Dating: Youth or Experienced?
I asked Mr. M to guest blog and he wants to talk about something pretty interesting today, I do enjoy a male’s perspective to liven things up!
It’s all about compatibility in dating and he asks “What do you prefer, youth or experience?”
Dating in Atlanta always goes in waves and as time goes on, naturally our taste change as we discussed last week. Lately I have been doing some volunteering, attending social mixers, events, conferences, and just being out and about. I am meeting a lot of new women who are really cool. There is only one issue that I am confused about: What do I prefer youth or experience?
The young women that I have been meeting are women ranging from 22-26, just getting started in their careers. They also seem a lot more laid back and just fun, maybe it’s because of their inexperience? The women that are more experienced in life, careers and relationships have their pros and cons also.
If you have a choice, what do you prefer youth and someone that you may have to take your time with , or someone more experienced, who does not need you to hold their hand?
By Mr. M, Guest Blogger for Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
7:56 am
Good morning,
Will have to pop back in later but at first glance I would say I’d like a bit of a balance. I don’t want to be with a dude who stil has milk on his breath, not sure or has no idea what direction he wants to go in but at the same time I don’t want a BEEN THERE, DONE IT ALL dude where nothing is new to him. I still want to be able to experience some things together and it be fresh & exciting.
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
8:36 am
As for me, granted I date in a much older crowd, but I avoid youthful inexperience like the plague. It is much easier to date someone who knows what he/she wants and has experienced so that you can determine quickly what if anything you have in common. At the same time, I don’t need a woman in my life who is afraid to get her hair or lipstick messed up either. I like a woman who is equally comfortable in a black sheath at a formal event, or wearing cut off blue jeans in a field on a mountain somewhere or staring a server in the eye and ordering something on a French menu in Paris that looks interesting.
Experienced women who still have a desire to explore and experience new and more things are the best fit for me.
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
8:40 am
Experienced men who still have a desire to explore and experience new and more things are the best fit for me
MC Hammock
May 25th, 2011
8:57 am
No question experience is the BEST. I did the regular dating thing (dating women my own agae) until at the age of 25, I was asked out by a 35 year old. Talk about a life altering experience! Mature women are more interesting, smarter, have the wiles of experience, more worldly…just everything that a 20something has X 10! I would never go back to dating the younger bunch…even if I could.
Also, if you haven’t made love to a 40 year old woman, you’re still a virgin.
TenderRoni
May 25th, 2011
8:58 am
I can say I have experienced both. I dated a guy six years younger than me, and last year I dated a guy nine years my senior. From my experience prefer the senior. But if I found a man that I have the three C’s with than I still would give it a go, no matter the age.
Both youth and a man experienced have their own separate issues. In my experience for instance, the youngin was not financial stable, and undecided with direction, didn’t plan for the future much. My older guy, oooohh he is set in his ways more, a bit more jaded when it comes to relationships.
Lana
May 25th, 2011
8:59 am
I prefer a little of both worlds. The young ones are still great to look at and touch, but they don’t have the “know how” of a more experienced man. Financially, there’s no comparison, obviously. Intelligence and conversation…still the more experienced guy. Basically, the young ones are really only good to look at and be seen with. I’ll take the experience (mature) man on a push.
Dan - Simply....Superior
May 25th, 2011
8:59 am
There’s a middle ground that lie on two ends of the spectrum.
That is, there’s “young” as in: hasn’t lived life, hasn’t had too many bad experiences, isn’t.yet.bitter/distrusting.
Then, there’s “experience” as in: seen it, done it, know it, and still looking for what I now know I turned away so many times.
I couldn’t tell you what the ranges are on the lower end of the age spectrum as I’ve always had an affinity for older women, but there’s something about a young, naive, and genuine person and an older, worn, and genuine person.
To each his/her own in that regard.
Wifey
May 25th, 2011
9:01 am
Depends on what you are looking for. A serious relationship, go with experience. For a roll in the sheets and that’s it, go with the younger guy. It’s not really difficult.
David
May 25th, 2011
9:03 am
VIVA LA COUGARS!!! Esperience is where it’s at!
abc
May 25th, 2011
9:08 am
It depends on your own age. More than 10 years in either direction is generally too much of a spread.
Simply
May 25th, 2011
9:11 am
I would prefer guys that are in their upper 30’s. I’ve dated older guys in their 50’s and their sex drive is totally absent…and thier blood pressure and other health issues comes into play. Guys that are in their mid to upper 30’s are usually the best! The majority of them do not have breast milk ( their mothers milk ) around their lips and they have a high sex drive and are very interesting…where as older men just will not get it for me!
Man's voice
May 25th, 2011
9:12 am
New to the blog. Great topic so wanted to include my input. I’m in my early 30’s and I’ve noticed with the younger girls 22-25 they are just out to enjoy themselves. They will be out with you on a date Thursday night and at the club/bar dancing away the next night. So if you’re looking for something with a little more substance to the relationship I wouldn’t be looking in this age range. Whereas the older girls 27+ have most of their party out by then and want to engage you more and get to know you. I would much rather have the girl with the more experience, steady career, more stability, better conversator etc. Lets be honest what does a 22 year old know about a real relationship? The one where every date was at the Frat house mixer doesn’t count.
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
9:18 am
@ Simply “ouch”
As a philosopher I knew once stated, “I may not be as good as I ONCE was, but I am as good ONCE as I ever was!!!”
…and there ARE pharmaceuticals that can turn once into four or five times
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
9:31 am
Morning,
My preference is always somewhere in the middle. I don’t particularly want to date someone much younger simply because of what I feel would be compatability issues and I definitely don’t want to date a pops or cake daddy…lol
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
9:33 am
So my answer would be if somewhat younger than me, I’d have to see where we’re mostly compatable, meaning he’s experienced enough where we mesh. If older but experienced, he can’t be where I have to change his diaper and keep the pill box replenished
Fion
May 25th, 2011
9:34 am
‘If you have a choice, what do you prefer youth and someone that you may have to take your time with , or someone more experienced, who does not need you to hold their hand?”
Dude, Duuuuude! Really Dude.
22-26, if I met her Saturday it’s over and I’m gone by Tuesday.
Now that I’m north of 40 (not that far north either) beyond Banging her Brains out Bro it ain’t much else a mid 20 something chick can offer me.
……oh yeah put me in the experience (Mature) camp all day.
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
9:40 am
Good Morning All!
It depends on your own age. More than 10 years in either direction is generally too much of a spread
I agree with this. I dated a man 9 years older than me and it was an experience I’ll never forget.
On one hand, it was good for me because he showed me things that men my age( I was 21) were not even thinking about. On the other hand, he also used his age and experience to play with my young mind. But, eventually the student became the teacher
he taught me how to play the game. He was and probably still is a player. I learned a lot about men, good and bad from dealing with him.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
9:45 am
The largest gap for me has been about 10 years…I was about 26/27 and he was 10 years my senior dated off and on for about 3 or 4 years. He had all the trappings but he was so dang grouchy that he came off as a kill joy. He was a pretty decent dude and for the most part and easily moved. If it’s possible, I can’t peg him as mean or hateful nor a whiner just fussy….all the dang time. The youngest that I had a relationship with was 4 years. I’ve gone on a date though with younger.
Foxy
May 25th, 2011
9:57 am
I’m such a COUGAR….I think Romeo is adorable.
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 25th, 2011
9:57 am
Morning, peeps…
On topic: I’ve never ventured more than 5 years in either direction (although, most everybody thinks Mrs. Swiss is considerably younger). Maturity is relative, anyway… But I’d tend to agree with abc — at some point, it’s just too much of a gap to have any real compatibility.
Now, gotta run to the store… I’m fresh out of Altoids…
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
10:04 am
Hey Swiss – Speaking of swirl…had a white dude to look me over nicely this morning. Started in the lobby. The elevators are mirrored and because he was staring so, I looked back at him and obviously he was waiting on that..I was tryna keep my eyes down. Yes, he looked with a “yep I’m looking” expression. I tell ya, he wasn’t half bad at all. For a hot second I wondered hmmm would I date a white dude….hmmm
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
10:04 am
I must say women in thier 40’s turn me on, mentally and physically. I am in my lower 40’s lol but something about a mature woman. Now a says they are in shape too. Yes 40 -53 is my range!
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
10:09 am
I’m such a COUGAR….I think Romeo is adorable- Foxy
I guess that makes me one too…..I think he is smokin hot!
Now, gotta run to the store… I’m fresh out of Altoids- Swiss
Those altoids aint no joke….hell, I am still tired
Bill Clinton
May 25th, 2011
10:19 am
I go for youth!
Simple Man.....
May 25th, 2011
10:21 am
Morning Folks…..Great answers from all concerned today, In fact one of the very few times both the men and women seem to be on the same page…..
Hillary Clinton
May 25th, 2011
10:23 am
Bill,
GET OFF OF THIS BLOG!
Foxy
May 25th, 2011
10:26 am
Today, Foxy had a sexy chap that looked David Beckhamish to check me out in the lobby this morning, our eyes locked….That white boy was soooooooooooooo fine. Foxy is thinking about going back down stairs to accidentily bump into him.
Olderandwiser49
May 25th, 2011
10:33 am
First, I’d never date a woman (of any age) that refers to men as “dudes.” Too immature and Ninja Turtle-ish for me. French researchers determined that, if you are going to date down in age, you should never go younger than half your age plus seven years. This applies to teens as well as adults. There is just as big a maturity gap between 18 and 14 as there is between 40 and 25. Any greater difference than that becomes too diversly generational, and you’ll have nothing in common. While some older men have what appear to be trophy wives, if they fall within this “half + seven” framework, there is a very real possibility that the woman really did marry for love rather than for money.
Mike P
May 25th, 2011
10:39 am
I have dated both older and younger women.
Dating older women don’t necessary mean they’re more experienced, sometimes it just mean they’re more stuck in their ways and usually bitter and have way too many hangups about things that don’t have anything to do with me.
I would have to say you can put me in the younger crowd. I have way more fun with younger women and they’re more open in trying new things (adventurous); I love the feeling I get when I’m the first person they have ever tried new things with. Best ever!!!
Also, if you haven’t made love to a 40 year old woman, you’re still a virgin.
Well call me a virgin then, I can’t see myself having s3x with a forty year old… maybe when I get to be in my mid to late 40’s
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
10:40 am
Good morning.
“Experienced men who still have a desire to explore and experience new and more things are the best fit for me” Had to repeat.
Even though experience is preferred, don’t be a fuddy duddy because you’re experienced. Be youthful in spirit and the exploration process can be so much fun!
@Lovely Brown ~ dang girl, your mouth should be on fire (LOLOL)
TenderRoni
May 25th, 2011
10:42 am
I didn’t get a chance to post yesterday, but the altiods, halls, and peppermint trick has been dully noted to memory for further research…carry on!
abc
May 25th, 2011
10:44 am
Hey 19, we can’t dance together, no, we can’t talk at all.
Ed
May 25th, 2011
10:45 am
This past weekend, I had a lady who said she was 50 (I’m 38) making eyes and smiling at me. Gorgeous red hair and quite the body, even though she was prolly 5′2″. We made conversation and even kissed a little bit. She asked me if I wanted to have dinner over with her at her place. I agreed and on Saturday night I show up at her townhouse and she made an incredible seafood pasta dish. We started talking on the couch and she then said “Look, I’m not going to mislead you. I’m married and my husband had been in Iraq for almost a year. Are you still interested in tonight?”
Lemme see….he’s in the military, carries a gun and probably good at snooping out insurgents….hmmmm. I declined and even today, my buds are emailing me and telling me what a mistake I made in not servicing this lady. I think I prefer to saty alive, myself.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
10:50 am
Olderandwiser49 – First, I’d never date a woman (of any age) that refers to men as “dudes.”
I guess count me out then
Not only do I say dude, I sometimes say “chick” If ninja turtles comes to mind, more than likely it’s “how” you’re hearing it. I don’t think anyone on here speaks 1980 lingo
TenderRoni
May 25th, 2011
10:50 am
@Ed, glad you said her was 50, I thought you were talking about people I know.
I know one lady for sure is cheating on her hubby, and another friend I am suspicious about. Both have hubbies in the military and away.
Reggie
May 25th, 2011
10:54 am
Hey Ed, I speak from experience. Married ladies make the most over the top sexual experiences….when they are not with their hubby. It was a touch and go scenario and I tend to side with your buddies. You would have remembered that evening for a very, very, very long time.
abc
May 25th, 2011
10:56 am
Cheating with a married woman, especially one married to a deployed soldier, is a dog’s behavior. Your buddies are dead wrong, Ed. You too, Reggie. Anyone who does that should be forced to go over there and be on a bomb squad, if they can make it past all the married soldiers who would gladly kick their azz. Wimps. There are plenty of single women.
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
10:58 am
I like mature women and I’ve unsuspectantly approached younger women believing they were mature because that’s how they appeared. A couple I would have gone further with but I’m gentlemanly partial to women of a certain age and the younger ladies do appreciate the chivalry. A mature woman is with out any doubt the best scenario for my future.
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
11:01 am
Reading Mike P’s comments, I have to say that the women in their 40’s have been the best lovers and the best friends by a wide margin. They know what to do, they know what they want (or as much as any woman knows what she wants
a man does not have to do so much of that “courtship dance”…much better. And a big plus is that one can actually have good conversation when not in bed. Women in their 40’s are far and away the best in my opinion. Not even close.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:03 am
Cheating with a married woman, no matter deployed or not is dog behavior….period. Reggie that seems to be the tone of most of your posts…when you do pop in…I agree you are just as wrong for suggesting he should have entertained that behavior.
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 25th, 2011
11:03 am
C — My apologies for staring earlier, but d@mn! You were looking fine this morning!
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
11:04 am
@Foxy ~ there’s this young buck that started dating here about a month ago. Ran into him in the cafeteria and I had a lot of bad thoughts jumping his bones (lol). I may go for it. Not sure, but am considering it. He’s a nice dip of chocolate.
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
11:04 am
Ed, glad you made the decision not to entertain a married woman. Your friends were trying to guide you down the wrong road. His wife can’t hold out for even a year, that’s terrible.
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
11:05 am
Randyt, I agree.
I like women who are Celisea’s age. LOL
Dan - Simply....Superior
May 25th, 2011
11:05 am
@RandyT
That 11:01 was right on.
In my experience, older women didn’t need the false pretense of “courtship” (see: there, been and that, done). If single and attractive, chances were they had their choice of men and just wanted some fun.
Which, back when I was dating, I was more than happy to provide.
Straight, no chaser – loved it.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
11:07 am
Not dating here…started WORKING here!!!
Wifey
May 25th, 2011
11:07 am
I’m back for a few minutes and catching up. I’m 44 and really have no problem dating men many years younger than me. The youngest I ever went out with was 28. I think that the social infatuation with Cougars and MILFs is a well founded on. We are women through and through…not girls. I’ve left a few of the younger generation with a glassy stare and had great pleasure in doing so. Those in their late 30’s are better for my whims. No one really enjoys a 10 minute wonder boy very much.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:08 am
His wife can’t hold out for even a year, that’s terrible.
Exactly and if she picked you up that easily, wonder how many and often she does that? I bet she does whether he’s deployed or not…skank behavior.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:09 am
Swiss – My apologies for staring earlier, but d@mn! You were looking fine this morning!
That was you??!!! Dern it!
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
11:09 am
I’m with you Celisea. He’s fighting for our country and so his family can remain safe. She can at least keep her legs closed to enemy fire!
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
11:09 am
ED:
Haven’t your buddies seen any news that’s one of the quickest ways to die with out the guy who killed you going to jail. You got men killing each other over girlfriends now imagine their wives. Smart for you to not fall for the few moments of glee.
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 25th, 2011
11:10 am
Whatchu mean, “dern it,” C? You trying to say you’re disappointed it was me checking you out?
Lemme just go over here & sulk in the corner, then…
Olderandwiser49
May 25th, 2011
11:10 am
Celisea – more than likely it’s ‘how’ you’re hearing it.”
I have no doubt that you’re right. I hear it as either immature or unintelligent, when spoken by a younger woman, and as a failed, out-of-her-element attempt at being cool, when spoken by an older woman. I think, too, that there are many women, young and old, out there who would feel the same way toward a man who called her a “chick.” Communication between the sexes is, and will always be, one of the biggest obstacles to meaningful relationships. What is said, and how it is meant, are not always what is heard, and what it is understood to mean. Just my opinion.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:10 am
PR – I like that you like women my age
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:12 am
Leggs – I know it ain’t right and wrong is wrong no matter the sex…man or woman that cheats but there’s something to be said for a married woman that will open her body and her home to another under, over and all around her husband…smh
kimmie
May 25th, 2011
11:12 am
Morning Gang!
I’ve always liked men my age. I don’t want a boy, but I don’t need another daddy either. I’ve never liked “authority” or being told what to do or being treated like a child once I reached mid-teens. I don’t need anyone to “mold” me, that was my parents job and they did it quite well. No, I need a companion around my age that I can relate to on all levels. Up or down 5 years is the most I’ve ever done.
Reggie
May 25th, 2011
11:14 am
Purple Rain…HOLD OUT FOR A YEAR??? Are you bloody KIDDING me? I get the twitches when I go two weeks without! You must be later on up in your years, because the women I’m around will flat out say that if their hubby can’t help them out at least once a week, they will either find someone that will or get a sponsorship from GE. A YEAR? Not me….
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
11:15 am
LOL@ Leggs, I would like to thank the ladies on this blog…..and my husband thanks ya’ll too
Back on topic- My single sister, she will be 39 next month, likes them young…. very young. Her last victim lol was 21. She says don’t knock it ’til you try it. I know even if I was single I could not do that big of a gap! Hell, her oldest son is 18…..no can do.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:17 am
Swiss – Whatchu mean, “dern it,” C? You trying to say you’re disappointed it was me checking you out?
No, I’m disappointed I didn’t make your acquaintance.
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
11:19 am
I’ve left a few of the younger generation with a glassy stare and had great pleasure in doing so
go on witcha’ bad self Wifey!
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 25th, 2011
11:22 am
C — Ahhhh…. In that case, I’ll be waiting for you on the elevator…
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
11:25 am
Afternoon All,
Put me in the category of wanting a little seasoning on my meal. I dont want the author of the kama Sutra but I do need and want some substance with my meal. one of the mistakes that youngins tend to make when entering relationships is basing the 10% of time you spend in bed as the foundation. After a few romps its not new anymore then what? Dating and relationships are so much more involved than that. Now if its just the sexual escapade then I can pretty much see battle lines being drawn. Youngins want youngins cause they dont know any better. Slightly older folks want and need more than a quick rabbit dance. As with everything else just know your lane.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:26 am
OlderAndWiser – in MY opinion, your stance on the “dude” of it all comes across as stilted, dated, judgemental and like a stick in the mud. However, this is one of the beauties of life – our individuality that is created by our preferences, our beliefs, how we filter things and the judgements that we make.
Thank you ma’am. I started typing a response but because it seemed a bit outdated and judgemental to as well, I figured why bother. I didn’t respond but I will cosign.
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
11:26 am
OlderAndWiser – in MY opinion, your stance on the “dude” of it all comes across as stilted, dated, judgemental and like a stick in the mud.
However, this is one of the beauties of life – our individuality that is created by our preferences, our beliefs, how we filter things and the judgements that we make.
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
11:29 am
Those women don’t have any reason to be married if they are giving it up the way you say they are. It may feel good (temporarily) or it is an adrenaline rush. Playing russian roulette one day you will meet the russian.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:29 am
to me as well..is what I meant
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
11:30 am
Reggie, those are not women.
2038!!!!
The ladies pet, a man's threat
May 25th, 2011
11:31 am
SUP FOLKS
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
11:32 am
Let me guess
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
11:34 am
confession time- as a youngin (20-25) I entertained many a married Woman. I learned over time how to fully please a Woman from them. Dead wrong i know and will readily admit to that. At the time it was a dangerous mix between ego, lust, immaturity and opportunity. Not looking for a medal or anything but i did have a conscious. I refused to be with any Woman in their home, that to me was MORE disrespectful and dangerous than what I was already doing. Now that I look back on it the biggest lesson learned that i try to apply to my marriage is to make sure the Home-front stays 100. In closing I may be a walking contradiction with this statement but i’ll tell you now, If i catch you in my house then you getting a couple hot ones fast.
The ladies pet, a man's threat
May 25th, 2011
11:35 am
I am in the sweet spot so until i am too old..it will always be young to the old…young women are more casual..so if i want a quick hook up…i would look above 25….25-30 in that i am grown i want a family lane…so sometimes they are sticks in the mud..selling you the dream about how “good” they are…yeah eyah…30-35….either they are crazy or cool..or both..lol…proceed with caution….35-40…out the game and really on the family tip..or maybe like F it and just cool with FWB for a minute…40 plus….without kids..KRAZY…with kids..they are looking for family..
I feel every woman with desire and every man with fear
May 25th, 2011
11:37 am
Mature women, by a long shot. No need to discuss it further. Case closed. Young ones are simplistic, boring and just lie there and squeak. Mature women are smart, confident and with the drive they have going, they can keep you up all night, all day or wake you at 3AM. Not even close.
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
11:41 am
I feel every woman with desire and every man with fear – I think you meant FILL.
MC Hammock
May 25th, 2011
11:44 am
Sup, peeps! How’s it going in here? Anyone bleeding yet? LOL
The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)
May 25th, 2011
11:45 am
SexyC — Nah, I bet he literally gropes them.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
11:45 am
“…just lie there and squeak”….That is hysterical! Nothing like the moans, groans and demands from a WOMAN!….too funny!
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
11:46 am
Ed, You are gonna catch grief here, but you should beat that p***y like a rented mule…The moral majority will fry you for doing so, but she is the one with teh obligation, not you…..If she has no regard for her husband, why should you????
The ladies pet, a man's threat
May 25th, 2011
11:48 am
old women squeak as well..they not all A grade..some of them been thru so much they have nothing left for anyone…young ones…at least have a positive outlook on life..and not thinking just because they hit an age benchmark – life is over…lol@sex game talk..
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
11:50 am
Men who have the courage to dip that way lack courage cause he’s a creep in the night/day and I aint judging. I’ll watch your story and how it unfolded on the news.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
11:54 am
“Men who have the courage to dip that way lack courage”
Make up you mind bru…which one is it??? Do they have courage or not???
The ladies pet, a man's threat
May 25th, 2011
11:56 am
lol@ed…dude you did right..i feel sorry for dude..he over there risky is life and his h oe arse wife fixing plates and giving away tushy…smh
silent friend
May 25th, 2011
11:57 am
Speaking of, I have a friend of mine that really is a twin of Brooke Burke in every facet. She’s been married for close to 20 years. He’s a nice guy, but morbidly overweight, but very wealthy. She has had multiple affairs and many of them on going even today. She’s even introduced me to a couple of them. She said that she needs to be satisfied in that way and won’t stop. She says if he divorces her, she’ll just take half his wealth and just keep doing what she has been. I can’t be friends with her any more, but it disturbs me that someone is so up front about it, her desires and she’s even told me she’s had a few threesomes. What’s wrong with people these days?
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
11:59 am
“If she has no regard for her husband, why should you????”
I would imagine because he likes being above ground and not six feet under!
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
11:59 am
Silent – I bet her husband knows. He may not advertise it but I bet he knows.
MC Hammock
May 25th, 2011
12:04 pm
@silent and WD…that hubby is what is commonly referred to as TRAPPED. He can’t divorce her (lose his shirt and everything else) and staying married, he knows she’ll just keep beating these lovers brains loose. He had no where to go and he knows it.
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
12:06 pm
He has courage to sleep with somebody’s wife but lack courage=(coward) to meet the husband you figure which one I already know.
The ladies pet, a man's threat
May 25th, 2011
12:06 pm
@sf…whats wrong with people..crazy story.
Keepingitreal
May 25th, 2011
12:07 pm
Don’t usually post but couldn’t resist the topic today. I’ve dated someone 24 years younger! Where do I start? The short answer is, I prefer experience. There were just way too many things that we kept having arguments about that I finally had to admit to myself that she was not ready for yet. At that age you’re still in the “Me” stage of life. I kept talking and doing things from the “We” perspective, she was all about herself. I don’t think she has gotten to the point of realizing what’s important in life. As I take a step back, it’s not that she’s an awful person, just that she’s still in a stage of life that doesn’t work well for relationships. She still needs a lot of attention from a lot of guys, still flirts a lot, still goes out with a lot of male “friends” (even though some of them are exes). I’ve seen the cycles of those things and know that they are dangerous for a relationship whereas she sees them as harmless. I say, I have to have the experienced.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
12:09 pm
@WillieD ~ perhaps. And, he may be over there fighting believing his wife is home taking care of the homefront, not her front! Hell, he may come on to a Dear John later and be utterly devastated.
MC Hammock
May 25th, 2011
12:13 pm
This Ed guy y’all are talking about made a decision that the vast majority wouldn’t make. There’s no way he would get caught, it was just sex for sex’s sake and if she liked him, she may keep him “on call” without ever paying for a single dinner or movie.
THAT my fellow peeps is a gift of the wrong sort and he said NO. I think he should be commended….and maybe have his head examined at the same time. LOL
MC Hammock
May 25th, 2011
12:14 pm
I meant to say “It’s a gift, but a gift of the wrong sort.”
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
12:21 pm
“He has courage to sleep with somebody’s wife but lack courage=(coward) to meet the husband you figure which one I already know”
Why does he need to meet the husband??? SHE should be the one you are blasting. I am amazed that you folks jumped strait to buddy getting his head blown off…I have a friend that went to Iraq and then was transfered to Kuwait….About 18 months after he came home, his wife opened the door andwas given a certified letter from an attorney wanting to meet with her husband ( My boy) about the child support suit he was about to file on behalf of the Kuwaiti girl he was creeping with while there, So please don’t assume that dude is on the front lines being all Forrest Gump…He might just be a regular dude and taking care of his urges teh same way she is…..
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
12:27 pm
I’ve left a few of the younger generation with a glassy stare and had great pleasure in doing so.
Me,too chile!!
On topic: For as long as I can remember I’ve been involved with men younger than I am and it’s been a mixed bag. Some have been rather mature for their age and others were still on the tit….or acted like it. My last serious relationship was with a man ~6-7 years younger than me and it definitely made me realize more of what I want in my next relationship(whenever that is). The only thing a man in his twenties can give me is the wood but I’m past that. Early to late thirties would be a good start but I have yet to date an older,older like father/grandaddy aged man and I wouldn’t want to…like someone said earlier high blood pressure and other type isht come into play. Eeeeeew I just had a visual of a little pig in the blanket for some reason.
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
12:29 pm
casual observer, at some point you have to be man enough to get your own woman and not getting second hand leftovers and in her case I am sure he would not have been the first to have sex with her. A real man knows that he does not have to have sex with everywoman that presents it to him, but a boy will just pump away as it comes.
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
12:32 pm
Observer:
Don’t you know women are emotional they get a pass for that alone. Again I’m not judging but we (men) like your boy will tread on that emotion like he did to the Kuwaiti girl.
reality check
May 25th, 2011
12:32 pm
We all have those primordal urges…men…women…all of use. Some have them worse than others and some have passing fancies. I’ve known women that get so worked up they would sit down on anything that got stiff and others that could take it or leave it. Some just flat out can’t go without it for any length of time and others could give it up at the drop of a hat. I’ve met all shades and you can be dayum sure of the type that I prefer. Ya just gotta be able to keep up…..and keep IT up.
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
12:33 pm
Leggs – you may be right. Then again i suspect based on the specifics given this was more of a business deal from the start. I’m guessing its a two way street. Obese and wealthy old man getting his rocks off as well.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
12:33 pm
Put me in the category of wanting a little seasoning on my meal. I dont want the author of the kama Sutra but I do need and want some substance with my meal.
I hear you. I had my days where I’d take a young buck to school but I don’t always want to be the teacher…been there done that.
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
12:35 pm
Having been a military wife, I can assure you that while military marriages shouldnt’ be different from civilian marriages, they most certainly are.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
12:37 pm
I agree with that, SexyC, but the common denominator in civilian marriages and military marriages should be one’s morals. It’s not impossible to ignore the urges of the flesh if you honestly went into the marriage respecting each other!!!
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
12:46 pm
SC – you are absolutely right. I travel to Columbus frequently for work and let me tell you at times its a free for all.
sassy – heyyyy, you back on sabbatical now? You dont have to be the teacher ALL the time. I feel you but then again it all depends on whether you babysitting in detention or having the principal give you your peformance review (smile).
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
12:47 pm
A lot of military marriages are for convenience, money and benefits. The cliche’d “girl from the military town looking to come up” and the soldier/sailor/airman marrying cause he’s whupped or lonely are quite real.
And for some reason…that last part reminds me of a line from Boomerang.
“I heard you was p*ssy-whupped. Boy, don’t be p*ssywhupped. Whup. That. P*ssy.”
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
12:52 pm
An Officer and a Gentlemen comes to mind
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
12:56 pm
another dynamic I witnessed in these “Military Cities” is that most of the shenanigans are perpetuated by fellow servicemen and women
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
12:59 pm
This is true, WillieD. A lot of military communities are little more than big o’ college campuses.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
1:04 pm
it all depends on whether you babysitting in detention or having the principal give you your peformance review (smile).
Yeah I’m back on sabbatical now…Mr. Bermuda is moving back to the U.S. in a few months(that’s what his visit was for) when he starts his new job so I’m on the low for now.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
1:08 pm
Whup. That. P*ssy.”
bang..bang…bang!!!
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
1:15 pm
Where is Red?
TenderRoni
May 25th, 2011
1:16 pm
It’s about having self-control, and respecting your partner.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
1:18 pm
Yep, that’s what I said too, TenderRoni!
Fonda Cox
May 25th, 2011
1:20 pm
B-B-B-B-But what if I have no control. I need it. I gotta have it. Makes me feel gooooooooooooooood……*best Halle Berry voice
Willie Dynamite
May 25th, 2011
1:21 pm
on the low for now, I hear you Ms. Lady (thinking to myself, dayuuum got nuggas moving thousands o miles just to stir it up) enjoy ya summer. fyi, the detention just punishes bad behavior and is intended for corrective behavior. The Principal review shall I say is a bit more all-inclusive and tends to not only coach/counsel corrective behavior but encourages, recognize, and enhances positive attributes.
Tenderoni – Self Control is a learned behavior and a moving target.
TenderRoni
May 25th, 2011
1:23 pm
If you realize you not going to be faithful, get a divorce and be single. Don’t be married and act single. I can’t stand to that.
I had to disassociate from my friends, friend who cheats on her husband. I just could not stomach seeing her.
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
1:36 pm
A guy thinks it’s ok to plug another man’s wife/girlfriend because he has urges or father another child with another lady. I’m not so moralistic as I am concious and not claiming to be but “I” sure as hell wont go stepping with another man’s woman because of my or her urges all urges are not good urges.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
1:37 pm
@SexyC ~ Just spoke w/ARed. She wanted me to tell everyone she’s fine, but busy.
The ladies pet, a man's threat
May 25th, 2011
1:39 pm
lol@leggs….tell ared to meet me at the tunnel…..his her schedule booked up…does she have time to do that…..i would like to meet with her in the near future..any dates?
Dirk Diggler
May 25th, 2011
1:44 pm
I hear ya, Roni. I’m tired of being treated as just a walking, talking dildo just to satisfy some married lady that needs it more and better than she’s getting at home. Sometimes it’s an all afternoon long session and she just keeps going and going. I have emotions. I have feelings….*sniff
Dirk Diggler
May 25th, 2011
1:47 pm
*hears a soft knock at the door….Dayum, there’s another one. Will the madness EVER end???
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
1:48 pm
If any thing look at what the Terminator is going to go through dude was one of my fav tough guys now I see him differently. Please I should say I’ve have done things I’m not proud of. I can check off a legal pad of sht I’ve done but behaviour is corrective.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
1:49 pm
I’m not telling her any of that!
@SexyC ~ tks for the reminder to contact her.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
1:52 pm
@Blackfoote ~ hope you’re well, but please stop attending class with Meelooo!
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
1:57 pm
Hi Leggs:
I am well, I learned a few things from Zulu probably not enough though…..LOL
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
1:59 pm
blackefoote…your comments sound a bit personal….Did some other guy go up in your girl while you were out saving the world??
Exiled!
May 25th, 2011
1:59 pm
Ohh, OK!
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
2:11 pm
No Sir not to “my knowledge” that has never happened to me while married or during single life. I will never try to save the world there’s a Man much greater than me who can.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
2:17 pm
The Principal review shall I say is a bit more all-inclusive and tends to not only coach/counsel corrective behavior but encourages, recognize, and enhances positive attributes.
Well umm(while slowly raising right hand)…can I volunteer for a review…seeing as I haven’t had one…
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
2:25 pm
Ok, too much to do to try to catch up….anybody have short “CLIFF NOTES” for what I’ve missed so far?
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
2:36 pm
Slim they are giving a course on how to dodge bullets being shot from a husband whose wife slept with another man.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
2:38 pm
casual observer being the ring leader and condemning our commendable men that are opposed.
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
2:42 pm
Anybody want to get on the list to go see Lil Duval at Uptown next Tuesday night? Let me know and I can email you.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
2:44 pm
And SassyMe is trying to get a Principal Review (harsh words told her with every thrust)…LOLOL
Blackfoote
May 25th, 2011
2:46 pm
LOL….@Purple
Celisea, Observer is making me think of some the guys I know that looked at that behaviour as a badge of honor. With all the single women here in the A it just baffles me why a guy would want to take that chance.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
2:51 pm
Blackfoote – Observer is making me think of some the guys I know that looked at that behaviour as a badge of honor
Nothing shocks me anymore. Casual Observer speaks how he believes and practices and see nothing wrong and have tried a couple of times today to justify. One things about how we’re made, if you’re not quite sure how to get it right and you wasn’t on the “drug me to ss/church” drug you certainly know how you wish to be treated. Whatever behavior you don’t want bestowed on you is guage enough to know you shouldn’t do it to others. Just sad…so so sad.
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
2:52 pm
Dsaaaaaam Purp – Yall getting all gully up in herrrr today then. Well the best way I know to dodge bullets is to grow a pony tail and swat away the bullets like Pootie Tang did.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
2:52 pm
is trying to get a Principal Review (harsh words told her with every thrust)…
and an occasional spank err now and then to make the point… :mrgeen:
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
2:53 pm
thing not things
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
2:53 pm
should’ve been
dammyt…
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
2:54 pm
You and The Dude share bdays.
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
2:55 pm
My birthday is next Wednesday and so far I have no plans in mind.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
2:59 pm
It’s on my special calendar, Slimgina!
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
3:04 pm
I was beginning to be involved many years ago with a woman who then announced (before we did the deed) that she was married and her husband was in the Army overseas. It stopped there (helped in no small part because it was also her time of the month), but I’ve never fully resolved in my mind whether I should have pursued or not. Guess not, but still wonder.
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
3:09 pm
On a similar note (but somewhat funnier), a lady I was involved with told me about her tennis partner (dayum nice looking in those tennis shorts) was starting to stray because her husband no longer was taking care of business. Being the snake I was at the time (fresh out of a divorce) I promptly hinted at a threesome. Not only did not get the thressome, but got cut off for awhile for suggesting it. Hey, seemed logical at the time.
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
3:11 pm
Leggs – awww me fweeels so speciaw
Mo (aka Moeisha)
May 25th, 2011
3:11 pm
Hello All!
SCool – agreeing with your 12:47 (the first part). Ironically went I arrived at Hampton for freshman year, we were ‘warned’ to steer clear of the military guys. There were a few chicks in the bunch that were like ‘thats why I came to this school!”
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
3:15 pm
And I almost forgot about Slimgina lol
MC Hammock
May 25th, 2011
3:17 pm
LOL@Randyt. When I was single and living (and LUVIN) apartment life, I was dating this lady from downstairs who had a quite nice looking female room mate. Ee had a nice arrangement going and one night I jokingly brought up a threesome and then passed it off. A few evenings later, I was over there and we started drinking a LOT of wine….and then it started. A THREESOME!!! But it didn’t get very far as one of them thought I was spending too much time on and with the other and they got in a tiff. That eneded that and one of them moved out a few weeks later. You gotta have the right mind set if you want a threesome or it can blow up in your face.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
3:23 pm
You gotta have the right mind set if you want a threesome or it can blow up in your face.
I’ve been asked a few times by a couple I went to highschool with…then there was the time one of my former bff’s wanted us to do one as a Christmas gift to her then BOYFRIEND and I could never do it. I know I require alot of attention and with it being two women and one man at some point the two women are gonna be looking at each other like heeeeey and I’m sooo NOT with that sh!t…sooo not
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
3:24 pm
I figured, that’s why I used it, SlimNU.
@RandyT ~ funny.
Dan - Simply....Superior
May 25th, 2011
3:26 pm
Yeah, the word “threesome” isn’t spoken until after…
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
3:26 pm
“…as one of them thought I was spending too much time on and with the other and they got in a tiff.”
I wish you could me laughing my azz off over here. The visualization alone is hysterical…that’s is the DOWNSIDE to a threesome. I’m still laughing as I get up to get some water….brb
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
3:28 pm
How the heck “is” jumped in there???? I used the contraction!!!! Oh no, I may be suffering with “isitis.”
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
3:31 pm
Seems as if there will be SOMEONE left out at some point or another…
The Truth
May 25th, 2011
3:32 pm
Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood.
On topic: Leaning on your side Willie D, gotta love a chick with some life seasoning to her. Those youngins make you wonder if you should be burpin em after a meal.
Btw Willie, I know you remember coming up with the old heads talking about capping a dude you catch at the house. Man, that was bad info. I’m in jail fighting for my right to remain whole while the chick is out with some other cat. I’m light skinned, you know how hard is is for us light ones in the pen? Now I’d tell him to KINDLY hurry up so he could help her pack up and take her ish with him. She’s yours now. LOL
Scool, you’re so right. Bases are the worst. Then again when its 25 men to a woman you better know what you’re woman’s made of. A lot of dudes find out he hard way. LOL
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Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
3:34 pm
@ Dan re: talking about a threesome
I’ve talked myself OUT of sex so many times it is scary and then wanted to kick my own azz. I had a client once who had a poster on his wall. It said something like “Sampson killed 10,000 Phillistines with the jawbone of an azz. 50,000 sales a day are killed by the same weapon”.
Dan - Simply....Superior
May 25th, 2011
3:34 pm
@Randy
Me too, that’s how I know.
@Slim
Not necessarily, depends on the (in my case) women involved. If they can entertain each other, however briefly, then the “someone feeling left out” is usually not that bad.
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
3:39 pm
Hey, Truth. How ya’ doing? I passed that information along to a few folks. I told them to use my name if they email you.
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
3:43 pm
with it being two women and one man at some point the two women are gonna be looking at each other like heeeeey and I’m sooo NOT with that sh!t…sooo not
That is one of the reason why a threesome would never work for me.
I have been asked and seriously considered doing it at one point. But I just knew there would have been some BS in the mix afterward. I think if you gonna get down like that, never do it with a person you know. I saw an episode of the Bunny Ranch on HBO where a woman got a girl for her husband….it was interesting
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
3:43 pm
If they can entertain each other, however briefly, then the “someone feeling left out” is usually not that bad.
WHY?! What if I don’t like to eat that kinda bread….what if it were a woman and TWO men? How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
3:46 pm
“Seems as if there will be SOMEONE left out at some point or another”
Not if everybody is truely committed!!!
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
3:47 pm
what if it were a woman and TWO men? How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.
None would, that’s the truth. LOL!
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
3:48 pm
“How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.”
Well…considering there are countless urban tale of trains…I would say that it’s not that uncommon.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
3:52 pm
aint scared to say it….Been there and done that…Set the rules ahead of time…you stay on your end, I stay on mine… never try to work the same area, hole at the same time…. Keep your eyes open!!! Can’t have you buddy slippin up and grabbing the wrong appendage by mistake!
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
3:52 pm
Too funny, trains and 3somes…
Mike P
May 25th, 2011
3:58 pm
what if it were a woman and TWO men? How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.
NEVER!!! I wouldn’t be caught dead in that mess
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
3:59 pm
Now Sassy…
If the lady is his squeeze, not mine, and we both agree to stay on opposite ends…okay…but no touching, even by accident (last time I was touched by a naked man was when a streaker ran into me in a crowd…felt dirty for days).
As far as eating that kind of bread, definitely a tasty treat (just playing with you….yes there is a double standard
Does this mean that the urban legend that all women have a streak of bi in them is just that…an urban legend?
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:00 pm
considering there are countless urban tale of trains…I would say that it’s not that uncommon.
I get your point Sexy but here’s my point: In a 2 women/1 man scenario one usually sees some girl on girl action be it incidental or on purpose. It’s almost a given that the two women are gonna get it on at some point during the session. There isn’t a man who’d wish otherwise. So with that principle in mind, that’s why I asked if it were two men would they still be down. They might be bi-curious….lol
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:03 pm
Does this mean that the urban legend that all women have a streak of bi in them is just that…an urban legend?
I’on know but I do know that two of my associates like to get together when they’re rollin</em but not when sober. The stories I could tell on that isht…
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:06 pm
Thank you “casual” and Randy for your honesty.
Wonder where Swiss is?…wonder if he got the Mrs. some Altoids
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
4:10 pm
“Does this mean that the urban legend that all women have a streak of bi in them is just that…an urban legend?”
I believe all women have it in them..But I know for damn sure not all of them are going to act on it……
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
4:11 pm
2038
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:15 pm
@casual ~ do you feel the same way about men? Are they all bi but you’re sure not all of them are going to act on it???? Why you believe all women are?
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:15 pm
Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news but one is married and the other is co-habitating with her “baby daddy” and his mama n daddy…I know, I know.
I don’t know if either one of ‘em still “roll” but if those four walls could talk…
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:16 pm
I do know that two of my associates like to get together when they’re rollin</em but not when sober". Great visual to begin to slow down with…thanks
(just curious…good looking?…how would a person meet these ladies? 
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:16 pm
Any man that is “bicurious” is just gay in denial…different for men than women IMHO.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:17 pm
If it’s true that puddy has no face, what they look like shouldn’t matter, RandyT
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:20 pm
different for men than women IMHO.
WHY?!
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:20 pm
Now Leggs, puddys have faces, some have mustaches and beards, some are clean shaven,. Someone mentioned Brooke Burke early on…she used to have a landing strip as I recall (I still think of that when I see her on DWTS and wonder if still the same…).
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
4:21 pm
It’s gay even having that conversation.
Celisea, how was your day?
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:22 pm
Men aren’t wired the same as women…just not. The answer why isn’t on this side of the tombstone, so I don’t have a clue just know what I have seen. If men and women were the same maybe I would understand them better…but have pretty much given up on that.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
4:23 pm
2038!!
Mike P
May 25th, 2011
4:24 pm
@RandyT: I agree with you onyour 4:16pm post; That’s why I can’t understand the whole orgy (many women, many men s3x parties) or a threesome with two dudes… its just too gayish for me to bare, esp. when I’m myself is gonna be nude.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:24 pm
“Any man that is “bicurious” is just gay in denial” I have to agree with you.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:27 pm
puddys have faces, some have mustaches and beards, some are clean shaven,.
Sooo did not need that visual…almost sounds like you’ve gotta comb and braid it up just to get to it…
A chia pet lookin cookie is not the bizness…
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:28 pm
“A chia pet lookin cookie is not the bizness” now that is funny!!!
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:31 pm
“Sooo did not need that visual”
I’m going to cling to the Brooke Burke visual and try to delete the rest LOL.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
4:38 pm
Leggs, are inclined to do things like undress in front of each other, and hold hands in public….women will sit next to each other on the couch and even be close to each other when the situation allows…this does not in any way make a woman a lesbian, but any one of them will make a guy gay, and all of them together make him Tyler Perry!!!!
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:39 pm
Again, I agree with you, RandyT
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:43 pm
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:48 pm
For Brooke B. you have to go to Hollywood, you can hook up with a chia pet at Walgreens
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
4:50 pm
I must be a Republican or a saints fan, cause i love me a little Bush!!!Now don’t get me wrong, landing strips and clean shaven is nice, But there is nothing like having a picnic on a manicured lawn!!!
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:53 pm
Randy you’re on a roll like sh!t paper!…too funny
I’m out. Have a great evening blog familia!!
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
4:56 pm
So now we’re talking about bush, braids or bare?
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:59 pm
”Ability is 95% stickability”
PEACE~
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
5:07 pm
I feel you Casual…its all good.