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Dating: What’s your price?

File this under: “Dating is like prostitution” because Whatsyourprice.com is taking the subtle to the blatantly obvious.  The concept of the website is basically set up to buy and sell first dates. A “generous” person sets a price for how much they are willing to pay to go on a first date with the most attractive people.

Yes, our physical attraction to each other is the primary reason we go on dates in the beginning.  Yes, men generally shell out dough for said dates which may or may not lead to sex.  I’ve thought a lot about the dynamics of dating in this sense. Do we really need a website that puts it out there in this way?

What do you think of this idea?  Marketing genius or another example of how shallow dating can get?

This makes me wonder if we should put a spending cap on first dates.  What you consider agreeing to this?

P.S. If dating is like prostitution, what does that make marriage?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

198 comments Add your comment

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
1:43 pm

Celisea if I didn’t know any better you will have made a good case to do it with that song on your mind.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
1:46 pm

Thanks, Sassy — Yeah, it’s pretty much a win-win situation. If we have lil’ Swiss Mocha Swirl, that would be cool… And if we don’t… Well, trying is just as fun as succeeding… :-D

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 12th, 2011
1:52 pm

Could we agree to not put “hurts” “good” and “nuts” in the same sentence ever again?

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
1:54 pm

Sassy – I thought you were lovin the moniker cuz you was needy. Now your cup runneth over and you still at it. alrighty then, jus keep smiling. But to answer your ? I stay ready, all she has to do is act like she might even think about it. But for me its not even that big a deal. I’ll negotiate and settle for the PSH i guess.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:10 pm

What a topic, I am not a big fan of sticking it in a woman’s poop chute, but I have done it before. I don’t ask for it but I have run acrosss women who love it. One liked it to much and I had to leave her alone. Now I will slide a finger up her chute in a NY second though. I used to think it was a race thing because white girls loved it but it was a sister who just wanted it all the time. My wife likes it every blue moon, maybe like 3 or 4 times a year. The middle eastern girls I dated like it alot too. So I guess it’s not a race thing. It’s just like oral sex was in the 80’s/90’s Back door pleasures will be very common across the board by 2015. LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:16 pm

Hey Purple what’s up man. Strange some women are the ones who request it that way….LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:17 pm

VH1 is talking are men dateable wearing murses man/purse and mapris man/calf lenght pants. The women are chewing guys up with that fashion style. And I don’t blame them.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:19 pm

Blackfoote, some women love it. That is when it becomes a problem for me. I am not into it that much.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:19 pm

Plus a women has to be prepared for it or things will get messy and stinky.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:23 pm

Has anyone seen the movie “Bad Santa”? Had had a habit of doing that to big fat women.

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:24 pm

LOL….@Purple right bath or shower before and after.

Amazed at what I am Reading......

April 12th, 2011
2:24 pm

You know what they say…when you go that route, whether you like it or not, its gonna be a shi* tty situation…LOL (I know that was a lame joke, but humor me..I am kinda new here)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
2:28 pm

Well I see this topic has taken a nasty turn. lol There are lots of women out there that enjoy this. Probably most have at least tried it.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
2:31 pm

(I know that was a lame joke, but humor me..I am kinda new here)
Amazed Are you a man or a woman? Why does this amaze you? Oh, and welcome.

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:32 pm

Amazed you will see there are frank discussions that goes on here so enjoy no one can reach out and touch you.

Amazed at what I am Reading......

April 12th, 2011
2:34 pm

New Dude in the Building…I “poke my head in when I can” (LOL).. But I was / am surprised to see women be so frank about this topic…

Celine

April 12th, 2011
2:35 pm

Back again…work is a little slow today, so i do more than lurk today.

Lord Velonese

April 12th, 2011
2:38 pm

(face palm) Reeeeeeeeeeaaaalllllyyy???

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:39 pm

The maturity of today’s topic caught me off guard. I love the fact that the women are honest about it. And kudo’s for the lucky guy whose lady is on the blog today and decides to give hiims ome browneye for the first time tonight. LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
2:44 pm

VH1 now on guys who can’t throw a football/baseball I never thought a guy couldn’t throw a ball until they showed them on tv.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
2:44 pm

I thought you were lovin the moniker cuz you was needy. Now your cup runneth over and you still at it

You’re right…that was the reason but even now I when I read your moniker certain things come to mind :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
2:46 pm

From a dude’s perspective, I don’t really get anything out of back door (or, I should say, no more than front door) — it’s really more about whether or not the chic likes it. For some chicks, it’s like pouring gasoline on the fire & in that sense, it’s pretty fun… But if she’s not into it, there’s no point…

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
2:57 pm

Swiss, I like the other two areas more than the back door, besides the other two areas are moist. Plus ATM would disgust me and I would never want to see her again. Just buy a plug or use your fingers in the chute and that provides an intense situation for her.

Lord Velonese

April 12th, 2011
2:59 pm

OH HELL NO, we talking about going down that Ol’ dirt road, that’s freaking disgusting you sickos. I’m out of here, I might return, not sure, that’s a deal breaker.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
3:00 pm

it’s really more about whether or not the chic likes it.

Swiss – you nailed it my man. For me thats whats its all about. If she likes it I love. Sure I have my selfish moments but i know how to get myself off. I like to think I’ve become a sort of specialist about how I do what i do. The ultimate is to see her laying there with that glazed over satiated look in her eyes while she trembling and shaking. Now that is what its all about. However I can get her to that point is the enjoyment for me. The devil is in the details.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
3:00 pm

Purple — True… I couldn’t do it with just any chick… Matter of fact, Mrs. Swiss is the only chick I’ve met that I’d even give the pinky to — she’s fanatically hygienic… :-D

For Real

April 12th, 2011
3:06 pm

“The devil is in the details.” – True that!!!

Pooter Shooting is not a big deal to me if ole girl wants it but dudes that have to have it makes wonder if that the only way he can make her OU!!! Cause in my opinion other than the brain, puddy is the best thing ever created. And in the words of Chris Rock, “the only thing better than puddy is new puddy”.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
3:13 pm

“the only thing better than puddy is new puddy”.

The curse for every man whose ever had more than 1. Just like WD it is hard trying to re-invent the wheel. You can cut the edges off, add a diff cheese, heyal even toast it. At the end of the day its the same Turkey sammich. Anybody tell ya different is either lying, in denial, or lying

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:21 pm

@WD, well I could make a case for a new c*** as well. A new one feels just as good and different as a puddy does to men. Thing is, C*** comes in different sizes, shapes, lenght and thickness. If I wanted to, I might try and sample everything on the buffet table. But that might get me called a few undesireable names. But I would be lying to say that the thought doesn’t cross my mind every now and then.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:25 pm

Of course, this is taking the whole emotional aspect out of it. There are many women that “want it” as much as guys do and the prospect of the good, ‘ol fashioned “get laid” feels as good to us as it does to men. I’m one of them, but I still don’t go around hopping on anything that sticks up. I might WANT to, but….

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
3:26 pm

“Thing is, C*** comes in different sizes, shapes, lenght and thickness”

So does puddy…. :lol:

Geechee

April 12th, 2011
3:31 pm

@WD: You’re so correct. A 14 year old boy can get off, but a man takes care of his woman. That is what it is all about.

Enough Already

April 12th, 2011
3:31 pm

Swiss, men don’t know until its too late (or when they slide in) but women can tell from the bulge in their pants or by way of touch :-)

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:33 pm

P*ddy is the heavy weight champion of the world many men have fallen and been knocked out by it. Celine what if the new “C” doesn’t fill up the p*ddy? I mean for a man atleast every puddy is wet. I hope, but it has to be aggravating if you get a “C” that doesn’t fill in the spots the last one did. LOL

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:35 pm

Young guys want to go straight thunderdome on the puddy, older guys develop a technique and stroke and only break out the thunderdome when appropriate. Heck even though a guy is more than able to deliver the long stroke…you can short stroke your lady to a really big “O” and then at the climax just long stroke her.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
3:36 pm

Celine don’t worry about the names people might call you. It’s not their place to judge. Besides many of them are doing the same things, only in secret because they’re ashamed. I see you aren’t though. lol

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:40 pm

@Purple, that is correct. Not all “C” has the same effect and some can leave you a little less than “satisfied”. Also, the attentiveness before, during and after. Yes, the young ones fall into the “4 minute wonder catagory.” They are easy on the eyes, but really don’t have a lot in the way of technique. Even a “C” that falls into the OMG catagory doesn’t mean squat if he isn’t the swordsman that he so thinks that he is. It’s about a whole lot more than the “in and out”.

Simple Man!!!!!

April 12th, 2011
3:41 pm

I picked a hella day to be Swamped with work,HUH?????

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:41 pm

Celine, if it is emotionless sex is all of the attentiveness necessary?

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
3:46 pm

Blackfoote – Celisea if I didn’t know any better you will have made a good case to do it with that song on your mind.

Imma just say this again – Hey Blackfoote

LV – I so feeling you on this topic. I ain’t gonna lie, I can’t stick around to read details of going in the back door. Like I say the turn in my stomach from getting a visual versus tingling in the nether regions…2 total different feelings…

Dreams – Have never tried it….I know I know, I can be a prude.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:46 pm

Purple, YES….all of that “attentiveness” is necessary. It’s a journey and every little bit adds to it. if you’re just an “in and out” for 10 minutes and then it’s done, there will be no rematches with me. At that point, emotion has very little to do with it. It’s about giving and getting as much pleasure out of it as you can pull from each other’s body.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:51 pm

I would imaging if it were an emotionless hookup all of that kissing and carressing would not be happening. Just animal instincts and then go your sepreate ways until the next time.

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
3:52 pm

even if the emotion is not there, the attentiveness need to be there. When I was single I still wanted to put a stamp on it. If anything maybe it was my ego but I wanted That get back to be on me. Cant have any ole chick just bad-mouthing the Dynamite name. At the very least give ya boy a referral. I know ya girlfriends might tell you gurl he aint no good but they listening to the details. hahaha

Then again I’m harmless now.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
3:54 pm

Oh no…it’s all part of it. Gotta have the kissing, the passion and it’s all part of that “animal instnct” as you call it. It may be lacking the “I love you”’s, but make no mistake about it, passion is an emotion and it can be animalistic passion if it’s done right. If all I wanted was just “in and out” I have toys for that.

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
3:55 pm

I don’t think I could do the kissing and passion part as those are tied to my heart but the intercourse can take a break from the heart and just go for immediate gratification. If I were into that stuff

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
3:57 pm

I just bought a suite from Lenox for 75.00 that was orig priced at $280…it is absolutely gorgeous

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 12th, 2011
3:59 pm

Dreams – Have never tried it….I know I know, I can be a prude
Celisea Naw you like what you like and you stickin to it. Nothin wrong with that.

I know ya girlfriends might tell you gurl he aint no good but they listening to the details.
No doubt abou it. Sometims running their mouth is their own downfall.

CAN'TBTHATBAD

April 12th, 2011
4:01 pm

i betya hava big bank account
whatya say

Purple Rain

April 12th, 2011
4:01 pm

Celisea describe the suit

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
4:04 pm

PR – Is that a trick question? Gotta watch you. Oh, congrats on the little one :)

Don’t let me interrupt the discussion