Have you ever reached the 90 day mark in a new romance and start to notice a new personality emerging? Don’t be alarmed! That’s just the representative leaving and the real person showing up. Occasionally you get lucky and the representative closely resembles the real person.
Sadly, there are other times when that “dating representative” may as well have been a paid actor hired to lure you into a false sense of security and relationship bliss. You then have to make a choice: Do you decide to give the real person a shot or do you bail on the potentially good/bad ride you are about to take?
How do you know when the “real person” is worth the same amount of time and investment you gave their representative?
Do you think that it’s hard to show all your true sides when you first meet someone? Is it possible to date without having that “representative” show up at all?
How real do you get when it comes to letting someone new in your life get to know your authentic self?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog