One of my friends “over shared” his secret to figuring out who would be good in bed and who would be bad. I argued that there is simply no way to tell that sort of thing. You can speculate and imagine, but you don’t know who will have all the right moves and who will send you into fits of frustration.
Personally, I don’ t ever think that men are sizing me up like that..I’m oblivious to it. That is how I prefer to remain because being sexy and wanting to appeal to men is one thing. Trying to display anything beyond that sounds like too much energy.
At any rate, is it common for some guys to imagine who would be good and who wouldn’t? Another guy friend told me that a person’s looks directly correlates to their skills. Honestly, I found that offensive. What do you think, good looking people aren’t good in bed?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta