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Dating: Dealing with doubts

We have all heard those cautionary dating tales that make you stop and shudder.  They seem so outrageous and ridiculous that it is hard to imagine it happening to you.  Until it happens to you… and then you can totally see how people misrepresent themselves.

It’s unfortunate that a few dating misadventures can turn us into cynics.  I think it happens to the best of us, but you never want that to be the reason you blow things with the new guy or girl. What do you do when you have doubts about someone you are dating?

I think it is always good to check your cynicism before your let your spidey senses go off.  There are a lot of great people to date who aren’t trying to annihilate your heart.

Do you ever get paranoid? Have you ever dated someone really great but you started to have random doubts?  That awful cynical voice says, “It’s too good to be true” and you are suddenly fighting off negative thoughts. How do you handle it?

What is a healthy dose of skepticism and what is downright dating paranoia?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

114 comments Add your comment

AmazonRed™ - Lake Show tonight!

May 2nd, 2011
4:54 pm

dayum, You right but this a grown up convo. No need to brings the kiddies into it. Straight out the Raqi playbook.

:lol: Sorry man. :lol:

Leggs

May 2nd, 2011
4:54 pm

We call them coochie grabbers, swiss!

AmazonRed™ - Lake Show tonight!

May 2nd, 2011
4:55 pm

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 2nd, 2011
4:55 pm

Well, I hope you’re happy, Slim… Now I’m not going to be able to get a boner for at least 20-30 seconds. :lol:

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 2nd, 2011
4:57 pm

“We call them coochie grabbers, swiss!”

What? My fangers?

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 2nd, 2011
4:59 pm

“Swiss – did you see the crutches? Some dude came off the top ring-rope for that.”

WillieD — Could be. I wasn’t sure if it was that, or just that those pants cut off circulation below the cooter… :lol:

Leggs

May 2nd, 2011
4:59 pm

:lol: tight pants that shows the CT are called “coochie grabbers!”

SlimNumeroUno

May 2nd, 2011
5:02 pm

lmao @ COOTER :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

May 2nd, 2011
5:02 pm

‘tight pants that shows the CT are called “coochie grabbers’

More like coochie killers…that thang needs to be able to breeve :shock:

Leggs

May 2nd, 2011
5:04 pm

I agree, SlimNU, but we have always called them coochie grabbers.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 2nd, 2011
5:04 pm

Man I stroll in, all late I might add, and the convo is on coochie cutters! :shock:

See ya”ll tomorrow! LOL!

Willie Dynamite

May 2nd, 2011
5:07 pm

Swiss – speaking of Slims CT, She jus don’t know. Camel Clutch shall i say???

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 2nd, 2011
5:13 pm

The difference with Slim’s CT, though, is that you don’t grab Slim’s CT — Slim’s CT grabs you. :lol:

The Reanimated Corpse of Swiss (now with titanium-infused bionic w@ng)

May 2nd, 2011
5:21 pm

Hey, Leggs… Does that ↑ count for an EOD? Pretty sage observation, if I do say so myself… :lol: