Breaking news folks: The type of person you are attracted to changes. I don’t know the exact moment it happens but your type dramatically changes. If you’re smart, it gets better and makes more sense. If you are stuck on stupid..well, then you will probably continue to have a series of trainwreck relationships.
What’s really funny is that you sort of need to take self-inventory from time to time. It’s almost like you have to remind your self that dating “wildly inappropriate” has a limited shelf life. You realize that you have had, dare I say, personal growth? Often it’s a result of some reality checks here and there, but the point is you realize you have changed, thereby your outlook on dating has too.
I would always chase the arrogant, self-confident guys before. Now, I find out that the quiet, reserved guys are more compatible and catch my eye faster. Who knew!
Have you ever been surprised at the people you are dating or attracted to now? Do you ever think, “Wait, what’s really my type?
If you are in a relationship, do you think you could have been attracted to them 5 years ago?
How has your type changed over time?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog