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Dating outside the box

A friend of mine wanted to know if I had any tips for meeting and dating white guys.  I’ve been known to date men from many different ethnic backgrounds, while she has recently decided to date “other.” I honestly don’t do anything differently, though. I generally meet and date them the same as I do other men.

I have found that when you find people who share the same interests, you are likely to meet someone that sparks an interest, regardless of their background. That is when you sort of let things happen naturally.  I did encourage her to venture to different “scenes” and add some variety to her social calendar.

Do you find it hard to date outside your box? Do you think we should meet and date people from different backgrounds to increase our dating options?

When it comes to race, religion, or political beliefs, how different are you willing to date?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

347 comments Add your comment

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:46 pm

Dream: Letitia is Latin for “So”.

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
4:49 pm

It’s plain to see that Simple Man is the married guy who is acting single. Nobody else thought of that?

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:49 pm

4Real – My Bad, this paper got in the way. I mighta tried you like a sucka just then. Here take this 5th as a peace offering. Also we might be able to match some notes on the blogettes and I aint just talking.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:50 pm

“Also we might be able to match some notes on the blogettes and I aint just talking.”

Sorry, but you sound like a woman (lol)!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
4:52 pm

This is fun… It’s like “Clue”

It was Simple Man in the Parlor, with the Candlestick!

:lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
4:52 pm

For Real – Stop pimpin me out…

PR – Yeah, I never even thought of Simple Man. Genius! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

Leggs – Women Gossip, Men have detailed scouting reports. LOL!!!!!

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

Willie sellin all kinds of tickets ain’t he?

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
4:56 pm

After all of these comments, I’m gonna go find me a white man and just **** his brains loose. You can bet he’s gonna be milked dry when I leave that room.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:56 pm

Reverse, reverse, reverse, Will Robinson….women have detailed memories. We don’t need to write it down!!!

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

He will NEVER walk the same when I’m done with him!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

“Men have detailed scouting reports”

Well, Leggs & SexyC have just had the carpet steamed, so they should both be good & fresh… :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

Willie: You know I don’t gossip but I can’t speak for the Remy.

Swiss: Ain’t no way Simple Man would be caught dead holding a candlestick. It’s a candelabra or a pricket at worst.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:58 pm

LBWG – hey man its a recession. mama need a new house and the kids need new shoes. Plus I’m 1 zero and 1/2 comma away from being able to take advantage of the tax breaks. dont hate

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
4:59 pm

“He will NEVER walk the same when I’m done with him!”

That could be a good thing or a bad thing… Wagers, anyone?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:59 pm

Of course it will be both good and bad for him!!!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:00 pm

It’s called Sweet Pain….

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:01 pm

Oh wait… I missed that post above… Definitely a good thing…. :lol:

Uh, hey there, Longingwoman… How you doin’? :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:01 pm

“For Real – Stop pimpin me out…” – Hey, hey, pimpin is wrong and it frowned upon in this country except for AZ.

For Real now sliding Ared 27 bus tickets to AZ. Oh and sorry about all those stops.

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
5:02 pm

It’s called Sweet Pain….

ohhh yessss……

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

4Real – candelabra, mayne youza straight up fool.

Swiss – no wagers man, SC locked down, Kimmie locked down, Sassy fell off the wagon. Dudes acting like Snipers nowadays. I’m keeping my last $2 in my pocket. hahahaha

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

Well damn!!! Why I gotta be the bad guy???

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

Oh, Sassy, put the handcuffs back on & stop flaunting it… We already know you’re getting f__ked real good… ;-) :lol: :lol:

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

I’m doing just fine, just as horny as I get right now. Can’t sit still and really, really feeling like just flogging until I get it out of my system. Any other ladies ever get like that? Like you coukld actually do some damage to someone if you let it all out?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:05 pm

“A weak man has doubts before a decision; a strong man has them afterwards.” ~ Karl Kraus

PEACE!

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
5:05 pm

Simple Man, You are always the scapegoat. Sorry. LOL

Purple Rain

April 11th, 2011
5:06 pm

Women have memories, men have hidden video camera’s.

Longingwoman

April 11th, 2011
5:07 pm

Im ain’t looking to be coddled, not looking to be made love to, I want to grab him by his collar and jump on that thing right now. If he gives out, well then TOUGH. He’s gotta make it through until I’m finished with him. I mean, stictly and literally Vivid Video style flogging.

Simple Man!!!!

April 11th, 2011
5:08 pm

Cool….at least I know I am on point for somthin….:)

Geechee

April 11th, 2011
5:08 pm

@Longingwoman: Go get em!

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
5:10 pm

Sassy fell off the wagon.

Yes I did after six loooong months and one week….I fell off the wagon right onto a …….

Swiss don’t judge me !! :lol:

Sassy Me...Exhaling :-)

April 11th, 2011
5:11 pm

I mean, stictly and literally Vivid Video style flogging.

:shock:

and I thought I was rough…

Bye y’all!…..I’s got thangs to do ;-)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:12 pm

“don’t judge me !!”

Don’t worry, Sassy — I’d never judge you… until I see the complete video, of course. But from the sounds of things, you’ve got at least a 9.9 routine working so far… :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
5:12 pm

LonginWoman – tell us how you really feel. Come back tomorrow and we’ll work on it if you dont take care of it tonite.

Sassy – came up for air did we???? break is over back to work.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:13 pm

“A weak man has doubts before a decision; a strong man has them afterwards.” ~ Karl Kraus

That sounds like an idiot to me. Leap before looking????

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
5:15 pm

Hello Miss Longing!!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:16 pm

If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is “God is crying.” And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is “Probably because of something you did.” — Jack Handy

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:17 pm

Sassy — Just make sure you nail that dismount…

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:18 pm

@ForReal ~ I took it to mean he’s strong in his convictions and doesn’t doubt his decision making. Even if it turns out to be wrong. He stood his ground and welcome whatever consequences, if any.

Celisea

April 11th, 2011
5:19 pm

LBWG – A woman that needs flogging really really bad coupled with a 65 year old white guy seems lethal to me but go on and do your thang. I wouldn’t suggest that though…

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
5:21 pm

Who said I was 65? lol

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 11th, 2011
5:24 pm

Longingwoman — I feel your pain & I want to help you out, but here’s the deal: I’m a married man & my wife would cut The Matterhorn off if she caught me messing around, so if we’re gonna do this thing, you’re gonna have to f__k me to death. Literally… Just sayin’…. :lol:

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:28 pm

Leggs: A person without doubt is a fool. Just because you are strong in your convictions doesn’t mean you act on them without thought.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
5:29 pm

LBWG: Is obviously taking female viagra.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:40 pm

I can’t post.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:42 pm

@For Real ~ The words are not from my own mouth. I heard it and posted it here. I tend to think things through before I leap into anything. Many of the E.O.D’s do not make sense, no matter how you slice it. You can add this one to your list.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
5:42 pm