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Dating outside the box

A friend of mine wanted to know if I had any tips for meeting and dating white guys.  I’ve been known to date men from many different ethnic backgrounds, while she has recently decided to date “other.” I honestly don’t do anything differently, though. I generally meet and date them the same as I do other men.

I have found that when you find people who share the same interests, you are likely to meet someone that sparks an interest, regardless of their background. That is when you sort of let things happen naturally.  I did encourage her to venture to different “scenes” and add some variety to her social calendar.

Do you find it hard to date outside your box? Do you think we should meet and date people from different backgrounds to increase our dating options?

When it comes to race, religion, or political beliefs, how different are you willing to date?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

347 comments Add your comment

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:33 pm

@Letitia ~ back up from the Tequila. What the heck did you just type???

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

He’s not sure if this is a joke or it we’re live.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

He may know where Camp Creek is, but not what Camp Creek is about (lol).

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

Willie – All these single ladies on the blog (well, not that many left anymore :lol: ) why are folks always worried about me? *hmph*

White Guy – There is no line! Just a trail of bones! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

Letitia – Ummm Sorry bout that, no harm no foul.
My husband is a regular blogger. How now knows I knows he’s blogging is a mystery to him

WHAT?????????

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:35 pm

@ARed…I’m an hour north of the city

See… this is why I don’t meet “others” while mingling in Atlanta.

Yes, that’s where Camp Creek is. :lol:

I’m 5′11″

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:36 pm

So Letitia is using her gov’t name…therefore sending her husband a targeted message. :lol:

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:36 pm

….or [if] it’s live? Oui Vey!

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:38 pm

@WD ~ I asked the same thing!

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:38 pm

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:43 pm

Ared- you are a Unicorn, Bigfoot, Lochness Monster etc. Don’t ask me, the consumers like what they like. I’m just here to help facilitate their dreams.

LBWG – ok, unfortunately for you the price is increasing. Practicing full disclosure I’ll let you know we’ve had another well financed sponsor enter the fray. BTW, I dont wanna waste your time I know you got good credit and all but this is strictly a cash only transaction and that part is non-negotiable.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:43 pm

There are very few married male bloggers that have indicated that they are having issues at home….very few. Most of our attached guys around here seem to be soundly, somewhat happily married and in solid relationships….most.

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:46 pm

Letitia – I’m sure your husband is the most upstanding of bloggers. It’s all just a diversion from work on here, not a dating site or anything.

Please don’t put laxatives in his food tonight. :lol:

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
3:46 pm

He’s not blogging as a married man, therefore the fungus among us.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
3:47 pm

Wow…speechless….(lol)

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
3:51 pm

He’s not blogging as a married man, therefore the fungus among us.

:shock:

Mistaken identity perhaps? :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
3:51 pm

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
3:53 pm

He’s not blogging as a married man, therefore the fungus among us.

Is who????? Tell us, the ladies can help you out with anything you need to know.

I can’t stand a liar, at the least on here we are brutally honest with each other. If its a regular then we have been hoodwinked. . At least have the decency to up ya game and let em know you married. hahahaha

Sweet Pea

April 11th, 2011
3:55 pm

Well…We know it ain’t Barry Azz Barry cause he got ghost and never returned after he came with his shenanigans! After dude asked what an ascot was??? I knew he was doomed…LOL

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

@Letitia ~ are the two of you using this site as a form of “role playing?” Are the two of you being turned on by what the other posts to other bloggers???

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

Or is it a one-way street and only one of you is doing the flirting or asking questions a married person shouldn’t be asking?

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
3:59 pm

@Letitia ~ nevermind, you did use the word “fungus”

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
4:00 pm

Letitia – regardless, I feel for you in your situation. I have been in a relationship by myself before. It is not fun. I wish you all the best and hope that this works out to your good.

cba

April 11th, 2011
4:04 pm

Whoever he is, and if he is lurking, I bet brotha is raining sweat…..

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
4:11 pm

@Willie…I don’t mind cash transactions…lol
@ARed…So an hour north is no good?…and 5′11″ is REAL nice!!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
4:12 pm

Alas, it is I…the married man. Sorry Letitia. Please take me back.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:13 pm

Honestly, what single dude on here has done anything out of line? Heyal this aint really a dating blog. The dudes (single that is) that post on here regularly aint exactly trying to hook up with these chicks.

This some more bull—isht. I dont feel sorry for her. The dude if he is lurking then this shouldnt be no problwm to him.

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
4:14 pm

@cba: As well he should be.

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:14 pm

I bet mr inconitomarriieddude is one you would least expect – 4 REAL!!

:lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

@ARed…So an hour north is no good?…

It might as well be Mayberry! :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Honestly, what single dude on here has done anything out of line?

Saying he’s single when he’s actually married. :lol:

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Willie – I agree, don’t believe it for a minute.

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Naw…WillieD – I disagree. What if your wife were on a forum day in / day out, yucking it up and posing as a single chick? That would be cool with you? I doubt it.

Letitia

April 11th, 2011
4:16 pm

@Willie Dynamite: Sorry sir but you’re wrong

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:16 pm

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

Alright fine I’m the one Letitia is talking about and it’s not a fungus. The technical name is Blue Ballz.

kimmie

April 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

I just don’t believe it’s anything to this!

Laid Back White Guy

April 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

Mayberry?…Now ARed thinks I’m Gomer Pyle!! lol

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
4:21 pm

Alright fine I’m the one Letitia is talking about and it’s not a fungus.
Hold on For Real. You joking right? Cuz if you ain’t then it’s gon’ be a problem. Letitia you the one busted now.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:22 pm

LBWG – ok cool, Here’s the deal. Get a rubber band and a brown paper bag. Wrap (whispering details) in the rubber band and put in the bag. Walk 1/2 block north and stop at the big Pecan Tree. Under that tree you’ll find bout 6 brothers dranking quarts and burning swishas. Look for the 1 with the neck tatoo drinking a 1/2 pint of Remy you can call him ‘Lil bout to be Half Dead’ . Hand him the bag, don’t ask no ?’s and immediately walk back this way and whatever you do dont look back.

If/when you do all that then Sir you have yourself 1 1st Class ticket to the Ared Ride.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:27 pm

“I bet mr inconitomarriieddude is one you would least expect – 4 REAL!!” – Why you gon wish something like that on me? I walk around with my freedom papers.

Fion

April 11th, 2011
4:27 pm

@For Real
“The technical name is Blue Ballz.”

Doc, I have to ask, do you treat that with Powder or Cream????

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:28 pm

Dream: I don’t think it’s possible to bust a chick name Letitia.

Leggs

April 11th, 2011
4:32 pm

Letitia ~ even in blogging, women can find their messy man! Never underestimate the investigative skills of a woman (lol). And, unbeknownst to him, he probably fell right in her lap.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:32 pm

Dreams/4Real – Sorry to hear bout yall misfortune. But looka here, Just in case neither one of yall want her. I got these tix we can raffle off to either this white dude or SimpMan of course. I’m willing to split it 65/35 I just need to know how tall she is? Once again sorry about your misfortune.

- Ladies – I agree somewhat. On here posing as a Single guy but Married, that is a problem. Then again Single guys on here are quite docile. They aint shooting no arrows or trying any of these chicks. I’m jus saying if its true then ol boy can get out of this with no problem. If he doing it here heyal he might be a beast in the streets,The blog aint the problem. This some bull-isht

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:34 pm

“Doc, I have to ask, do you treat that with Powder or Cream????” – Neither. I treat it with vulva. Vulva I put that ish on everythang!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 11th, 2011
4:35 pm

Dream: I don’t think it’s possible to bust a chick name Letitia.
For Real Is that because she’s so devious she can’t be found out or because she wears her deeds with pride? lol But you gotta admit it WOULD make for good blog reading if the “alleged” husband AND a maintenance man outed her. lol

SexyCool

April 11th, 2011
4:37 pm

WillieD…you would be surprised at what goes on behind the blog curtain.

Willie Dynamite

April 11th, 2011
4:39 pm

SC – ummmm No I wouldn’t (shhhhhhh)

Dreams/4Real – ok spill it, which one of yall the sucka (i Mean husband) and which one is the Maint.Man.

For Real

April 11th, 2011
4:40 pm

Wille D: I preciate the opportunity but I think you are underestimating your product. If we invest in some vitamin B shots for Ared the sky is the limit on how many times we can raffle her off. And, and I bet if we throw in a big bag of hot fries with some moon pie we would rack up.

I agree with you on the single blog dudes not chasing any bloggettes but there is story behind that and if you got pint of Remy for me I’ll tell you the story.