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Dating: What’s your price?

File this under: “Dating is like prostitution” because Whatsyourprice.com is taking the subtle to the blatantly obvious.  The concept of the website is basically set up to buy and sell first dates. A “generous” person sets a price for how much they are willing to pay to go on a first date with the most attractive people.

Yes, our physical attraction to each other is the primary reason we go on dates in the beginning.  Yes, men generally shell out dough for said dates which may or may not lead to sex.  I’ve thought a lot about the dynamics of dating in this sense. Do we really need a website that puts it out there in this way?

What do you think of this idea?  Marketing genius or another example of how shallow dating can get?

This makes me wonder if we should put a spending cap on first dates.  What you consider agreeing to this?

P.S. If dating is like prostitution, what does that make marriage?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

198 comments Add your comment

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:35 am

LMAO @ DC. Been there, done that. It’s different, but in the right frame of mind and with the right person, it can be just as good or better than doing the “gina” thing. It’s not for everybody, though. Ever heard the phrase “hurt so good”? Well, there ya go.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
11:41 am

DC, I’m one of the rare ones that really likes it. There’s actually more nerve endings there than the regular way. Just be slow in the beginning. Sometimes I even prefer it…lol

Somehow, I think DC was just stirring the pot a little, but you got your answer!

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:44 am

KOB the sounds you gals make are a turn on too.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
11:44 am

Ever heard the phrase “hurt so good”? Well, there ya go.

Y’all gone make Swiss leave work and call the wifey for a lunch date. Okay wait…didn’t someone have a song about that? It’s an older song by a woman with a raspy voice. All I can remember is the hook but the phrase “hurt so good” was in it…

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:44 am

“If Dating is like Prostitution” I have a large escrow acct I want to cash out. That aint happening cause it’s unfair to the next lady. My take on it and no one needs to agree.

Happy Tuesday To You:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:46 am

LMAO@Blackfoote. No control over that aspect…lol. What comes out just comes out…

Simple Man!!!!

April 12th, 2011
11:46 am

I wanna jump in but I am not quite sure where to go…..

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:51 am

Screamer ok that makes a fella work harder then…LOL

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
11:51 am

Sassy — I’m already at home — telecommuting today — and yes, I am about to place that booty call (literally) to Mrs. Swiss… :-D

So, KOB, Celine & any other back door veterans — Any tips on easing into the back door? The Mrs. already loves the finger back there, but we haven’t worked our way up to The Matterhorn yet… Any positions that make it easier to handle to start with? Today may be the day… :lol:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
11:54 am

Swiss, doggie and spooning side by side works the best for me. Gotta be slow and pay attention to any “signs” that it isn’t working real well. Once you are accostomed to it, you can pick up the pace. Lots of lube, though.

Celine

April 12th, 2011
11:56 am

Really any position. I prefer being on top and control everything. Like KOB said, once I have gotten used to it, bang away. Lube is an absolute must as well as gentleness in the beginning.

OMG

April 12th, 2011
11:58 am

Well I think I have just read the most disturbing comments I’ve ever read on here. Y’all really LIKE that?

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
11:58 am

Swiss I would suggest KY gel first it makes it more tolerable for. Or she may have her own natural you know what mean like your own organic cream…..LOL

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:02 pm

Celine you’re not Celisea are you? I wouldn’t want to be confused with the two of y’all.

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
12:04 pm

Sweet Pea

April 12th, 2011
12:04 pm

Good Morning!

Sassy~I remember that song too!

Simple~I wanna jump in but I am not quite sure where to go…..

Your GPS didn’t direct you to the House Of Euphoria where you can have whateva you like over the weekend? Met my friend at Eclipse De Luna after work on Friday, and we’re planning on taking the trip soon. Her male friend asked if I was ready, and after observing my fishnets he said, Oh Yeah she is…LOL An interesting convo filled with laughter and libations.

Just Spectating No Participating! :)

Amazed at what I am Reading......

April 12th, 2011
12:04 pm

Ugh…….Blackefoote…the backdoor is non-lubricating….You might wanna invest in a high viscosity lube or you can go with this old Spit and roll techinique….

Celine

April 12th, 2011
12:05 pm

OMG, I know it’s not for everyone and probably not the norm, but you better believe I like it. A LOT.

Blackfoote, no I’m not. I’ve seen her in here, but I’m not her.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
12:06 pm

“It’s an older song by a woman with a raspy voice.”

Um, I’m pretty sure that “woman” was John Cougar Mellencamp :lol:

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
12:08 pm

@OMG

Sure I like it. Wouldn’t do it if I didn’t. It’s a different feel, but “Oh, so good”. Can’t be too large for it, but just the right size and it’s very arousing.

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:13 pm

Ared I will try that too always looking for new things to a certain extent.

OMG

April 12th, 2011
12:14 pm

Just when you think you’ve heard it all, two women that actually say they LIKE it. Not me…I’ll just stick to the beaten path, thank you.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
12:19 pm

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:21 pm

OMG there more than two women who likes it I was turned on/out to it by a woman. I never thought I would go there but there I was. A very unsuspecting woman I will add.

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
12:23 pm

Blackfoote is right. I have a few friends that enjoy it as well.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
12:26 pm

to each his/her own…if you don’t like it then don’t d@mn do it but don’t knock others if they do…

Matter of fact just go away if you’re so disturbed…

Celine

April 12th, 2011
12:31 pm

OMG, don’t knock it just because you don’t like it (or never tried it, should I say). It’s just a different avenue to enhance the pleasure principle. I puts me in my own little world and all I feel is the sensations. The “O” from it is very dramatic. Makes my body tense up harder than a regular “O”. And aren’t we all out to rachet up the pleasure aspect of it?

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:32 pm

Hey Sassy like what you said at 12:26. There’s lots of things I wont partake in but I wont chastise another if they don’t.

knockoutblonde

April 12th, 2011
12:33 pm

Sorry to puncture your own senses about it, OMG. I don’t like it all the time, but when I do, it’s hard to beat.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
12:36 pm

Exactly Blackfoote…if you’re not into it fine but don’t look down your noses at others..

MC Hammock

April 12th, 2011
12:39 pm

Well just F*** a Duck! I asked the missus if she wanted to try it and I still have the scar on my chest where she stuck the butcher knife in. Haven’t had the courage to ask, since…..

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
12:43 pm

Wooooowwwww, Is Tuesday the new Friday. Don’t even have to speak first in this camp just jump right in. Nice change of pace.

On Topic – This topic reminds me of the Boondocks episode where Riley speaks about this. Would one of you kind souls that are a little more literate than this dumb country boy please add the link.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYzM9M9zNZk

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
12:48 pm

MCH man that’s funny some women can’t handle it they acquire the feel for it is what I have heard. And like KOB said they say “it hurt so good”.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
12:52 pm

MCH — You gotta show her how much sensation there is back there in other ways before you try to stick it in there… Gentle finger massage around the rim when she’s riding you, little slip of the tongue when you’re going downtown… :lol: Once she sees how sensitive she is there, she might be more open to exploring further… Or not. It’s not for everyone…

CAN'TBTHATBAD

April 12th, 2011
12:57 pm

PLEASE!! one of U blogettes give MCH some

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:08 pm

Gentle finger massage around the rim when she’s riding you, little slip of the tongue when you’re going downtown…

Swiss are you and the Mrs. still tryna make a lil itty bitty Swiss?

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:08 pm

Blackfoote – Celine you’re not Celisea are you? I wouldn’t want to be confused with the two of y’all.

Blackfoote, I want this in bold, I’ve outright said it but I’ve done freaking in my day….the backdoor though just ain’t on, have not been and no doubt won’t ever make the list Say it with me now, Celine, Celisea, Celine, Celisea, Celine, Celisea…that is painful thinking about it. Makes my stomach flip when someone is describing. Not the same feeling or tingle I get in the nether regions either, at the mention or picturing or recalling or reminiscing.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 12th, 2011
1:10 pm

Sassy — Yup. Still plugging away… :-D

Willie Dynamite

April 12th, 2011
1:13 pm

I’ll jump in to the new topic. Personally been there done that years and years ago. Not a big deal to me and dont really see what all the fuss is about. I’ll stay away from the obvious stereotypes and just say it was a swirl situation. The wifey was/is adamant about it never happening. I dont push it and left it at that. For those that partake by all means enjoy yourselves safely. Who am I to even have an opinion on what goes on in your bedroom.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:16 pm

Still plugging away

Or rather f!@#ing away ;-) I know, I know…

Much luck to the two of you and have plenty of fun trying :mrgreen:

SexyCool

April 12th, 2011
1:18 pm

WillieD – cosign 113p

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:19 pm

Willie D(can’t help but smile when I see that moniker) what if all the planets n stars n the moon align one night and she wants to go there would you hesitate?

Geechee

April 12th, 2011
1:21 pm

@Celine & Knockoutblonde: You two are in my Hall of Fame! I’m going to put down my Cosmopolitan and pick up my Tantric Sex advice book right now.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:22 pm

Well I’ve been asked and asked and asked…no and nope. I have though had rim massages while in the throws of passion and while rendered incapacitated but let’s just say I make it crystal clear that that’s one door (pun intended) we ain’t broaching

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
1:24 pm

LOL…..Hey there Celisea I didn’t want to get you and Celine mixed up. You know with alter egos and names changing that goes on here. If you’re mad we can talk about over a private dinner out. I’m joking I don’t want yours or any other womans guy chasing after me. I’m trying to live drama free if that’s possible…….LOL

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:30 pm

Hey Blackfoote – No harm no foul :) I know you weren’t trying to go there :)

TenderRoni

April 12th, 2011
1:34 pm

Wow, what a topic change today.

Celisea

April 12th, 2011
1:34 pm

Now I can’t get this out of my mind.

Hurt so good
Come on baby, make it hurt so good
Sometimes love don’t feel like it should
You make it a-hurt so good

Blackfoote

April 12th, 2011
1:36 pm

Willie D. how good are you man? I came on board and fell face first into this one. I know Swiss pun intended……LOL

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 12th, 2011
1:39 pm

There’s another song about “hurtin good” but I don’t/can’t remember who sang it. Sweet Pea remembers,too but that’s as far as I’ve gotten and it’s driving me nuts trying to think of who it could be…