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Dating dilemma: What if they have a mean streak?

Everyone knows that the first 90 days is the honeymoon phase in dating.  You don’t usually meet the “real” person until you’ve seen them in different environments and/or handling a variety of circumstances.  What happens when you are seeing someone new and you see their nasty side  (read: Not the good kind. The Ms. Jackson, If you’re ‘nasty’ kind)?

Obviously, you don’t want to dump someone for having a normal, human emotion, do you? Would it bother you if someone you were seeing revealed a pretty mean streak? What do you do when you have seen them react to something in a way that doesn’t really sit well with you?

What are you willing to overlook and what classifies as a deal-breaking mean streak?

Have you ever been on a date and the person had a seemingly random outburst of anger or mean behavior?

Happy Monday! I hope you all enjoyed that beautiful weather this weekend!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

308 comments Add your comment

BlackMagicWoman

February 28th, 2011
3:06 pm

“it’s you menfolk that steady drives the value up day after day”

RAQI….booty is like gas in that aspect! :lol:

SexyCool

February 28th, 2011
3:07 pm

Purple – your statement reminds me of something that I heard the Mayflower Madame say on The View last week.

It was something along the lines of prostitution should be legal because “Why can’t you sell something that you can give away for free?”

Simple Man!!!!

February 28th, 2011
3:08 pm

4Real…. You know anybody need to get one of these Barry azz Mouse pads????

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:09 pm

LOL RandyT. That was a dumb question he asked. If a woman can get that kind of money out of you having not yet given you any, what makes you think she is going to give it to you afterwards. Not too many women care for laying with dumbasses. On purpose that is.

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:10 pm

PR: “almost sure” – Almost sure? Are you kidding me. That’s like saying you are almost certain the sun rose yesterday.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:10 pm

Thank You For Real, I knew that Randyt committed a penalty.

Black, I think you have it twisted all pudddy is not great pudddy. Sometimes even though we pinnacle with some pudddy we have to go home and get more pudddy or just handle ourselves with our hand.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:11 pm

booty is like gas in that aspect

BlackMagic, exactly. And it’s not the upstanding gents that are driving the price up. It’s those lying, cheating, sneaking and conniving to get it that steady makes it rise.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:12 pm

Black, did you just say booty is like gas? Booty gas? LOL

Sexy Cool, I agree with that. Besides women should be able to do what they want with their bodies. Just show me where the BOGO sale is.

Raqi, LOL

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:14 pm

“The ding-a-ling ain’t all that!” – Apparently it’s enough to keep you from switching team. Well I hope it is.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:14 pm

If booty is like gas, some of us men know how to get great mileage and others just don’t care because we keep our tank full. Not everyman needs to get $10 on pump 2. LOL

A lot of ladies getting gas also. LOL

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:16 pm

Swiss: I recommend piling on top of BMW. I’m first give me about 17 naw make that 19 seconds cause that’s a lot booty.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:18 pm

It’s those guys that are out there spending their car payments and electric bill money in exchange for lady goods that are driving the price up for themselves.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:23 pm

I call sloppy seconds after For Real, I only need 3 pumps.

kimmie

February 28th, 2011
3:25 pm

You would be surprised how many silly sugar daddies there are out there. Paying out big bucks and not even getting much in return. I could never do it, but I know of a few cases. One lady I know only goes for older dudes with money. One bought her a Lexus and gives her large sums of money on the regular. He is “challenged” in other ways, so she doesn’t even “do” that much with him.

A lot of dudes talk a good game, but it’s a sucker born every minute!

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:26 pm

“I only need 3 pumps.” – Obviously you haven’t seen BMW’s booty. Three pumps want even get you a waning crescent moon.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:26 pm

I will need $200k just to pronounce Tokenisha…..she must be from Europe or something. LOL

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:27 pm

If Tokenisha has booty priced at $200k and can only get $50 for it

So true, SexyCool. But I want to know what the heck that person was telling that man in Illinois that made him give up $200,000 for booty he has never seen or touched. LOL

I mean I have had some pretty good phone sex before but not $200,000 good. LOL

And whatever the person was telling him what that man failed to realize is it was only as good as his imagination because she was just an internet girlfriend. He had to visualize what she was saying and imagine how good it felt in his mind. He truly let his imagination get the best of him.

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:27 pm

“Tokenisha” – She must be from Macon?

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:27 pm

For Real, as long as I get to my destination….I am not looking for a relationship and her expectations were already low. LOL

SexyCool

February 28th, 2011
3:28 pm

Y’all can be so disrespectful….even when you’re just joking.

For Real

February 28th, 2011
3:30 pm

“but it’s a sucker born every minute!” – You ain’t lying:

Chick: We gon eat after we finish having sex right For Real.

For Real: Yeah, yeah, now help me put this rubber on.

Chick: FOR REAL!!! This a candy bar wrapper!!!!

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:30 pm

Sexy Cool how?

Raqi, he didn’t give her $200K for booty, he gave it because he thought she had been kidnapped and he was saving her.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:31 pm

A lot of dudes talk a good game, but it’s a sucker born every minute!

Yep. Some random dude is out of his next month’s rent money right now for some gal that is feeding him an empty promise.

BlackMagicWoman

February 28th, 2011
3:34 pm

PURPLE..then why do guys chase booty like it’s the last supper? It’s like the Pepsi commercial….dude was constantly thinking “I’m gonna sleep with her…I’m gonna sleep with her….”! Dude it’s the first date. There are just too many thing things that can go wrong when having sex. Let’s face it…birth control is not 100%. So I think when I have sex, if I get pregnant…can I deal with this guy for the rest of my life? Do are features mesh well so we don’t have an ugly baby. You know I don’t want kids…but if I get stuck with one…I need to have something to go on.

“If Tokenisha has booty priced at $200k and can only get $50 for it, then guess what? Then Tokenisha’s ass is only worth $50.”

SCOOL…not to mention she has had way more shlongs up in there because anybody can affored the cheap h0e! The $200K h0e has less “traffic” and potholes! :lol:

SWISS…would you prefer I say “petro” instead of gas? :lol:

“Apparently it’s enough to keep you from switching team. Well I hope it is.”

FOR REAL…nope it’s not that! Its the fact that I don’t like c00chie…unless it’s my own! I’d like to thank the making of “the rabbit” for never letting me down! :lol:

PURPLE & FOR REAL…you guys are crazy! :lol:

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
3:34 pm

“If Tokenisha has booty priced at $200k and can only get $50 for it”…there just might be some women who think their azz is more valuable than it really is maybe?

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:34 pm

Purple, I know that. That’s the point I am making. He is “saving” a woman that he is getting nothing from but obviously a promise.

No man in his right mind is going to be putting out even $2000 for a woman that has not even him the possibility of some booty.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:35 pm

Black, I can’t speak for those guys. Here’s to them fighting the good fight! LOL

i'm swiss™ ("FREE ME.LO")

February 28th, 2011
3:35 pm

“Tokenisha” — That’s my sister’s name

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
3:37 pm

@ BMW re:”RANDY…this boo-tay is a lover of lace boyshorts and hipsters. I am over the thong face. C00ch likes to be comfortable”!

I can dig it ;-) (And always in favor of making that thing as comfortable as possible).

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:37 pm

But RandyT, if somebody is paying the asking price then that man agrees that it’s worth that.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
3:39 pm

@ BMW …don’t think I ever thought about an uglyazz baby as a possibility…good point.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:40 pm

Real question here. Not really but it is. LOL

How many of you all are willing to admit to skipping a day of work without pay to get the goods? Man and woman alike.

Come on now I know some of you have called in sick when all you were was love sick.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:40 pm

That would be putting a price on it.

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
3:41 pm

@ Raqi “if somebody is paying the asking price then that man agrees that it’s worth that”.

I guess I’ll wait for that azz to make it to the Thrift store then so I can get it for pennies on the dollar…or buy one get one free at Publix.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:42 pm

I think it’s disrespectful to say Tokaneisha can only get $50 when the original asking price was $200k we are already in recession. LOL

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:43 pm

Raqi, yes and yes especially when she used to come visit me in Atlanta.

BlackMagicWoman

February 28th, 2011
3:44 pm

The world is hard enough. Why add being ugly on top of it? :lol: I would not try to set my potential child up for that fate simply because I was not puddy selective!

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:44 pm

RandyT, having a higher price aka value is not such a bad thing. That way you know just anybody ain’t getting it. Don’t you want your woman to be selective about who she is giving it to? Or are you okay with being just another random dude that is getting it for pennies?

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:46 pm

If you married her you are not getting it for pennies.

Purple Rain

February 28th, 2011
3:47 pm

Ugly is to the bone…but she may have a $200k personality.

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:48 pm

Thrift store

SMH and LOL RandyT the blog needs to rally and get you a girlfriend.

kimmie

February 28th, 2011
3:52 pm

Raqi – In answer to your question, yes I have years ago, but never without pay. Does using a sick day or vacation day count?

SexyCool

February 28th, 2011
3:54 pm

If you’re interested in doing market study’s for extra money, check out this link.

http://www.therecruitteam.com

They called me with a $175 study almost as soon as I hit submit to register just now.
Spread the word.

(Hint, the particular study they have now they are looking for SUV owners, who would consider buying another SUV. Don’t tell ‘em I told y’all that.)

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
3:56 pm

Now Raqi, I find Nautica, Jos A Bank, and Abercrombie at thrift stores…then I have to decide whether they have been slightly used or overused ;-)

Actually, I have plenty of opportunities, just been really busy. When December came around, I halted dating until after Valentines Day. It is easier to rent than buy. I probably ought to go into Johnny’s Hideaway this weekend and take a cougar home (or to a hotel so she doesn’t follow me home and scratch on my door).

Raqi V

February 28th, 2011
3:57 pm

LOL kimmie. Yep that counts.

Thanks for the link SexyCool. For this one I guess what I have is considered an SUV.

BlackMagicWoman

February 28th, 2011
4:05 pm

PUROPLE…come on….you know you will not go for the ugly chick in the room because you think her personality is great! You will go for the hot chick and HOPE her personality matches! :lol:

Randyt (aka "tired of this coolie work, need to get on a plane somewhere)

February 28th, 2011
4:08 pm

@ BMW & PR Or go for the hot chic hoping to bag her wing lady at least.

DreamsMaterialize "Free Me-Lo"

February 28th, 2011
4:14 pm

I’ve taken a day off for marathon sessions…didn’t lose any pay though. Not saying I won’t do it again.

SlimNumeroUno

February 28th, 2011
4:17 pm

Been so busy today and frankly I feel left out. :cry: No way I can try to catch up now.

Leggs

February 28th, 2011
4:18 pm

@SlimNU ~ they’re talking about expensive booty.