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Dating: Do you breakup when it gets boring?

I tend to get on my guy friends who bounce around from women to women, then whine about not having a special woman in their lives.  I can understand not staying with someone they have no future with, especially when it’s obvious they are not compatible.  I am bothered when they say that things got dull or boring.  Did they ever stop to think that women get bored too?

When you decide to become exclusive and only date each other, that oh so thrilling roller coaster ride that is dating stops. Oddly enough, some of us miss that dizzying ride and yearn to have that same kind of uncertainty in relationships.  By definition, that is the opposite of what we say we want!

Do you think that it’s a good idea to dump someone when things get dull? Do you expect your dating relationship to always entertain you?

What  kind of excitement would keep a man interested in a woman? How should a man broach this subject with someone he is dating, or should he?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

400 comments Add your comment

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:15 pm

“Not everyone can do it in a way that still leaves their eyebrows intact afterwards” Interesting, well one bodily feature I won’t have to worry about.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

I hesistated a bit before posting it too! Thinking about that and my own sparce ones! :lol:

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:15 pm

@ARed ~ if I can dismiss a guy because of how he uses the word “is” you can dismiss for the word “you’re” or “your” :lol: :lol:

SexyCool

March 24th, 2011
2:16 pm

Yeah…I still say that.

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:16 pm

attaboy, tween me n you we both know Ared bout 1 Real Nukka away from being tamed

:lol: I’m so ready for that challenge. I think it will be fun. :lol:

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:17 pm

Yeah…I still say that.

:lol:

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
2:20 pm

Yeah…I still say that.

me too, no smiley faces or j/k for real tho

cba

March 24th, 2011
2:22 pm

Lady, you are not suppose to know me. In my early teens, family members and cousins would ask a question about news and they would say, go ask “cba”, he reads the paper. Back then, it was mostly sports, but as I got older, I moved toward the front page. Your comment about reading the paper, took me back a few years :-)

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:22 pm

Fion

March 24th, 2011
2:23 pm

……and she (SexyCool) did all this while wearing Prada!!!! Ain’t that some bull%$#@*>+.

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:23 pm

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:25 pm

@ARed ~ by that time, I knew your style and just laughed. You can do a verbal driveby assault with one hand on the wheel while tossing daggers out the window.

Fion

March 24th, 2011
2:25 pm

@ARed
Hold the phone, hold the phone….. Ared what challenge you ready for?????

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:25 pm

Y’all love me dammit. I’m gonna make sure of it too!!!

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:25 pm

Fion – Did you read the quote that was in italics? :lol:

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:26 pm

Why you frowning????? Did I miss something????

cba

March 24th, 2011
2:26 pm

Leggs have you heard the title of Jenifer Hudson’s latest single? You know, I thought about you and the infamous “is” :-)

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:26 pm

You can do a verbal driveby assault with one hand on the wheel while tossing daggers out the window.

:lol: @ the visual of that.

For Real

March 24th, 2011
2:27 pm

tween me n you we both know Ared bout 1 Real Nukka away from being tamed. – You ain’t eva lied. Hell Ared don’t even know how close she. Hell right now she thinking about what kind of sandwich to make for fussin so much.

“Black male 5 foot 8 inches -6 foot 3 inches tall, dark skin, mustache and tatoos. I told her I aint goin no where near Athens for 6-7 mos.” – When BN ish was going on I had just arrived by from overseas when a custom agent asked me am I sure I’m not BN.

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:28 pm

Why you frowning????? Did I miss something????

SCool and WillieD still ask themselves: “Who the HELL is this chick?” in regards to me.

With no smilie faces either!!! :evil:

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:28 pm

Taming of the Shrew…No, No, No, I’m not calling you a shrew. Just that Katherine (in the movie) was as fiesty as you are! Whew, hope I cleaned that up???

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:28 pm

Hell right now she thinking about what kind of sandwich to make for fussin so much.

He can get a booty sammich. :lol:

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:29 pm

@cba ~ and you probably guessed I hate the title of her song. Not particulary keen on the song because of that.

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:29 pm

Taming of the Shrew…No, No, No, I’m not calling you a shrew.

It’s okay. I was thinking of naming my wedding album on FB that….when it happens of course.

*shrugs* :lol:

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:29 pm

For Real i just SCREAMED my behind off! you stoooopid! LOL LMBAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:30 pm

@ARed – I am cracking up. You guys are a riot…each and every one of you.

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
2:32 pm

4Real – send it back the first time jus for GP. Extra cheese and cut off the edges, “Ok baby” hahahaha

no Lie, when I go outta the country every time i get stopped when going through customs. I just ask who do I look like this time. Sometimes they laff but then other times —oh my dayum!!!!

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:32 pm

Leggs i know JH can blow but I am not a fan and this latest one is blah to me…..#sobias lol

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:33 pm

that is one concert I won’t be @…..hmmmmmm has Sade sold out?!?!

SexyCool

March 24th, 2011
2:34 pm

LOL – at least once a day I get to point how crazy y’all folks IS is…

Red – I laugh when I say it….most of the time. (lol)

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:34 pm

wow they added a 2nd show for Sade! There is hope! ha!

SexyCool

March 24th, 2011
2:37 pm

Whenever I hear the new JH release….in answer to her question…I automatically say, “Behind that preposition.” and yes, I am guilty of butchering the language from time to time, but that…I just cannot listen to without it feeling like fingernails on a chalkboard.

Fion

March 24th, 2011
2:38 pm

that is one concert I won’t be @…..hmmmmmm has Sade sold out?!?!

I’m tellin ya right now, when they hit $400 per ticket i got 2 for sale.

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:40 pm

LMBAO @Fion!!!!! WOOHOO!!!! I am going to see Sade!!!!! YAYAYAY! Now Kem needs to come back for the summer! *crossing fingers* :)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 24th, 2011
2:40 pm

Hey folks. I KNOW ya’ll not still on topic so I’ll just say, “do what makes you happy. I you need a certain excitement from your relationship and aren’t getting it, decide if it’s worth trying to re-ignite. Otherwise, make an exit.”

So, what’s the haps ya’ll?

Fion

March 24th, 2011
2:41 pm

Gotta dip. “Ciao baby”.

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:42 pm

Fion on the flip side Fantaisa grew on me and i am planing to see her perform @ Essence this year! It took much for her to grow on me but she is aight! lol

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
2:47 pm

@SexyC/Lady ~ I feel the same way about the song. Where you At? UUUGGGHHH.

I was very disappointed with Uncle Charlie when he put “conversate” in one of his songs.

I like Sade, but couldn’t sit through one of her concerts.

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:48 pm

I got my tix for the first Sade show….where is the annoucement for the 2nd show. There is no mention on Ticketmaster…

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:48 pm

Leggs you not the 1st to say that! Tazzee Mae told me she would put her to sleep! LOL

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:49 pm

it is the 13th check Philip’s box office Red

For Real

March 24th, 2011
2:50 pm

“He can get a booty sammich.” – (While removing his pants)For Real now wiping a tear away proud of how Ared has grown. Give me that booty sandwich gurlllllllllll.

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:51 pm

Philips Arena Tickets Broker
We proudly offer secondary market tickets. This site is independently owned and operated and is not affiliated with any official box office or official website.
Sade at Philips Arena
Sade & John Legend Philips Arena
Atlanta, GA Tuesday
7/12/2011
7:30 PM
Sade & John Legend Philips Arena
Atlanta, GA Wednesday
7/13/2011
TBD

Sade & John Legend at other venues…

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:52 pm

Thanks Lady.

Shut up For Real! :evil:

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:53 pm

ARed you may have a point but hey the 12th isn’t sold out either so there is still hope…..its not pressing at all lol

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:54 pm

So this is a broker advertising tix to a 2nd show, even tho Philips Arena and Ticketmaster hasn’t annouced yet?

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:54 pm

its just showing on a brooker’s site but not @ the box office but the brooker site is philip’s arena ironically ok that is over….lol

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:55 pm

yep I dug deeper and to no avail sooooooooooooo if i am living to see my check next week I will stick with the 12th lol

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:55 pm

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
2:57 pm

awwww shucks russell simmons may be chris brown’s life coach the baby needs a support system and base! hell we all do! lol

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
2:58 pm

Lady – The broker site is not Philips…it’s for Philips Arena events. This site is independently owned and operated and is not affiliated with any official box office or official website.

There very well could be a 2nd show. Sometimes the streets get word before the official folks can officially verify. Perhaps the deal for a 2nd show is in the final stages.