…yeah….I was talking about teeth.
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
1:48 pm
Women with gap teeth or for men with big vains….LOL
SlimNu
May 26th, 2011
1:49 pm
SexyCool – Teeth Oh…..
Now you know when we’re in sex talk mode, it’s hard to think outside that box. Mouth gaps didnt even cross my mind. lol I’ll go to the corner now for .00000147 seconds
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
1:50 pm
Blog HangMan(12 Letters)
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
SexyCool
May 26th, 2011
1:51 pm
Purp – E, please and thank you.
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
1:53 pm
No E, no S no W
_ _ _ P _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
1:54 pm
P
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
1:54 pm
P
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
1:54 pm
S
Leggs
May 26th, 2011
1:55 pm
OMG, that is too funny. Had no idea you were talking about teeth. When one hears gap, immediately thoughts of a small frame comes to mind! That is hysterical….teeth!
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
1:55 pm
W
Leggs
May 26th, 2011
1:55 pm
C
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
1:56 pm
O
Leggs
May 26th, 2011
1:56 pm
We have to give him a chance to say if any of the letters apply.
cba
May 26th, 2011
1:57 pm
Ironically, I don’t see the “gap” like waaaaaaaaaay back in my day. I think of Ms AB, slightly bow-legged, about 100 and nothing lbs, I could slide my hands, palm up between her gap. As we guys would say, she’s all puddy and would probably cause your nose to bleed. Fast forward to today, I saw Ms AB on FB and “gap” has shrunk considerably
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
1:57 pm
Blackfoote — You took my letter… I’m sure the word has “puddy” in there somewhere…
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
1:58 pm
_ _ _ P_ O_ _ _ _ _ _
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
1:59 pm
no C, No W
Sidebar, I respond to email but for some reason they go to spam/junk folder sometimes even though I use yahoo
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
2:00 pm
“Now you know when we’re in sex talk mode, it’s hard to think outside that box
Even harder to think while inside the box…
SexyCool
May 26th, 2011
2:01 pm
A
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
2:01 pm
E
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
2:02 pm
LOL…..@Swiss
Swiss knowing you and Purple a P had to be in there…..LOL
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2011
2:03 pm
I
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
2:06 pm
no e
_ _ _ P_O_ A _ I A _
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2011
2:07 pm
This is funny. Most topics we have eventually turn into sex talk. Now sex talk has turned into hangman. Then again maybe I should wait to see what the word will be.
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
2:09 pm
R
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
2:09 pm
No L, and you already know the answer is sexual in nature…sort of
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2011
2:09 pm
L
Sassy1
May 26th, 2011
2:09 pm
Well for me…theres no ways you can know what someones sex gone be like by just looking at them. My friend girl meets this guy, he kinda small build and very nice. She used to tall mens so she not really feeling him like that. When they do it, he got a ding a ling like a horse…she very surprised and in pain.
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
2:10 pm
no R, the winner chooses the next word
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2011
2:10 pm
M
Blackfoote
May 26th, 2011
2:12 pm
D
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
2:13 pm
no D
_ _ MP_OM_ _ AI_
SlimNu
May 26th, 2011
2:13 pm
N
SlimNu
May 26th, 2011
2:14 pm
C
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 26th, 2011
2:18 pm
Wait a tic… Did the word just change? ‘Cos those letters are moving around….
Purple Rain
May 26th, 2011
2:18 pm
Slim you know what it is don’t you
N_MP_OMA_NIAC