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Dating outside the box

A friend of mine wanted to know if I had any tips for meeting and dating white guys.  I’ve been known to date men from many different ethnic backgrounds, while she has recently decided to date “other.” I honestly don’t do anything differently, though. I generally meet and date them the same as I do other men.

I have found that when you find people who share the same interests, you are likely to meet someone that sparks an interest, regardless of their background. That is when you sort of let things happen naturally.  I did encourage her to venture to different “scenes” and add some variety to her social calendar.

Do you find it hard to date outside your box? Do you think we should meet and date people from different backgrounds to increase our dating options?

When it comes to race, religion, or political beliefs, how different are you willing to date?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Katz

April 11th, 2011
8:16 am

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
8:21 am

Morning All!!! Hella weekend I can say that much!!!I do not nor have I ever had a dating box but This is Atlanta and we all thsi is the town of cliques!!!I fully understand how it happens just not quite sure why?????

Caitlin

April 11th, 2011
8:46 am

Box, Schmox……I just need some sex. Everyone is on the table….

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
8:49 am

“I just need some sex” :D :) :D

Abdul

April 11th, 2011
8:52 am

I don’t think there is much of anything wrong with “dating outside of the box”…that is IF you can handle whatever repercussions follow. Dating different races is more and more acceptable in the adult world, but the younger generation will pile on someone that dates interacially. It used to be that a black man with a white woman was the only minling, but now more white men are dating black women. Both races have a sect that will just HAMMER these people. Like I said, if you can handle the repercussions, more power to you. But make no mistake about it, there will be rammifications for the adult couple AND the children. It’s not a question of IF.

Mike P

April 11th, 2011
8:54 am

This should be an interesting topic… wanna see what the women folk gonna say.

MC Hammock

April 11th, 2011
8:57 am

It’s always easier to date within your religion, race, economic background, etc., but it’s not exclusive. You do whatever is you. We had a group of black thugs beat another black boy senseless because he was dating a white girl and these things do happen. I think adults are more responsible and tolerant, but there is the lunatic fringe in whites and blacks. Just do what you do and forget about the naysayers.

knockoutblonde

April 11th, 2011
9:02 am

Good morning everyone. Hope you had a great weekend!

I think it’s individual choosing and no one else’s business. I do have certain things that don’t appeal to me, but it’s not religious intolerance, racism or class discrimination. It’s just that certain things don’t apreal to me. I date who I want and that’s that. Doesn’t make me any less of a person or more of a person than the next chick. Different cultures bring different things to the table and that’s a good thing. It’s like a buffet. Just choose what you want and clean your plate.

Reggie

April 11th, 2011
9:04 am

I speak just for myself, but there is absolutely nothing sexier than a hot latino woman. Latin fire and they move their hips like they are attached by a ball socket. Heaven’s gotta look a lot like Eva Menendez.

Black Queen

April 11th, 2011
9:07 am

I date mainly black men, but have dated white and latino men as well. Noting wrong with that as long as they treat me with respect. I don’t pay any attention to religion, unless they are athiest or Muslim. Just be nice, treat me well and it’s a date!

Denzel Washington

April 11th, 2011
9:10 am

I get along with everyone as long as they know I’m the best looking and sexiest man alive. Look at this smile…..you want me, dontcha?

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
9:11 am

Black Queen, Why would you not date an athiest???

Groom2011

April 11th, 2011
9:15 am

Doesn’t matter what race, who you get or what the question is. Halle Berry is the answer!

Quetsion: “Who is the hottest woman on the planet, but still can’t seem to hang onto a man for very long?”

Black Queen

April 11th, 2011
9:17 am

@Simple. Not my cup of tea. Way too many philosophical differences in that coupling and dating is stressful enough without that being in the mix. If you want to, do get ‘em!

Ronnie

April 11th, 2011
9:19 am

The only restriction I have is…..if you aren’t in the p0rn industry, we ain’t datin’.

mark

April 11th, 2011
9:46 am

i see we are beating this dead horse again!! and i personally would not date “outside of the Box”. because i was told early in life to only date black women and thats what im going to do! someone stated that you see more white men dating black women, thats because a lot of sistas are confused and think that white men want them for lifepartners and thats so not the truth. white men only like black Ass not black women. and when the novelty of screwing a black woman wears off then what sistas? i personaly would would drop a sista with the quickness if i found out she had Dated a White Man.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
9:49 am

“Dating different races is more and more acceptable in the adult world, but the younger generation will pile on someone that dates interacially”

Actually, from my experience, it’s been the exact opposite. The older folks are more likely to take issue with it than younger generations, at least from my experience.

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
9:50 am

Damn Mark…Little early for that kind of hostility Huh????. Take off the Bow Tie, Put away the Final Call, and exhale….It will be ok…. :)

Fion

April 11th, 2011
9:52 am

……..Bean pie, my brother!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
9:52 am

Good morning! Hope you guys behaved (but somehow I doubt that).

<em?Do you find it hard to date outside your box? Haven’t quite wrapped my brain around dating outside of my race, but must admit I’ve been thinking about it. Not sure what hangups I will have until I’m actually faced with the prospect.

Do you think we should meet and date people from different backgrounds to increase our dating options? YES. Men tend to date women of different ethnicities, why shouldn’t women do the same. Again, it’s all about one’s mindset. Right now, mine is still stuck on black!

When it comes to race, religion, or political beliefs, how different are you willing to date? I doubt that I could date a devout church goer. Although I go to church, I don’t go every Sunday. I’m of the mindset that I can worship my God, rever my God, love my God without actually being in a church building all the time.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:00 am

I see the trolls got a bright & early start this morning…

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
10:01 am

Good morning all!

I date those who want to date me. That’s usually been my own kind. Just the way it worked out. The only “box” I have ever put myself in when choosing a man to date has been religion. I am one that thinks ahead. Sure it’s “just a date”. But what if that 1 date turns into several and I catch feelings? I don’t date anyone whose religious beliefs and practices are radically different than mine. So I find out before I even get anything started. No need in looking crazy a few months down the line when I’ve caught feelings. I am not converting, and I am not raising any kids in something I don’t believe in. It has not limited my personal dating pool at all.

I say to each his/her own though. Do what makes YOU happy. Forget the naysayers. I just hate it when folks get with “other” then put down their own.

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
10:02 am

Putting yourself in a box: limits possibilities, defines down your opportunities (in life and in love) and confines you to an existence that – at it’s basis – won’t allow you to grow beyond your own fears and perceptions.

It also places you in the unproductive condundrum of having a set of beliefs, never looking to challenge those beliefs, and thusly, never knowing if your belief system stands up to scrutiny – essentially creating your own world (reality).

Placing other people in “boxes”: is the height of arrogance and ignorance. To think that you limited experience could be translated and projected upon another person is just….

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
10:02 am

Morning all –

While I am not opposed to dating “others” :lol: … this is Atlanta, black folks are the majority. Since the pickins aren’t slim, I just don’t really encounter too many opportunities to meet “others.”

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:07 am

From a purely genetics standpoint, inter-racial mating is probably the best thing you could do for any potential offspring — best possible odds of getting good genes and avoiding bad ones. So there’s that… ;-)

Lasha

April 11th, 2011
10:08 am

@Mark, I take issue with your post. Comments and the attitude like that is exactly one of the reasons I sometimes date white men if they ask. There are just as many black men putting “notches” in their bedpost as white men. If he treats me nice, whether he is black or white, I enjoy his company. Someone as shallow as you and obviously has a chip on his shoulder about whites, wouldn’t understand. Maybe you CAN’T understand…

Lasha

April 11th, 2011
10:12 am

And MARK, the sistas aren’t confused, they are just on a DATE. Take off your Balck Panther coast and relax a little. Everything isn’t about black and white.

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
10:13 am

heheheh…( In my Mark pretending to be Chuck D voice) “FIGHT THE POWER”!!! lolololol

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
10:14 am

……..Bean pie, my brother!

:lol:

Before it gets hot in here…remember we all are entitled to our opinions/ preferences. Maybe we should all be so vocal about it…much easier to spot the ones to avoid! :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
10:19 am

remember we all are entitled to our opinions/ preferences.

Amred – You are right, and mark should remember that too when he spouts off about AA women. But yes, I’ve taken to ignoring posts like his.

Fion

April 11th, 2011
10:20 am

Someone mentioned this a few weeks back and I agree. There’s a huge difference dating women who are none American.
Far less dating bullsh.. to deal with.
My experience is that they don’t play games. By large they are straight shooters. I dated a Lebanese woman for 2yrs. Simply magnificent!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
10:21 am

@SassyMe ~ did you get a chance to pluck that wild hair or did you smooth it out on your own (lol)?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:23 am

Fion — If you haven’t already, you gotta find yourself an Island Chica… They know how to put a :-D on your face…

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:24 am

Leggs — Now you know Sassy ain’t gonna be able to type straight until at least Thursday or Friday…. Give ol’ girl some recovery time… :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
10:27 am

LOL…Sassy might still be tied to the bed!!!

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
10:29 am

Fion – Why didn’t you marry her?

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
10:29 am

Dating outside the box means women or men outside of your culture, race, etc. NOT OUTSIDE YOUR MARRIAGE. If you’re married, please say in your box, please stay in your lane.

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
10:30 am

Oh, and if you’re married, you’re done dating.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
10:34 am

If she’s got to try that hard to meet a white dude, it’s probably not worth her time. Sounds like she’s not the kind of person that white dudes are attracted to. I’ve not ever had a problem attracting anybody that was attracted to me. Never had to go out of my way or place myself in special situations.

I would hate for your person to end up looking like the desperate black chick in the building.

Reggie

April 11th, 2011
10:35 am

@Letitia. If you’re married, you’re done dating, having sex, having an opinion and having a life. What’s you’re point?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
10:40 am

@i’m swiss/SimpleM ~ FUNNY. Ok, wasn’t aware of the particulars.

@Letitia ~ I see you’re still gracing us with your presence.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
10:41 am

did you get a chance to pluck that wild hair or did you smooth it out on your own

Leggs umm…well….errr ahhh let’s just say I got it worked out.

Now you know Sassy ain’t gonna be able to type straight until at least Thursday or Friday….

I’m alright(feeling like I’ve been in the Olympics ) Swiss. Plus he’ll be here for another two weeks so you already know ;-)

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
10:41 am

I’ve not ever had a problem attracting anybody that was attracted to me. Never had to go out of my way or place myself in special situations.

SCool – Me either.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:42 am

“Ok, wasn’t aware of the particulars.”

Leggs — Yeah, uh, in particular, I believe Sassy was gonna get her back blown out this weekend… :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:44 am

Oh wow, Sassy is here… How are managing to read this with your head bobbing up & down? :lol:

DFW D.C.

April 11th, 2011
10:45 am

people are people, a box should never exist, if the attraction is mutual, roll wit it

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
10:51 am

Sooo…Sassy..You shopping for a headboard this week, or are you gonna wait til Ole boy is on his way back home??? :)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:51 am

“People are people so why should it be

You and I should get along so awfully?”

↑ If you can name the artist & song (without google), you probably already dated a whiteboy… :lol:

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
10:52 am

Hi Leggs. My husband is hanging out here. So I want to check out what he’s checking out.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
10:53 am

@SassyMe ~ do your thang, girl! Do Your Thang! :lol: :lol: :lol: Umm, he’s here “for another 2 weeks.” Sounds like you’re going to be walking like a cowgirl who rode her horse too long! :lol: :lol:

@swiss ~ you are funny, as usual.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
10:54 am

@Letitia ~ do we know which one is your husband???

latoya

April 11th, 2011
10:55 am

say it ain’t so………..

Fion

April 11th, 2011
10:55 am

@ kimmie
“Fion – Why didn’t you marry her?”

Patriarchal culture. Her father had passed before they came to America.

Well, she had two brothers, her Older brother did not approve of her dating me at all. Her younger brother was happy for her.
I hadn’t asked, but she had expressed to her family that she wanted to marry me. Her older brother pulled his trump card her money. Her money was tied to her family in a Trust. After all of that came out it was too much strife for me.
Her mother is old and it was too much of a family dynamic for me.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:55 am

“My husband is hanging out here.”

Oh snap! :lol:

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
10:56 am

I believe Sassy was gonna get her back blown out this weekend…

Yeah and by now I’m sure the neighbors know his name. Good thing I went grocery shopping :-)

On topic: I’ve been curious about dating outside of my race for some time but haven’t had the opportunity. I’m sure the opportunity will present itself but I’m going to go out of my way to make it happen. It either will or it won’t.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
10:57 am

Honey, if that’s you… just ask any of the blog regulars how whipped I am… :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
10:57 am

How ironic

Some troll comes on here trying to call a married guy out. Now we have a wife popping in.

I guess it’s slow enough around here to entertain us for a while…

Now watch the dogding of answers… :?

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
10:58 am

Honey, if that’s you…

:lol:

She’ll have to weed through your posts of picturing half of the blog ladies nekkid first, swiss. :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
10:59 am

If anyone’s wife came lurking here, it be Purple Rain’s as he once told her about it and she posted for a brief moment. :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:00 am

Fion – Sounds like there are “issues” whichever way you go. Just depends on what you want to deal with.

Which is why everyone should do what makes them happy. Just not put down their own in the process.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
11:00 am

You shopping for a headboard this week, or are you gonna wait til Ole boy is on his way back home???

:lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:00 am

ARed — Shhhhhh! Ixnay on the ekkidnay, got ammitday! :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:01 am

Amred – Purple was the first one that came to my mind!LOL!!!

Fion

April 11th, 2011
11:02 am

…….@ you lost me.

Fion

April 11th, 2011
11:03 am

@kimmie

you lost me.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
11:06 am

MCH, perhaps?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:08 am

Actually, Mrs. Swiss knows all about my blog shenanigans… Besides, what would the ol’ blog be without it’s Court Jester? ;-) (I mean somebody’s got to talk about CTs and titTAYs, right?)

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:08 am

Fion – You said you don’t have to deal with the bull and gameplaying from non-American women. But there are cultural differences with the non-Americans you’d rather not deal with.

It’s always something!

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
11:08 am

Actually, MCH is who came to my mind on both occasions.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
11:09 am

titTAYs?

I’m so done. :lol: !

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
11:09 am

@Letitia~ aren’t you the one who lurked for about 2 weeks before podting? A blog vest still needs to be issued to you sometime in the future. Also, did you give your husband your real moniker…just curious.

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
11:10 am

I wondered if he’s pee’d in his pants? Tee hee hee. He knows who he is.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
11:12 am

before posting….

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:12 am

Letitia – Is he a “Libertarian with conservative leanings”?

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
11:13 am

Good Morning!

“I just need some sex”

Simp~No Trapeze escapade this weekend???? LOL

Sassy~I see you didn’t have to go in-cog-kneegrow cause the excitement was at your own place! :)

If happenstance occur and there is chemistry on both parts then I say, let the dating begin BUT you certainly won’t find me exerting myself in a social setting where it’s obvious I don’t fit to make it happen.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
11:13 am

LOL, kimmie….to funny…you really must always be careful. You never know who’s watching/reading.

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:15 am

SCool – Absolutely! :lol:

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
11:15 am

Obviously…but for the record, not it

Fion

April 11th, 2011
11:19 am

@kimmie

My intial response to you was “Don’t try and delegitimize the comment, just accept it.”

…..anywho
That is a real life un-fabricated circumstance. In my experience with American women a lot of the dating drama is self induced by the woman. It is as predictable as reading a script.
Given the choice, give me the un-fabricated circumstance all day long.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
11:19 am

I see you didn’t have to go in-cog-kneegrow cause the excitement was at your own place!

Chile I had my own Trapeze action. going on…WITH the wig,too….but I digress.

Ditto on the last part of your post Sweet Pea. If the feeling is mutual then cool but I’m not about to jump through hoops to make it happen.

Alright who’s here and ain’t s’posed to be?!…we got a couple on here?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:20 am

Oh, and I suppose I should have offered earlier, but if any of the lovely blog sistahs are interested in tips on dating whiteboys, I’m available for tutorial sessions… :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
11:20 am

‘I mean somebody’s got to talk about CTs and titTAYs, right?’

Did someone summon me? :lol:

mark

April 11th, 2011
11:20 am

@lasha i dont have a chip on my shouldar im just saying that i love black women only! and would not date one that would lower herself to date a whiteman.. its people like you and others on here that say things like you would date any man regaurdless of race just as long as he treats you right then you have a low sense of self and need to look in the mirror sista! because your confused.

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
11:22 am

@Fion

I think Kimmie has a point, every woman (and man too) has their own “issues”; this fact transcends race, creed, socioeconomics, and yes citizenship.

Pick your poison and roll with it

mark

April 11th, 2011
11:24 am

@simple man Bro i keep the Bow Tie on! and my woman Black! all im saying is that i love black women and would be hard pressed to date outside the box. im really surprise by all the sistas on here that call me simple minded because all i want to date are blackwomen. and instead of giving me praise they call me narrow mined:(

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:24 am

Slim — I thought that might coax you out of lurking… :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:29 am

Fion – Do you by all means, because that’s what I do.

It’s actually been my real life experience too, that those who generalize or stereotype an entire race, creed, nationality, etc, are really doing those people a favor by avoiding them. For example, AA men that don’t want to deal with me, an AA woman – by all means keep it moving!

Fion

April 11th, 2011
11:31 am

@Dan
“Pick your poison and roll with it”

Bingo my man, Bingo!!!
Given the choice, give me the un-fabricated circumstance all day long.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
11:33 am

mark – Don’t know how old you are, but you should have learned by now it’s not always what you say, but how you say it.

You had to knock down black women to make your point. So yeah, you gets no praise. :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:35 am

Amred – High 5.

Nope, no praise at all. Don’t do us any favors.

mark

April 11th, 2011
11:36 am

@amazon how did i knock down black women i love you all!

For Real

April 11th, 2011
11:40 am

For those women interested in dating a white man or latino man or any other, other man you can think of I’m free.

The only problem I have with people that want to date other is when their whole rationale for dating other is “Because of _______”. Date what you are attracted to because when you rationalize your reason for dating someone it’s a disservice to the both of you.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
11:42 am

“you would date any man regaurdless of race just as long as he treats you right”

Well, hell…I thought that was the point of being in a relationship with someone…to be treated right.

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
11:42 am

Mark~ black women i love you all!

Apparently not when you seem to berate women that date outside their race.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
11:43 am

Fion: I understand what you are saying. Foreign women are more upfront and you know right away whether or not she likes you or if she is having a good time with you.

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
11:43 am

‘I thought that might coax you out of lurking’

swiss – it’s sort of like signing the bat signal up into the air. lol

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
11:44 am

mark – By calling us confused and making it seem like inter racial love can not be genuine.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:44 am

“it’s sort of like signing the bat signal up into the air. lol”

Except that it makes your CT tingle, right? ;-) :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
11:44 am

And by the way, while I have never dated a white man, it’s beside the point. If I wanted to, I’d do it because it’s a good fit for me and not because I’m confused or given up or anything. :D

For Real

April 11th, 2011
11:46 am

‘I thought that might coax you out of lurking’ – Swiss rubbing my life size replica of Slim’s CT works too!

Fion

April 11th, 2011
11:46 am

@ For Real

That’s all I’m saying.

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
11:46 am

ARed~I co-sign your 11:44 :)

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
11:48 am

Date what you are attracted to because when you rationalize your reason for dating someone it’s a disservice to the both of you.

4 Real – Well said.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:49 am

“Swiss rubbing my life size replica of Slim’s CT works too!”

D@mn, For RealLife-sized? How do you fit that in your house? :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
11:49 am

Nice posts Ared. There is so much hardship in the world that it baffles my mind why someone would limit their opportunity for happiness.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
11:50 am

“How do you fit that in your house?” – Lots of lubrication and wang power!

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
11:51 am

‘Swiss rubbing my life size replica of Slim’s CT works too!’

For Real – And how did you manage to get your hands on that mold? Hmmmm…

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
11:51 am

Don’t get me wrong tho. I do have an ex who thinks every black man should be able to screw a white woman in order to get their “reparations” :lol:

(he was joking folks)

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
11:52 am

‘How do you fit that in your house?’

Swiss – It really isn’t that big…anymore. You know how they say, the older you get the more you begin to shrink. So um…you may wanna measure yourself there tanto, and see how much slack you’ve lost :shock:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
11:53 am

One of my friends heard this “joke” go down in his office last week:

Scenario: Black guy and white girl cracking jokes at the office.
Black guy says: “you know they say once you go black, you never go back”.
Her response- “noooo once you go black you become a single mom”.

Wow!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:53 am

Slim — Ouch! Low blow… literally…

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
11:54 am

My issue with mark’s delivery is that it is racist and divisive. A sure sign of the low sense of self of which he speaks is the need to attempt to build himself up by putting other’s down.

To stand on simply being a black man, you do not have to consider one who makes another choice as lowering herself, unless you have somehow placed yourself above another race.

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
11:57 am

swiss – Well if its a blow then you’re still good. If it was a high blow, then you might be in trouble :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
11:59 am

Slim — I’m sorry, did you say something? I was too busy consoling myself on your vulva…

:lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
12:04 pm

“For Real – And how did you manage to get your hands on that mold?” – A winning personality, good looks, charm and narcotics. Well it was mostly the narcotics but I had to carry you up a flight a stairs and remove your clothes tho.

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
12:05 pm

Afternoon Ared….

“Scenario: Black guy and white girl cracking jokes at the office.
Black guy says: “you know they say once you go black, you never go back”.
Her response- “noooo once you go black you become a single mom”.

Wow!”

Well Damn….How does one follow that???

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
12:07 pm

‘I was too busy consoling myself on your vulva…’

Swiss – Tu shae my nizzle, toooo shay

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
12:13 pm

Well Damn….How does one follow that???

He didn’t! He just said “damn, that’s messed up” and slinked away! :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
12:21 pm

For Real – Sort of reminds of that movie Hall Pass when the guy asked the chick if that napkin smelled like Chloraform lol

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
12:24 pm

He just said “damn, that’s messed up” and slinked away!

with tail tucked between the legs no doubt….

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
12:35 pm

@ARed~ A visual of his exit has me cracking up! That response was enough to never revisit that kind of joke! OUCH! :(

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
12:36 pm

And if there were ever an opportunity rife for the defense of Black men and women…

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
12:38 pm

May I also add a Homer Simpson quote: D’oh!! for that one!

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
12:44 pm

True conversation at work last week

White chick: Dang, seems like black guys have nice lips, nice skin tone, tight azzez and from what I hear, big wangs…Why they gotta get it all?

Slim: Well, you know everyone doesn’t get it all. God made us that way. So even though you think black men have all that going on, don’t forget that White dudes have something black men don’t.

WC: What could that possibly be?

Slim: Good credit :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
12:47 pm

Dan – has your fiance been married before?

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
12:47 pm

All white dudes don’t have good credit just like all black dudes ain’t packing. Trust. It’s some broke ass, bad credit, big dizzle white boys running around loose in the A.

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
12:51 pm

@ARed

yeap

@Slim/SC

But they all do have the presumption of innocence in the eyes of law enforcement – buleeve that

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
12:52 pm

Sexycool – I know, i was just acting an azz at the time. I think i really threw her off guard with that. She was crying laughing

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
12:53 pm

Afternoon All,

I see its after-noon and not on topic. Soooo predictable, but it is a recycled topic that pretty much has a simple response, DO YOU.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
12:53 pm

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
12:53 pm

“It’s some broke ass, bad credit, big dizzle white boys running around loose in the A.”

You rang?

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
12:56 pm

:lol: @ Swiss

You know your credit is good… :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
12:57 pm

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
12:59 pm

Leggs – don’t you just love *our* carpet guy? (lol)

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
1:01 pm

Appliance shopping su-huuuuxxxx!!!!

NY state of mind

April 11th, 2011
1:04 pm

Hey Fam-

I live in NYC where any and everything goes…nothing is outside the box as its all normal and way over the top in this crazy city.

In my teens I might have said “Yuck” to dating outside of my race, In my 20’s I probably would have found myself attracted to a white or Asian man but kept it a secret from my friends and family..in my 30’s I tried it and at 40…I’m all out in the open with it.

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
1:05 pm

@SC

Do not. I repeat. Do not get a “store” credit card.

The rates are turrible and they dent your credit by type, usage, and amount.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
1:05 pm

SexyC / Leggs — Hold up, now… Who do you two ladies have steaming your carpet? I can’t believe you didn’t let me put in a quote…

ARed — That is the single biggest advantage of being a whiteboy (particularly a preppy-looking whiteboy)… Folks always assume that (good credit). Who am I to shatter their expectations…?

Of course, many also assume that I’m not bringing much heat from down under — which, ironically, is also an advantage. With the lowered expectations, it makes The Matterhorn all the more impressive by contrast… :lol:

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
1:07 pm

Dan – Paying cash.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
1:09 pm

@SexyC ~ yes ma’am, I do. The carpet is squeaky clean, vaccummed nicely and smelling fresh (lololol).

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
1:11 pm

Swizzbeats…side eye…eye roll and rofl…

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
1:13 pm

SCool – Did you really need that piece of advice Dan gave you? Goodness. So patronizing…

NY state of mind

April 11th, 2011
1:14 pm

@Swiss- In my Wendy Williams voice…How you doing?

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
1:15 pm

LOL @ swiss -

Like SCool, I don’t naturally assume all white folks naturally have good credit. For some reason, you seem to be pretty savvy, so I do assume you do. ;)

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
1:21 pm

ARed…well…LMAO!!! Girl……I am seriously throwing my head back laughing.

What TheDude and I are debating is whether or not to purchase the card on Visa/MC (and immediately pay it off) to get their consumer protections and the points.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
1:25 pm

ARed — Well, I do know how to work the system to my advantage… :-) Even better, Mrs. Swiss’s credit score is better than mine — I got the trophy wife & the sugar-mama all rolled into one… :-D :lol:

NY state — I’m doin’ aiight… How you doin’? :lol:

NY state of mind

April 11th, 2011
1:32 pm

I waited until I was 35yrs get my first credit card. I like paying with cash or debit cards..that way I can avoid over spending or being in debt. However I must admit the points I racked up from my credit card got me a trip to Aruba on Continental Airlines.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
1:33 pm

SCool – The answer to my question is still “NO.” :lol: But you know I’m laughing while shaking my head. :lol:

swiss – That Matterhorn must be something else! You sure got you a winner of a wife! :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
1:35 pm

“I like paying with cash or debit cards..that way I can avoid over spending or being in debt.”

You, and lots of other folks prefer that, too. Banks, on the other hand, not so much

THE INFAMOUS DK

April 11th, 2011
1:35 pm

What up ladies and gents.. What it do?

Afternoon to all the ladies..

Except one.. J/K Ive actually missed our exchanges and owning you..

Dating outside the box.. Again. Talk to everybody and see who sticks.. Dating outside the box simplified.. PiYow!!!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
1:37 pm

“That Matterhorn must be something else!”

ARed — You know how they say every time you hear a bell ring, an angel gets its wings? Well, every time you hear yodeling… :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
1:39 pm

Well, every time you hear yodeling…

*sigh*

:lol: :lol: :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
1:44 pm

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
1:48 pm

:lol: Can’t stand that for more than 3 secs. :lol:

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
1:54 pm

I’m available…Got great credit too!!

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
1:57 pm

How tall are you White Guy? :lol:

Fion

April 11th, 2011
1:58 pm

….see that’s that bullshizzel right there!!!!!!!!

Fion

April 11th, 2011
1:59 pm

I go to lunch and ARed is gettin’ flipped!!!

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:00 pm

Fion – You should have taken me to lunch. Duh! :lol:

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
2:03 pm

@ARed…I’m 6′5″ : ))

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
2:04 pm

God did not tell us who not to fall in love with when it comes to race. I am only on page 2 so I am still catching up with today’s blog. My wifes name on here is Desert Butterfly not Letitia and she would not play those type of games.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
2:04 pm

Since we are slow in her today I’ll offer my thoughts on a few of the AJC Front page topics –

Pevert Nurse – Dayum how bad off do you have to be to fondle and molest patients under anethesia. Not only that but how incredibly dumb do you have to be to record it on your cell phone. We have another contestant for the bump bussing contest in prison.

Sneiderman – i believe based on what I’ve read that she had something to do with her husband getting offed. They playing it close to the vest BUT had that been Boomquisha she woulda been a prime suspect in the media from day 1.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:05 pm

@Fion ~ don’t you know ARed is like a jackrabbit. She’s not waiting around twiddling her fingers…she jets with the quickness!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
2:07 pm

“Can’t stand that for more than 3 secs”

That’s all I need, baby, that’s all I need… :lol:

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
2:08 pm

I am all caught up now

Fion

April 11th, 2011
2:08 pm

@Leggs

Is there nothing sacred. Oh, the humanity of it all !!!!!!

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
2:09 pm

Dayum how did I miss that.

Letitia – Baby if thats you, please pick up a Ripe Tomato to go with my Turkey Sammich. Also, you couldv’e came up with a better name than that. No offense but Letitia come-on you can do better than that.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:10 pm

WillieD – Yep…as soon as they said o’girl’s boss did it. I knew she was in on it. (Have the same feeling I got when I *first* saw Susan Smith on tv crying about “the black man” that took her kids.)

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:10 pm

@ARed…I’m 6′5″ : ))

*ding ding ding* We have a winner!!!! :D

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
2:11 pm

What’s the prize?

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:12 pm

Letitia – Baby if thats you, please pick up a Ripe Tomato to go with my Turkey Sammich. Also, you couldv’e came up with a better name than that. No offense but Letitia come-on you can do better than that

:lol:

LOL at all the married guys (and one not married guy :arrow: ) responding…

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
2:13 pm

Afternoon
I see we’re not on topic anymore, probably because it’s a no brainer.

ARed That dude at work got what he deserved. The whole “once you go black…” is so corny…just like the white dudes and good credit. He left himself wide open.

They playing it close to the vest BUT had that been Boomquisha she woulda been a prime suspect in the media from day 1.
WillieD You see she put her house up for sale for 1 mil. She’s got enough cash to lawyer up for a little while.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:13 pm

What’s the prize?

Some Amazon flavored chocolate in your milk! :twisted:

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:14 pm

Why is it so hard to find a company’s customer service number on their website?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:16 pm

@swiss ~ you should be ashamed holding all that in and spouting at the rooftop in 3 secs (lol).

@Fion ~ sorry, but she’s doing the right thing. You see, the humanity of it all is you really expecting her to sit around until you showed up. :wink: Never underestimate the fiestiness of a Sag!…She said “Bunk this and bounced!” :lol: :lol:

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
2:17 pm

Sounds tasty ARed!!

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
2:17 pm

SC – yep, vacations, phone records and the whole nine. Dayum I’m not Monk but even I can put that isht together. That don’t give the media an excuse but Lets just hope they doing the due diligence.

Dreams – yep, she got the cash to lawyer up and hush it up for a min but the media usually picks up on a good storyline. This isht right here got Lifetime Movie of the week written all over it.

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
2:18 pm

Dante Marco Giordano 7lbs 4/8/2011 2:31am

SlimNumeroUno

April 11th, 2011
2:20 pm

Ared – We might have a blog connection. You know it’s hard to find dudes tall enough to see you eye to eye. ;-)

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:21 pm

@ARed ~ dang girl. With that emoticon at the end you look like Chucky’s evil twin!

Fion

April 11th, 2011
2:22 pm

@Purp

Congrats!!!!!

…….how about a Arturo Fuente

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
2:23 pm

Purp – Congrats my man, Congrats. Healthy???? Cigars (Good stuff not Black n Milds or Swishas) on YOU next time you in the A.

Ared – Dang be subtle. I know you a Sag and all but at least try coyness. Then again he may need some guidance in his his life.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:23 pm

AWEsome, P-Lito!!!!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:23 pm

Awwww, CONGRATULATIONS, PR! WOO HOO, WOO HOO!!!!!

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:24 pm

Dante Marco Giordano 7lbs 4/8/2011 2:31am

Yeah!!!! Congrats!!!!

How is Julia doing?

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:24 pm

Ared – We might have a blog connection. You know it’s hard to find dudes tall enough to see you eye to eye

Girl, we’ve been on that same page for years! ;)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
2:25 pm

Don’t get your hopes up too much, ARed — You know 6′5” on the interwebz = about 5′9” in real life most of the time… :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:25 pm

Dang be subtle. I know you a Sag and all but at least try coyness.

How’s that been working for me so far??? ;)

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 11th, 2011
2:25 pm

Congrats to you and your Wife PR!!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
2:26 pm

Congrats, Purp!

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:26 pm

See how awesome blog life is…P-lito goes from confirmed bachelor/player to married with a kid in year’s time (give or take a month or so) :)

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:27 pm

Yes indeed, how is Julia doing?

Fion

April 11th, 2011
2:28 pm

“P-lito goes from confirmed bachelor/player to married with a kid in year’s time (give or take a month or so) ”

……….I think I left my gas on at home. I got to go.

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
2:28 pm

@i’m swiss…guess there’s no way to prove it…but I’m 6′5″ for real

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
2:30 pm

Julia is beautiful, she is so awesome to me. She is doing well, the baby came almost two months early but he is very healthy, everything is there where it’s supposed to be. Everything is so gentle and nice. Thank you all.

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
2:30 pm

Congrats to you and the Family!!! :) :D :)

TenderRoni

April 11th, 2011
2:32 pm

Congrats PRain to you and wifey…cherish that gift.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:32 pm

guess there’s no way to prove it…but I’m 6′5″ for real

I will verify to the blog after we get together and “swirl the cocoa!”

:lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
2:33 pm

Laid Back — I don’t doubt you, bro… Stick around for a while & you’ll figure out pretty much everything I say on here is a joke… ;-)

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
2:34 pm

Congrats Purple and Julia, on your little purple olive! I know you are going to be great parents!

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:34 pm

“you’ll figure out pretty much everything I say on here is a joke”

The Matterhorn doesn’t matter after all? The oral skills are silent? Aw..naw…you really do have bad credit?!?!? Stop it, I say.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
2:34 pm

… Unless we start talking about religion or politics, then I get on my soap box… :lol:

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
2:34 pm

I feel “responsible” now, not that I wasn’t before I just feel more responsible. Thank you all, I did not mean to be on this long just wanted to let you all know!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
2:36 pm

“The Matterhorn doesn’t matter after all? The oral skills are silent? Aw..naw…you really do have bad credit?!?!? Stop it, I say.”

Now, SexyC — You know the thing about comedy: it’s funny ‘cos it’s true:lol:

cba

April 11th, 2011
2:36 pm

Congrats PR…. as long as he’s healthy, nothing else matters. And of course, your wife.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:38 pm

That’s normal, PR. Wished more felt that way. You are the protector of your family! Enjoy! Time does go by fast!

Geechee

April 11th, 2011
2:38 pm

I’ve never dated outside of the box, but it is something I wouldn’t hesitate to do as long as the attraction, intelligence & independence is there.

I have never dated or been with a black girl, but I have always had a desire and curiosity about it. At my high school reunion a few years ago, one of my black classmates privately confided to me that she was attracted to me in high school, but didn’t act on it (societal reasons I’m sure). I had no idea and really felt that I missed out so long ago.

Amazon Red: Once again, I am late to the dance and missed out to Laid Back White Guy. I’m only 6′ by the way.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
2:40 pm

Purp – Alright, here’s the part thats not in the manual and no-one told you. You have about 6 weeks (give or take a few) of inactivity, Prepare yourself. Your days of being the errand boy are just beginning, take it in stride. You are officially second fiddle and despite what anyone says you would rather it be that way. Life as you know it between you and Julia will change. Look for your moments to rekindle the good ol days and get in where you fit in. Other than that You now are a Dad/Father/Sperm donor. Up to you to decide which one. Don’t take this the wrong way but Julia may one day be your Ex but That kid is yours Homie.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:41 pm

Amazon Red: Once again, I am late to the dance and missed out to Laid Back White Guy. I’m only 6′ by the way

No worries…everyone knows I can’t keep a man! ;) You’ll get your turn! :lol:

Geechee

April 11th, 2011
2:42 pm

Thanks for the hope! I might not be able to sleep tonight.

Oh, and I have great credit.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:42 pm

“everyone knows I can’t keep a man!

Not so true…you just cut ‘em loose extra quick.

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
2:43 pm

When and where you wanna swirl ARed?

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:43 pm

Logged onto my checking account today….my mortgage balance showed up….eeeekkk!!! (lol)

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:44 pm

Not so true…you just cut ‘em loose extra quick.

That was sweet of you SCool (really). It’s true…but I’m okay with it. Most people can’t…until they do!

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:45 pm

Logged onto my checking account today….my mortgage balance showed up….eeeekkk!!! (lol)

:D

I remember the day that happened. I was like “what is the LARGE ass balance… oh… ” :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
2:45 pm

SCool – I don’t know if this is your first house or not, but don’t you just feel real GROWN now? I know I did!LOL!! Almost like Purple described about feeling more “responsible”, but in a different way.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
2:47 pm

Congrats Purp. I’m going to fedex this half of a half of bottle of Remy to you via grayhound. Just ask for Perm when you get to the bus station. I marked the bottle so if he drank any of it slap the ish out of him. Oh and Perm is going to need to ride too.

Willie: You hit the nail on the head with that 2:40.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:48 pm

kimmie – second house. But yeah…I do feel all growed up this go around. Two reasons – my first house I bought cause my momma told me to. And this house, we are buying together.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
2:49 pm

No worries…everyone knows I can’t keep a man! You’ll get your turn!

that didnt sound good. You telling the truth (lol) but at least try to sugarcoat it a lil bit. I know its not in you. But just in case.

Dynamite – excuse me Sir is this where you get the tix for the Amazon ride?

Ticket Hander Outer – Yes sir it is.

Dynamite – ok Thanks, any videos, strings attached, lingering side effects?

TKO – no sir, just a good verbal lashing and some backlash on a blog.

Dynamite – ok thanks, I’ll take 1 please. (Hey Letitia)

j/k bnr

For Real

April 11th, 2011
2:49 pm

“No worries…everyone knows I can’t keep a man! You’ll get your turn!” – Dayum at least you honest….

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
2:52 pm

“everyone knows I can’t keep a man!

Not so true…you just cut ‘em loose extra quick.

Worth repeating because more should be doing this…it’s all good!

cba

April 11th, 2011
2:53 pm

WD, I definitely second your 2:40. Baby was only two months old, and I almost crossed that line.
Thank God, I didn’t.

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
2:56 pm

Leggs – Your 2:52 – I agree.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
2:57 pm

Well, Red, the other part of that is that you don’t stay where you are not wanted and / or not appreciated.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
2:59 pm

that didnt sound good. You telling the truth (lol) but at least try to sugarcoat it a lil bit.

Y’all are so sensitive. It be different if I was in denial or didn’t like myself or something. But at the end of the day it’s true and it’s okay. It be different if I were somehow in capable. That part I won’t admit. ;)

Besides, I am catching up on one of my sorority sister’s blogs. And she’s written the story of how she and her husband met. And she was a doctor, that got married after 30 (the horror :lol: ) what excites me is that my story is yet to be written ( or maybe in progress ;) ) and it’s an exciting prospect to know that I’ll have my own story one day. (God willing :D )

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:01 pm

Loving the sisterhood today!!! Thank you SCool, Leggs, and kimmie. :D *warm fuzzies*

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
3:06 pm

what excites me is that my story is yet to be written ( or maybe in progress ) and it’s an exciting prospect to know that I’ll have my own story one day. (God willing

Amred – Exciting indeed. That is the attitude I took many years ago and it is a great outlook to have. I’ve had my ups and many downs, but I am really enjoying the journey! Be happy and LIVE!

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:09 pm

And let us not forget folks who are staying in bad situations, settling, sharing, unsatisfied and unhappy just to stay they have someone.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:09 pm

@ARed ~ we all have our moments (including me), but believe me, you are a strong woman, you have confidence in yourself and you know what you will and will not settle with. Nothing wrong with that. In time, you’ll find that man that will want to roll with you and not under you. {{muah}}!

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:10 pm

Be happy and LIVE!

Absolutely. My only regret would be if I didn’t. If I were sitting at home moping or something.

And it’s truly a blessing to be able to do so as well.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:10 pm

what excites me is that my story is yet to be written ( or maybe in progress ) and it’s an exciting prospect to know that I’ll have my own story one day. (God willing )

maybe in progress, wait a min did I miss something?

awww to be a footnote in that story.

Dynamite – I think I’ll take two tix
TKO – But sir you haven’t even took your 1st ride.
Dynamite – no worries, I’m sure I’ll enjoy it, even if I don’t look at that line. I can always bootleg the extra tix. Matter o fact Think I’ll charge extra cause this line not gon be open foreva

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:10 pm

And let us not forget folks who are staying in bad situations, settling, sharing, unsatisfied and unhappy just to stay they have someone.

Amen.

LOL @ “sharing”

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:11 pm

Well, not “solely” under you (lol)!

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:11 pm

maybe in progress, wait a min did I miss something?

NO! :lol:

LOL @ your dialogue.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:12 pm

Well, not “solely” under you (lol)!

Leggs :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:16 pm

see you can be Coy when the situation dictates.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:17 pm

see you can be Coy when the situation dictates.

Shut up. :lol:

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
3:20 pm

This relationship has ended before it got started…ARed’s already ignoring me…lol

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:21 pm

My bad! I didn’t have an answer for you, White Guy. I’m a tease. :lol:

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
3:23 pm

No worries!!…lol…I like to tease too…That’s the fun part of it!!

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:24 pm

Oh…y’all should both just happen to show up at the Starbucks on Camp Creek around 8p this evening and order a tall caramel latte, wearing a white ball cap.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:26 pm

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
3:27 pm

SCool – I might show up, to be nosy! LOL!! :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:28 pm

SCool!!! :lol:

I bet ya that white boy doesn’t even know where Camp Creek is!

(when the white folks at my job ask me where I live…I say in the city of Atlanta, but south of I-20… no follow up questions are asked) :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:28 pm

LBWG – Hold on man, please don’t be swayed by the line. Just understand this is a very long line that you are smack dab in the middle of. Just because you are 6″5 don’t mean she can see you waaaaay back here. psst I happen to know of a way to get you to the front of the line. It’ll take some ingenuity (I’ll handle that part) and plenty o cash (thats where you come in). You can either stand back here and whine or holler at your boy.

Dynamite – SimpMan what up boi? thought you got out of line long time ago.
Simp – Naww just left to go by the bank, what you got for me?
Dynamite – maaaaan how much you got, think i can slide you in.hold up a min,

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:29 pm

Me too….but I’d be wearing one of my 8million softball t-shirts with my name on it. (lol)

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:31 pm

@Willie Dynamite: Careful Willie, that’s my name legal name. My husband is a regular blogger. How now knows I knows he’s blogging is a mystery to him. An even bigger mystery is if the other shoe will drop or if I’ll do my own thing, never confronting.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:33 pm

Dammit, Letitia. Who is yo husband?

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
3:33 pm

@Willie…How do I get to the front of the line?…lol
@ARed…I’m an hour north of the city but I know where Camp Creek is…I fly to Vegas a few times a year…that is the road where you park and catch the shuttles isn’t it?…btw..how tall are you? : ))

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:33 pm

@Letitia ~ back up from the Tequila. What the heck did you just type???

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

He’s not sure if this is a joke or it we’re live.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

He may know where Camp Creek is, but not what Camp Creek is about (lol).

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

Willie – All these single ladies on the blog (well, not that many left anymore :lol: ) why are folks always worried about me? *hmph*

White Guy – There is no line! Just a trail of bones! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

Letitia – Ummm Sorry bout that, no harm no foul.
My husband is a regular blogger. How now knows I knows he’s blogging is a mystery to him

WHAT?????????

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:35 pm

@ARed…I’m an hour north of the city

See… this is why I don’t meet “others” while mingling in Atlanta.

Yes, that’s where Camp Creek is. :lol:

I’m 5′11″

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:36 pm

So Letitia is using her gov’t name…therefore sending her husband a targeted message. :lol:

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:36 pm

….or [if] it’s live? Oui Vey!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:38 pm

@WD ~ I asked the same thing!

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:38 pm

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:43 pm

Ared- you are a Unicorn, Bigfoot, Lochness Monster etc. Don’t ask me, the consumers like what they like. I’m just here to help facilitate their dreams.

LBWG – ok, unfortunately for you the price is increasing. Practicing full disclosure I’ll let you know we’ve had another well financed sponsor enter the fray. BTW, I dont wanna waste your time I know you got good credit and all but this is strictly a cash only transaction and that part is non-negotiable.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:43 pm

There are very few married male bloggers that have indicated that they are having issues at home….very few. Most of our attached guys around here seem to be soundly, somewhat happily married and in solid relationships….most.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:46 pm

Letitia – I’m sure your husband is the most upstanding of bloggers. It’s all just a diversion from work on here, not a dating site or anything.

Please don’t put laxatives in his food tonight. :lol:

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:46 pm

He’s not blogging as a married man, therefore the fungus among us.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:47 pm

Wow…speechless….(lol)

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:51 pm

He’s not blogging as a married man, therefore the fungus among us.

:shock:

Mistaken identity perhaps? :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
3:51 pm

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:53 pm

He’s not blogging as a married man, therefore the fungus among us.

Is who????? Tell us, the ladies can help you out with anything you need to know.

I can’t stand a liar, at the least on here we are brutally honest with each other. If its a regular then we have been hoodwinked. . At least have the decency to up ya game and let em know you married. hahahaha

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
3:55 pm

Well…We know it ain’t Barry Azz Barry cause he got ghost and never returned after he came with his shenanigans! After dude asked what an ascot was??? I knew he was doomed…LOL

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

@Letitia ~ are the two of you using this site as a form of “role playing?” Are the two of you being turned on by what the other posts to other bloggers???

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

Or is it a one-way street and only one of you is doing the flirting or asking questions a married person shouldn’t be asking?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:59 pm

@Letitia ~ nevermind, you did use the word “fungus”

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
4:00 pm

Letitia – regardless, I feel for you in your situation. I have been in a relationship by myself before. It is not fun. I wish you all the best and hope that this works out to your good.

cba

April 11th, 2011
4:04 pm

Whoever he is, and if he is lurking, I bet brotha is raining sweat…..

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
4:11 pm

@Willie…I don’t mind cash transactions…lol
@ARed…So an hour north is no good?…and 5′11″ is REAL nice!!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
4:12 pm

Alas, it is I…the married man. Sorry Letitia. Please take me back.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:13 pm

Honestly, what single dude on here has done anything out of line? Heyal this aint really a dating blog. The dudes (single that is) that post on here regularly aint exactly trying to hook up with these chicks.

This some more bull—isht. I dont feel sorry for her. The dude if he is lurking then this shouldnt be no problwm to him.

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
4:14 pm

@cba: As well he should be.

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:14 pm

I bet mr inconitomarriieddude is one you would least expect – 4 REAL!!

:lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

@ARed…So an hour north is no good?…

It might as well be Mayberry! :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Honestly, what single dude on here has done anything out of line?

Saying he’s single when he’s actually married. :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Willie – I agree, don’t believe it for a minute.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Naw…WillieD – I disagree. What if your wife were on a forum day in / day out, yucking it up and posing as a single chick? That would be cool with you? I doubt it.

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
4:16 pm

@Willie Dynamite: Sorry sir but you’re wrong

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:16 pm

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

Alright fine I’m the one Letitia is talking about and it’s not a fungus. The technical name is Blue Ballz.

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

I just don’t believe it’s anything to this!

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

Mayberry?…Now ARed thinks I’m Gomer Pyle!! lol

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
4:21 pm

Alright fine I’m the one Letitia is talking about and it’s not a fungus.
Hold on For Real. You joking right? Cuz if you ain’t then it’s gon’ be a problem. Letitia you the one busted now.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:22 pm

LBWG – ok cool, Here’s the deal. Get a rubber band and a brown paper bag. Wrap (whispering details) in the rubber band and put in the bag. Walk 1/2 block north and stop at the big Pecan Tree. Under that tree you’ll find bout 6 brothers dranking quarts and burning swishas. Look for the 1 with the neck tatoo drinking a 1/2 pint of Remy you can call him ‘Lil bout to be Half Dead’ . Hand him the bag, don’t ask no ?’s and immediately walk back this way and whatever you do dont look back.

If/when you do all that then Sir you have yourself 1 1st Class ticket to the Ared Ride.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:27 pm

“I bet mr inconitomarriieddude is one you would least expect – 4 REAL!!” – Why you gon wish something like that on me? I walk around with my freedom papers.

Fion

April 11th, 2011
4:27 pm

@For Real
“The technical name is Blue Ballz.”

Doc, I have to ask, do you treat that with Powder or Cream????

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:28 pm

Dream: I don’t think it’s possible to bust a chick name Letitia.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:32 pm

Letitia ~ even in blogging, women can find their messy man! Never underestimate the investigative skills of a woman (lol). And, unbeknownst to him, he probably fell right in her lap.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:32 pm

Dreams/4Real – Sorry to hear bout yall misfortune. But looka here, Just in case neither one of yall want her. I got these tix we can raffle off to either this white dude or SimpMan of course. I’m willing to split it 65/35 I just need to know how tall she is? Once again sorry about your misfortune.

- Ladies – I agree somewhat. On here posing as a Single guy but Married, that is a problem. Then again Single guys on here are quite docile. They aint shooting no arrows or trying any of these chicks. I’m jus saying if its true then ol boy can get out of this with no problem. If he doing it here heyal he might be a beast in the streets,The blog aint the problem. This some bull-isht

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:34 pm

“Doc, I have to ask, do you treat that with Powder or Cream????” – Neither. I treat it with vulva. Vulva I put that ish on everythang!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
4:35 pm

Dream: I don’t think it’s possible to bust a chick name Letitia.
For Real Is that because she’s so devious she can’t be found out or because she wears her deeds with pride? lol But you gotta admit it WOULD make for good blog reading if the “alleged” husband AND a maintenance man outed her. lol

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
4:37 pm

WillieD…you would be surprised at what goes on behind the blog curtain.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:39 pm

SC – ummmm No I wouldn’t (shhhhhhh)

Dreams/4Real – ok spill it, which one of yall the sucka (i Mean husband) and which one is the Maint.Man.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:40 pm

Wille D: I preciate the opportunity but I think you are underestimating your product. If we invest in some vitamin B shots for Ared the sky is the limit on how many times we can raffle her off. And, and I bet if we throw in a big bag of hot fries with some moon pie we would rack up.

I agree with you on the single blog dudes not chasing any bloggettes but there is story behind that and if you got pint of Remy for me I’ll tell you the story.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:46 pm

Dream: Letitia is Latin for “So”.

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
4:49 pm

It’s plain to see that Simple Man is the married guy who is acting single. Nobody else thought of that?

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:49 pm

4Real – My Bad, this paper got in the way. I mighta tried you like a sucka just then. Here take this 5th as a peace offering. Also we might be able to match some notes on the blogettes and I aint just talking.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:50 pm

“Also we might be able to match some notes on the blogettes and I aint just talking.”

Sorry, but you sound like a woman (lol)!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
4:52 pm

This is fun… It’s like “Clue”

It was Simple Man in the Parlor, with the Candlestick!

:lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
4:52 pm

For Real – Stop pimpin me out…

PR – Yeah, I never even thought of Simple Man. Genius! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

Leggs – Women Gossip, Men have detailed scouting reports. LOL!!!!!

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

Willie sellin all kinds of tickets ain’t he?

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
4:56 pm

After all of these comments, I’m gonna go find me a white man and just **** his brains loose. You can bet he’s gonna be milked dry when I leave that room.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:56 pm

Reverse, reverse, reverse, Will Robinson….women have detailed memories. We don’t need to write it down!!!

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

He will NEVER walk the same when I’m done with him!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

“Men have detailed scouting reports”

Well, Leggs & SexyC have just had the carpet steamed, so they should both be good & fresh… :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

Willie: You know I don’t gossip but I can’t speak for the Remy.

Swiss: Ain’t no way Simple Man would be caught dead holding a candlestick. It’s a candelabra or a pricket at worst.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:58 pm

LBWG – hey man its a recession. mama need a new house and the kids need new shoes. Plus I’m 1 zero and 1/2 comma away from being able to take advantage of the tax breaks. dont hate

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
4:59 pm

“He will NEVER walk the same when I’m done with him!”

That could be a good thing or a bad thing… Wagers, anyone?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:59 pm

Of course it will be both good and bad for him!!!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:00 pm

It’s called Sweet Pain….

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:01 pm

Oh wait… I missed that post above… Definitely a good thing…. :lol:

Uh, hey there, Longingwoman… How you doin’? :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:01 pm

“For Real – Stop pimpin me out…” – Hey, hey, pimpin is wrong and it frowned upon in this country except for AZ.

For Real now sliding Ared 27 bus tickets to AZ. Oh and sorry about all those stops.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
5:02 pm

It’s called Sweet Pain….

ohhh yessss……

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

4Real – candelabra, mayne youza straight up fool.

Swiss – no wagers man, SC locked down, Kimmie locked down, Sassy fell off the wagon. Dudes acting like Snipers nowadays. I’m keeping my last $2 in my pocket. hahahaha

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

Well damn!!! Why I gotta be the bad guy???

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

Oh, Sassy, put the handcuffs back on & stop flaunting it… We already know you’re getting f__ked real good… ;-) :lol: :lol:

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

I’m doing just fine, just as horny as I get right now. Can’t sit still and really, really feeling like just flogging until I get it out of my system. Any other ladies ever get like that? Like you coukld actually do some damage to someone if you let it all out?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:05 pm

“A weak man has doubts before a decision; a strong man has them afterwards.” ~ Karl Kraus

PEACE!

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
5:05 pm

Simple Man, You are always the scapegoat. Sorry. LOL

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
5:06 pm

Women have memories, men have hidden video camera’s.

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
5:07 pm

Im ain’t looking to be coddled, not looking to be made love to, I want to grab him by his collar and jump on that thing right now. If he gives out, well then TOUGH. He’s gotta make it through until I’m finished with him. I mean, stictly and literally Vivid Video style flogging.

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
5:08 pm

Cool….at least I know I am on point for somthin….:)

Geechee

April 11th, 2011
5:08 pm

@Longingwoman: Go get em!

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
5:10 pm

Sassy fell off the wagon.

Yes I did after six loooong months and one week….I fell off the wagon right onto a …….

Swiss don’t judge me !! :lol:

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
5:11 pm

I mean, stictly and literally Vivid Video style flogging.

:shock:

and I thought I was rough…

Bye y’all!…..I’s got thangs to do ;-)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:12 pm

“don’t judge me !!”

Don’t worry, Sassy — I’d never judge you… until I see the complete video, of course. But from the sounds of things, you’ve got at least a 9.9 routine working so far… :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
5:12 pm

LonginWoman – tell us how you really feel. Come back tomorrow and we’ll work on it if you dont take care of it tonite.

Sassy – came up for air did we???? break is over back to work.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:13 pm

“A weak man has doubts before a decision; a strong man has them afterwards.” ~ Karl Kraus

That sounds like an idiot to me. Leap before looking????

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
5:15 pm

Hello Miss Longing!!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:16 pm

If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is “God is crying.” And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is “Probably because of something you did.” — Jack Handy

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:17 pm

Sassy — Just make sure you nail that dismount…

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:18 pm

@ForReal ~ I took it to mean he’s strong in his convictions and doesn’t doubt his decision making. Even if it turns out to be wrong. He stood his ground and welcome whatever consequences, if any.

Celisea

April 11th, 2011
5:19 pm

LBWG – A woman that needs flogging really really bad coupled with a 65 year old white guy seems lethal to me but go on and do your thang. I wouldn’t suggest that though…

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
5:21 pm

Who said I was 65? lol

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:24 pm

Longingwoman — I feel your pain & I want to help you out, but here’s the deal: I’m a married man & my wife would cut The Matterhorn off if she caught me messing around, so if we’re gonna do this thing, you’re gonna have to f__k me to death. Literally… Just sayin’…. :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:28 pm

Leggs: A person without doubt is a fool. Just because you are strong in your convictions doesn’t mean you act on them without thought.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:29 pm

LBWG: Is obviously taking female viagra.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:40 pm

I can’t post.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:42 pm

@For Real ~ The words are not from my own mouth. I heard it and posted it here. I tend to think things through before I leap into anything. Many of the E.O.D’s do not make sense, no matter how you slice it. You can add this one to your list.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:42 pm