The fastest way to find out if you and your date have similar “moral compasses” is to bring up the topic of “obligatory sex” (yes, those are sarcastic quotation marks). I found that it’s one of those getting to know you topics that a man and woman can have that lets them know just how compatible they are. Trust me.
At one point, I had to stop and think how we even got here. The conversation related to someone not being in the mood and how their partner deals with it. I agreed that I would not state my personal opinion on the topic until after the MIA blog readers discussed what they thought, so I will just frame the topic like this:
Is there ever a time when you are obligated to be intimate with your partner?
Would you ever tell your partner that they are obligated to please you?
How important is it to find out about a person’s attitudes/views about sex when you are dating? When do you start exploring that topic with them?
P.S. Have you ever been on a date with someone and they said something that annoyed you so much that you wanted to get up and walk out? Yeah, just wondering.
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog