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Do you lend your honey money?

Dating relationships can sometimes take on marital-type roles.  Whether it’s making joint decisions about where to live, vacation, or even spending money.  A lot of couples figure out that they have some major differences when money becomes an issue.

When a guy I had just started seeing asked to borrow money, I can remember my opinion of him changing a little. I  don’t know if it was the sign of things to come, but his attitude about repaying me didn’t sit well with me at all.  I don’t think it is why we broke up, but it definitely was an eye-opening experience about compatibility.

Money and relationships can be tough for women but I can’t imagine what it’s like for men.  Generally men have a natural desire to provide and protect, but does this apply in dating?  Do men mind loaning money to the women they date? If so, would men raise their gold-digger threat level to green?

Have you ever loaned money to someone you dated? Have you ever asked someone you were seeing for financial support?

Do you think there are a few tips or guidelines for loaning your honey money?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

Would you lend money to someone you are dating?

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AmazonRed™

March 14th, 2011
4:06 pm

Ared – I plead da one, two, thee, foe…FIF. Sounds like you’re trying to entrap me so to those accusations, I cannot comment.

:lol: Hey, sometimes it’s like that when you’re in that limbo stage…. :lol: Well, not really limbo, but you know what I mean. Dangit can y’all just define it already? :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
4:06 pm

“This Ryan Adams was 51.”

Are you thinking of Bryan Adams? Of “Summer of ‘69″ fame?

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 14th, 2011
4:06 pm

Just thought I’d try….hey you never know
Celisea ha don’t play. you in the group too. So, now the couple becomes a threesome, I mean…um…you know what I mean. ;-)

Celisea

March 14th, 2011
4:09 pm

So, now the couple becomes a threesome, I mean…um…you know what I mean

Naaaw, not included…and don’t try the 3some thingy…you ain’t slick

AmazonRed™

March 14th, 2011
4:09 pm

In your dreams, Dreams!

Leggs

March 14th, 2011
4:14 pm

Thanks ARed.

@i’m swiss ~ I think so. He’s from Canada and had a lot of pop #1 songs.

Celisea

March 14th, 2011
4:15 pm

Dreams – Can you send me something on Heliocentric Universe?

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
4:16 pm

Got my first real 6 string

Bought it at the five and dime

Played ’til my fingers bled

It was the summer of ‘69…

Whiteboys all over this blog (uh, me) are now playing air guitar… :lol:

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 14th, 2011
4:18 pm

Naaaw, not included…and don’t try the 3some thingy…you ain’t slick
Celisea I have no idea what you’re talking about. lol

In your dreams, Dreams!
ARed (sigh) that’s nothing new…lots of things only happen in my dreams. ;-) Although you forget that there is the second part of my blog name. haha

SlimNumeroUno

March 14th, 2011
4:19 pm

SexyCool

March 14th, 2011
4:21 pm

Swizzie – now you’ve got me playing this and Jack and Diane on grooveshark.

AmazonRed™

March 14th, 2011
4:21 pm

Although you forget that there is the second part of my blog name. haha

Yeah, a black eye and a knot on your forehead will also materialize :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
4:24 pm

SexyC — Ah, see that… It’s blog-gentrification… ;-) :lol:

SexyCool

March 14th, 2011
4:25 pm

Oh…and of course, let me not forget Bob Seger and Old Time Rock and Roll.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
4:28 pm

You dancing around in you underwear & socks, too, SexyC? :lol:

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
4:28 pm

SexyCool

March 14th, 2011
4:28 pm

Old Time Rock and Roll always makes me wanna slide across the floor in some socks.

And don’t let me start talking about how I wish that I could dance like James Brown.
(lmao)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 14th, 2011
4:29 pm

Dreams – Can you send me something on Heliocentric Universe?
Celisea you got it.

Celisea

March 14th, 2011
4:31 pm

Thanks Dreams!!!

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 14th, 2011
4:35 pm

Yeah, a black eye and a knot on your forehead will also materialize
ARed Yeah that’s not quite the idea of getting physical that I had in mind. See, dreaming again. Sorry. ;-)

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

March 14th, 2011
4:36 pm

Thanks Dreams!!!
Celisea not a problem at all

Celisea

March 14th, 2011
4:45 pm

Dreams – You got mail.

SexyCool

March 14th, 2011
4:50 pm

Dwayne Wade was awarded full custody of both of his sons.

Leggs

March 14th, 2011
4:53 pm

Yes, I read that…he’s so happy. He never gave up although she did everything in her power to make this one messy custody fight.

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

March 14th, 2011
4:56 pm

@ swiss re:”this one chick has got a mustache like a 70’s Yosemite Sam”

Is she Greek? Most Greek woman have ’staches’…and pretty hairy other places too…which is fine, very comfortable with their bodies usually.

SlimNumeroUno

March 14th, 2011
4:57 pm

Imma holler at chall guud folks on the flip side….Peace, love and hair grease

SexyCool

March 14th, 2011
4:59 pm

Exactly, Leggs. And it seems as if it was all of those things that she tried to do to make him look bad that worked out in his favor.

Leggs

March 14th, 2011
5:01 pm

“Before borrowing money from a friend, decide which you need more.”

Peace!

Leggs

March 14th, 2011
5:02 pm

Exactly, SexyC! It all worked in his favor. Nothing like throwing your ownself under the bus!

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
5:23 pm

Randy — Not Greek. Spanish, perhaps? Last name was Garcia-Sanchez.

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

March 14th, 2011
5:29 pm

Correction: Martinez-Sanchez. Don’t want to besmirch any non-hairy Garcia-Sanchez’s out there… :lol:

Lord Velonese

March 14th, 2011
7:22 pm

HA I am glad I missed out on this one, but my answer would be not a chance.