Have you ever met someone extremely good looking but has the personality of a neglected house plant? Or worse, a fine man that knows how fine he is and behaves according to his value on the single’s market.
To add insult to injury, the fact that other people tolerate their foolishness and attitudes makes them less inclined to evolve. Just because someone is hot is no excuse to not make an effort. It doesn’t give you the right to say rude things, either.
I don’t meet this type as often as I used to. Perhaps I have figured out how to avoid them. Every so often though, I run into the Hottie from Hell and I am, once again, reminded that I probably contributed to the problem. At some point in my dating history, I dated someone just for their looks and overlooked their jacked up personality.
We are all guilty! At some point, you have to do a good dating deed and call out these beautiful people.
Do you think we give a pass to people just because they are head turning hot?
I don’t want to stereotype, but crazy people and beautiful people get attention for a reason. They are exciting to look at but you eventually get over it. At least, that’s been my experience.
Have you ever noticed that some of the hottest people have the worst hangups or personality issues? Do you think this is just a misconception because they are so attractive?