We have all heard those cautionary dating tales that make you stop and shudder. They seem so outrageous and ridiculous that it is hard to imagine it happening to you. Until it happens to you… and then you can totally see how people misrepresent themselves.
It’s unfortunate that a few dating misadventures can turn us into cynics. I think it happens to the best of us, but you never want that to be the reason you blow things with the new guy or girl. What do you do when you have doubts about someone you are dating?
I think it is always good to check your cynicism before your let your spidey senses go off. There are a lot of great people to date who aren’t trying to annihilate your heart.
Do you ever get paranoid? Have you ever dated someone really great but you started to have random doubts? That awful cynical voice says, “It’s too good to be true” and you are suddenly fighting off negative thoughts. How do you handle it?
What is a healthy dose of skepticism and what is downright dating paranoia?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog