One of our fabulous commenters, Raqi, sent me a really interesting blog post by the author of the website Until I Get Married. I have read some of his entries before but this particular one I hadn’t seen before.
He recounted an experience when he caught his woman with someone else. It seems he was less angry about the cheating and more upset that she did things that he never did with him. It was like she had a totally different side that she didn’t share with him.
I think I need a man to explain that to me. How is that a bigger deal than cheating?
When you are in a relationship with someone, do you think they behave the same way when you aren’t around?
I had a friend who would always act so completely different when her man came in the room – including voice tone. It bothered me so much because I couldn’t understand why she felt the need to do that. What is the point in maintaining a fake personality in a relationship? Have any of you ever seen that happen?
I can’t imagine that ever ends well. How well do we really know the people we are dating?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog