Date debate: Obligations
The fastest way to find out if you and your date have similar “moral compasses” is to bring up the topic of “obligatory sex” (yes, those are sarcastic quotation marks). I found that it’s one of those getting to know you topics that a man and woman can have that lets them know just how compatible they are. Trust me.
At one point, I had to stop and think how we even got here. The conversation related to someone not being in the mood and how their partner deals with it. I agreed that I would not state my personal opinion on the topic until after the MIA blog readers discussed what they thought, so I will just frame the topic like this:
Is there ever a time when you are obligated to be intimate with your partner?
Would you ever tell your partner that they are obligated to please you?
How important is it to find out about a person’s attitudes/views about sex when you are dating? When do you start exploring that topic with them?
P.S. Have you ever been on a date with someone and they said something that annoyed you so much that you wanted to get up and walk out? Yeah, just wondering.
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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227 comments Add your comment
Leggs
April 18th, 2011
4:23 pm
That was funny, ForReal. Probably accurate in some neighborhoods.
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:26 pm
Swiss, works like a charm everytime.
Hey Simple Man, you have been to quiet today. So I had to dig you up.
SexyCool
April 18th, 2011
4:27 pm
I had one of my neighbors tell me that she grills out a lot and that sometimes she plays her music kinda loud. Finished that little speech up by saying, “But we all get along over here and don’t nobody call the cops.”
In other words, “Btch, if you call the cops on me for playing my music too loud, I’m gone know it was you.”
#NeverScared….lol…
Simple Man!!!!
April 18th, 2011
4:28 pm
Gotta get this work done……I dont get paid to be good looking!!!
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:29 pm
Chink, are you still in a relationship with the guy? I will say from experience that when your woman is pregnat it is sexy but the limitations suck! Sometimes that stomcah gets in the way.
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:30 pm
Simple Man, you don’t or can’t? And why are you using so many exclamation points? LOL
For Real
April 18th, 2011
4:31 pm
“For Real, okay the pad thing even grossed me out! Good Job!” – Let it be known this 18th day the year of our lord 2011 that For Real hast caused Purp’s belly to curdle with great joy. That is all!!!
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:32 pm
For Real, yes I think I almost hurled when reading that. LOL
Leggs
April 18th, 2011
4:32 pm
@SexyC ~ I’m tapped out. Care to leave the E.O.D? Thank you.
i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")
April 18th, 2011
4:32 pm
“Let it be known this 18th day the year of our lord 2011 that For Real hast caused Purp’s belly to curdle with great joy”
Okay, now that grossed me out. You’re on a roll today, For Real…
For Real
April 18th, 2011
4:34 pm
Lady Cross da Way now putting a copy of snitching in Sexycool’s mailbox with a note that says “If everything is everything then everything is all right”
SexyCool
April 18th, 2011
4:34 pm
Sht happens?
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:34 pm
Swiss, touche’!
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:36 pm
I will leave the EOD:
“Benedici questa Casa, Donandoci Gioia e Amore”
Bless this place with love and laughter!
Simple Man!!!!
April 18th, 2011
4:36 pm
Purp. I dont… Folks that sign the check only want results….
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:38 pm
Simple Man did you call the police opn that guy in Sexy Cools transition area?
Simple Man!!!!
April 18th, 2011
4:39 pm
Nope….Neighbors saw him peeking in Scool’s window….
Leggs
April 18th, 2011
4:40 pm
Dang, PR just bum rushed that E.O.D…you do know it’s 4:39 p.m.
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:46 pm
It’s actually 3:45 LOL
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:46 pm
This wife of mine is already talking about having another baby! I told her if we didn’t it would not be from a lack of trying. LOL
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
4:51 pm
Bum rush the show, you’ve got to go for what you know!
Leggs
April 18th, 2011
4:54 pm
I hear ya…I’ve heard it’s “a dog eat dog world”
i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")
April 18th, 2011
4:58 pm
“If you ever catch on fire, try to avoid looking in a mirror, because I bet that will really throw you into a panic.”
SexyCool
April 18th, 2011
5:01 pm
On the good neighbor side…there is a lovely older couple that lives across the street. Mr. and Mrs. V. Mr. V came and cut our postage stamp of a yard Friday afternoon as a welcome to the neighborhood. He also cut the tiny front yards of the two empty houses next to mine.
Leggs
April 18th, 2011
5:07 pm
Daggone it, 107.5 wanted the 17th caller and I was #14!!! *##$%!%#$#)$*$
Purple Rain
April 18th, 2011
5:07 pm
Sexy Cool your neighborhood sounds like the one in the movie Friday. LOL
SexyCool
April 18th, 2011
5:09 pm
Now that you mention it…..(lol)