Dating: Youth or Experienced?
I asked Mr. M to guest blog and he wants to talk about something pretty interesting today, I do enjoy a male’s perspective to liven things up!
It’s all about compatibility in dating and he asks “What do you prefer, youth or experience?”
Dating in Atlanta always goes in waves and as time goes on, naturally our taste change as we discussed last week. Lately I have been doing some volunteering, attending social mixers, events, conferences, and just being out and about. I am meeting a lot of new women who are really cool. There is only one issue that I am confused about: What do I prefer youth or experience?
The young women that I have been meeting are women ranging from 22-26, just getting started in their careers. They also seem a lot more laid back and just fun, maybe it’s because of their inexperience? The women that are more experienced in life, careers and relationships have their pros and cons also.
If you have a choice, what do you prefer youth and someone that you may have to take your time with , or someone more experienced, who does not need you to hold their hand?
By Mr. M, Guest Blogger for Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Leggs
May 25th, 2011
3:28 pm
How the heck “is” jumped in there???? I used the contraction!!!! Oh no, I may be suffering with “isitis.”
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
3:31 pm
Seems as if there will be SOMEONE left out at some point or another…
The Truth
May 25th, 2011
3:32 pm
Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood.
On topic: Leaning on your side Willie D, gotta love a chick with some life seasoning to her. Those youngins make you wonder if you should be burpin em after a meal.
Btw Willie, I know you remember coming up with the old heads talking about capping a dude you catch at the house. Man, that was bad info. I’m in jail fighting for my right to remain whole while the chick is out with some other cat. I’m light skinned, you know how hard is is for us light ones in the pen? Now I’d tell him to KINDLY hurry up so he could help her pack up and take her ish with him. She’s yours now. LOL
Scool, you’re so right. Bases are the worst. Then again when its 25 men to a woman you better know what you’re woman’s made of. A lot of dudes find out he hard way. LOL
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Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
3:34 pm
@ Dan re: talking about a threesome
I’ve talked myself OUT of sex so many times it is scary and then wanted to kick my own azz. I had a client once who had a poster on his wall. It said something like “Sampson killed 10,000 Phillistines with the jawbone of an azz. 50,000 sales a day are killed by the same weapon”.
Dan - Simply....Superior
May 25th, 2011
3:34 pm
@Randy
Me too, that’s how I know.
@Slim
Not necessarily, depends on the (in my case) women involved. If they can entertain each other, however briefly, then the “someone feeling left out” is usually not that bad.
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
3:39 pm
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Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
3:43 pm
with it being two women and one man at some point the two women are gonna be looking at each other like heeeeey and I’m sooo NOT with that sh!t…sooo not
That is one of the reason why a threesome would never work for me.
I have been asked and seriously considered doing it at one point. But I just knew there would have been some BS in the mix afterward. I think if you gonna get down like that, never do it with a person you know. I saw an episode of the Bunny Ranch on HBO where a woman got a girl for her husband….it was interesting
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
3:43 pm
If they can entertain each other, however briefly, then the “someone feeling left out” is usually not that bad.
WHY?! What if I don’t like to eat that kinda bread….what if it were a woman and TWO men? How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
3:46 pm
“Seems as if there will be SOMEONE left out at some point or another”
Not if everybody is truely committed!!!
Lovely Brown
May 25th, 2011
3:47 pm
what if it were a woman and TWO men? How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.
None would, that’s the truth. LOL!
SexyCool
May 25th, 2011
3:48 pm
“How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.”
Well…considering there are countless urban tale of trains…I would say that it’s not that uncommon.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
3:52 pm
aint scared to say it….Been there and done that…Set the rules ahead of time…you stay on your end, I stay on mine… never try to work the same area, hole at the same time…. Keep your eyes open!!! Can’t have you buddy slippin up and grabbing the wrong appendage by mistake!
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
3:52 pm
Too funny, trains and 3somes…
Mike P
May 25th, 2011
3:58 pm
what if it were a woman and TWO men? How many guys would go for that…HONESTLY tell the truth.
NEVER!!! I wouldn’t be caught dead in that mess
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
3:59 pm
Now Sassy…
If the lady is his squeeze, not mine, and we both agree to stay on opposite ends…okay…but no touching, even by accident (last time I was touched by a naked man was when a streaker ran into me in a crowd…felt dirty for days).
As far as eating that kind of bread, definitely a tasty treat (just playing with you….yes there is a double standard
Does this mean that the urban legend that all women have a streak of bi in them is just that…an urban legend?
