I read something funny that caught my eye and reminded me about something: A guy said , “Girls spend too much time deciding what to wear; like guys aren’t picturing them naked the whole time.”
It was funny because I had just gone on a date Saturday night and spent no less than 2 hours doing pre-date rituals (Admittedly, I’m crushing hard on the guy, it’s usually 45 minutes prep time.) Then, as I checked the mirror and headed down the stairs I thought, “I actually want him to like me in sweatpants and a t-shirt too!”
Everyone wants to make a good impression when it’s new but there is something to be said about reaching that stage where you can remove your bra and eat frozen yogurt in front of your man. I’m anxious to get there but I know the importance of getting dolled up and feeling confident on a date.
So be honest guys, how much of the hair, makeup, and clothes are you really paying attention to?
If your date went totally casual, all natural, “carefree” when she shows up, would you admire her and think it’s refreshing? Would you wonder why she made no effort in being sexy for you?
Do men ever go overboard with grooming and preparing for a night out with someone?
Ladies, do you ever want to just put your hair in a ponytail and go on a totally effortless date? What kind of reaction do you think you would get? Are you the type that keeps it simple in your appearance or do you go full on glam?
P.S. A lot ladeies are picturing guys totally naked too. Just sayin’
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog