So I have this ongoing “flirtatious dance” in the elevator situation going on with one of my neighbors. We’ve lived in the same building for five years now and somehow we don’t go beyond a twenty minute conversation. He’s invited me over for dinner but we never set a date. I’ve asked him for a ride on his bike but we never got around to it.
He is painfully shy and not at all a “slick” player from what I can tell. At this point, I’ve long given up on moving things from the elevator! I was asking my “male decoder” how much reassurance men really needed. How many ways can a woman indicate to men that they have the green light and can proceed!?
He told me that it could be a matter of shyness or maybe he is just playing hard to get. I’m stunned.
Wait a minute! Do men even play hard to get? Why? Why would they do that? I need answers! I don’t think I’d have a clue of what a guy playing hard to get even acts like. To me it’s either full court press or I’m traded in