Have you ever been in a situation where you decide to postpone/delay getting physical with someone you are dating? It can be difficult explaining why you aren’t ready. You don’t want to send the wrong message that “not now” actually means not ever. So how do you tell someone you just need more time?
Everyone has different waiting periods – from minutes to months – when it comes to deciding when they want to hook up. You would think that it is easy to meet someone with similar waiting periods, but it can be tricky.
While one person is ready to “get it out of the way” before things get too serious, someone else may want the opposite.
How do you bring it up when you see that you are headed to that part of the night when you want to cool things off before it goes to far?
What would happen if your decision to delay sex is met with hostility? Is that one of those defining moments that can make or break a relationship?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog