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Dating: Do you breakup when it gets boring?

I tend to get on my guy friends who bounce around from women to women, then whine about not having a special woman in their lives.  I can understand not staying with someone they have no future with, especially when it’s obvious they are not compatible.  I am bothered when they say that things got dull or boring.  Did they ever stop to think that women get bored too?

When you decide to become exclusive and only date each other, that oh so thrilling roller coaster ride that is dating stops. Oddly enough, some of us miss that dizzying ride and yearn to have that same kind of uncertainty in relationships.  By definition, that is the opposite of what we say we want!

Do you think that it’s a good idea to dump someone when things get dull? Do you expect your dating relationship to always entertain you?

What  kind of excitement would keep a man interested in a woman? How should a man broach this subject with someone he is dating, or should he?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

400 comments Add your comment

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:33 pm

OK SexyCool that was funny…LOL

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
12:33 pm

yeah i was thinking bout time to get the towel ready to throw in.
Fellas – We need a rescue team stat. We got a live one, He won’t go down and the ref not giving standing 8 counts today.

chink

March 24th, 2011
12:34 pm

PR Straight to the point huh…lets just say I get my fair share. The chinkiness always through people off…

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:34 pm

LOL, Willie. He is going to fight until his heart gives out. LOL

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
12:35 pm

No For Real you asked for other ways parents can make sure their kids get socialized OTHER then daycare and when you got concrete answers you leaned on the “parents can’t give that to their child” which they can.

And they have more options than the parent that sits in a cube for 8 hours a day and pays someone else to (hopefully) do more than stick their kid in a room with other kids.

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:35 pm

So, I imagine it’s the eyes. What are you other fine points. Yes darling I am straight to the point I would hate to send mixed signals. LOL

chink

March 24th, 2011
12:36 pm

Hey 4real I got yo back ..ahem.

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:36 pm

LOL and I just realized that For Real is on a ploy to expose how women are irrational but yet the women keep entertaining his conversation. LOL

For Real

March 24th, 2011
12:36 pm

Check your tractor too.

“Yeah…they used to have daycares…they were called factories, mills, mines, fields and so on. Hence the Child Labor Act that wasn’t enacted until the early 1900’s” – Got Dayum!!! From stay at home parent socializing their kids, to daycare’s socializing your kids, to child working in factories, mills, mines and fields. And y’all wonder why men say women are irrational.

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:38 pm

Told ya! LOL

chink

March 24th, 2011
12:39 pm

LOL round face ..long hair…slim ..还有什么

For Real

March 24th, 2011
12:39 pm

Dayum you Purp!!!! Now they are going to engaging me.

Chink: While my back might be nice my front is wayyyyyyyyyyy better. For Real now giving Chink a half of half of Zip.

Mike P

March 24th, 2011
12:39 pm

“I tend to get on my guy friends who bounce around from women to women, then whine about not having a special woman in their lives. I can understand not staying with someone they have no future with, especially when it’s obvious they are not compatible. I am bothered when they say that things got dull or boring.”

I can’t speak for every man, but I know that I cannot and will not take any woman seriously when they don’t hold themselves accountable for their attitudes, actions, and circumstances 100% of the time (western society, peers, and the other men in their lives seem they don’t want to hold these women accountable either). This breeds un-wise attitudes, un-wise behaviors, and un-wise decisions among the majority of women. These women are like little children or play things… so that’s how they are treated, things to have fun with and to play around with, but never taken seriously. So when the new-ness wears out, so does my patience. And I’m on to the next one, until I can finally meet the one special woman who is worth all the trouble.

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
12:40 pm

Fellas – We need a rescue team stat. We got a live one, He won’t go down and the ref not giving standing 8 counts today.

:lol:

Pride/ego is a hellava drug.

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
12:40 pm

Dynamite – Get out the corner champ they killin you

4Real – I’m alright I’m alright I’m winning on points

Dynamite – Dumbazz the judges are Women

4Real – oh shyyyyt

Dynamite: Dan distract Scool with some whimsical hyperbola.

Swiss: Hyperbola????

Dynamite: jibber jabber!

Swiss: Oh

Dynamite: Swiss/Purp grab his legs and drag him out of the ring.

SexyCool

March 24th, 2011
12:41 pm

So…because I am able to put together related facts to support my position, I am irrational?

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:42 pm

I don’t read chinese but it sure sounds sexy!

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:43 pm

For Real

March 24th, 2011
12:44 pm

Ared: First you posted a quote from a chick that loves her child but doesn’t like being a mother. Which you totally agreed with. Then you changed Parenting from noun to a verb so that raising a child and being a parent mean the same thing. Now you believe that a parent BY THEMSELVES can teach kids socialization in a multi-cultured world.

chink

March 24th, 2011
12:44 pm

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:44 pm

I think I am going to change my alias to MrBitches!

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
12:45 pm

lol I am still not going to call you chink though. LOL

For Real

March 24th, 2011
12:45 pm

Willie D: I’m going to lunch on that one. It ain’t right using a man’s own ish against him.

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
12:47 pm

So…because I am able to put together related facts to support my position, I am irrational?

:lol: :idea: That’s because you’re supposed to flip out and cuzz him out instead or something in response.

What IS irrational is for someone to say some ish like ” the child doesn’t learn how to share with another child that is being raised in a different manner” and think that a parent that is home can’t find ways for their kid to still get that. :lol:

叮当响

March 24th, 2011
12:47 pm

I didnt realize I offended anyone…how is this?

SexyCool

March 24th, 2011
12:48 pm

Just because my thought process and level of reasoning does not mirror yours, fall under your definition or meet your approval does not mean that I do not possess the ability to be either logical or rational.

Logic and rationality are subject to belief systems, perception, societal and personal influences and sometimes environmental influences. They are not absolutes. What may be illogical and/or irrational to you will make perfect sense to me.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 24th, 2011
12:49 pm

“Swiss, when did you start to love to swirl?”

:lol: Purple — I’m pretty sure I was born to swirl… I’ve always had an eye for dark skin, dark hair & curves… :lol:

叮当响

March 24th, 2011
12:49 pm

chink – a small narrow opening

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
12:50 pm

First you posted a quote from a chick that loves her child but doesn’t like being a mother. Which you totally agreed with. Then you changed Parenting from noun to a verb so that raising a child and being a parent mean the same thing. Now you believe that a parent BY THEMSELVES can teach kids socialization in a multi-cultured world.

Wrong, Right, and Wrong…and you want to talk about someone else leaping.

I didn’t “agree” with the “chick” I said I understand. And I also said such a thought was not “irrational” — that’s your cop out word for things you can’t understand.

I didn’t say a parent by themselves could teach socialization. I SAID a parent at home has WAY more opportunities than a working parent that writes and check and drops their child off everyday.

Get it right if you’re gonna argue.

kimmie

March 24th, 2011
12:51 pm

ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE!

Getting out of here early today – getting the A/C fixed!

Tootles!

GoldPig

March 24th, 2011
12:57 pm

Women get bored and bail out when the man runs out of money. So if you want a girl long-term don’t run out of money.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 24th, 2011
12:59 pm

“chink – a small narrow opening”

or: 2. chink (noun) — the opposite of Slim’s CT

Purple Rain

March 24th, 2011
1:00 pm

Hmm, a small and narrow opening..LOL

SlimOne

March 24th, 2011
1:02 pm

Dang, it is on and popping in here. I hope I’m just in on an intermission and didn’t miss the whole match. Now where is that dayum Beer vendor?

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
1:03 pm

Dang, it is on and popping in here. I hope I’m just in on an intermission and didn’t miss the whole match. Now where is that dayum Beer vendor?

:lol: I think the guys convinced For Real to tap out. He’s in the corner getting fixed up by the cut man. :lol:

SlimOne

March 24th, 2011
1:06 pm

Swiss – Dannnnnng dawg, why you gotta do me like that? My CT got hot so I KNEW somebody was tombout me. You get the gas face for that

(Blogging from the herrrr salon) ;-)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 24th, 2011
1:08 pm

Slim — If I didn’t love your CT, I wouldn’t lick pick on it… :lol:

SlimOne

March 24th, 2011
1:09 pm

Ared – You ever considered going pro? I think you done went up against almost everybody in the joint. Lmao

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
1:11 pm

Slim – Have you and I battled yet? :D

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
1:12 pm

In other news:

Lindsey Lohan azz going to jail. She should hook up with Charlie Sheen

Chris Brown is either very naive or a dumbazz or both.

Dude that shot that cop in Athens better turn himself in on live TV like Brian Nichols or he gon get so many holes shot through him. Them Cops pissed and are gonna shoot on site.

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
1:13 pm

Glad you tackled it, ARed is all I can say.

@WillieD ~ you funny, but you’re right. Unreal.

Lady~Spring is Beautiful!

March 24th, 2011
1:13 pm

willie d you think he has a living chance?!?

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
1:14 pm

you see Ared walking round don took her shirt off talking bout “Now who else wanna fugg with Hollywood cote”

Randyt (aka I'm bored at work...so a relationship would be an improvement over this...)

March 24th, 2011
1:17 pm

Daycare…fathers rather than sperm donors…touchy subjects.

Two of my children stayed at home with their Mom. Third child went to a daycare with wonderfully loving lady who ran it with her daughters. I would have to say that my children’s parents screwed them up more than the daycare. Fortunately they have all done well, but I am sure that the divorce screwed them up some…actually I know it did. I truly hope that they don’t use my marriage to understand what love is, because it could and should be so much better.

Re child support, I paid around $1000/month in child support for one child alone, for many years. Boys were grown. I never argued about a penny of it, even when I was laid off for months at a time. If I was out of work, I borrowed the money. Took me years of doing without, building up a ton of debt, and always putting them first…but they come see me now that they are grown, and are my best friends still.

All in all, I won. Lousy dads have no idea of how much they LOSE by being deadbeat azzholes. I wouldn’t dream of losing my children to save money…not gonna happen. My children are so far ahead of any house, any car, any hootchie mama that there is no second place.

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
1:18 pm

@ForReal ~ I sure wish you could see the folliness in some of your statements today. But like ARed, said earlier, pride/ego is a hella drug.

Willie Dynamite

March 24th, 2011
1:19 pm

Lady – if you talking bout Athens dude then He done. Jus depends on if he wanna be a psuedo hood star then he’ll go out in a blaze of glory. If not he’ll live a few more yrs before they fry hi

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit :-)

March 24th, 2011
1:19 pm

don took her shirt off talking bout “Now who else wanna fugg with Hollywood cote”

:lol:

Classic….

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
1:21 pm

you see Ared walking round don took her shirt off talking bout “Now who else wanna fugg with Hollywood cote”

:lol:

Aw come on… give SCool her props too…

Leggs

March 24th, 2011
1:22 pm

@WillieD ~ I think the guy that shot that cop shot himself dead!

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2011
1:22 pm

Chris Brown is either very naive or a dumbazz or both.

That remains to be seen. I heard after his GMA stunt, his album was the #1 seller on iTunes. :?

It’s good to have dumb clucks as fans. :arrows: