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Dating: What’s your price?

File this under: “Dating is like prostitution” because Whatsyourprice.com is taking the subtle to the blatantly obvious.  The concept of the website is basically set up to buy and sell first dates. A “generous” person sets a price for how much they are willing to pay to go on a first date with the most attractive people.

Yes, our physical attraction to each other is the primary reason we go on dates in the beginning.  Yes, men generally shell out dough for said dates which may or may not lead to sex.  I’ve thought a lot about the dynamics of dating in this sense. Do we really need a website that puts it out there in this way?

What do you think of this idea?  Marketing genius or another example of how shallow dating can get?

This makes me wonder if we should put a spending cap on first dates.  What you consider agreeing to this?

P.S. If dating is like prostitution, what does that make marriage?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

198 comments Add your comment

CoolShadow

April 12th, 2011
8:17 am

What do you think of this idea? Marketing genius or another example of how shallow dating can get?

It’s both; it’s marketing genius demonstrating how shallow dating can get. It looks like a high-tech, watered-down, prelude to mail order brides. This could be a cute gimmick for maybe a sorority to use as a fundraiser, but as a true mechanism for dating, it’s rather sad.

P.S. Scratch the cute sorortity gimmick, that wouldn’t work either.

CoolShadow

April 12th, 2011
8:18 am

that should read, “sorority”

Reggie

April 12th, 2011
8:33 am

The difference between dating and prostitution is that dating costs more and may not lead to anything good.

Bobby Gunn

April 12th, 2011
8:37 am

Physical appearance is exactly what sets the dating $$ cap. If you’re hot, I’ll spend more, because I want to leave a great impression. If you’re average, that cap drops significantly, because I am only mildly concerned if you are impressed.

Da Man

April 12th, 2011
8:39 am

The amount of money I’m willing to drop is a direct corelation of the difference between your rack size and your waist size. The greater the ratio difference, the greater the amount of money I’m willing to drop on you.

Fion

April 12th, 2011
8:40 am

“This makes me wonder if we should put a spending cap on first dates. What you consider agreeing to this?”

Cap, Samapp!!! Whatever, but PLEASE!!! PLEASE!!!! Don’t use a Coupon .

Lana

April 12th, 2011
8:42 am

Well men, if you don’t think enough of me to spend enough money on a nice date, I won’t think enough of you to take my panties off at the end of that date.

Geechee

April 12th, 2011
8:43 am

This website is just another option in the trend of de-personalizing relationships and communication and that includes sites like Match.com; Ashley Madison.com, Facebook and even blogging. We are talking, conversing and meeting via electronic means vs. meeting at work, college, church, bars, etc. and forming relationships/friendships that lead to dating and other connections. This site and Ashley Madison are akin to ordering a date like a happy meal, of course you can super size what parts you desire. I can see Johnny’s Hideaway going the way of the horse drawn buggy.

Johnny Wadd

April 12th, 2011
8:43 am

Size matters.

Fion

April 12th, 2011
8:47 am

Well, doggone, Lana. I feel Violated!!!!

Bumpity Bump

April 12th, 2011
8:48 am

I’ve tried the internet dating thing and even went on the Ashley madison site. Had some good results, but Johnny’s Hideaway is the BOMB. Out of the past 5 times I’ve gone there, four of those times I wound up sweating and grinding for a few hours. Beautiful women that are out for th same thing that the men are. I’m making that place a regular stop on my weekend evenings. VIVA LA COUGARS!

I'm gonna pay for this

April 12th, 2011
8:51 am

“If dating is like prostitution, what does that make marriage?” ummm, slavery?

Celine

April 12th, 2011
8:54 am

I’m not really after an expensive date. I go on personality and a sense of humor. And if you are great in the sack, that’s more of the quality that I’m after. Not interested in a relationship, per se. Just be nice, funny and be able to make me scream your name. If you’re THAT good, I’ll date you just because of that. We women have that need just like the men, though a lot of the female posters here seem like they are just trying to convince us otherwise.

longingwoman

April 12th, 2011
8:57 am

Just an update. I came, I saw and I wore that mutha OUT! Poor boy thought he had a tiger by the tail. I think I ruined him for the rest of the female population in a GOOD way!

Fion

April 12th, 2011
8:57 am

“Johnny’s Hideaway is the BOMB. VIVA LA COUGARS!”

Yeah we lost good friend there one night. Let’s see this is April………yeah its was January 09
we stumbled in there and little after midnight, poof!!!!! haven’t seen him since.

Bumpity Bump

April 12th, 2011
9:05 am

@Fion, that’s because she still has her legs around his waist. Those ladies can take a while before they have all they want. I speak from experience….

WomenDoItTo

April 12th, 2011
9:07 am

Wow! You people are really shallow. Think about this ladies… if men pay more for attractive women, how much he spends tells you what you are worth. Is there no intrinsic value? Are you not worth more that you bust / waist line ratio? Is there nothing inside of you that tells you that you are worth something more that that? My girlfriend knows who she is and has a strong sense of herself without my input. It’s one of the things I love about her. And, no, I am not cheap. She just knows that it does not matter how much I spend on her. I love her for who she is.

MC Hammock

April 12th, 2011
9:08 am

Hot diggity! Sounds like there’s a swinger’s party going on in here this morning. I don’t think this is EXACTLY what WD had in mind when she posted the topic…..but I’ll roll with it nonetheless…..lol

Fion

April 12th, 2011
9:09 am

“What do you think of this idea? Marketing genius or another example of how shallow dating can get?”

A very concise critique of how shallow the dating game have evolved.

I’ve got to feed the “id.”

Da Man

April 12th, 2011
9:10 am

@WomenDoItTo…..*throwing up…..I’m sorry….for a minute there you made me sick…..

Jack

April 12th, 2011
9:12 am

Hey womendoitto, sell crazy somewhere else. We’re all stocked up here.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
9:18 am

Call it what you will, but this “shallowness” has served me very well. It’s gotten me constant companionship with more waiting in the aisle. All that philosophical nonesense won’t buy you a cup of coffee this morning. I want good….no, GREAT times, fun places to go and some spectacular carnel experiences. I’ll take that over wondering about “intrinsic value”, “strong sense of self” and any of that other nonesensical garbage that some people try to parlay off on people. If it swells, ride it to the shoreline!

Fion

April 12th, 2011
9:20 am

Hey! Celine are you married??????? What planet are you from??? Are there more like you????

WTH?

April 12th, 2011
9:21 am

OK, where do the ladies that think like this hang out? Sounds like I’m going to the wrong places. Celine and longingwoman, I’m available any time, any day. I’ll even wear my Zorro outfit, if you want! LMAO

Celine

April 12th, 2011
9:24 am

@Fion, nope…and never will get married. I’ve seen too many married folks that pretty much dropped their souls off at the local dumpster. Not me. I’ll be like this until I’m to old to pop.

Fion

April 12th, 2011
9:32 am

@ Celine

Do yo thang playa!!!! I feel ya.

Geechee

April 12th, 2011
9:33 am

@Celine: I like the way you think.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
9:34 am

Morning

What do you think of this idea? Marketing genius or another example of how shallow dating can get?
Who cares? You get a date how you get a date. If it’s working for you, then have at it. Shouldn’t matter to you how “shallow” anyone else thinks it is, especially if their method isn’t getting better long term results than yours.

Fion

April 12th, 2011
9:38 am

Question Dreams, Are you asking’em to come along before you hit them with the Club???

Mad Max

April 12th, 2011
9:43 am

I agree with a lot of the posters here. You can have the best personality in the world, have an enormous sense of self worth and those are important things to have. But face it, people….it all boils down to the S** word. Men have killed and died for it, kingdoms have fallen because of it, brother has betrayed brother because of it. When things are good in a relationship, it’s 40% of that relationship. When things are bad in a relationship, it’s 90% of the problem. Read it, learn it, live it.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
10:05 am

Question Dreams, Are you asking’em to come along before you hit them with the Club???
Fion Man most of the times they club themselves. lol

kimmie

April 12th, 2011
10:08 am

Morning All

I have to remember sometimes that it is not easy coming up with good topics.

And that last line, comparing dating & prostitution to marriage? Just smh……

DJ Sniper

April 12th, 2011
10:08 am

What is Johnny’s Hideaway?

luangtom

April 12th, 2011
10:15 am

Dating is certainly like prostitution. Marriage is just prostitution refined. How many of us know of or have heard of sex being with-held from a spouse until a certain material item has been given? How many women have held sex as a bargaining-chip in their marriages? How many women would not marry if the diamond-ring was not a part of the equation? Sounds like prostitution to me……..

Bumpity Bump

April 12th, 2011
10:18 am

@DJ, it’s the oldest club in Atlabta, going on 33+ years. It’s designed for the older crowd (40+) and plays the older music, Sinatra, stuff like that. It’s famous because of the legendary “Cougars”, where mature women go to pick up the younger men. It stays the older crowd until about midnight when it becomes swarmed with the 20something guys that are looking for that Cougar hookup. And more times than not, they get it.

kimmie

April 12th, 2011
10:18 am

Dreams – That 10:05 doesn’t sound like you.

DJ Sniper

April 12th, 2011
10:25 am

Wow. All the time I’ve been here and I’ve never heard of it. Looks like I missed out on some good times. lol

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
10:29 am

Dreams – That 10:05 doesn’t sound like you.
kimmie you know me so well. You know I have more finesse than that. ;-)

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
10:30 am

kimmie – ikr – Oddly enough, when the original Mia, who really was named Mia started this blog, she blogged a whole lot more personally. As we all know, there are lessons to be learned from how much of your personal information you share in this forum.

That being said and with the experience of writing my *resting* ThreeWordsDaily blog, I can definitely attest the the difficulty that Wise is facing in trying to keep the conversations going.

Bless her heart.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
10:54 am

I can definitely attest the the difficulty that Wise is facing in trying to keep the conversations going.

Bless her heart.

Is there a way to get/have a sort of suggestion box of/for topics?….or a guest blogger or two in order to give Wise a break. Not speaking against her or anything but it’s just a thought. Carry on…..

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
11:09 am

wow….wha had happened to everybody?…

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
11:14 am

“wha had happened to everybody?”

Sassy — Well, I can’t speak for everyone else, but I’ve been busy pleasuring myself to the mental image of you getting your superfreak on for 4 days straight… :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
11:18 am

Oh, BTW… Since I’ve never met you, in my mind, Sassy, you look like this:-D

Bumpity Bump

April 12th, 2011
11:18 am

How about “What priority, on a scale of 1-10, do you place on your partner’s libido in a relationship? Is it no big deal or is it a deal breaker? Do you have certain intimate “needs” outside of the actual act (snuggling, holding hands, kissing) that you also need/require?” Please comment freely and of your own will.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
11:24 am

MOST definately, BB. I need a lot of physicality in any relationship, whether it be steady relationship or random. I love the feel of skin against my own and can get aroused very, very easily. He must also have the same level of “easy to arouse” because I won’t be around for long if the frequncy tapers off. Holding hands and kissing are a means to an end result. After “the act”, I’m much more in tune with myself, more relaxed, happier and it’s a great stress reliever. If you don’t place a LOT of stock in sex being a major part of the relationship, he and I won’t last long at all.

Simple Man!!!!

April 12th, 2011
11:29 am

” I love the feel of skin against my own and can get aroused very, very easily.”

Well damn…..

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
11:29 am

I’ve been busy pleasuring myself to the mental image of you getting your superfreak on for 4 days straight…

Swiss you have too much free time on your hands…not to mention something else probably ;-)

Nice picture…btw. :lol:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:30 am

You better believe it. You better be a good kisser and like to do it a lot. He can’t be afraid of PDA’s and have a sense of “daring do”. I don’t like a third party in the bedroom, but anything else is up for discussing or acting on it. I love to snuggle and cuddle. I think that if a man is interested in reading articles that improve the performance or pleasure level, then he is on the same page as me. If all you like is the “kiss, BJ, sex (missionary style), sleep” routine, that gets old real quick. Spanteneity and enthusiasm is the key to my life and bedroom. I’ll not let him forget about it either.

This is so much better of a topic than all of the other “deep”, “meaningful”, “growing together” topics. Way to go, Bumpity Bump!

NY state of mind

April 12th, 2011
11:31 am

Morn Fam-

Who gets the money…does the woman get a percentage? I dont see a problem with it…However Buyer beware: you get what you pay for.

DC

April 12th, 2011
11:33 am

KOB, what about if he puts in in your butt?

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:35 am

LMAO @ DC. Been there, done that. It’s different, but in the right frame of mind and with the right person, it can be just as good or better than doing the “gina” thing. It’s not for everybody, though. Ever heard the phrase “hurt so good”? Well, there ya go.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
11:41 am

DC, I’m one of the rare ones that really likes it. There’s actually more nerve endings there than the regular way. Just be slow in the beginning. Sometimes I even prefer it…lol

Somehow, I think DC was just stirring the pot a little, but you got your answer!

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:44 am

KOB the sounds you gals make are a turn on too.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
11:44 am

Ever heard the phrase “hurt so good”? Well, there ya go.

Y’all gone make Swiss leave work and call the wifey for a lunch date. Okay wait…didn’t someone have a song about that? It’s an older song by a woman with a raspy voice. All I can remember is the hook but the phrase “hurt so good” was in it…

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:44 am

“If Dating is like Prostitution” I have a large escrow acct I want to cash out. That aint happening cause it’s unfair to the next lady. My take on it and no one needs to agree.

Happy Tuesday To You:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:46 am

LMAO@Blackfoote. No control over that aspect…lol. What comes out just comes out…

Simple Man!!!!

April 12th, 2011
11:46 am

I wanna jump in but I am not quite sure where to go…..

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:51 am

Screamer ok that makes a fella work harder then…LOL

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
11:51 am

Sassy — I’m already at home — telecommuting today — and yes, I am about to place that booty call (literally) to Mrs. Swiss… :-D

So, KOB, Celine & any other back door veterans — Any tips on easing into the back door? The Mrs. already loves the finger back there, but we haven’t worked our way up to The Matterhorn yet… Any positions that make it easier to handle to start with? Today may be the day… :lol:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:54 am

Swiss, doggie and spooning side by side works the best for me. Gotta be slow and pay attention to any “signs” that it isn’t working real well. Once you are accostomed to it, you can pick up the pace. Lots of lube, though.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
11:56 am

Really any position. I prefer being on top and control everything. Like KOB said, once I have gotten used to it, bang away. Lube is an absolute must as well as gentleness in the beginning.

OMG

April 12th, 2011
11:58 am

Well I think I have just read the most disturbing comments I’ve ever read on here. Y’all really LIKE that?

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:58 am

Swiss I would suggest KY gel first it makes it more tolerable for. Or she may have her own natural you know what mean like your own organic cream…..LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:02 pm

Celine you’re not Celisea are you? I wouldn’t want to be confused with the two of y’all.

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
12:04 pm

Sweet Pea

April 12th, 2011
12:04 pm

Good Morning!

Sassy~I remember that song too!

Simple~I wanna jump in but I am not quite sure where to go…..

Your GPS didn’t direct you to the House Of Euphoria where you can have whateva you like over the weekend? Met my friend at Eclipse De Luna after work on Friday, and we’re planning on taking the trip soon. Her male friend asked if I was ready, and after observing my fishnets he said, Oh Yeah she is…LOL An interesting convo filled with laughter and libations.

Just Spectating No Participating! :)

Amazed at what I am Reading......

April 12th, 2011
12:04 pm

Ugh…….Blackefoote…the backdoor is non-lubricating….You might wanna invest in a high viscosity lube or you can go with this old Spit and roll techinique….

Celine

April 12th, 2011
12:05 pm

OMG, I know it’s not for everyone and probably not the norm, but you better believe I like it. A LOT.

Blackfoote, no I’m not. I’ve seen her in here, but I’m not her.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
12:06 pm

“It’s an older song by a woman with a raspy voice.”

Um, I’m pretty sure that “woman” was John Cougar Mellencamp :lol:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
12:08 pm

@OMG

Sure I like it. Wouldn’t do it if I didn’t. It’s a different feel, but “Oh, so good”. Can’t be too large for it, but just the right size and it’s very arousing.

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:13 pm

Ared I will try that too always looking for new things to a certain extent.

OMG

April 12th, 2011
12:14 pm

Just when you think you’ve heard it all, two women that actually say they LIKE it. Not me…I’ll just stick to the beaten path, thank you.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
12:19 pm

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:21 pm

OMG there more than two women who likes it I was turned on/out to it by a woman. I never thought I would go there but there I was. A very unsuspecting woman I will add.

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
12:23 pm

Blackfoote is right. I have a few friends that enjoy it as well.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
12:26 pm

to each his/her own…if you don’t like it then don’t d@mn do it but don’t knock others if they do…

Matter of fact just go away if you’re so disturbed…

Celine

April 12th, 2011
12:31 pm

OMG, don’t knock it just because you don’t like it (or never tried it, should I say). It’s just a different avenue to enhance the pleasure principle. I puts me in my own little world and all I feel is the sensations. The “O” from it is very dramatic. Makes my body tense up harder than a regular “O”. And aren’t we all out to rachet up the pleasure aspect of it?

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:32 pm

Hey Sassy like what you said at 12:26. There’s lots of things I wont partake in but I wont chastise another if they don’t.

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
12:33 pm

Sorry to puncture your own senses about it, OMG. I don’t like it all the time, but when I do, it’s hard to beat.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
12:36 pm

Exactly Blackfoote…if you’re not into it fine but don’t look down your noses at others..

MC Hammock

April 12th, 2011
12:39 pm

Well just F*** a Duck! I asked the missus if she wanted to try it and I still have the scar on my chest where she stuck the butcher knife in. Haven’t had the courage to ask, since…..

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
12:43 pm

Wooooowwwww, Is Tuesday the new Friday. Don’t even have to speak first in this camp just jump right in. Nice change of pace.

On Topic – This topic reminds me of the Boondocks episode where Riley speaks about this. Would one of you kind souls that are a little more literate than this dumb country boy please add the link.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYzM9M9zNZk

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:48 pm

MCH man that’s funny some women can’t handle it they acquire the feel for it is what I have heard. And like KOB said they say “it hurt so good”.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
12:52 pm

MCH — You gotta show her how much sensation there is back there in other ways before you try to stick it in there… Gentle finger massage around the rim when she’s riding you, little slip of the tongue when you’re going downtown… :lol: Once she sees how sensitive she is there, she might be more open to exploring further… Or not. It’s not for everyone…

CAN'TBTHATBAD

April 12th, 2011
12:57 pm

PLEASE!! one of U blogettes give MCH some

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:08 pm

Gentle finger massage around the rim when she’s riding you, little slip of the tongue when you’re going downtown…

Swiss are you and the Mrs. still tryna make a lil itty bitty Swiss?

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:08 pm

Blackfoote – Celine you’re not Celisea are you? I wouldn’t want to be confused with the two of y’all.

Blackfoote, I want this in bold, I’ve outright said it but I’ve done freaking in my day….the backdoor though just ain’t on, have not been and no doubt won’t ever make the list Say it with me now, Celine, Celisea, Celine, Celisea, Celine, Celisea…that is painful thinking about it. Makes my stomach flip when someone is describing. Not the same feeling or tingle I get in the nether regions either, at the mention or picturing or recalling or reminiscing.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
1:10 pm

Sassy — Yup. Still plugging away… :-D

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
1:13 pm

I’ll jump in to the new topic. Personally been there done that years and years ago. Not a big deal to me and dont really see what all the fuss is about. I’ll stay away from the obvious stereotypes and just say it was a swirl situation. The wifey was/is adamant about it never happening. I dont push it and left it at that. For those that partake by all means enjoy yourselves safely. Who am I to even have an opinion on what goes on in your bedroom.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:16 pm

Still plugging away

Or rather f!@#ing away ;-) I know, I know…

Much luck to the two of you and have plenty of fun trying :mrgreen:

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
1:18 pm

WillieD – cosign 113p

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:19 pm

Willie D(can’t help but smile when I see that moniker) what if all the planets n stars n the moon align one night and she wants to go there would you hesitate?

Geechee

April 12th, 2011
1:21 pm

@Celine & Knockoutblonde: You two are in my Hall of Fame! I’m going to put down my Cosmopolitan and pick up my Tantric Sex advice book right now.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:22 pm

Well I’ve been asked and asked and asked…no and nope. I have though had rim massages while in the throws of passion and while rendered incapacitated but let’s just say I make it crystal clear that that’s one door (pun intended) we ain’t broaching

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
1:24 pm

LOL…..Hey there Celisea I didn’t want to get you and Celine mixed up. You know with alter egos and names changing that goes on here. If you’re mad we can talk about over a private dinner out. I’m joking I don’t want yours or any other womans guy chasing after me. I’m trying to live drama free if that’s possible…….LOL

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:30 pm

Hey Blackfoote – No harm no foul :) I know you weren’t trying to go there :)

TenderRoni

April 12th, 2011
1:34 pm

Wow, what a topic change today.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:34 pm

Now I can’t get this out of my mind.

Hurt so good
Come on baby, make it hurt so good
Sometimes love don’t feel like it should
You make it a-hurt so good

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
1:36 pm

Willie D. how good are you man? I came on board and fell face first into this one. I know Swiss pun intended……LOL

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:39 pm

There’s another song about “hurtin good” but I don’t/can’t remember who sang it. Sweet Pea remembers,too but that’s as far as I’ve gotten and it’s driving me nuts trying to think of who it could be…

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
1:43 pm

Celisea if I didn’t know any better you will have made a good case to do it with that song on your mind.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
1:46 pm

Thanks, Sassy — Yeah, it’s pretty much a win-win situation. If we have lil’ Swiss Mocha Swirl, that would be cool… And if we don’t… Well, trying is just as fun as succeeding… :-D

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 12th, 2011
1:52 pm

Could we agree to not put “hurts” “good” and “nuts” in the same sentence ever again?

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
1:54 pm

Sassy – I thought you were lovin the moniker cuz you was needy. Now your cup runneth over and you still at it. alrighty then, jus keep smiling. But to answer your ? I stay ready, all she has to do is act like she might even think about it. But for me its not even that big a deal. I’ll negotiate and settle for the PSH i guess.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:10 pm

What a topic, I am not a big fan of sticking it in a woman’s poop chute, but I have done it before. I don’t ask for it but I have run acrosss women who love it. One liked it to much and I had to leave her alone. Now I will slide a finger up her chute in a NY second though. I used to think it was a race thing because white girls loved it but it was a sister who just wanted it all the time. My wife likes it every blue moon, maybe like 3 or 4 times a year. The middle eastern girls I dated like it alot too. So I guess it’s not a race thing. It’s just like oral sex was in the 80’s/90’s Back door pleasures will be very common across the board by 2015. LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:16 pm

Hey Purple what’s up man. Strange some women are the ones who request it that way….LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:17 pm

VH1 is talking are men dateable wearing murses man/purse and mapris man/calf lenght pants. The women are chewing guys up with that fashion style. And I don’t blame them.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:19 pm

Blackfoote, some women love it. That is when it becomes a problem for me. I am not into it that much.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:19 pm

Plus a women has to be prepared for it or things will get messy and stinky.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:23 pm

Has anyone seen the movie “Bad Santa”? Had had a habit of doing that to big fat women.

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:24 pm

LOL….@Purple right bath or shower before and after.

Amazed at what I am Reading......

April 12th, 2011
2:24 pm

You know what they say…when you go that route, whether you like it or not, its gonna be a shi* tty situation…LOL (I know that was a lame joke, but humor me..I am kinda new here)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
2:28 pm

Well I see this topic has taken a nasty turn. lol There are lots of women out there that enjoy this. Probably most have at least tried it.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
2:31 pm

(I know that was a lame joke, but humor me..I am kinda new here)
Amazed Are you a man or a woman? Why does this amaze you? Oh, and welcome.

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:32 pm

Amazed you will see there are frank discussions that goes on here so enjoy no one can reach out and touch you.

Amazed at what I am Reading......

April 12th, 2011
2:34 pm

New Dude in the Building…I “poke my head in when I can” (LOL).. But I was / am surprised to see women be so frank about this topic…

Celine

April 12th, 2011
2:35 pm

Back again…work is a little slow today, so i do more than lurk today.

Lord Velonese

April 12th, 2011
2:38 pm

(face palm) Reeeeeeeeeeaaaalllllyyy???

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:39 pm

The maturity of today’s topic caught me off guard. I love the fact that the women are honest about it. And kudo’s for the lucky guy whose lady is on the blog today and decides to give hiims ome browneye for the first time tonight. LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:44 pm

VH1 now on guys who can’t throw a football/baseball I never thought a guy couldn’t throw a ball until they showed them on tv.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
2:44 pm

I thought you were lovin the moniker cuz you was needy. Now your cup runneth over and you still at it

You’re right…that was the reason but even now I when I read your moniker certain things come to mind :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
2:46 pm

From a dude’s perspective, I don’t really get anything out of back door (or, I should say, no more than front door) — it’s really more about whether or not the chic likes it. For some chicks, it’s like pouring gasoline on the fire & in that sense, it’s pretty fun… But if she’s not into it, there’s no point…

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:57 pm

Swiss, I like the other two areas more than the back door, besides the other two areas are moist. Plus ATM would disgust me and I would never want to see her again. Just buy a plug or use your fingers in the chute and that provides an intense situation for her.

Lord Velonese

April 12th, 2011
2:59 pm

OH HELL NO, we talking about going down that Ol’ dirt road, that’s freaking disgusting you sickos. I’m out of here, I might return, not sure, that’s a deal breaker.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
3:00 pm

it’s really more about whether or not the chic likes it.

Swiss – you nailed it my man. For me thats whats its all about. If she likes it I love. Sure I have my selfish moments but i know how to get myself off. I like to think I’ve become a sort of specialist about how I do what i do. The ultimate is to see her laying there with that glazed over satiated look in her eyes while she trembling and shaking. Now that is what its all about. However I can get her to that point is the enjoyment for me. The devil is in the details.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
3:00 pm

Purple — True… I couldn’t do it with just any chick… Matter of fact, Mrs. Swiss is the only chick I’ve met that I’d even give the pinky to — she’s fanatically hygienic… :-D

For Real

April 12th, 2011
3:06 pm

“The devil is in the details.” – True that!!!

Pooter Shooting is not a big deal to me if ole girl wants it but dudes that have to have it makes wonder if that the only way he can make her OU!!! Cause in my opinion other than the brain, puddy is the best thing ever created. And in the words of Chris Rock, “the only thing better than puddy is new puddy”.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
3:13 pm

“the only thing better than puddy is new puddy”.

The curse for every man whose ever had more than 1. Just like WD it is hard trying to re-invent the wheel. You can cut the edges off, add a diff cheese, heyal even toast it. At the end of the day its the same Turkey sammich. Anybody tell ya different is either lying, in denial, or lying

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:21 pm

@WD, well I could make a case for a new c*** as well. A new one feels just as good and different as a puddy does to men. Thing is, C*** comes in different sizes, shapes, lenght and thickness. If I wanted to, I might try and sample everything on the buffet table. But that might get me called a few undesireable names. But I would be lying to say that the thought doesn’t cross my mind every now and then.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:25 pm

Of course, this is taking the whole emotional aspect out of it. There are many women that “want it” as much as guys do and the prospect of the good, ‘ol fashioned “get laid” feels as good to us as it does to men. I’m one of them, but I still don’t go around hopping on anything that sticks up. I might WANT to, but….

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
3:26 pm

“Thing is, C*** comes in different sizes, shapes, lenght and thickness”

So does puddy…. :lol:

Geechee

April 12th, 2011
3:31 pm

@WD: You’re so correct. A 14 year old boy can get off, but a man takes care of his woman. That is what it is all about.

Enough Already

April 12th, 2011
3:31 pm

Swiss, men don’t know until its too late (or when they slide in) but women can tell from the bulge in their pants or by way of touch :-)

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:33 pm

P*ddy is the heavy weight champion of the world many men have fallen and been knocked out by it. Celine what if the new “C” doesn’t fill up the p*ddy? I mean for a man atleast every puddy is wet. I hope, but it has to be aggravating if you get a “C” that doesn’t fill in the spots the last one did. LOL

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:35 pm

Young guys want to go straight thunderdome on the puddy, older guys develop a technique and stroke and only break out the thunderdome when appropriate. Heck even though a guy is more than able to deliver the long stroke…you can short stroke your lady to a really big “O” and then at the climax just long stroke her.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
3:36 pm

Celine don’t worry about the names people might call you. It’s not their place to judge. Besides many of them are doing the same things, only in secret because they’re ashamed. I see you aren’t though. lol

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:40 pm

@Purple, that is correct. Not all “C” has the same effect and some can leave you a little less than “satisfied”. Also, the attentiveness before, during and after. Yes, the young ones fall into the “4 minute wonder catagory.” They are easy on the eyes, but really don’t have a lot in the way of technique. Even a “C” that falls into the OMG catagory doesn’t mean squat if he isn’t the swordsman that he so thinks that he is. It’s about a whole lot more than the “in and out”.

Simple Man!!!!!

April 12th, 2011
3:41 pm

I picked a hella day to be Swamped with work,HUH?????

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:41 pm

Celine, if it is emotionless sex is all of the attentiveness necessary?

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
3:46 pm

Blackfoote – Celisea if I didn’t know any better you will have made a good case to do it with that song on your mind.

Imma just say this again – Hey Blackfoote

LV – I so feeling you on this topic. I ain’t gonna lie, I can’t stick around to read details of going in the back door. Like I say the turn in my stomach from getting a visual versus tingling in the nether regions…2 total different feelings…

Dreams – Have never tried it….I know I know, I can be a prude.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:46 pm

Purple, YES….all of that “attentiveness” is necessary. It’s a journey and every little bit adds to it. if you’re just an “in and out” for 10 minutes and then it’s done, there will be no rematches with me. At that point, emotion has very little to do with it. It’s about giving and getting as much pleasure out of it as you can pull from each other’s body.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:51 pm

I would imaging if it were an emotionless hookup all of that kissing and carressing would not be happening. Just animal instincts and then go your sepreate ways until the next time.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
3:52 pm

even if the emotion is not there, the attentiveness need to be there. When I was single I still wanted to put a stamp on it. If anything maybe it was my ego but I wanted That get back to be on me. Cant have any ole chick just bad-mouthing the Dynamite name. At the very least give ya boy a referral. I know ya girlfriends might tell you gurl he aint no good but they listening to the details. hahaha

Then again I’m harmless now.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:54 pm

Oh no…it’s all part of it. Gotta have the kissing, the passion and it’s all part of that “animal instnct” as you call it. It may be lacking the “I love you”’s, but make no mistake about it, passion is an emotion and it can be animalistic passion if it’s done right. If all I wanted was just “in and out” I have toys for that.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:55 pm

I don’t think I could do the kissing and passion part as those are tied to my heart but the intercourse can take a break from the heart and just go for immediate gratification. If I were into that stuff

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
3:57 pm

I just bought a suite from Lenox for 75.00 that was orig priced at $280…it is absolutely gorgeous

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
3:59 pm

Dreams – Have never tried it….I know I know, I can be a prude
Celisea Naw you like what you like and you stickin to it. Nothin wrong with that.

I know ya girlfriends might tell you gurl he aint no good but they listening to the details.
No doubt abou it. Sometims running their mouth is their own downfall.

CAN'TBTHATBAD

April 12th, 2011
4:01 pm

i betya hava big bank account
whatya say

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:01 pm

Celisea describe the suit

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:04 pm

PR – Is that a trick question? Gotta watch you. Oh, congrats on the little one :)

Don’t let me interrupt the discussion

cba

April 12th, 2011
4:05 pm

Celisea, do you mean suit or suite ?? I was thinking you are ready for some goodtimes :-)

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:05 pm

Celisea, no I was helping you change the subject. And thank you, they are both sleep. THey came home today

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:10 pm

Hey Purp congrats on the lil one man. Nothing like being a pops.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:13 pm

Thanks Dreams and a son to boot!

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:15 pm

cba – Suit. What did I type? Suite? Naaaah, suit. Ya’ll are quick with it…lol

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:16 pm

I don’t want to have sex for a while after what I witnesse last week. Birth is beautiful in concept but in real life it is nasty looking.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:18 pm

PR – Awwwwwww, him sho shweet…life will NEVER be the same. My kid turns 16 tomorrow. So far I have a ralph lauren shirt (she wanted) and a gift box of cookies. She wants another pair of converse sneakers so I guess I can do that. Gotta think of a couple more things to get her to make the birthday package complete. I thought about roses but when I dropped the hint yesterday in getting a feel for whether or not she might like, she looked at me like I’d grown 2 heads. Gotta teach her though if a guy does it, make sure you appreciate and welcome the gesture. She’s SUCH a beautiful young lady.

Lord Velonese

April 12th, 2011
4:18 pm

@Celisea

Thanks, I am glad I am not alone on this one.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:20 pm

So, there’s a ranking of the pay for the top 25 execs in GA. The 25th person on the list made $4.2 mil in 2009, and that person isn’t even a CEO!

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:20 pm

LV – On this one, it’s probably not just me and you….not knocking the back door folks though. LET ME MAKE THAT CRYSTAL CLEAR.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:20 pm

Celisea, 16 years as a parent wow! That is good stuff

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:21 pm

Dreams I saw that 25th guy at the Pink Pony when I was there I think he sold drugs. LOL

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:23 pm

Hey Celisea happy bday to the little one, and may GOD give you strength to deal with a 16 year old. lol

cba

April 12th, 2011
4:25 pm

Celisea, the only reason I commented on that was because of yesterday. I think you were commenting about a 65yr old guy doing the do but the guy was telling Ared he was 6′-5″. I just smiled because I like reading your posts. Its all good!!!

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:26 pm

PR – Celisea, 16 years as a parent wow! That is good stuff

Honey let me tell you. I can remember crying when I brought her home from the hospital because she couldn’t take any of the common brands of milk. So I was having to go to St. Joseph because nobody sold it and it was 20.00 bucks a can…of course that was several servings. Still, I remember my sister saying honey grow up because you have years ahead of you and this is NOTHING compared to raising her. I dried my tears, sucked it up and being trucking every since. I remember when I didn’t have a car and had landed a job. I would get on the bus (baby in tow), with bags and backpacks, trek across town to my sister’s (to drop off at daycare) and back on the bus to work. Lord Lord, it’s been a road. I’m not done yet but I can definitely look back and feel so much gratitude for the highs and lows, good and bad, the ups and down. She’s coming along too. Just started her first parttime gig last week. So now she’s making money. My thing to her is discipline around folks you don’t know, keeping with how you’ve been raised and don’t let NOBODY “get” to you…not now anyway. I tell her, you set ‘em (boys) straight now and do it right the first time and you won’t have any problem. I’m talking the no do gooders. Anyhoo enough of memory lane

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:26 pm

Dreams I saw that 25th guy at the Pink Pony when I was there I think he sold drugs. LOL
Purp Shyyyt if I had 4.2mil in cash from one year’s work, you might catch at a “dance” establishment from time to time. lol

Laid Back White Guy

April 12th, 2011
4:26 pm

@ Celine…the “attentiveness” part is my fave!!

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:31 pm

Dreams – Hey Celisea happy bday to the little one, and may GOD give you strength to deal with a 16 year old. lol

I know you feel me…you’re right behind me. We’ll break bread and swap stories because you’re going to have some to tell…lol Really, she’s experienced the normal growing pains but I’ve found, establish a foundation early on and but mental blinders on ‘em for all the crap that goes on around them everyday and instill in them that mess, living in mess, entertaining mess, enabling mess…ain’t the norm.

cba – LOL. I got that one wrong…all the way huh? Thanks for the compliment. Believe me when I tell you (as I’m okay with some folks skipping over my posts), I skip a lot of posts mainly because I have a few favs and sometimes everybody is not on the same wave as you…it’s okay but we’re not all the same….you sir though, are one of my favs.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:33 pm

“put” not “but”

cba

April 12th, 2011
4:33 pm

Celisea, your 4:26 just explained why I like reading your posts. Likewise for Leggs.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:35 pm

cba – :) and for Leggs too…

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:35 pm

Where is Leggs?

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:35 pm

I know you feel me…you’re right behind me. We’ll break bread and swap stories because you’re going to have some to tell…lol
Celisea I don’t even wanna think about my daughter and some cat giving her roses. Don’t get me riled up or some random 16 year old boy off the streets will be wearin a ash woopin today and not even know why. lol

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:36 pm

I only dislike one person, I haven’t seen her in awhile. And I still feel bad for making “I Am ” leave

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:38 pm

And I still feel bad for making “I Am ” leave
Purp I think the blog’s brand of tough love was too much for her. Don’t worry though…she probably forgave you a long time ago while smoking and reading the bible with her dude. lol

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:39 pm

Don’t get me riled up or some random 16 year old boy off the streets will be wearin a ash woopin today and not even know why

Awww that’s so sweet. My niece is 11 and I can only wonder how my brother is going to act when she starts liking boys and he finds out about it. It’s gonna be comedy for sure ’cause he’ll be thiking about all of the dirt he did back in the day.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:40 pm

Dreams – LOLOLOL…I know right. I get riled up and I’m her mama. Poor dads. She was a part of their coronation last year and how about some pepper head was calling her name…never mind me standing there. I was like ummm, what’s up with that??? She was like “mama pleeeeease, not now” LOL. He just don’t know, that was another “talk” later that evening. Seriously, I give her rope but I’ve already forewarned. Dreads, no entry, pants below the butt, no entry, no respect, no entry. She’s been asking for a phone and saying she’s the ony person on this earth…her age…without one. Well, I told her, no job, no phone. She asked if I would add one to my plan and she pays me back? I politely replied I’ll add one to my plan when you have the money in hand to pay for it.

cba

April 12th, 2011
4:41 pm

What’s happening in the A ?? 30yr old beautiful lady with 5 kids has been missing since Friday. Husband had gone turkey hunting and found out it was the wrong date and returned home and wife is missing. She was going to Walmart to rent a movie. Her car was found earlier today. I think husband needs to hire a lawyer.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:41 pm

I don’t think “I Am” is actually gone. I’m sure she’s lurking and once in a while posts under a new moniker…you know like some of the regulars do.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:43 pm

It’s gonna be comedy for sure ’cause he’ll be thiking about all of the dirt he did back in the day.

mmmm hmmmm….my brother went through this…he was KING HO. He drove a brand new porsche his senior year in high school and for that alone we had chicks camping out around our house, almost 24/7. Not to mention how nice looking he was back then. My mama and daddy caught hell from those chicks. Blocking numbers, hanging up, calling all times of the night, showing up…whew

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:43 pm

Sassy, I get the feeling that she has been typing on here still when I read certain things.

cba, or she ran away with her boyfriend.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:44 pm

I think husband needs to hire a lawyer.

I think so,too. What amazes me is that in this day and age with all of the advances made in technology and science, some people think they can get away with something like that. Unless she had some of Bay Bay’s kids or Children of the Corn, what mother of 5 would just leave like that?

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:45 pm

PR – I think not only I AM but a couple of others. Pay close attention to their posts. I think a blogger that shall remain nameless said all in one breath, I lurk all the time/I’m new here/I haven’t been here before. I didn’t say anything because someone tagged me one as Dick Tracey but yeah, a couple of newbies are sounding recycled.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:45 pm

once not one

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:47 pm

I get the feeling that she has been typing on here still when I read certain things.

Really? how ironic…well some of us think W8 is still here,too blogging on the regular. And yes when certain comments are read it definitely makes one raise an eyebrow.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:48 pm

a couple of newbies are sounding recycled.

ditto….

cba

April 12th, 2011
4:49 pm

Atleast the husband was crying on tv…..but what does that mean.

I hope its not like the lady who was kidnapped and killed a couple of years ago.
Sassy, maybe with GPS they can locate her, if she still has her phone.

Simple Man!!!!!

April 12th, 2011
4:50 pm

LOL…You guys were sooooo rough on I Am…. :)

cba

April 12th, 2011
4:53 pm

Man, she’s 5′-7″ and 130lbs after having five kids!!!

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:56 pm

Atleast the husband was crying on tv…..but what does that mean

He’s learned from Susan Smith and that lil chick in Florida who said the nanny took her child, that you have to cry a little bit to have some semblance of credibility.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:57 pm

Simple Man I was being my normal self with her than she just got mad at me.

Sassy, I think it was either you or Professor who thought I was him, I remember complaining to Leggs and MEEEELOO about that offline, then they told me about “his style” LOL I don’t think we are alike.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
4:57 pm

Gotta go y’all…peace n blessings. :mrgreen:

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
4:58 pm

Really? how ironic…well some of us think W8 is still here,too blogging on the regular.
LOL at blog conspiracy theories.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:59 pm

If the husband went turkey hunting how did he convice the wife to leave the house pullover and lock her car. Maybe her husband is the only one who could convince her to do that

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
5:00 pm

I told Leggs that I thought Professor and Sassy were the same person. LOL

cba

April 12th, 2011
5:05 pm

PR, you know if something happen to our wives, we are always suspect #1.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
5:12 pm

cba – I was listening to some crime show last night and was doing something else. Never looked up but from listening I don’t know why I knew early on that “the wife did it”…well not her literally but the boyfriend. I dunno why that’s the first suspect but I sure thought it.

Timeless

April 12th, 2011
6:09 pm

With the exception of WomenDoItTo pretty much all the rest of you are the shallow examples of why this site will be hugely successful. And by the way Da Man, there really are men out there who fit the description WomenDoItTo gives, and that explains why you are single and likely to stay that way and the man I married isn’t.