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Thank you, Mom

I want to wish all of the mothers a Happy Mother’s Day.  I am so thankful to have my Mother give me great love, support, and advice.  She certainly is the original Wise Diva. I have learned a lot about love and relationships from watching her and listening to her.

What is the best advice you ever received from your Mother? Did you listen to her?

I was talking to a friend who told me that her new boyfriend thinks she would be a great mom. She was really flattered that he saw her in that way.  How important is it to men that women show/have a desire to be a mother?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:17 pm

Amazon I was not talking about the sin I was talking about the end result.

Sassy!1, why don’t you ask one of those boys to come and fix your toaster? Or call the cops or tell the mother otherwise you are just being a nosey gossiping neighbor. LOL

AmazonRed™

May 6th, 2011
2:18 pm

Neither can I assume that they are fornicating without witnessing it. Right?

Well, you won’t be witnessing anything going on in your gay childs life either. So as long as the person they bring over is a “friend” you’d be good right?

DreamsMaterialize

May 6th, 2011
2:18 pm

DreamsMat, but why hate her for it…
There was never any love lost.

Raqi I didn’t say anyone should hate anyone. As a parent, I personally don’t allow the use of the word. I may have missed where Tancred actually said he hated his mom. I don’t condone hate. It does seem though that his mom hates him for who he has become. Is that not wrong of her? Is it any more right for a parent to hate their child than it is for a child to hate their parent. There are things that I do differently than my mom did, but she doesn’t hate me or hold me in contempt for it. If my intentions are good, and I’m not hurting anyone, then she’ll even support/encourage me in my endeavors, despite them being at odds with what she thinks is the right way to do it.

Celisea

May 6th, 2011
2:18 pm

Sassy1 is brighter than what’s painted. She’s having as much fun with ya’ll as ya’ll are having with her.

Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:19 pm

What is the difference between shacking and fornicating everyday?

AmazonRed™

May 6th, 2011
2:19 pm

Sin is sin

The end.

SexyCool

May 6th, 2011
2:19 pm

Sassy1s – I would let her mom know….depending on what her mom is like.

Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:21 pm

Celisea, I agree I don’t believe she is what she seems either. She switches it on and off to much.

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 6th, 2011
2:21 pm

Rell — No problem with it at all. Now, there are some extended family members, who I’m sure probably have their own opinions about it, but I never associate with them anyway (even before I met Mrs. Swiss).

Slim — Uh, yeah, I’ve got to say, Mrs. Swiss can cook her back out… Never made gumbo (unless you’re talking about Legume — which she does make & is awesome), but her Haitian patties, griot, ble (wheat), rice & beans and fried plantains will make you slap yo mama (even on Mother’s Day). ;-)

AmazonRed™

May 6th, 2011
2:22 pm

You have all the right in the world to accept into your home whomever and whatever you choose based on whatever you choose to base it on. I have the right to do the same.

No one was arguing that by the way. I chose to believe that Jesus would have accepted a homosexual into his home, as he did with murderers and other people of society deemed “unacceptable.”

I guess it just surprises me coming from you, knowing you’ve been open with some of the sins of your past, I doubt your family ever shunned anyone you chose to become involved with. But I guess it’s fortunate you ended up being heterosexual.

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:22 pm

The true purpose of sex from the beginning of time is for procreation. That will never change. Two men having sex will never create life, neither will two women. It was never meant to be and it will not be.

Put a man on an island with 100 men for 100 years and let’s see how many offspring are produced and how quickly they all will die out.

Now put a man on an island with 50 women for 50 years and let’s watch the babies grow.

No every woman probably will not have a child, but even if just one does it more than will ever be produced on an island full of men loving men or women loving women.

Celisea

May 6th, 2011
2:22 pm

PR – She’s enjoying the laughs as well :)

AmazonRed™

May 6th, 2011
2:25 pm

The true purpose of sex from the beginning of time is for procreation. That will never change. Two men having sex will never create life, neither will two women. It was never meant to be and it will not be.

Again, so what? That means you can’t accept someone homosexual in your home for Thanksgiving dinner because he or she is dating your child?

Rell

May 6th, 2011
2:26 pm

I love fornicating :-) , respond if you like it as well

I like po -rn

I like liquor

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:28 pm

And on that note I am done. I have people coming over so I need to carry this charcoal outside and start getting stuff organized.

I am precooking these baby backs, yall should smell them. mm, mm, good

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:28 pm

Well me and the mama do not sees eyes to eyes, she lets her mutt poop in fronts my mailbox and she acts like she aint gots to pick the poops up saying it is public roads. We had some words over that there.

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:28 pm

LOL Rell and you have the right to.

kimmie

May 6th, 2011
2:30 pm

Funny, did any of you all see Greys Anatomy last night? Callie’s parents, well her mother mainly, could not and would not accept her les relationship and baby. She came in town for the ceremony, but just could not take it and left.

SexyCool

May 6th, 2011
2:30 pm

Then Sassy1s – leave it be. She wouldn’t accept it from you and would see it as another intrusion from her busybody neighbor.

SlimNumeroUno - Tequila wasted *sigh*

May 6th, 2011
2:34 pm

swiss – I’m a glutton for plaintains when they are cooked just right….My exes family was from Trinidad and I miss his moms cooking.

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:34 pm

kimmie, have you ever put vinegar in your potato salad? I started doing it a couple of years ago and it is awesome. Gives just the right amount of tanginess.

Yes I am getting ready to peel some potatoes in a minute.

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 6th, 2011
2:35 pm

Slim — I’ve never had Trini plantains, only Jamaican & Haitian…. I like the Haitian way better — they’re crispy… mmmm mmmm :-D

Celisea

May 6th, 2011
2:36 pm

Sassy1 – Just an fyi…something is usually funny the 1st time and MAAAAYBE the 2nd time. I’ll even venture to say you might get a sniggle a 3rd time. But a hundred times afterwards, it’s sort of loses it’s luster.

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 6th, 2011
2:36 pm

Crispy on the outside, that is… soft on the inside. I feel like there’s a joke waiting to be made there….

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:37 pm

Can two folks be going together and not doing sex?

AmazonRed™

May 6th, 2011
2:37 pm

kimmie – I DVR’d it. I’ll get to it sometime this weekend. Callie’s parents have come a long way tho. They disowned her at first.

Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:38 pm

TGIF=Tongue Goes In First

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:39 pm

Circling back to topic,

Some days I really do love being a mother despite the hours being infinite. But the compensation of love coming back to me is Priceless.

Liz just came up for me to pick her up then she kissed me on the cheek and hugged me for no reason. LOL

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:40 pm

Can two folks be going together and not doing sex?

Sassy1, if you don’t know the answer you are probably not old enough to be dating.

Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:41 pm

Raqi, there is a new foster kid on the farm who is 2. I play with him and after I leave or if I play hide and seek with him. I can hear him say “where ‘ito, where ‘ito go?” I don’t know why I am sharing this but it just makes me smile.

Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:42 pm

Going together where?

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:44 pm

Well, Boo is REALLY getting into church and talking that we should be starting to LIVE right. And we may stop doing it. Not sure if we will be OK.

SlimNumeroUno - Tequila wasted *sigh*

May 6th, 2011
2:45 pm

Swiss – that’s how she used to cook hers. MMMM MMMMm Guuuuud And even though there maybe a joke in there somewhere, I can’t say the crispy part should be included. :shock: BBQ’d wangs & thangs :lol:

SexyCool

May 6th, 2011
2:47 pm

Well, Sassy1s – if he is really intending to do right by you, it would seem that a proposal should be forthcoming as opposed to y’all just being roommates because it’s convenient.

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:47 pm

Boo is a PKs and thinking he gots a calling on his live.

Purple Rain

May 6th, 2011
2:48 pm

Celisea, if I respond to sassy1 again please kick me in the shin. Thank you!

Rell

May 6th, 2011
2:50 pm

@swiss…i like the way haitian cook period..but i agree the way the haitians make plantian chips is good…and they are slightly sweeter…

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:50 pm

Sassy1, then get married.

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:51 pm

I am only 24 and I loves him but feels like I needs more time before I gets married. He say, this gone be the last time, but last times always leads to more next times. LOL

Rell

May 6th, 2011
2:52 pm

lol. sassy…come on now boo….really…you can hold out cant you…lol

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:53 pm

Sassy1, time to do what?

kimmie

May 6th, 2011
2:53 pm

Raqi – Never tried it, but I will.

Amred – Her daddy has come far, but her mother, not so much! It was pretty good, the episode. Actually a little better than PP last night.

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:53 pm

Raqi – IT!

SexyCool

May 6th, 2011
2:54 pm

Exactly my question. More time to do what? Do you not live together? Are you not sure he’s husband material?

SexyCool

May 6th, 2011
2:54 pm

And for the record, we all have a calling on (purpose for) our lives.

Raqi V

May 6th, 2011
2:55 pm

So you cannot do IT! as his wife?

Rell

May 6th, 2011
2:56 pm

@sexy….no one don’t…new christians will let you know how much better and how much more purpose they have than you :-)

Celisea

May 6th, 2011
2:57 pm

PR – Celisea, if I respond to sassy1 again please kick me in the shin. Thank you!

I had to LOL on this one….funnneee I say keep entertaining.

Sassy!

May 6th, 2011
2:57 pm

SC – I ain’t shacking. He is a good person and will take care of me. But it is me aint seen no good marriages and aint seen a lot of good couples. I just wnats to be sure it gone last.

Question from the sidelines....

May 6th, 2011
2:57 pm

Ok..we get it.some of you hate / dont believe that a person can be born gay. If this is the case , please tell us when did you “decide” to be strait????