Hey, here’s another of those topics you probably should talk about when you are dating someone new: what do you consider cheating? Is cheating one of those black and white issues with no gray areas? If you are dating someone new, do you know how they define cheating?
A reader emailed me about a huge fight she had with her ultra conservative boyfriend. After she told him she kissed another girl, he became really upset. To make matters worse, he is increasingly annoyed with her nonchalant attitude about the incident.
While she thinks it was innocent and silly, he believes she cheated on him. She blamed the alcohol but he believes that is only an excuse. What do you think? Is it cheating when it’s same sex? Is it grounds for breaking up? He asked her if he was the one making out with other men, how would she feel. She said it’s not the same.
I don’t know what I would do if I were in her situation. Mainly because I can’t imagine sharing a drunken kiss with a girl! I suppose the trust in this couple’s relationship takes a big hit, but is it really a deal breaker? Guys, is it a deal breaker for you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog