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Dating debate: Give up guilty pleasures?

As much as I want a guy to call my own right now, I can definitely appreciate the art of being single.  That’s right, the art.  When you are perpetually single as long as I have been, you get kind of good at it…fortunately or unfortunately, if that makes sense!

One of the first things you have to do when you get coupled up is curb your crazy weird habits as not to scare off your potential Mr./Miss. Right.  Yeah, I know it brings you immense pleasure watching adult entertainment for countless hours, but can that guilty pleasure stick around when you are coupled up?

Should we have to give up our guilty pleasures when we get in a relationship? What about all those fun (naughty?) things that made single life so great?

One of my friends told me that her new man has a problem with her collection of “toys.”  He doesn’t like it for a variety of reasons and he basically said it was disrespectful for her to disregard his request to throw them away.

This made me think about when you draw the line in relationships.  I know women often worry about losing their identity in a relationship.  Is that ever an issue for men?

Do you think that relationship compromise includes changing who you are and what you enjoy to please someone else?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:33 pm

“I think i’ll start my kegel training then.”

Slim — Oh lawd! You’re CT is gonna end up being cast as the opponent in the next Godzilla movie… Godzilla vs. Slabia (Slim’s labia)

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:33 pm

Your not “you’re”

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:36 pm

Or maybe Godzilla vs. Svulva? Not sure which has a better ring…

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
1:47 pm

Svulva sounds like a CT of Russian decent. lol

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:50 pm

Slim, I think it’s just you & me, baby… Here, why don’t I dim the lights a little… light some candles… maybe a little music — you like Barry White? :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:51 pm

You know what they say, Slim… “Once you go white, your CT’s been licked right:lol:

Fion

March 18th, 2011
1:52 pm

@Swiss

Ay man, close the blinds!

Fion

March 18th, 2011
1:53 pm

……there are folks out here in the hall.

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
1:53 pm

‘You know what they say, Slim… “Once you go white, your CT’s been licked right’

I told you the car salesman that sold me my car told me that and it was the first time I’ve ever heard that. Mayne I laughed so hard….wait…what happened to the lights in here? Wha, is that Barry White playing? And whats that smell?…Incense?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:55 pm

My bad, Fion — I didn’t see you there… Uh, watch your step, there may be some slick spots…

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
1:57 pm

Just messing w/you MC H cuz you have a great sense of humor!

Lone nut, kegel training…I’m done! You guys are straight fools!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
1:57 pm

Slim — Shhhhhhhhhh… No need for words… just let your body do the talking…

ZIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIP

:lol:

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
1:59 pm

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:00 pm

True story — “Can’t Get Enough Of Your Love, Baby” just came up on my iTunes on shuffle…. :lol:

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
2:00 pm

I really feel like a voyeur!

Blackfoote

March 18th, 2011
2:03 pm

Come back from lunch and Swiss got Slim on the conference table in the board room with Barry White music playing. I hope they didn’t see me.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:03 pm

Leggs — You don’t have to be a spectator… you’re welcome to join in… :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:08 pm

Alrighty… Now that I’ve got both hands free, what’s the topic? :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:08 pm

(Slim slips out of the room when Swiss goes to change songs but ends up slipping on some hot wax) Help! I’ve fallen and I can’t get back up and for peaksake will someone turn the dayum light back on!!!

Fion

March 18th, 2011
2:08 pm

“Welcome to Frisky Fridays”.

$20.00 Cover General admission. $100.00 Conference room View.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:11 pm

Slim — Where do you think you’re going? IT PUTS THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN!

:lol:

Too creepy? :lol:

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:14 pm

Fion – How dare you try to exploit the situation….Cough Cough…so..um…how much of a cut do I get?

Blackfoote

March 18th, 2011
2:14 pm

LOL…..@Fion

Well Leggs Swiss has extended you an invite…….and stop using words that I don’t what they mean I got to get a dictionary just to know what you’re talking about……LOL

Simple Man!!!!

March 18th, 2011
2:14 pm

Slim, Because I want more than anything for you to have teh greatest Kegel control ever recorded, I will volunteer to serve as you test subject as often as needed…… ( bowing and backing out of the room)

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:15 pm

swiss – Nooooo, no no not the HOSE AGAIN!!!!!

:lol:

Blackfoote

March 18th, 2011
2:17 pm

I can’t speak French no way.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:17 pm

Slim — That’s not a hose, baby…

:lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:18 pm

Now why did R. Kelly just come up on my iPod?

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:19 pm

‘( bowing and backing out of the room)’

Simple – With the lights being out and all, I wouldn’t advise you ‘back out’ anywhere in this place with that looney tune Swiss DaLoneNut walking around here. :shock: :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:21 pm

:lol: Don’t worry, Simple — The Matterhorn is wearing night vision goggles…

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:22 pm

We (er I?) have gone totally off the deep end today… :lol:

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
2:22 pm

You guys are foolish…

@swiss ~ you sure your lone nut can stand the pressure of all this friskiness?

Fion

March 18th, 2011
2:23 pm

My bad, Fion — I didn’t see you there… Uh, watch your step, there may be some slick spots…

This mutha……got $#@&^*(>?+ all over the flo’.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:23 pm

Just look at what your CT has done to this blog, Slim!

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:23 pm

swiss – I’m laughing at you playing the GUILTY PLEASURE MIX :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:24 pm

Only one way to find out, Leggs:lol:

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
2:24 pm

You are funny, Blackfoote!

@SlimNU ~ I am literally laughing out loud.

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
2:25 pm

They are going to shut us down!

Blackfoote

March 18th, 2011
2:25 pm

LOL……@Swiss

Oh my goodness night vision.

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:27 pm

‘The Matterhorn is wearing night vision goggles…’

OMG!!! Why did I just picture GONZO with old skool flying goggles on and a scarf to match :lol: :lol: :lol:

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
2:28 pm

I like being a voyeur! Thank you, swiss…you and SlimNU carry on {glad I got in before they started charging}!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 18th, 2011
2:28 pm

:lol:Slim — I was just about to go there, but you beat me to it… :lol:

Leggs

March 18th, 2011
2:29 pm

@Blackfoote ~ whatcha talking about using words you don’t know. Are you referring to yesterday or now??

Blackfoote

March 18th, 2011
2:37 pm

Leggs you don’t have to be a “voyeur” (I looked it up) anymore while Fion is cleaning his shoes off we can slip off in the other room. That word.

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:37 pm

Leggs – I will never view the Muppets the same again. lol And shame on you trying to sneak a peek for free. I’m trying to raise CT awareness so donations are sorta expected or at least a tip–> the kind that folds, not the kind that jingles ;-)

Fion

March 18th, 2011
2:41 pm

Daymn!!!!……………..Ya’ll some Nasty mutha…… Ain’t ya’ll

Fion

March 18th, 2011
2:43 pm

Thanks for laughs folks. “Ciao baby.”

Simple Man!!!!

March 18th, 2011
2:45 pm

“donations are sorta expected or at least a tip”

I got a tip for you alright….:):D :)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 18th, 2011
2:46 pm

ahhh the Friday antics

SlimNumeroUno

March 18th, 2011
2:46 pm

Leggs – They have to give us SOME room to play around with a topic about guilty pleasures. Surely they didn’t mean the guilty pleasures of biting our toenails then chewing on them while watching American Idol, then digging in tween the toes and smelling our hands. lol

I’m going for a quick walk, check back in a few and hope to see somone ELSE on the conference room table upon my return