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:00 pm
considering there are countless urban tale of trains…I would say that it’s not that uncommon.
I get your point Sexy but here’s my point: In a 2 women/1 man scenario one usually sees some girl on girl action be it incidental or on purpose. It’s almost a given that the two women are gonna get it on at some point during the session. There isn’t a man who’d wish otherwise. So with that principle in mind, that’s why I asked if it were two men would they still be down. They might be bi-curious….lol
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:03 pm
Does this mean that the urban legend that all women have a streak of bi in them is just that…an urban legend?
I’on know but I do know that two of my associates like to get together when they’re rollin</em but not when sober. The stories I could tell on that isht…
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:06 pm
Thank you “casual” and Randy for your honesty.
Wonder where Swiss is?…wonder if he got the Mrs. some Altoids
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
4:10 pm
“Does this mean that the urban legend that all women have a streak of bi in them is just that…an urban legend?”
I believe all women have it in them..But I know for damn sure not all of them are going to act on it……
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
4:11 pm
2038
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:15 pm
@casual ~ do you feel the same way about men? Are they all bi but you’re sure not all of them are going to act on it???? Why you believe all women are?
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:15 pm
Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news but one is married and the other is co-habitating with her “baby daddy” and his mama n daddy…I know, I know.
I don’t know if either one of ‘em still “roll” but if those four walls could talk…
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:16 pm
I do know that two of my associates like to get together when they’re rollin</em but not when sober". Great visual to begin to slow down with…thanks
(just curious…good looking?…how would a person meet these ladies? 
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:16 pm
Any man that is “bicurious” is just gay in denial…different for men than women IMHO.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:17 pm
If it’s true that puddy has no face, what they look like shouldn’t matter, RandyT
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:20 pm
different for men than women IMHO.
WHY?!
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:20 pm
Now Leggs, puddys have faces, some have mustaches and beards, some are clean shaven,. Someone mentioned Brooke Burke early on…she used to have a landing strip as I recall (I still think of that when I see her on DWTS and wonder if still the same…).
Purple Rain
May 25th, 2011
4:21 pm
It’s gay even having that conversation.
Celisea, how was your day?
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:22 pm
Men aren’t wired the same as women…just not. The answer why isn’t on this side of the tombstone, so I don’t have a clue just know what I have seen. If men and women were the same maybe I would understand them better…but have pretty much given up on that.
Celisea
May 25th, 2011
4:23 pm
2038!!
Mike P
May 25th, 2011
4:24 pm
@RandyT: I agree with you onyour 4:16pm post; That’s why I can’t understand the whole orgy (many women, many men s3x parties) or a threesome with two dudes… its just too gayish for me to bare, esp. when I’m myself is gonna be nude.
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:24 pm
“Any man that is “bicurious” is just gay in denial” I have to agree with you.
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:27 pm
puddys have faces, some have mustaches and beards, some are clean shaven,.
Sooo did not need that visual…almost sounds like you’ve gotta comb and braid it up just to get to it…
A chia pet lookin cookie is not the bizness…
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:28 pm
“A chia pet lookin cookie is not the bizness” now that is funny!!!
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:31 pm
“Sooo did not need that visual”
I’m going to cling to the Brooke Burke visual and try to delete the rest LOL.
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
4:38 pm
Leggs, are inclined to do things like undress in front of each other, and hold hands in public….women will sit next to each other on the couch and even be close to each other when the situation allows…this does not in any way make a woman a lesbian, but any one of them will make a guy gay, and all of them together make him Tyler Perry!!!!
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:39 pm
Again, I agree with you, RandyT
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:43 pm
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
4:48 pm
For Brooke B. you have to go to Hollywood, you can hook up with a chia pet at Walgreens
casual observer
May 25th, 2011
4:50 pm
I must be a Republican or a saints fan, cause i love me a little Bush!!!Now don’t get me wrong, landing strips and clean shaven is nice, But there is nothing like having a picnic on a manicured lawn!!!
Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)
May 25th, 2011
4:53 pm
Randy you’re on a roll like sh!t paper!…too funny
I’m out. Have a great evening blog familia!!
SlimNu
May 25th, 2011
4:56 pm
So now we’re talking about bush, braids or bare?
Leggs
May 25th, 2011
4:59 pm
”Ability is 95% stickability”
PEACE~
Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)
May 25th, 2011
5:07 pm
I feel you Casual…its all good.