A lot of women refuse to ask a man out or do anything remotely close to “pursuing” a guy. I understand why and I’ve argued the reasons why women should give it a try. It’s a personal preference, really. I don’t think there is a right or wrong way because most of us stick to what works.
Even if women prefer not to do the “heavy lifting” when it comes to dating, I think it makes things a lot easier on men when we let them know we are in fact interested in them. It sounds simple enough but I know a lot of women who think they are sending some subtle message to men, but the men don’t always catch it.
Now, I am not saying we need to go around clubbing guys over the head and dragging them off somewhere . I mean, that wouldn’t go over well, would it fellas? I am saying that being direct and upfront about how much you enjoy a man’s company should happen fairly quickly. It’s been my experience that men respond well to reciprocity in effort and interest level.
Aside from flirting with a guy, how do women let men know they really like them? Do you think the men pick up on whatever signals you are giving them?
Guys, can you tell when a woman is really interested in you? Does it bother you when women aren’t clear about their intentions?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog