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Are dating games effective?

Playing hard to get.  Acting aloof.  Juggling multiple romantic partners.  It’s all considered part of the dating game. Does it ever get hard to determine what is part of the game and what isn’t? After all the strategies are deployed, are we getting what we really want out of the dating game?  Are all these dating games really working?

Do you think dating games are wrong or necessary?

Have you ever met someone who has absolutely no game at all?  Did you welcome the change in pace or question what the real game was behind the “no game” claims?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

118 comments Add your comment

ASB

April 8th, 2011
6:05 am

I don’t play games in relationships. However, I think most people play games. I wish people would be honest about what they want.

Jason

April 8th, 2011
7:19 am

Right or wrong, most head games are based on psychology. They work, at least for a while. Eventually the other person wises up… well, not everyone but the few who don’t either get dumped for being dumb or end up miserably taken advantage of.

Probably everyone plays games, even if they’re not aware of it. But not everyone does it to the same degree and some try to keep it to a minimum. Too bad they end up losing out quite a bit to those who not only play the game but have mastered it.

CoolShadow

April 8th, 2011
8:22 am

I think everybody has a strategy; some play games while others are straight shooters and non-hagglers. Some game players do it to gauge interest or to manipulate but that behavior will turn off straight shooters. I think the most interesting aspect of this topic is to get people (especially women) to realize that they might have to re-evaluate or change their strategy or game when it isn’t working to their satisfaction.

Matt

April 8th, 2011
8:25 am

Playing games may not be exactly great, but in modern day society it is a neccesity, take my word for it I hate games probably more than everyone, I am not a “player” at all. The fact is that the most exciting time for a new couple is the chase, plain and simple, if you take away the chase or if one person stops trying to impress the other all together, then you will have a serious problem later in the relationship, couples need to be able to look back and remember that excitement after all the games are over with and look back with fond memories of the passion they felt when they first met, all the things they didn’t know about the other, etc. etc. So yes game are needed, however people who take them too far as having multiple partners, lying, so on and so forth will have nothing to fall back on later, considering they played the games wrong in my mind, those people unfortunately will ultimately be unhappier and have a less fortunate relationship with their significant other.

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 8th, 2011
8:33 am

Mayne,

Did I play games. Twas fun. It was interesting to see the mental gymnastics a woman went through wanting to believe me. The twisted logic that I would weave was beautiful. – Good times, man, good times.

At some point though, it got too easy. Like a major league talent play double -A ball, I got bored. Even the big fish held no lure. So I change strategy. Stopped “playing” and started telling the truth and letting the women decide.

And that was more fun. Watching a new set of mental gymnastics as [she] tried to reconcile [her] desire from what she felt I, or others, might think of [her].

Yeah, games have their place. But regardless of the honesty of either party, the games most often get played in our own heads.

Luvah

April 8th, 2011
8:50 am

It’s AKLL a game, in case you haven’t figured out. It’s exciting, stimulating, frustrating, crushing, tingling and challeging all rolled up into one. I’ll take that any day over the dull “what youm see is what you get” crowd. Give me something to imagine, to fantasize about, to figure out. I am so tired of the men and women that just resign to the “This is the package. Waddaya think?” and leave it at that. Put some hot sauce on it and live a little. You’ll never travel to exciting new lands until you first have the courage to lose sight of the shoreline.

Luvah

April 8th, 2011
8:51 am

Sorry…early morning typing. “It’s ALL a game…..”

knockoutblonde

April 8th, 2011
8:56 am

The games are a part of the dating cycle, just like it’s a part of everything else. Whether it’s work, socially or even financially, whomever plays the “Game” the best, wins. Those that don’t like the game are really nothing but wall flowers to me. No one will remember them ten minutes after they leave the room. I agree with Luvah, embrace the game, play the game, learn how to play it better from your mistakes. It really is a fun, exciting world out there, if you let it be. Monotony, predictability and routine is like a bucket of water pouring on a campfire. And speaking of….it’s FRIDAY. Let the games begin!!!

George P Burdell

April 8th, 2011
9:03 am

In my opinion, these are silly questions. It is polite to guage the interest of someone before making a move on them. If this requires “games”, then so be it. If the person is interested and you are still interested, both parties will continue the courtship. The problem arises when one person is not really interested in the other person, but the other person is not aware that they are being “gamed”. I’m sorry to say this, but the only way for the other person to learn that there is no common interest is to learn it the hard way. I have had to learn the hard way that a “gamer” is really not interested in me; I’ve learned to move on and not be fixated on the gamer.

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
9:15 am

Morning All – It’s Friday, yayyy!!!

I thought we discussed this last week, with the cat and mouse discussion?

I’ll come back later, when we’re discussing weekend plans!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
9:16 am

Morning
EVERYONE has game. Shoot, the “No Game” game is the one that works the best. Dating is fun, and I enjoy the game. It’s not a big deal. Life is good.

Reggie

April 8th, 2011
9:17 am

Hate the playah, not the Game. If you get “Gamed”, that’s just the way it rolls. No sense getting your panties in a wad about it. It’s happened before and it will happen again. In fact, it’s probably happened and you never know and STILL don’t know. It’s a part of life.

SlimNumeroUno

April 8th, 2011
9:19 am

Good mawnin yawnin :-)

Triple H

April 8th, 2011
9:24 am

It’s time to play The Game. It’s all about the Game and how you can play it.It’s all about control and who can take it.It’s all about your debt and if you can pay it. It’s all about the pain and who’s going to make it. I am The Game and you don’t want to play with me. I am control, no way you can change me. I am the debt, no way you can pay me. I am the pain and I know you can’t take me.

SexyCool

April 8th, 2011
9:25 am

kimmie – I was thinking the same thing.

(Finally digging out from under a million boxes…..mopving su-huuuuuxxxx!!

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
9:33 am

SCool – So you did close? Congrats!!

I am leaving early today to go home and continue packing myself. Yes, moving suxxxxxxx!!!!

Ronnie

April 8th, 2011
9:39 am

The only “game” I like playing is Nekid Twister, but that’s just me.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
9:48 am

Congrats, SexyC! When’s the house warming party? :-D

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
9:52 am

Morning All!!! Er’body ready for the weekend I hope!!!

Scool, When is teh housewarming and What bottle do I need to bring??? :) :D :)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
9:57 am

Congrats SexyC

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 8th, 2011
9:59 am

Congrats, Ms. Cool (hope to be joining you soon – in homeownership)

@kimmie

You’re moving? Like leaving the A? Where you moving to?

Matt

April 8th, 2011
10:04 am

All about how you play the game in my book, I am too old to deal with a girl that will lie and be with other guys while I court her. Games, absolutely, and btw, for the person that said that people that don’t play games will stay at home and never do anything, that is bs, even when I didn’t play games I was still traveling when ever I wanted, skydived had awesome parties, rode motorcycles, etc. etc. I make a great wage for my age, and I live a very exciting life, however, I don’t have the time at 30 to waste with girls that lie and cheat, they can have it all with excitement or they can play the “game” playful yes, don’t make it impossible to really find someone getting caught up in the “game”, I have already decided that foreign girls are the way to go, I have about 10 friends all with great women, all from other countries, american girls just don’t get it sometimes. Those 10 friends also have better relationships with each other then anyone else I know. American girls that I know just got too greedy

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
10:06 am

Dan – I am moving into my fiance’ house. My sister is going to rent my house. Her lease is up at the end of this month so I need to be out.

It’s more than a notion, though! Trying to combine 2 households, his and mine. Luckily I am leaving alot of my stuff in the house for my sister, like the major appliances.

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 8th, 2011
10:09 am

But.are.you.leaving the A?

And Kimmie, I know, buleeevveee me, I know.

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
10:14 am

Dan – No, just up the road, from College Park to Smyrna! :)

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 8th, 2011
10:22 am

Then Hola Vato loko.

And why is either of y’all complaining? You changing sides of town.

Git back with me co-ordinating State moves

#uhaulsucks

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
10:27 am

Dan – LOL!!! But yeah, out of state would be WAY more of a challenge!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
10:39 am

Out of state, across town, across the street…have done them all, and they all suck. lol kimmie you moving up on the north side. welcome!

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
10:48 am

Thanks Dreams! Yeah, I’m movin on up!

Actually at one point I lived not far from Smyrna, in Marietta. It was my first place after finishing college and leaving home in SWATS . Then I lived in Austell for a few years, then bought my house in CP.

You are right, moving sux any way it goes! I hate packing and unpacking!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
10:57 am

Thanks Dreams! Yeah, I’m movin on up!
kimmie it’s funny how you can actually become isolated. I tell my homeboy in College Park that he might as well live in Florida because I get to College Park about as much as I get to Florida. lol I’m hardly ever south of Buckhead these days, unless I’m going to the airport. lol

Dan - Simply....Superior

April 8th, 2011
10:59 am

@Dreams

Me being on the Westside, the homie in Perimeter is forever wanting someone to ride “waaale up there.”

@Kimmie

Cobb is good, if you’re near East/West connector, you can get N.E.where

AmazonRed™ - back from vacay

April 8th, 2011
11:05 am

Morning all –

Congrats to all the movers out there. I feel for you. But at least folks are movin on up!

The only game I’ve knowingly played is the game of “tease.” He’ll think i’m going to stop “fighting the feelings” and go for it…while I always know where the line in the sand is drawn. And I don’t cross it. :lol:

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
11:06 am

Dreams – That is true with a lot of people, especially transplants. But being a native ATLian and SWATS resident, a lot of my family and friends are still on the southside. The SWATS neighborhood I grew up in is established and still beautiful. My house in CP is established too, most homes were built there in 90-91. I have a few cousins over in Fayetteville down the street and a few friends in the Camp Creek area. If you watch the news you’d believe it’s nothing but crime on the southside. Not true.

I work up here in Alpharetta, and all I see & hear are cops! :shock:

AmazonRed™ - back from vacay

April 8th, 2011
11:09 am

kimmie – Yeah, I love it over here. Besides, I’m in the city anyway, so everything is close. The only trips I dread are OTP…like Alpharetta. They weren’t trying to be close to the city. I can’t believe you make that drive everyday! :cry:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
11:13 am

“Out of state, across town, across the street…have done them all, and they all suck”

Man, you’re not lying… When I was in college, I moved 6 times in 5 years (um, yeah, I partied a lil’ bit…)… The worst was moving from one unit to another in the same complex: Had to go downstairs, across a parking lot, down more stairs (the other building was kind of in a hole), then up stairs to the new apartment. It s#cked donkey ballz:lol:

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
11:14 am

Amred – I can’t believe it either! It’s not so bad in the morning and going thru downtown is actually quicker and easier than taking 285 to 400. Smyrna will be closer.

I have a great job and fantastic boss, so it’s the sacrifice I make! Even had a chance to transfer downtown and was tempted because I’ve worked downtown before and loved it. But my current situation is too good to give up right now!

AmazonRed™ - back from vacay

April 8th, 2011
11:19 am

kimmie – Having a good situation is definitely a blessing. I was considering a job in Flowery Branch… I dunno. But a girl I know who lives in Camp Creek does it daily so…

I love love love working in Midtown/Dowtown. Especially in the spring/ summer. Alll the happy hour patio spots are close…Wednesday Wind Down is close. I’m so geeked. :lol:

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
11:24 am

Amred – I’ve had 3 jobs downtown, and I loved them all. The most fun was at CNN! Yes, Centennial Park right outside for WWD!

We went to a lunchtime outside jazz set over in the Failey-Poplar area once back then. All the eateries had tables you could eat at outside and some folks had lawn chairs set up in the street area they had blocked off in front of the stage. Wonder if they still do that?

Fun times!

AmazonRed™ - back from vacay

April 8th, 2011
11:39 am

Amred – I’ve had 3 jobs downtown, and I loved them all. The most fun was at CNN! Yes, Centennial Park right outside for WWD!

Oh yes. I used to work at the Georgia Dome. Talk about being right by all the action! The GWCC has it’s own cafeteria for employees too, with subsidized pricing (meaning cheap food :lol: ). Dang… it was good over there!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
11:42 am

“We went to a lunchtime outside jazz set over in the Failey-Poplar area once back then.”

kimmie — I used to hang out there every day at lunch back when I was contracting w/ the state. I probably stared at your booty & never even knew it…. :lol:

AmazonRed™ - back from vacay

April 8th, 2011
11:42 am

kimmie

April 8th, 2011
11:45 am

swiss you are an idiot!!! :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
11:52 am

← Now going through my database of booty mental images, trying to determine which one might be kimmie:lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
11:58 am

I’ve had 3 jobs downtown, and I loved them all. The most fun was at CNN! Yes, Centennial Park right outside for WWD!

I used to live downtown right down the street from the CNN…I could look out of my window and see the building and Centennial Park wasn’t even a five minute walk from the front door of my apartment building so I totally understand loving downtown. During the summer on Friday/Saturday evenings my gay friends and I would stand outside and people watch or flirt with cute guys driving/walking by. When I moved to my home onthe southside I was kinda sick for a while….I still miss living downtown but I love my house more….fond memories.

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
12:50 pm

Ghost town…(where is everyone???)

cba

April 8th, 2011
12:57 pm

They are all “gamed-out”

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
1:10 pm

“(where is everyone???)”

Whew!!!!! Stay away from the egg salad, that’s all I can say… Oh… gotta run… again…

:lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
1:37 pm

Well d@mn! It really is a ghost town in here today… If y’all have slipped away to have a blog 0rgy without inviting me, there’s gonna be hell to pay… :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
1:38 pm

Did somebody say Blog Orgy?????

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
1:41 pm

I thought that might wake some folks up…. :lol:

NY state of mind

April 8th, 2011
1:51 pm

Hey Fam-

Just wanted to drop in to say hello and have a great weekend! Busy day for me here in NYC!

Welcome back A-Red :)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
2:09 pm

Did somebody say Blog Orgy?????

Y’all playin dress up,too? ;-)

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
2:11 pm

Hey Sassy…You should hang around a bit…add a bit of class to this sausage fest….

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
2:15 pm

Wow it is slow in here today. Actually it’s been pretty slow for a while now. I fear the blog may be on its last leg.

BlackMagicWoman

April 8th, 2011
2:34 pm

Dropping in to say hi!

Talk about packing and moving….try having to move to another state!!! This permanent move from Atlanta back home to NYC is killing me!!! Selling stuff has gotten under my skin. So I hav just resorted to donating a lot. You never know how much Shhhh you have until you have to move it. As a person who had 300 pairs of shoes (what…don’t judge me!!!) I donated almost half. And then packing the remainder has me wanting to to jump off the Bank of America building. The clothes are another issue. Its a shame to have so much when some folks have none.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
2:39 pm

You never know how much Shhhh you have until you have to move it.

That’s what I thought when I moved from my apartment to my home…hell I found stuff I forgot I had so you can only imagine what that was like….and the UNpacking once you’ve moved is hell-ish,too.

I fear the blog may be on its last leg.

I’ve been wondering the same thing Dreams.

add a bit of class to this sausage fest….

That’s an interesting visual….

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
2:48 pm

“As a person who had 300 pairs of shoes (what…don’t judge me!!!)”
Damn…And I thought my 150+ pair were bad…..

BlackMagicWoman

April 8th, 2011
2:59 pm

I wish I a genie. I could blink and nod and this would all be done! :lol:

See…when the blog started banning folks…the population of Blogsville dipped. It was like a mass exodus!

SWISS…..quick…say something perverted and breathe some life in here! :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
3:01 pm

BMW — Quick! Show me your t!tt!es! :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
3:02 pm

Meeting…. back later…

BlackMagicWoman

April 8th, 2011
3:03 pm

LMAO…Ok Rick James!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
3:10 pm

Okay, meeting’s delayed…

Wait a minute… Did BMW just agree to show me her tit-tays? :-D :lol:

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
3:12 pm

Sup BMW good to read you. Dang I didn’t know you was moving. You shoulda got at me…I woulda helped. That’s what everyone always says…BS. lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:19 pm

I think we need to have a blog come to Jesus meeting or something cause this is almost scary….it’s FRIDAY and there’s no titillating, scandalousness-ness going on and I sooo don’t understand it. I know some folks got sh!t going on but geesh…

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
3:23 pm

Ok…Trying to talk a friend into going to Trapeze with me this weekend..Anyone here been there before??? Never been myself….

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
3:24 pm

it’s FRIDAY and there’s no titillating, scandalousness-ness going on
Sassy Well I could throw some shyyyyt out there, but there’s hardly anyone here to comment on it. Besides, don’t you expecting some imported “goods” this weekend? lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:24 pm

what is Trapeze?

Ummm

April 8th, 2011
3:27 pm

Wouldn’t you have to be a swinga to hit Trapeze??? You swing??

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
3:28 pm

Sassy, its a sex club…. :)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:30 pm

Besides, don’t you expecting some imported “goods” this weekend?

My import has arrived and from I saw last night at dinner…it’ll be delivered this weekend….I wonder what my delivery options will be….on the ground..in the air ;-) Decisions,decisions…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:32 pm

its a sex club….

:shock:

Oh okay….so ummm y’all gone swang or watch…

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
3:33 pm

Ummm, Not a swinger, but I have heard of the place and I wanna go and see for myself what the deal is…

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
3:38 pm

I wonder what my delivery options will be
Sassy you should exhaust all the options. I’m just saying…if it was me…that’s what I would want you to do. ;-)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:39 pm

Cool beans Simple…I was just wondering. I might be swing on/from something myself…hope you go try it out and have some juicy tid bits to share Monday :mrgreen:

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
3:43 pm

LOL..I am gonna see whats up..Hope your guest brought his Ginsing with him!! :) :D :)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
3:44 pm

hope you go try it out and have some juicy tid bits to share Monday
Sassy Looks like you’re ready to expose your juicy “tidbits” now. ;-)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:54 pm

you should exhaust all the options.

Dreams it’s been as of today it’s been six months and one week so I plan to exhaust errthang. He’s staying at The W but I want to go back to my house b/c I wouldn’t want anyone to think we were fighting or anything.

Hope your guest brought his Ginsing with him!!

I’ve been warned already… I’m almost kinda nervous b/c even back in college this guy was the bizness…I mean had ya gurl running from it kinda bizness….

Ummm

April 8th, 2011
3:56 pm

Never been myself or I wanna go and see for myself what the deal is…

Which is it???

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:56 pm

wow I didn’t man to bold ALL of it

Looks like you’re ready to expose your juicy “tidbits” now

No I’ll be doing that later ;-) But I did let a little of the cat out of the bag…that’s why I hope Simple comes back with a good story to tell…

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
3:57 pm

Sassy — Really, I think you ought to handle your business at the W… I mean, I’ve already got the hidden camera all set up and ready that way you won’t have to worry about cleaning your own sheets…. :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
3:58 pm

Ummm why can’t it be both…if you’ve never been then why not go and check it out for yourself. Doesn’t sound/seem too illogical..

Sweet Pea

April 8th, 2011
4:00 pm

Hey ya’ll~ It’s interesting that you would mention Trapeze Simple as a friend of mine just mentioned it earlier today. She and a few of her friends went with a couple of guy friends…just say that my friend raved about the breakfast being delish and shaking to pieces after seeing some thangs going on right beside her and in the rooms. It’s tempting to go take a peek, however I am still having visuals of the looks on guys faces and being taken aback after a guy paid skrippers to dance for me at a skrip club…friend shared that some men get off on that kind of thing. Yeah call me a prude, however it was interesting to see although I wasn’t too fond of lap dances but I did take notes.. :) don’t judge me I love MEN

If you go…don’t forget to share it with us Blog Peeps! If you dare to go and peep, you must bring your robe and your “other” coverings to cross over into that “world” based on what my friend shared…she said it is a regular club in the front and the happenings are in the back!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:01 pm

SWISS only youuuu would come up with that. Good segue…are you an the Mrs. into creative filming?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:03 pm

Sassy — Not yet (as far as she knows, anyway), but I’m working on her… ;-) :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:03 pm

shaking to pieces after seeing some thangs going on right beside her and in the rooms.

Really?! Wonder if my friend might want to go…

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:05 pm

(as far as she knows, anyway),

Swiss if you weren’t married, I’d spank you for that….then again you might like it. I’on know…. :lol:

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
4:06 pm

But I did let a little of the cat out of the bag
Sassy Harmless teasing, but eventually you gotta let the cat all the way out so it can be properly stroked, that is if you want it to purrrrrrr.

She and a few of her friends went with a couple of guy friends…
Sweet why didn’t you go along?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:07 pm

“then again you might like it. I’on know…”

There’s one way to find out, Sassy:lol:

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:08 pm

Sassy, You wanna meet somewhere and make it a group field trip???

Sweet Pea

April 8th, 2011
4:10 pm

Hey Sassy~If you listen to Michael Baisden’s show and his talks about it…it peaked my interest to see what is going on so I mentioned it to my friend and she said, Oh I’ve been there and shared her experience with me. She said that she was uneasy about it and when someone would approached her, she would tell them that she and her female friend were a couple to avoid any encounters..LOL

I felt that way when she took me to the skrip club so I had to take a drink to loosen up a little because girlfriend was like whoa! However, the guys that went with us had me cracking up after we paid for their dances so I was ok afterwards…not too sure if I’d do it again

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:13 pm

“If you dare to go and peep, you must bring your robe and your “other” coverings to cross over into that “world” based on what my friend shared…she said it is a regular club in the front and the happenings are in the back!”

Gonna take a sheet and hook it up in a toga!!! Walk around balls out, Junk hanging like a New Jack Julius Ceasar!!!

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:17 pm

but eventually you gotta let the cat all the way out so it can be properly stroked,

Now as soon as I read that I heard Clarence Carter’s I be stroking…that’s what I be doin. Stroke it to the east…stroke it to the west. Dreams I’m due and he knows he has to bring his A game.

wanna meet somewhere and make it a group field trip???

Simple that’s why I wanted to go back to my house cause there’s no telling if we’re ever gonna leave the room. So we’re gonna have to hold off on the “group” feild trip :lol: I went grocery shopping just in case….sooooo

Swiss how hard can I smack it but more importantly do you have enough cushion for a nice spanking?…could you handle it? I’m not too rough but it’ll leave you kinda red…

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:20 pm

Damn Sassy….Sounds like we might not hear from you until like Tuesday or Wendesday!!! If it gets to late in the week we will put on our hazmat suits and come in after you….

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:21 pm

Sassy — Let’s just say, I don’t have the average whiteboy booty… You go ahead & smack it as hard as you like, boo — I’ve got enough cushion to take it… :lol:

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:22 pm

Junk hanging like a New Jack Julius Ceasar!!!

!!!!!!!!

She said that she was uneasy about it and when someone would approached her, she would tell them that she and her female friend were a couple to avoid any encounters..

That’s funny…but on the real I wouldn’t mind checking that out. I might have to get a wig and go in-cog-negro..

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:24 pm

Sassy — Serious question: How wet are you right now? :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:24 pm

Oops…. forgot to close that “strong” tag…

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:25 pm

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
4:26 pm

I went grocery shopping just in case….sooooo
Sassy I’m picturing you in Publix filling up two shopping carts with water, bread, milk, batteries, candles, and people staring trying to figure out what storm you preparing for. You staring back like “what???” lol

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
4:28 pm

Oops…. forgot to close that “strong” tag…
swiss suuuuuuure you did. lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:28 pm

You go ahead & smack it as hard as you like, boo

That’s what I’m talking ’bout Swiss!!

Sounds like we might not hear from you until like Tuesday or Wendesday!!!

I like to cover all my bases thoroughly…no it’ won’t be like that(I don’t think)…or at least I hope I got the skrenght to make it in Monday. He’s here for two weeks so we’ve got time.

Tiiiiiiime is on my side….yes it IS

Sweet Pea

April 8th, 2011
4:32 pm

Hey Dreams~Apparently she thought I’d opposed to venturing into the depths of that kind of “water”, however I mentioned my interest in possibly checking it out. So we’ve agreed that I will come along on the next trip. She said the fee is cheaper for the guys when they bring along the ladies..

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:34 pm

Sweet Pea, You game to participate, or are you just in it for “research purposes”??? LOL

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
4:35 pm

She said the fee is cheaper for the guys when they bring along the ladies..
Sweet In that case, wanna be my date? lol

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:35 pm

DREAMS that was toooo funny!!! Especially the string back part cause that sounds like something I’d do.

How wet are you right now?

Honestly, I’m glad to see him…I’m excited but as I’ve previously posted…dude is the bizness so there’s some apprehension mixed in there,too. I”m sure I’ll manage

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:36 pm

should’ve been *staring* back…but y’all get it.

Sweet Pea

April 8th, 2011
4:36 pm

Well Alright Simple…LOL

Sassy~ no need to fly under the radar as what happens at the Peze…stays at the Peze…if someone sees you there it’s obvious they were there too! :)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:37 pm

She said the fee is cheaper for the guys when they bring along the ladies..

how much $$$$$?

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:39 pm

You’re right Sweet Pea but for some reason when I put on a wig I feel extra naughty…that with some cognac will help me acclimate.

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:42 pm

“I put on a wig I feel extra naughty…that with some cognac will help me acclimate.” Note to self….Go by the hair store, pick something from the LisaRaye collections and put in in a bag with a bottle of Henney….Just in case…..

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:43 pm

Wow, Sassy… I’m seeing a whole new side of you… And I like it:lol:

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
4:45 pm

I”m sure I’ll manage…
Sassy manage or menage? ;-)

cba

April 8th, 2011
4:45 pm

Seems like the brotha will be singing Bill Withers, “use me, until you use me up”

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

April 8th, 2011
4:49 pm

Sassy now looking away, with a coy smile and blushing

Thanks Swiss

pick something from the LisaRaye collections and put in in a bag with a bottle of Henney….

Now you really tryna get it….

Well I’m about to go blog fam….hope you all have a great weekend. I will !!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

April 8th, 2011
4:51 pm

I’m out too ya’ll. Enjoy your weekend.

Sweet Pea

April 8th, 2011
4:52 pm

Simple~Research purposes only but of course, I can be the cameragirl and film you in action! :)

Dreams~When ya going? I ain’t no cheap date of course, however I surely can accompany you there! A win-win situation…I can take a peek while you indulge..LOL

On my way out…Have a good one…Simple~Be Good!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

April 8th, 2011
4:55 pm

Later, peeps… Have a good weekend…

And as my granddad used to tell me: If you can’t be good, be good at it. (I’m looking at you, Sassy) :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

April 8th, 2011
4:56 pm

Happy Humping this weekend to all!!! Sweet pea…All you have to do is say the word!!! :)