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Dating: Youth or Experienced?

I asked Mr. M to guest blog and he wants to talk about something pretty interesting today, I do enjoy a male’s perspective to liven things up!

It’s all about compatibility in dating and he asks “What do you prefer, youth or experience?”

Dating in Atlanta always goes in waves and as time goes on, naturally our taste change as we discussed last week. Lately I have been doing  some volunteering, attending social mixers, events, conferences, and just being out and about. I am meeting a lot of new women who are really cool. There is only one issue that I am confused about: What do I prefer youth or experience?

The young women that I have been meeting are women ranging from 22-26, just getting started in their careers. They also seem a lot more laid back and just fun, maybe it’s because of their inexperience?  The women that are more experienced in life, careers and relationships have their pros and cons also.

If you have a choice, what do you prefer youth and someone that you may have to take your time with , or someone more experienced, who does not need you to hold their hand?

By Mr. M, Guest Blogger for Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

194 comments Add your comment

Willie Dynamite

May 25th, 2011
12:46 pm

SC – you are absolutely right. I travel to Columbus frequently for work and let me tell you at times its a free for all.

sassy – heyyyy, you back on sabbatical now? You dont have to be the teacher ALL the time. I feel you but then again it all depends on whether you babysitting in detention or having the principal give you your peformance review (smile).

SexyCool

May 25th, 2011
12:47 pm

A lot of military marriages are for convenience, money and benefits. The cliche’d “girl from the military town looking to come up” and the soldier/sailor/airman marrying cause he’s whupped or lonely are quite real.

And for some reason…that last part reminds me of a line from Boomerang.

“I heard you was p*ssy-whupped. Boy, don’t be p*ssywhupped. Whup. That. P*ssy.”

Celisea

May 25th, 2011
12:52 pm

An Officer and a Gentlemen comes to mind

Willie Dynamite

May 25th, 2011
12:56 pm

another dynamic I witnessed in these “Military Cities” is that most of the shenanigans are perpetuated by fellow servicemen and women

SexyCool

May 25th, 2011
12:59 pm

This is true, WillieD. A lot of military communities are little more than big o’ college campuses.

Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)

May 25th, 2011
1:04 pm

it all depends on whether you babysitting in detention or having the principal give you your peformance review (smile).

:oops: …no comment on the detention but I have’t had a “principal review” before ;-)

Yeah I’m back on sabbatical now…Mr. Bermuda is moving back to the U.S. in a few months(that’s what his visit was for) when he starts his new job so I’m on the low for now.

Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)

May 25th, 2011
1:08 pm

Whup. That. P*ssy.”

bang..bang…bang!!!

SexyCool

May 25th, 2011
1:15 pm

Where is Red?

TenderRoni

May 25th, 2011
1:16 pm

It’s about having self-control, and respecting your partner.

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
1:18 pm

Yep, that’s what I said too, TenderRoni!

Fonda Cox

May 25th, 2011
1:20 pm

B-B-B-B-But what if I have no control. I need it. I gotta have it. Makes me feel gooooooooooooooood……*best Halle Berry voice

Willie Dynamite

May 25th, 2011
1:21 pm

on the low for now, I hear you Ms. Lady (thinking to myself, dayuuum got nuggas moving thousands o miles just to stir it up) enjoy ya summer. fyi, the detention just punishes bad behavior and is intended for corrective behavior. The Principal review shall I say is a bit more all-inclusive and tends to not only coach/counsel corrective behavior but encourages, recognize, and enhances positive attributes.

Tenderoni – Self Control is a learned behavior and a moving target.

TenderRoni

May 25th, 2011
1:23 pm

If you realize you not going to be faithful, get a divorce and be single. Don’t be married and act single. I can’t stand to that.

I had to disassociate from my friends, friend who cheats on her husband. I just could not stomach seeing her.

Blackfoote

May 25th, 2011
1:36 pm

A guy thinks it’s ok to plug another man’s wife/girlfriend because he has urges or father another child with another lady. I’m not so moralistic as I am concious and not claiming to be but “I” sure as hell wont go stepping with another man’s woman because of my or her urges all urges are not good urges.

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
1:37 pm

@SexyC ~ Just spoke w/ARed. She wanted me to tell everyone she’s fine, but busy.

The ladies pet, a man's threat

May 25th, 2011
1:39 pm

lol@leggs….tell ared to meet me at the tunnel…..his her schedule booked up…does she have time to do that…..i would like to meet with her in the near future..any dates?

Dirk Diggler

May 25th, 2011
1:44 pm

I hear ya, Roni. I’m tired of being treated as just a walking, talking dildo just to satisfy some married lady that needs it more and better than she’s getting at home. Sometimes it’s an all afternoon long session and she just keeps going and going. I have emotions. I have feelings….*sniff

Dirk Diggler

May 25th, 2011
1:47 pm

*hears a soft knock at the door….Dayum, there’s another one. Will the madness EVER end???

Blackfoote

May 25th, 2011
1:48 pm

If any thing look at what the Terminator is going to go through dude was one of my fav tough guys now I see him differently. Please I should say I’ve have done things I’m not proud of. I can check off a legal pad of sht I’ve done but behaviour is corrective.

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
1:49 pm

I’m not telling her any of that!

@SexyC ~ tks for the reminder to contact her.

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
1:52 pm

@Blackfoote ~ hope you’re well, but please stop attending class with Meelooo!

Blackfoote

May 25th, 2011
1:57 pm

Hi Leggs:
I am well, I learned a few things from Zulu probably not enough though…..LOL

casual observer

May 25th, 2011
1:59 pm

blackefoote…your comments sound a bit personal….Did some other guy go up in your girl while you were out saving the world??

Exiled!

May 25th, 2011
1:59 pm

Blackfoote

May 25th, 2011
2:11 pm

No Sir not to “my knowledge” that has never happened to me while married or during single life. I will never try to save the world there’s a Man much greater than me who can.

Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)

May 25th, 2011
2:17 pm

The Principal review shall I say is a bit more all-inclusive and tends to not only coach/counsel corrective behavior but encourages, recognize, and enhances positive attributes.

Well umm(while slowly raising right hand)…can I volunteer for a review…seeing as I haven’t had one… ;-)

SlimNu

May 25th, 2011
2:25 pm

Ok, too much to do to try to catch up….anybody have short “CLIFF NOTES” for what I’ve missed so far?

Purple Rain

May 25th, 2011
2:36 pm

Slim they are giving a course on how to dodge bullets being shot from a husband whose wife slept with another man.

Celisea

May 25th, 2011
2:38 pm

casual observer being the ring leader and condemning our commendable men that are opposed.

SexyCool

May 25th, 2011
2:42 pm

Anybody want to get on the list to go see Lil Duval at Uptown next Tuesday night? Let me know and I can email you.

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
2:44 pm

And SassyMe is trying to get a Principal Review (harsh words told her with every thrust)…LOLOL

Blackfoote

May 25th, 2011
2:46 pm

LOL….@Purple

Celisea, Observer is making me think of some the guys I know that looked at that behaviour as a badge of honor. With all the single women here in the A it just baffles me why a guy would want to take that chance.

Celisea

May 25th, 2011
2:51 pm

Blackfoote – Observer is making me think of some the guys I know that looked at that behaviour as a badge of honor

Nothing shocks me anymore. Casual Observer speaks how he believes and practices and see nothing wrong and have tried a couple of times today to justify. One things about how we’re made, if you’re not quite sure how to get it right and you wasn’t on the “drug me to ss/church” drug you certainly know how you wish to be treated. Whatever behavior you don’t want bestowed on you is guage enough to know you shouldn’t do it to others. Just sad…so so sad.

SlimNu

May 25th, 2011
2:52 pm

Dsaaaaaam Purp – Yall getting all gully up in herrrr today then. Well the best way I know to dodge bullets is to grow a pony tail and swat away the bullets like Pootie Tang did. :lol:

Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)

May 25th, 2011
2:52 pm

is trying to get a Principal Review (harsh words told her with every thrust)…

and an occasional spank err now and then to make the point… :mrgeen:

Celisea

May 25th, 2011
2:53 pm

thing not things

Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)

May 25th, 2011
2:53 pm

should’ve been :mrgreen: dammyt…

SexyCool

May 25th, 2011
2:54 pm

You and The Dude share bdays.

SlimNu

May 25th, 2011
2:55 pm

My birthday is next Wednesday and so far I have no plans in mind. :???:

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
2:59 pm

It’s on my special calendar, Slimgina!

Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

May 25th, 2011
3:04 pm

I was beginning to be involved many years ago with a woman who then announced (before we did the deed) that she was married and her husband was in the Army overseas. It stopped there (helped in no small part because it was also her time of the month), but I’ve never fully resolved in my mind whether I should have pursued or not. Guess not, but still wonder.

Randyt (Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

May 25th, 2011
3:09 pm

On a similar note (but somewhat funnier), a lady I was involved with told me about her tennis partner (dayum nice looking in those tennis shorts) was starting to stray because her husband no longer was taking care of business. Being the snake I was at the time (fresh out of a divorce) I promptly hinted at a threesome. Not only did not get the thressome, but got cut off for awhile for suggesting it. Hey, seemed logical at the time.

SlimNu

May 25th, 2011
3:11 pm

Leggs – awww me fweeels so speciaw ;-)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 25th, 2011
3:11 pm

Hello All!

SCool – agreeing with your 12:47 (the first part). Ironically went I arrived at Hampton for freshman year, we were ‘warned’ to steer clear of the military guys. There were a few chicks in the bunch that were like ‘thats why I came to this school!” :shock:

SlimNu

May 25th, 2011
3:15 pm

And I almost forgot about Slimgina lol

MC Hammock

May 25th, 2011
3:17 pm

LOL@Randyt. When I was single and living (and LUVIN) apartment life, I was dating this lady from downstairs who had a quite nice looking female room mate. Ee had a nice arrangement going and one night I jokingly brought up a threesome and then passed it off. A few evenings later, I was over there and we started drinking a LOT of wine….and then it started. A THREESOME!!! But it didn’t get very far as one of them thought I was spending too much time on and with the other and they got in a tiff. That eneded that and one of them moved out a few weeks later. You gotta have the right mind set if you want a threesome or it can blow up in your face.

Sassy Me...Stir it Up :-)

May 25th, 2011
3:23 pm

You gotta have the right mind set if you want a threesome or it can blow up in your face.

I’ve been asked a few times by a couple I went to highschool with…then there was the time one of my former bff’s wanted us to do one as a Christmas gift to her then BOYFRIEND and I could never do it. I know I require alot of attention and with it being two women and one man at some point the two women are gonna be looking at each other like heeeeey and I’m sooo NOT with that sh!t…sooo not

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
3:24 pm

I figured, that’s why I used it, SlimNU.

@RandyT ~ funny.

Dan - Simply....Superior

May 25th, 2011
3:26 pm

Yeah, the word “threesome” isn’t spoken until after…

Leggs

May 25th, 2011
3:26 pm

“…as one of them thought I was spending too much time on and with the other and they got in a tiff.”

I wish you could me laughing my azz off over here. The visualization alone is hysterical…that’s is the DOWNSIDE to a threesome. I’m still laughing as I get up to get some water….brb